Topic: Why dont girls like me? (Read 2451 times)

If you don't have much confidence or can't take a good selfie (or don't look very good lol) tinder wont be that great. Could be even more demoralizing if he doesn't get any matches. I think socializing would be better and give him more confidence.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection

Know what you want really (don't care too much about a particular thing. It gets into your head, so forget it for some time - a week or so about the complete topic. It actually helps, but is real hard, lol ) and be confident.
Be optimistic, and don't be desperate or frustrated.

Be (or believe you are) awesome, have a decent personality, and you will be fine.

Edit: Also culture/country is an important factor. You can figure out more than we can, to be frank.

Edit: How do you know girls don't like you? Get a friend who is a girl. It usually helps.

Well try to be attractive as much as you can, and make some jokes i think lol

Good

Be yourself. If somebody don't likes you then wait for the right one for you.

download tinder right this second. You are putting the P on a pedestal man. Like Nike said, just do it.

GTFO Newbie

Lies. All lies. You're probably quite ugly, or you smell like rotten cheese. In any case, you're probably going to die alone. Deal with it.

Sory to hear that,you will find perfect woumen for you.

Break out the Tequila!

BUY CLOAKS and get rich...

Open champagne in discothek and fuck all girls 

Not if you drink too much, make a fool of youself then shit, piss and puke yourself. Be carefull with the booze. I prefer to stay lucid and on my game hehe.

Get yourself a mental evaluation. There is something wrong with you. You don't need to be a millionaire to get laid.

this really needs to be said more. also alcohol is your friend.

Good job man! It's that easy sometimes.

Often what happens is you overthink certain failures and put too much energy into figuring them out. Your self-criticism becomes a self-fulfilling profecy and it overules and taints how you perceive people's reactions to you. You've probably caught more than one girl's eye over the years but just didn't recognize it when it happened.

Good luck on your date!

Met my wife on Yahoo Dating.

Had no problem with several dating sites.

Don't join a dating site. Why:

• Often, a dating site has much many males than females
• Even a verified but ugly women gets more private messages then she's able to answer properly
• Danger of loosing money due to the boys who are doing ewhoring
• Sometimes even the operators are faking "verified" girl profiles in order to get you stay there ...
• ... until you get locked out off your account if you don't pay for "premium" features, just before your first "date"
• Finally: no girl really needs a dating site to find a nice guy

Don't do this. You'll likely just be ridiculed which will make your confidence worse. Just work to improve that first and foremost and join a dating site and be nice to the women you talk to.

Stop caring so much, start talking more. Be good, don't be 'nice'. Be firm regarding the things you don't like. Be positive about the things you do.

The more you focus on them, your own passions and the world surrounding you both, the more the self consciousness will fade away and the more the interaction will flow.

The person opposite you is not an unreachable goddess. They're simply another person who may be crapping themselves just as much as you might be. They eat, shit, worry and want to be loved and wanted like anyone else.

Don't be an asshole because you think it might get you places. I could never respect any woman who responded to that type of playground psychology and if anyone treats me mean to keep me keen they get told to fuck off.

There is no such thing as 'leagues'. How they look or their social status has little or no bearing on whether they might be interested in you. Same goes for you.

When I was as thin and pretty as a renaissance prince no one gave me a second look. These days I'm a tub of lard with a humongous beard. Since my, er, lifestyle change I haven't gone on a single date in recent years that didn't end up going places. Go figure.

The only thing that might have changed is that I've long overcome the pedestal thing and I'm interested in them as a complete human, not a trophy or delicate flower or the mindless gateway to a new level of existence affirmed by having sex with them.

I don't radiate any sense of desperation or neediness, in fact more often than not I'm looking for reasons not to take things any further because I'm not sure whether I can be arsed any more. I'm not indifferent or an asshole, but I know my own value and I'm not willing to compromise it. I've probably said no to more people than I've said yes to and nearly got beaten up a few times because of it.

I will treat everyone as I wish to be treated. If they decide I'm a prick then I'm confident in knowing who and what I am and that they're wrong or I'm reminding them of someone else.

Looks, money, exercise, that's just tinsel.

I'm sure it sometimes feels like an insurmountable barrier. It isn't. It's just a case of being true to yourself, continuing to grow and creating and embracing opportunities to meet as many women as possible. When it does happen for you, and it will, it'll feel like ancient history.