I don't know but I think I could accept the offer if he would not publicize my identity.
It may be an interesting story but I don't want to be that popular. I could just lay out my story, it may be an interesting or an amazing story I would tell the whole and true story. If he will not be publicizing my identity, I will not accept that payment as long as he followed what we had agreed on, that is enough.
Topic: Will You Agree To Publicize Your Journey From Being Chronic Gambler - page 2. (Read 964 times)
February 22, 2020, 08:57:38 AM
February 22, 2020, 08:01:33 AM
Why not but I must approve the whole story I don't want to be portray someone bad and stubborn, I want my life as something as an inspiration to anyone who wants to overcome being a compulsive gambler that there is answer and there is a way to change your way and I want my story to be one of these.
February 22, 2020, 07:31:01 AM
You are once a chronic gambler but with the help of a professional you are now totally cured, then a publisher offers you to publicize your journey from being a chronic gambler to a cured one, but of course, everything could be exposed like your habit experiences, your agony and even your personal life, will you agree to do this, of course the publisher will pay you for the story that you are going to provide.
no i dont because i want to preserve my privacy and i want my past be leave in the past,forgetting everything will be my weapon to completely change my life for good.looking back for what i have done wrong will only awaken my lust things that i have been forgotten for long time.so i would rather to bury everything than keeping on my mind.
February 21, 2020, 10:20:13 PM
You are once a chronic gambler but with the help of a professional you are now totally cured, then a publisher offers you to publicize your journey from being a chronic gambler to a cured one, but of course, everything could be exposed like your habit experiences, your agony and even your personal life, will you agree to do this, of course the publisher will pay you for the story that you are going to provide.
no i dont because i want to preserve my privacy and i want my past be leave in the past,forgetting everything will be my weapon to completely change my life for good.looking back for what i have done wrong will only awaken my lust things that i have been forgotten for long time.so i would rather to bury everything than keeping on my mind.
December 03, 2019, 07:53:10 AM
You are once a chronic gambler but with the help of a professional you are now totally cured, then a publisher offers you to publicize your journey from being a chronic gambler to a cured one, but of course, everything could be exposed like your habit experiences, your agony and even your personal life, will you agree to do this, of course the publisher will pay you for the story that you are going to provide.
no i dont because i want to preserve my privacy and i want my past be leave in the past,forgetting everything will be my weapon to completely change my life for good.looking back for what i have done wrong will only awaken my lust things that i have been forgotten for long time.so i would rather to bury everything than keeping on my mind. 
December 03, 2019, 07:40:25 AM
what if the interesting story was made into a book, then sell it and you get a share of the money from it? I think this is very good.
For monetary purposes it would become a bestseller if you put in some effort and some "spicy" stuff - if you know what I mean.Most of such books are just made up stuff. Dont believe everything you read because a lot of propaganda stuff goes on by public figures. Most of the professional gamblers are nothing but paid actors for the casino promoting that casino to get paid. They rarely if ever gamble and do so only at the order of the casino owners.
Moreover nobody tells their true self in media. What you would hear from a gambler is going to faked stuff. Who is going to verify what they did in a certain game. Nobody really cares about that.
December 03, 2019, 02:44:50 AM
If I rather not, if the intention is to attract other people to be like me as a gambling addict, though, if the intention is to help other people have their hope despite of losses and how to control their betting style so they will have discipline then count me in.
Because for me, gambling isn't bad at all, we just need to be responsible especially in managing our funds if others are relying to us.
It is about to inspire other people from being a chronic gambler to a better one. So I think you might consider this idea, so am I.Because for me, gambling isn't bad at all, we just need to be responsible especially in managing our funds if others are relying to us.
If my journey being a gambler will give idea and an insight for a certain individual to be a better person, I am really open to share my experience to anyone without hiding my identity.
Gambling is not really bad, it is just a habit becoming an addiction because of our unintentional action or being greedy most of the time.
December 03, 2019, 01:42:05 AM
If I rather not, if the intention is to attract other people to be like me as a gambling addict, though, if the intention is to help other people have their hope despite of losses and how to control their betting style so they will have discipline then count me in.
Because for me, gambling isn't bad at all, we just need to be responsible especially in managing our funds if others are relying to us.
Because for me, gambling isn't bad at all, we just need to be responsible especially in managing our funds if others are relying to us.
December 03, 2019, 01:23:49 AM
i will proud to be one mate.
my Journey in gambling addiction world has ended long ago so bringing it back to make a lesson for others to learn is much appreciated and legal.
and this is our chance to let people know how we repent on our mistakes in the past and want to make a good future.
my Journey in gambling addiction world has ended long ago so bringing it back to make a lesson for others to learn is much appreciated and legal.
and this is our chance to let people know how we repent on our mistakes in the past and want to make a good future.
November 30, 2019, 08:22:38 AM
You are once a chronic gambler but with the help of a professional you are now totally cured, then a publisher offers you to publicize your journey from being a chronic gambler to a cured one, but of course, everything could be exposed like your habit experiences, your agony and even your personal life, will you agree to do this, of course the publisher will pay you for the story that you are going to provide.
The first thing I will tell is "How much are you willing to pay me for my story?" 
.Being a chronic gambler is not a joke and to be cured because of a professional, it is really a life changing event that happened to your life. If I will be given a chance to share my story as long as they will pay me then I will do it. I will share my experience so that gamblers out there can think twice if they will continue to gamble or not. My story will help those who are gambling and those who are planning to be one.
I would like to share it but IRL, I'm not a chronic gambler
November 30, 2019, 07:12:11 AM
I am not a chronic gambler.. but if I am a former chronic gambler who has recovered then I will be happy to tell my experience recovering from gambling addiction. I know my experience won't be able to change the world, but it will definitely change the lives of some gambling addicts, so that they are more able to control themselves.
every legit stories can always change live as it give inspiration or motivation to other people especially if they are also facing that situation . if you can change the live of others then you can also change the world from bad to good . chronic or not , we must not be shy to tell our experiences and advices publically to others or to the world . however i think there are others that are shy or too ashamed to expose thier life because they think that being a gambler means bad
November 30, 2019, 06:55:51 AM
Being a chronic gambler is something bad and can shorten one's lufe span, so if there is a way that my story of how i was a chronic gambler before and i was later cured can be of help to the someone who needs such help i will gladly do it. May be such person might have neen in a point where he/she needs my story to be cured also. Gambling addiction is not what should be condoned at any point in time so i will help in any way i can
November 27, 2019, 07:56:36 AM
You are once a chronic gambler but with the help of a professional you are now totally cured, then a publisher offers you to publicize your journey from being a chronic gambler to a cured one, but of course, everything could be exposed like your habit experiences, your agony and even your personal life, will you agree to do this, of course the publisher will pay you for the story that you are going to provide.
Nah, I'm already ok with my life, no need to recall that horrifying experienced as a chronic gambler in your past life. So for me it's better to just stay low and never exposed your past habits and experienced even if the publisher is willing to pay me, to be honest.
November 26, 2019, 08:14:17 AM
I am not a chronic gambler.. but if I am a former chronic gambler who has recovered then I will be happy to tell my experience recovering from gambling addiction. I know my experience won't be able to change the world, but it will definitely change the lives of some gambling addicts, so that they are more able to control themselves.
every legit stories can always change live as it give inspiration or motivation to other people especially if they are also facing that situation . if you can change the live of others then you can also change the world from bad to good . chronic or not , we must not be shy to tell our experiences and advices publically to others or to the world . however i think there are others that are shy or too ashamed to expose thier life because they think that being a gambler means bad
November 19, 2019, 12:37:40 PM
I am not a chronic gambler.. but if I am a former chronic gambler who has recovered then I will be happy to tell my experience recovering from gambling addiction. I know my experience won't be able to change the world, but it will definitely change the lives of some gambling addicts, so that they are more able to control themselves.
November 19, 2019, 12:06:48 PM
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I agree, the willingness of a chronic gambler to fight the addiction is of major importance, and without it no advices can help. But if the willingness is there, some advices from experienced gamblers, especially from those who have succeeded in fighting the addiction, can help a lot. Of course it shouldn't be something like "Stop gambling completely", "Stay away from all gambling sites" etc. Those kinds of advices never help.
The only difference between those who cure themselves and those who fail to get rid of bad habits is their determination and devotion to achieve this goal. We can never ever change a person for his betterment if he himself does not want that to happen at the very first place. The victim must understand his situations and develop a love for his future. This way, he will make up his mind against excessive gambling.I agree, the willingness of a chronic gambler to fight the addiction is of major importance, and without it no advices can help. But if the willingness is there, some advices from experienced gamblers, especially from those who have succeeded in fighting the addiction, can help a lot. Of course it shouldn't be something like "Stop gambling completely", "Stay away from all gambling sites" etc. Those kinds of advices never help.
That's right, and, also, pretty much obvious, but I think that the determination to fight one's gambling addiction is not something that either there or not. I mean, it's not a congenital feature, people can acquire it at some point, and such a book, as described in the OP, if well written, can help a lot with that.
November 19, 2019, 07:00:43 AM
You are once a chronic gambler but with the help of a professional you are now totally cured, then a publisher offers you to publicize your journey from being a chronic gambler to a cured one, but of course, everything could be exposed like your habit experiences, your agony and even your personal life, will you agree to do this, of course the publisher will pay you for the story that you are going to provide.
I will bite the offer, sharing your experience about gambling and how you overcome being a chronic gambler might inspire others (especially those gamblers who currently experiencing it) and they can learn from this experience so they wont do the same.Its all in the past and I learned from it so im willing to share my gambling journey, and its not bad to look back on what I used to before.
November 19, 2019, 06:24:10 AM
I am sorry to be a selfish person here, but I think that for me to share that kind of story, it would be because I am motivated by the money and not because I want it to help someone out there alone and please don’t get me wrong, I have human sympathy and I would never do anything that will affect my fellow human being, but in this 21 century generations, we have too many stubborn people that don’t pay listening hear to some of these things and even if the read the book from now till 100 years, it would still not help them or stop them from being a chronic gambler until they have their own share of the experience too or they probably just go for rehabilitation which is to be decided totally by them at their own free time.
There's always a good reason why people will share this kind of experienced. Even from your part it's all about the money but you have some good points about your stand, those heavy gamblers will realize that they are making mistakes after having a shared experiences. If they losses huge amount of money and they are already stressed up thinking about the amount that they've allow to lose after playing. Whatever extent it's still the affected person that will decide when to stop and how they will do it for the betterment of their life. 
November 19, 2019, 05:36:12 AM
If the story can inspire many addicted gamblers, I think I agree to publicize my journey in gambling, especially if then they want to solve their problem in gambling too. I always want to help other people who have a problem, and if telling my story can help them to get to find the way, then that will be great for them to know how to solve the problem.
November 19, 2019, 12:36:51 AM
I'm ok with it, it's a good reference for people who wants to get cured of gambling, as long as I will not be depicted as someone bad and bad influence I'm ok with it, of course, there should be monetary compensation because the publisher can also make money out of my story.
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