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February 24, 2023, 09:41:11 AM
#52
We need to learn how to appreciate our partners no matter the circumstances because their absence will always create something missing in our life whenever they are not around us, having someone close to you all the time is a sign that you aren't meant to be alone but rather have a partner who will renders help to you in terms of need, our decision on whom we marry shouldn't base on physical attraction alone, we must learn to walk with each other towards a common goal, and we should be proud of having such partner being a gift we could always wanted to have, when we have  each others' interest in mind.
That is correct - but generally I think  people do not appreciate others.
They want to get all their care to be taken - but they would not want to give the care and attention to their partner.
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February 22, 2023, 04:57:52 PM
#51
We need to learn how to appreciate our partners no matter the circumstances because their absence will always create something missing in our life whenever they are not around us, having someone close to you all the time is a sign that you aren't meant to be alone but rather have a partner who will renders help to you in terms of need, our decision on whom we marry shouldn't base on physical attraction alone, we must learn to walk with each other towards a common goal, and we should be proud of having such partner being a gift we could always wanted to have, when we have  each others' interest in mind.
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February 22, 2023, 04:18:01 PM
#50
From the comments of his thread I observed that most people will marry thier spouse again if they love thier partner and thier partner also love them. And most people want to marry thier spouse again if they are enjoying thier marriage currently. But people will never wish of marrying thier partner if they are just enduring the marriage or thier partner is not behaving the way they expect. But we the rate of divorce in the world currently, I don't think most people will want to even meet thier spouse in the afterlife.
Anyone enduring their marriage will not want to repeat the marriage. People enjoying their marriage would want to remarry same person. But I like new adventures. Even if I love my wife, I would like to taste a new relationship and new character. There's this joy if you understand a new person you haven't understood before.
The rate of divorce is very high, not necessarily because of the married people but because of the happenings in the surrounding environment.
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February 22, 2023, 03:51:08 PM
#49
If I had to choose, I would still choose my current spouse. Everyone is not perfect. As long as it is not a matter of principle, I think it can be tolerated. Now the divorce rate is getting higher and higher. There are always people complaining about their lives, but Marriage is inherently mediocre and requires two people to work together.
with emphasis on, no one is perfect, I believe there's a man for every woman and vice versa. Understanding matters a lot in any relationship and marriage, so if you have some one to whom you're compatible with and there's immense understanding, you're very good to go.
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February 20, 2023, 04:35:25 AM
#48
Lol - this is so smart. I would not want to have any Ex in my life. Since I am not married. I am not sure how it does feel to have someone in your life.
Life is so unpredictable. I think if I have been given a choice in life here after - I would ask God to give me what is best for me.
Yes, since you are not married yet, so you have not experienced living with a female in one place for a long time. There are some small details that are difficult to explain, but you will find many small details that you love and others that you hate, but of course you cannot say them out of concern for your wife’s feelings.

The same thing, of course, for your wife. There are certainly some small details in you that your wife does not like. Personally, I think it is difficult for a couple to be completely identical in everything, so the experience of a new woman will certainly be exciting. Wink
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February 20, 2023, 04:00:26 AM
#47
Although I do not believe that life in the afterlife will be similar to the life we live today in this material world. But I will answer your hypothetical question.
I am happy with my current wife, but I do not want to marry my ex-wife again. People like change and try new things, so I want to be with a new wife and live a new experience.
Lol - this is so smart. I would not want to have any Ex in my life. Since I am not married. I am not sure how it does feel to have someone in your life.
Life is so unpredictable. I think if I have been given a choice in life here after - I would ask God to give me what is best for me.
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February 19, 2023, 01:38:53 PM
#46
I think the end of a marriage is the same, no matter who you choose, the result is the same, the important thing is the mentality, life always has gains and losses.
That is a valid point. Noone is perfect
Its better to spend time with those whose bad habits are known earlier. Rather than knowing someone from start and then realize the ex was better.
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February 19, 2023, 12:11:14 PM
#45
Although I do not believe that life in the afterlife will be similar to the life we live today in this material world. But I will answer your hypothetical question.
I am happy with my current wife, but I do not want to marry my ex-wife again. People like change and try new things, so I want to be with a new wife and live a new experience.
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February 19, 2023, 07:20:10 AM
#44
^^^ Right! It's why the divorce rate is so high.

But notice one thing. Just to get on Bitcointalk, people need to be thinkers a little. Divorced people often aren't thinkers. That's why they are not here, commenting on their ex... and why they are divorced.

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February 19, 2023, 03:22:00 AM
#43
From the comments of his thread I observed that most people will marry thier spouse again if they love thier partner and thier partner also love them. And most people want to marry thier spouse again if they are enjoying thier marriage currently. But people will never wish of marrying thier partner if they are just enduring the marriage or thier partner is not behaving the way they expect. But we the rate of divorce in the world currently, I don't think most people will want to even meet thier spouse in the afterlife.
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February 17, 2023, 02:54:27 AM
#42
I will re-marry her,if it is possible to do so. The devil that you know is better than the angel you don't know. I love my wife and she cherish that we met each other at the right time. We do have misunderstanding and challenges but we get over it faster.

Love and loyalty is what matters in marriage, the only way to achieve this is when you put God first in your marriage then he will take control of it. Peace,Joy and happiness will be showed on the marriage because God is Almighty and will help you to overcome every obstacles that will be experienced in your marriage.
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February 15, 2023, 05:59:38 PM
#41
If the marriage is sweet for the two parti then why not, there's nothing to seek for in marriage than the joy that comes with the holy bliss, most couples finds theirselves incompac beca they did not realize their weaknesses right before marriage, the worst scenario is when children has been introduced into the marriage, therefore we must learn to be tolerant in every situations because this will give us the peace and satisfaction we needed in marriage so that we could ever want to remarry our spouse in life after.
One of the sweetest parts about marriage is child bear in and the glue that band most marriages are the offspring that come along in the marriage, the kids my our life so special so even if I have any reservation about my spouse we shouldn't allow it to come between us and the joy that we receive through the kid that is the God gift for the marriage.
-Because, we can choose our spouses but we can't choose the kids we birth together, that is the duty of God alone.
-So for sake of the kids I will choose my spouse over and over and over again
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February 15, 2023, 12:09:18 PM
#40
My question now is that for those that are or were married, would you love to marry your husband or wife in the afterlife? Do you think you would be happy and comfortable with your spouse if you come back to the world after death? Would be happy to remarry your ex-spouse?       
To this, I would unreservedly say YES. Regardless. Even though there is no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship. I don't believe in reincarnation, but if there were, I would want my wife again and over again because she provides the companionship that is necessary in a happy, long-lasting marriage. The secret to accomplishing our aim is love and understanding. Therefore, if we both reincarnated, I would want to marry my wife once more.
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February 13, 2023, 05:57:46 PM
#39
Some religions believe there is life after death. Others believe in reincarnation, having the hope that you would come back to the world after death. Do you also think that you would be happy if your ex-husband or wife comes back? The increase in the rate of divorce is making me think that people are no longer happy in marriage. In my religion (Christianity), we believe in life after death but there would be no marriage in heaven or hell.

My question now is that for those that are or were married, would you love to marry your husband or wife in the afterlife? Do you think you would be happy and comfortable with your spouse if you come back to the world after death? Would be happy to remarry your ex-spouse?       
All those things our mentality that we have from our locality there is no life after death so who is creating such to you is deceiving you or putting you on through so from my understanding I don't think that there is life after death when someone die that is the end of that person because there's no way to come out to the world and they're having the same characteristics of a deceased person or the part of the person that died for a long time so I don't believe on such ideas
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February 11, 2023, 09:37:49 AM
#38
Some religions believe there is life after death. Others believe in reincarnation, having the hope that you would come back to the world after death. Do you also think that you would be happy if your ex-husband or wife comes back? The increase in the rate of divorce is making me think that people are no longer happy in marriage. In my religion (Christianity), we believe in life after death but there would be no marriage in heaven or hell.

My question now is that for those that are or were married, would you love to marry your husband or wife in the afterlife? Do you think you would be happy and comfortable with your spouse if you come back to the world after death? Would be happy to remarry your ex-spouse?       

I will still marry my spouse again and again. This is my 3 years into this marriage and I have every reason to be happy that I made the right choice in marriage.

Sometimes we disagree but we always have our way of making sure that every dispute is settled amicably.
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February 10, 2023, 11:00:41 AM
#37
The only reason a person could conceive this kind of topic in the mind is as a result of some sort of discontenment in the marriage or when the expectation they had on thier spouse is not as expected my goal in this response is not just to tackle the question but the mentally of the person putting this up....
Marriage is a COVENANT and oaths are being sworn before and in the name of the creator of the universe and when you understand the magnitude of the personality you took that oath with you will not even think of whether to back out of the marriage.
Also there's absolutely nobody that you can marry that will give you utmost satisfaction so I would rather still marry my wife bcuz the values I expect from her are intact and I'm also a work in progress...
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February 10, 2023, 04:24:46 AM
#36
Some religions believe there is life after death. Others believe in reincarnation, having the hope that you would come back to the world after death. Do you also think that you would be happy if your ex-husband or wife comes back? The increase in the rate of divorce is making me think that people are no longer happy in marriage. In my religion (Christianity), we believe in life after death but there would be no marriage in heaven or hell.

My question now is that for those that are or were married, would you love to marry your husband or wife in the afterlife? Do you think you would be happy and comfortable with your spouse if you come back to the world after death? Would be happy to remarry your ex-spouse?      

I have also witnessed many divorces, but I have never regretted marrying my wife, even though life has many things not as expected. If our current marriage goes well, and if there is a wish that we can reunite in the afterlife, I will never refuse. Like my current life, maybe I'm willing to give up all my possessions just to have my wife by my side, wife and children can be said to be the most invaluable asset that nothing can compare.
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February 10, 2023, 02:47:43 AM
#35
I think the end of a marriage is the same, no matter who you choose, the result is the same, the important thing is the mentality, life always has gains and losses.
I think otherwise, the result aren't the same if not, we would all be divorcing our spouse after a period of being entangled or, we'll all not know what divorce is because all our spouse act in similar ways.

Most spouse are a means to our unending joy and happiness, while some are a means to our end hence the reason for separation.
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February 08, 2023, 03:41:01 PM
#34
Would you marry your current spouse again?


I don't know how much longer we can take this, because whenever we see a new post in this thread, we go out and get married again. Grin



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February 08, 2023, 03:21:54 PM
#33
Absolutely yes I would,if I were to go through the circle of proposal,courtship, engagement etc again.i gladly would go through it only for my adorable wife today.I call her "ma cherié" (meaning my darling in french).with her I have learnt by experience the practical definition of marriage.its so nice to be married to her I would love to marry her again and again
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