Are you criticizing the traditional financial system or its decentralized rival Bitcoin, or both? Seems to me like you are criticizing everything.
It's not the payment method that makes an overseas transaction dangerous, it's the people involved in it. The only thing that counts is how trustworthy they are.
Crypto is different from the banking system because all transactions are final and irreversible. When you say you might get your money back from the bank, that feature is not available in Bitcoin. That's why you need to think hard before you do something, and that's why it's not surprising that people are tense when they need to pay with bitcoin. I don't know you and have no reason to trust you, and vice versa.
In contrast to the services banks offer, no one knows who you are dealing with and what you are buying when you use bitcoin. Transactions involve only strings of letters and numbers, no names or identities. The sender decides how he spends his money and how much he is willing to pay to get his transaction confirmed. With banks, they decide how much you pay and how long it takes for the transaction to be considered final.
I'm not criticizing either Pmalek, I'm rather comparing both while talking about general people's behavior and habits.
You deal with people you don't know constantly. Online shops, selling boards etc etc. Do you know that guy you're buying from on Aliexpress? I doubt it
A friend of mine is in boat trading and he sells yachts to buyers from all over the world without ever meeting them, I was surprised when he told me about 15% of his customers were happy to use btc for purchase. That's the thing I'm talking about, IMHO these percentages should be way higher.
The problem is that most people either invest and HOLD, either work for bitcoin and HODL, either trade.
The number of those actually spending bitcoin is rather small and a big chunk may be the employers of those working for bitcoin, for the reasons I mentioned and also because there aren't that many places one can spend bitcoin and most of those places may overcharge (at least it was the case in my country last time I tried).
I expect most of those "employers" already passed the "freaked out" barrier, hence the number of people you're talking about has became tiny.
Yes, that's the thing. Pure and simple: Most people don't consider crypto as a payment system, but just a financial investment, which really surprises me, as it's really the fastest way to close deals, especially cross-currency ones. Since I got into this scene few years ago I always considered crypto as the best payment system as I sell and buy lots of stuff all over the world, there's nothing more convenient.