Topic: Our decision making is responsible for the outcomes in our ways (Read 1223 times)

Everyone who suggests something to someone else of course has a good understanding of what they are saying and after we give them advice then it is their choice whether they want to accept it or not, this is their choice.
I agree with you, of course it would be better if we could avoid those who think that what we suggest to them is not very useful for them and we can let them learn it on their own until they can realize that what they did was wrong so that they regret it.

While others have learnt their lessions of not utilizing their incomes when they had a stable source for their income flows, some others are paying adamants and ignorant to learn from what has happened to others because they feels they are not of the same calling to be affected with what happened to others.

In life some persons just do what pleases them and doesn't tolerate with any piece of advice from anyone at the times they feels to had acquired the heavens on earth. And yet they are not Concious that as the more they grows their incomes for multiplications is also how it could depreciate to a zero value if not utilize productively for continues growth.

A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be  accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.

How on earth would someone give chasing after income holidays even when you do not have more than enough and not up to the age of retirement yet?

And after squandering all that he has saved he goes about requesting to borrow money.
I have talked to this guy on several occasions but he feels I am a pest disturbing his dear life.
As at this moment, the country is encountering very high rate of inflation which stuffs doesn't go fair as before  leading him sold his car and being struggling to pay his bills while living in the city and at now, he does not have a place of residence of his own so he jumps from one place to the other passing his night's.

He is now the pest perching on any available places conditionally while inconveniencing others.
He now lives a low key with the best he can afford.
"Had I know" is now a national anthem to him.
I don't find his ignorance to be an excuse and I am thinking of disassociating from him before he gets me  affected with his negative possesed energies.

Everyone who suggests something to someone else of course has a good understanding of what they are saying and after we give them advice then it is their choice whether they want to accept it or not, this is their choice.
I agree with you, of course it would be better if we could avoid those who think that what we suggest to them is not very useful for them and we can let them learn it on their own until they can realize that what they did was wrong so that they regret it.

In life some persons just do what pleases them and doesn't tolerate with any piece of advice from anyone at the times they feels to had acquired the heavens on earth. And yet they are not Concious that as the more they grows their incomes for multiplications is also how it could depreciate to a zero value if not utilize productively for continues growth.

A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be  accounted of his money if not enjoyments? This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.

That’s oddly optimistic lol.

But I guess it is better than being pessimistic about everything and being overly depressed when things do not go your way. I think it’s always better to do prevention than cure. So we should avoid doing poor decisions or mistakes instead of trying to fix whatever mess we have made however if it’s already done then we have no other choice.

Well, trying to be positive that some wrong decisions might turn to blessings but it's true that most of the time if we're deciding wrongly we will have bad results.

Exactly. No need to be around with them and reject your advices as if all those were useless. Let them learn their lesson on their own  because that’s the best way they will encourage to take changes. Now, if they won’t change despite of their struggles, that’s already their problem. But at least you know, you have done your best to advice people like them, it’s just that they don’t care believing on you. It’s their loss actually.

Some people behave impulsively without considering their consequences. They're foolishly spending their money as they make it, assuming the good times will never end. Your buddy, he's a prime example; cruising on high, eyes glued to the rearview mirror of "had I known." Honestly, this is about acknowledging, not knowing. Knowing that every dollar spent in foolishness today undermines their future

Your friend's reply? "What's money for if not enjoyment?" Classic yet disastrous. It's like braking a runaway train, not bothering or preaching. High inflation, asset sales, couch-surfing? That's mismanagement, not luck

Who can blame you for considering severing ties? Energy vampires take your money, spirit, and peace as well as your blood. It's a lifestyle, not simply financial smarts. Your absence might be the most profound advice. Let them bear the consequences of their choices without you

Wrong decisions will always result negative outcomes.

It’s not that you can easily regain all the money that you have carelessly spend, except if you invested in highly potential investments that are sure to guarantee you massive profits in the future just like what bitcoin can do for us.

It's a bad habit, and many people like the OP mentioned, especially people who rely solely on their parents' wealth.
It's all because parents don't teach their children to be responsible with money, and people like this don't give advice easily because they think they have a lot of money, and when the money runs out and falls. He will be aware and aware of the words or advice said by friends or other people before, but it will be too late.
And I also have several people with that type, and I judge because these people are blinded by money. And they don't think that money will run out over time if they don't have a job or business that makes money or a stable income to cover their expenses.

And I think people like that just ignore it, later they will realize and regret it when it's all over and that will be a valuable lesson for them. And realize that a luxurious life must be supported by a decent income or more, and must be responsible and disciplined in using or managing money.

life is like examination so anything happen for good and for benefit of us to learn and understand our fault what you said is good and then when you follow the strategies of what you said the person will make well that is why I always promote this community because here we teach you both good and here we also teach you the thing that you have to know for your life so I have nothing to say down to compliment just your statement because you have spoken my mind and I have nothing to say again

A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be  accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.

And after squandering all that he has saved he goes about requesting to borrow money.
I have talked to this guy on several occasions but he feels I am a pest disturbing his dear life..

I won't encourage to disassociate yourself from him because to every lifestyle there's is always a lesson to learn from them, reason because without you experiencing those attitudes from him you won't know how to make and take the right decisions for yourself. People doesn't always make the right decision when everything seems to be okay all their decision are right and good for them untill they encounters difficulties making them to have a rethink of their life, people doesn't always take correction or learned from what happened to other people all less it happens to them before they would take corrections.

Anything that we do now would affect our future, and all of what we are experiencing or have right now is the result of what we did in the past.
We need to grow up and think about not just our future but also our family, for me I learned it the hard way but I am trying to make a better future for my kid.
I also used to spend on unnecessary things to enjoy, and regret it so now that I learned my lesson I started to invest my excess money to crypto.

It takes a time for someone who knows about Bitcoin and also who knows about investment to make a good plan to utilize any money that it generate from any investment it make utilizing your money is based on your ability to think both positive and the negative because there's some people that does not know what is the responsibility there's some people who doesn't go down to think of the future because they are seeing a weekly and the monthly money so if you are opportune to see a weekly and the monthly money you have to know that there will be a time such money will not be flowing the way you think so it is better for you do it like the money by strategizing in different ways of investment

I won't encourage to disassociate yourself from him because to every lifestyle there's is always a lesson to learn from them, reason because without you experiencing those attitudes from him you won't know how to make and take the right decisions for yourself. People doesn't always make the right decision when everything seems to be okay all their decision are right and good for them untill they encounters difficulties making them to have a rethink of their life, people doesn't always take correction or learned from what happened to other people all less it happens to them before they would take corrections.

I agree with pinggoki, you can't force other people to have a same life like you because what you think good isn't always good for him.

Yeah I know I have a same perspective like you, saving is a must for me, but some people think when they die, they won't able to bring their wealth to heaven, so why they need to save and we can't even know how long we can live.

Even if my best friends spend too much money for unnecessary stuffs, if he didn't ask about money management, saving or investment, I won't comment anything.

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