Good morning my fellow participants in this discussion!
How noble of you. What does the chick have to envision about you? Perhaps that you can really love someone other than yourself and that you have the potential to really care about her as a person and not just a trophy on your arm?
Keep your bitter sarcasm and save your energy. Your image of me is malformed and the discussion you attempt to force on me is a folly driven by your fantasy of confronting
that jerk-type-of-guy who is full of self-importance and whom everyone hates. For a moment I thought you're OK but boy that moment was short.
We all know you're not that guy, Hyena.
But you sure are doing a good job of impersonating that guy. Pretty impressive actually.
YES!
At times I play the ultimate test/honeypot for stereotypical thinkers who have inner butthurt for some issues and who will see in my words what they want to see. Remember, if I say something overly stupid or radical, then I'm probably joking. You can apply the latter even in your everyday life and you will be amazed how it saves you from getting into pointless fights and misunderstandings. Even if the other person is not joking, it does not hurt to laugh because that's a safe bet
and always softens the situation. Remember, you don't want to really get into stupid human arguments because then emotions start to radiate and it will drain your personal energy. Don't feed the flyers. Pretend to be upset if the situation requires it but don't really be upset.
I can't read Hyena. Sometimes he can be the nicest guy ever then other times he comes across as the ultimate male chauvinist. Perhaps he was just joking about how "even checks out fat chicks sometimes" because they could lose weight. I hope it was just a joke.
Yes, I was joking. I thought it was obvious because such level of exaggeration is typically a joke. SnokkomBTC even replied "rofl
" and it should have been a hint for you. I'm sure he enjoyed a couple of good laughs, even I did laugh for several minutes for what I said, imagining a guy who would really check out fat chicks in that hope
what a good investor that guy would be.
However, there are bits of truth to every joke, right? The joke has to be plausible in order to be good, remember Poe's law? In my situation it goes like this: I'm dating a girl who has some fat here and there but she is very eagerly hitting the gym and she has a face of an angel. It would be stupid of me to discard her for that extra fat. Thus, I ignore it, not even mention it, but I do compliment her for working out when it's appropriate.
I know that in our ill world we have all kinds of unnatural expectations for people and it brings much suffering. However, I also know that intent can work miracles (mind over matter). The appearance of your physical body is nothing final and can be manipulated with the use of unbending intent. Beauty is just a perception and since it's subjective to begin with, you can even change whether other people perceive you as beautiful or not. They who have read The Last Wish by Andrzej Sapkowski should remember that usually average or rather ugly girls were the best candidates for becoming a sorceress and of course one of their tricks was to appear as attractive. The danger of this lies in the self-importance of the practitioner as they must never give in to their ego or they will soon find a sad end. Self-importance kills, literally. So, one has an option to either give in to their self-pity and think that they can change nothing or change themselves and be amazed how it changes the world they reflect.
But I feel confident that at this point the scales are tipped in my favor and anyone that has any sense of long-term vision can see that we are going somewhere!