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There is nothing wrong if they ask their parents, but it would be better if they authorize it themselves if they themselves want something to be stylish in front of their friends, because I myself am embarrassed if they are stylish with the results of asking parents. like asking for a two-wheeled vehicle or gadged which is currently their main requirement so as not to be embarrassed when gathering with their circle of friends. You're right, the cycle of degrees of friendship is self-perpetuating, and as you say it's a given in the circle of friends.
There is nothing wrong with a child asking their parents for what they want. But a child must also see the conditions and abilities of his parents. If the parent is only a factory worker, yes, don't ask for something that he or she is unable to grant the request. Like asking for the latest motorcycle, where the price of the motorcycle is equivalent to 2-3 years of his parents' salary. And I know very well when a father cannot grant what his children want, their hearts are very sad. Because let alone to grant what their children want, to be able to fulfill their daily needs as well as for their children's school fees, has become a very difficult thing to fulfill completely.
So I emphasize that as a child, we should not ask for something that is beyond our parents' ability.
yes you are right, if they are children who have a good mind then they will not ask for high-value things like motorcycles and cell phones. because their parents' income is only enough to meet the basic needs of daily life, then they cannot ask for things that are difficult for their parents to buy. as children, of course, we must understand the conditions of our parents, even better we can help financially, by looking for side jobs that clearly must produce.
although there are children who do not know themselves, by insisting on buying the latest motorcycle or cellphone, and have a high price value. and this is not natural, especially if they force their parents, because after all they should understand the limited family circumstances.
What you said is very true in my circle, where many children insist on asking their parents, to the point that some dare to yell at their parents to buy the things they want, even though they know that they are not a wealthy family who can point to something and immediately buy it. They don't realize how difficult it is to find money nowadays, and that many people take out loans to fulfill their basic daily needs, and this is inherent in the environment of the young people around me. They should realize that their financial situation is limited. So don't force your parents to fulfill the style that you want if it is clear that you are financially limited.
Don't call me "Sir" because I don't have children and a family yet. And I am also just like other young people who want to live in luxury and with high prestige. but I try to turn that as motivation so that I can work even harder, so that I can prove to people that I can also get what they get. and plus there is one saying that is enough to motivate me to move even further and fly even higher and that saying is "When you are born from a poor family, then make sure that your offspring will be born from a family that is capable"
hahaha sorry, I didn't mean it like that. don't take it to heart my friend.
Well it's good that young people have thoughts like yours, if they really have the desire or willingness, they should also have a sense of desire to work, because to get something, especially to be stylish, of course, you have to have enough money and I think it's better that we ourselves make money for what we want. I myself apply the principle of "effort will not betray results", and this has been proven by myself, where I can buy the motorbike I want with the money from my own sweat without any parental intervention. and I myself am also proud of this little thing.