Plus for the fact that if i was to have bitcoin right now, I'd be paying a very high amount in fees if I wanted to actually end up using this money.
At the moment is the key phrase. If I wanted to use something as a currency right now, which is what OP seems to want to do, I'd choose fiat in a heartbeat too. We have to admit that Bitcoin is under a crisis right now with the ridiculously high fees. It's barely usable, again, at the moment.
Majority of people here are either in it for investments or the technology though, in which case, the fees aren't a big deal. You don't have to pay a fee to HODL after all. That's unfortunately pretty much all Bitcoin is good for at the moment, at least until we get significant Segwit adoption and the Lightning Network.