Topic: Your way of living the wage what you need to live normal life (Read 1302 times)

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There's no thing you cant do if people would be deciding off that way on which they are really that minding on the happiness that they could get even on selling up their assets if they cant able to find on what they do

really need.This is why it wont really be that shocking nor surprising if some decisions turns out to be odd.There are really just people who are really that prioritizing their happiness over being sensible on what
would be their future or on what they are currently owning.Taking such step might not really be that worth or something not wise but they wouldn't care at all.

Speaking about wages then it would be pertaining on how you would really be that contented on that.Thing here is that you do know on how to budget out.

Do you think it's a very good decision to sell the house and certain assets that you already own at this time just for the sake of being able to experience temporary happiness in urban areas? In my opinion, this is a very sad and unreasonable thing, because you say that living in a city by working there, you should still be able to survive on your own work without having to sell important assets such as houses or other assets that you currently own.

Because living in urban areas is not a problem that has to be complicated as long as you have a place to work and make money. So you don't need to sell existing assets just for the sake of a moment of happiness, unless you sell all your assets to open a bigger business in the city and try to become successful on a slightly different path than before. I guess it makes little sense when you sell something of value to open a better business, but if you sell something of value just because it's hard to get free stuff in town, that's not a successful thought, it's a thought of being poor.

Surely the government has also thought about the balance between the minimum wage or the average income of the population with the price of basic commodities or staple foods. Let's just say that we are entering 2023, where the weather is uncertain and various disasters in several countries and regions, it will definitely have a big impact on the economy. While a country's minimum wage will usually increase or be regulated once every 1 year, and if an unexpected event occurs, example:
The weather should have entered spring, but the rain intensity was still high and that prevented the rice from being dry and had to use special tools to dry it, causing the selling price to go up and keep going up. Has this been predicted by the government last year before deciding on the minimum wage?

It is very good to balance the minimum wage or the average income of the population with the price of basic commodities, but sometimes an unpredictable weather and nature will also make it difficult for the government to stabilize some of these basic commodities.

I born and lived for a long time in the rural which is full of social values, helping each other and mutual cooperation, after school and work I live in a city where everything must be valued in money, it is very difficult to find free things so that money in the city becomes king, I plan to go back to the village and immediately sell the house and assets so that I feel true happiness.

Divorce between husband and wife in a household often occurs because of economic matters, so this economic matter is actually something that really needs to be maintained and addressed properly. That is why it is highly demanded of those who are married to have a qualified job or have a job that is really mature before they step into marriage.

That is certain, because someone who is very mentally and financially ready can clearly see the level of marriage so that his life can be more mature in his lineage. But in order to do this better, it is clear that problems such as income and the economy in general must be more stable within him because if this is not more stable for him, it will definitely trigger fights within his household because life does not only need motivation and wise words. more, but life always needs food which basically cannot be obtained for free.

That convenience will always be there for everyone who wants to try and not only for people who are married. Because any convenience will not come by itself if someone (both married and unmarried) does not make better efforts for it. Because those who have been successful after marriage or before marriage certainly cannot be separated from the struggles they did before, so when they have a new family and are in a slightly newer environment, it is clear that there will be no problems that can arise for them.

Savings are really needed in running a household so that there are no obstacles whatsoever. But there are some things that cannot be postponed or saved when someone is married or married. This is a basic household need and a basic need for their children (if you already have children). So not everything also has to be saved when it's in a household.

If money wont be a problem then for sure you would be buying for whatever your family or kids would really be wanting but if we are really just just those typical average wage earners then you should really be that

practical for whatever things that you would tend to purchase because it is for the better good so that you wont really be having some financial problems later on since you do really be able to savings
because you are really that keen on spending up on things which they arent really that useful or not really that necessary at all.

You should really do your best on having other various sources because we are all hoping and targeting with the same things in life.

This is true especially if we already have our own kids. We will always pause and think first if this item that we will buy is truly worth it or we will only waste money for this. If so then that money should be spent on something that is more important. We already know some of those things. This is opposed if we are single. That is because we have no responsibility but we are only living the life to its fullest.

I think this is not wrong so that once we leave this phase then we won't have any regrets as I see there are so many married people who are now regretting because they didn't enjoy their lives when they are still young wild and free.

Marriage is another chapter of your life, so it would be another struggle, but again, both of you will be facing those problems, which will make you both stronger. You will also need financial aspects on it, mostly if you are having a baby and need to take care of it. That is why, before the marriage, you'll need to have savings or money that you can spend. When you are starting a family, the bigger the better, as the future could be secured by it. Also, comparing marriage to business is not that relative, but I would say that if you both endure the pain and also earn success from it, for sure, both of you will be successful. What I only advise is that in every problem you'll get into, both of you should talk about it.

I've been married for a year and I can say that the real challenge would start after the marriage. The struggle of marriage preparation and polishing it especially the wedding reception is just the beginning. There are a lot more to face when you both are already living together trying to start a new life. It's a good thing that you already have a good preparation at an early age and since you already know how to manage a business, you should apply it in managing and building your own family in the future. There are still lots of things to decide on after the marriage so you must still be ready to face the challenges.

When we are married, there will be many things that we will rethink, for example buying something usually requires extra consideration, in contrast to when we are not married, we usually never think about spending money. to save money, and when you are married, even though your income is small, you can save money.

After marriage it becomes a bit more difficult because you have the responsibility of another person when you are spending your money. When you are single it is just you, and if you spend it on something foolish, that's your own problem and nobody else gets hurt about it, however when you are married, if you make a silly purchase then you cause your spouse to have financial issues because of your mistake.

That type of extra responsibility is not easy for anyone, I have seen people who broke engagement just because they couldn't handle the pressure of responsibility of other people. That doesn't mean they should, because if they are not ready, it's better they don't do it.

Many things that we did not expect to happen when we get married, and what I feel after marriage is everything easier, for example looking for a job, making business and so on, don't ever think too complicated and afraid to get married, as long as we have a good plan then will be given convenience.

It can be said that life after marriage is much more complex, so it is very important to have a strong mentality,
before marriage it is important to be ready economically,
the most important thing is always try and work hard.

Of course whatever we do will have an impact on the results we get, many people do everything to make ends meet and hope for a better life, but sometimes life feels very difficult, and to be able to achieve better goals of course we have to work hard and do the best, and another thing is never too easy to get into debt so that it becomes a burden in our lives.

when you are married, it is possible to get a number of problems and the most common one is economic problems, this is indeed quite difficult to control when the desired way of life is not in accordance with the finances you have.
Effort and hard work are inseparable from what you will get, and at any age I think it must be done consistently.

talking about marriage and also managing finances to live a normal life that I want, I am still very far from what I personally want so that it requires me to work and try even more to achieve what I want to achieve.
In my opinion, marriage is a sacred thing and you have to really prepare for it in various aspects, I'm not ready for that yet.

I think our country is a place where it is difficult to live, but from what I have read, it is more difficult to live in the country you mentioned OP.

    What's even more surprising is that most of my compatriots here want to work in other countries so they can send money to the family they will leave here. The exchange rate for sending money is high but the cost is more expensive where they are located than here in my country.

 Also, I was surprised that it's good to get to Norway but it's not good to live or live in Norway just in my opinion, because 10k$ is equivalent to what you should be earning in this country. Although 10k$ is a big amount here in my country. You can invest in a lot and house with that amount and buy a secondhand vehicle.

Your effort and hard work are indeed great at an age that I think is still young, but you can already manage a business of up to 2 employees. I'm here because I'm already married and I really feel how happy it is when I'm getting married, but for me life after marriage is even more important because we face social life and build a real family, and those who understand the economic position are ourselves, so we hope we can calculate it with carefully, because many family problems stem from economic problems

It seems you are still quite young too huh. But I also don't think that you can already pay the two employees you put in your shop. I think that's really extraordinary because you have become a businessman at a young age by having two employees who you pay yourself and one suggestion from me for you is to keep your business going forever before it gets bigger because if you stop halfway, you will find it difficult to get back up from the beginning. Regarding marriage, I don't want to respond here, even though I personally have been married for a long time.

Be practical which this would be always the key.You dont have to make a luxury preparations when it comes to marriage receptions or whatever as a whole because what matter most here that you both would be get
married legally.Well, if you are really that preparing for a bit then it isnt bad but dont go beyond the lines on where you are spending that much.There would always comes to a point on which we do all get married
on where you do need up some preparations not only for that point but also into the future on which your wife wont really be having a hard life with you. Live by your means and not on your wants
which it would be the key for having a good financial condition.

I don't really need too much, could even survive with 500 dollars a month, but would live a very good life with 1000 dollars a month. But that's not the point, the difference is that, if I have some sort of guarantee that I will make 500 dollars every month, I could live more comfortable than having a job that pays me 1000 dollars a month that I could be fired from.

Right now, my current job is a great one and unless something changes about the job completely, I am going to keep making this much maybe for another 5-6 years at least, and that's good enough for me, if I quit this and go work in an office, I could maybe make more, maybe not, but I could be fired and that's worse. I rather make 500 for 10 years than make 1000 and get fired.