Pardon me if I am digressing, I am still in the learning process.
I have been reading about Bitcoin since i joined this forum. I learnt that decentralization is a unique attribute of Bitcoin. And this attribute permits bitcoin users to have total control over their money and be their own banks.
From my research recently, I have come to realize that a lot of bitcoin users are still stuck with the traditional idea of saving money with a central authority. Importing this idea to a decentralized Bitcoin, has led to the invention of bitcoin banks, exchanges and custodial wallets. Now, as the day passes, more bitcoiners are becoming centralized. Is there a club or group of only people who uses bitcoin the Satoshi way, I will like to belong here.
I do not want to use bitcoin the centralized way, I want to have total control of my coins and be my own bank. Is this difficult to achieve? Are there prices I have to pay or is everyone eventually moving to the centralized way?
You can do anything you want. Bitcoin by default allows you to hold your own money. There is no club you have to join haha. You just send your bitcoin to your own address. That's it.
People use centralized services because they are used to them and care more about convenience that taking full advantage of Bitcoin, or for a lot of people they don't even know you can store bitcoin yourself. But in general most people are gonna choose convenience, so it is no surprise that lots of people choose to keep their bitcoin with custodians rather than do the little bit of effort to make a bitcoin key-pair and send the transaction, and then keep their private key safe and secure. As more and more of the general public buy Bitcoin, more and more people are going to be using holding their bitcoin with custodians rather than themselves.
We can educate people all we want, but most people are still gonna choose convenience of 'banking' their bitcoin with an institution, even if its not particularly smart or safe. All you can do is decide what is best for you, so just make an address and send your bitcoin to it and you're done.