Topic: Our decision making is responsible for the outcomes in our ways - page 4. (Read 1357 times)

Those who still have a low income and already have a family that must be looked after and maintained well, of course they must have additional income to achieve success in their lives. Because the final decision is that there must be additional income without having to compromise on other things because without additional income it will also be difficult for family members to make the wisest decisions possible. So if there are still people with low incomes and want to be successful like most other people, of course what they have to think about is efforts to increase their income, not anything else.

And after squandering all that he has saved he goes about requesting to borrow money.
I have talked to this guy on several occasions but he feels I am a pest disturbing his dear life.
As at this moment, the country is encountering very high rate of inflation which stuffs doesn't go fair as before  leading him sold his car and being struggling to pay his bills while living in the city and at now, he does not have a place of residence of his own so he jumps from one place to the other passing his night's.

He is now the pest perching on any available places conditionally while inconveniencing others.
He now lives a low key with the best he can afford.
"Had I know" is now a national anthem to him.
I don't find his ignorance to be an excuse and I am thinking of disassociating from him before he gets me  affected with his negative possesed energies.

The most important thing in making a decision is that we really have to do it in a condition that is not in a hurry so that we can make a good and correct decision, because if we decide something is not in a good situation, of course it will be very difficult to make a decision that is profitable for us. We and we also have to think about the positive and negative impacts of the decisions we make.

I think those who experience failure in financial terms of course they cannot manage their expenses well so they continue to use their income on things that are not needed of course this is very bad if we cannot make decisions to use the income we have.

Decision making is everything in life. The decision people make can make one to be rich or poor. Thst is why when making decisions we need to be careful with the decision we make that we not affect us.  Many have failed financial because of the wrong decision they make . Every thing we have in life is a result of decision both the good things and the bad things in life.

Not everyone can accept advice, even if it is someone close to them, but if that person cannot accept advice then it will make him upset. especially in financial matters, they will definitely think that they are using their own money without harming anyone when they shop excessively. That's what makes them not accept any advice from other people.
Yes, actually there is nothing wrong with that, because it also doesn't harm us. However, this is a form of our concern for them so we want to remind them to be more regular in spending money. We can remove things that shouldn't be too important from the shopping list.

We are the first to know ourselves; we know if we are responsible people, and if you trust and believe in yourself, then it is certain that every decision we make will always help us and our loved ones in life too, of course.

But even so, not every time we do what we do is right, and if we do, we learn from our mistakes, and for sure we will grow in the end. So what others often do is go into businesses, turn around the small capital, and grow it with proper management as well. So the success of each of us really depends on our hands and decisions.

It's true, the people who can then give advice are usually people who have experienced mistakes from bad habits in managing finances, from there they already realize that it is something wrong, then we will share experiences with the aim of preventing them from doing it. the same mistakes we made in the past, even though that person was no one or just a friend.
When we have given advice and they don't want to listen, we have actually done what we should do, and if we prefer to remain silent when we have given them advice then that is not wrong. It depends on us, whether we will continue (giving advice) even though we get a bad response or whether we will stop because we feel we have enough to remind them.

While others have learnt their lessions of not utilizing their incomes when they had a stable source for their income flows, some others are paying adamants and ignorant to learn from what has happened to others because they feels they are not of the same calling to be affected with what happened to others.

In life some persons just do what pleases them and doesn't tolerate with any piece of advice from anyone at the times they feels to had acquired the heavens on earth. And yet they are not Concious that as the more they grows their incomes for multiplications is also how it could depreciate to a zero value if not utilize productively for continues growth.

A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be  accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.

How on earth would someone give chasing after income holidays even when you do not have more than enough and not up to the age of retirement yet?

And after squandering all that he has saved he goes about requesting to borrow money.
I have talked to this guy on several occasions but he feels I am a pest disturbing his dear life.
As at this moment, the country is encountering very high rate of inflation which stuffs doesn't go fair as before  leading him sold his car and being struggling to pay his bills while living in the city and at now, he does not have a place of residence of his own so he jumps from one place to the other passing his night's.

He is now the pest perching on any available places conditionally while inconveniencing others.
He now lives a low key with the best he can afford.
"Had I know" is now a national anthem to him.
I don't find his ignorance to be an excuse and I am thinking of disassociating from him before he gets me  affected with his negative possesed energies.

Decision making is everything in life. The decision people make can make one to be rich or poor. Thst is why when making decisions we need to be careful with the decision we make that we not affect us.  Many have failed financial because of the wrong decision they make . Every thing we have in life is a result of decision both the good things and the bad things in life.

We are the first to know ourselves; we know if we are responsible people, and if you trust and believe in yourself, then it is certain that every decision we make will always help us and our loved ones in life too, of course.

But even so, not every time we do what we do is right, and if we do, we learn from our mistakes, and for sure we will grow in the end. So what others often do is go into businesses, turn around the small capital, and grow it with proper management as well. So the success of each of us really depends on our hands and decisions.

I believe it's acceptable to live lavishly if you're certain you won't deplete your finances in your lifetime. By this, I mean having numerous successful businesses that provide substantial income. However, there's a contradiction if, despite your prosperity, you remain excessively thrifty. Regarding your friend, it's possible he became complacent, assuming his wealth would never diminish, leading to his continuous reckless spending. Nonetheless, I think even if he were more frugal, his finances would still dwindle because he hasn't invested in business or other ventures.

Experience in life will humble them. Those that are giving advise, good advises on how they should be wiser with their habits financially have been through tough times. It's actually a good thing that they're sharing their knowledge and life experiences so that whoever is listening to them will be able to skip that trouble. But even if you're showing them your are concerned about them and they don't appreciate it, once is enough of telling them how reckless they are with their money. If they don't listen, that's enough and you don't give any life advises anymore whether it's related to financial matters or with their life decisions. Not at all times we're too generous to give advises to the ungrateful people that don't even lend their ear to listen.

Those who still have a low income and already have a family that must be looked after and maintained well, of course they must have additional income to achieve success in their lives. Because the final decision is that there must be additional income without having to compromise on other things because without additional income it will also be difficult for family members to make the wisest decisions possible. So if there are still people with low incomes and want to be successful like most other people, of course what they have to think about is efforts to increase their income, not anything else.

Not everyone can accept advice, even if it is someone close to them, but if that person cannot accept advice then it will make him upset. especially in financial matters, they will definitely think that they are using their own money without harming anyone when they shop excessively. That's what makes them not accept any advice from other people.
Yes, actually there is nothing wrong with that, because it also doesn't harm us. However, this is a form of our concern for them so we want to remind them to be more regular in spending money. We can remove things that shouldn't be too important from the shopping list.

I hope the family background of an individual constitutes the immediate environment upon which any of the members could make success in life. However, in a low income household, a member needs to deploy an escape mechanisms that had provided success for others.
Such an individual has to rely on a well researched work and reliability of the frame as prepared by a Researcher. Otherwise, any attempt or group of attempts for an individual of such a low income household to rely on his/ her decision to make success in life would be an exercise in futility.

I think there are people like this who will always squandered all that they have before looking for ways to earn more money.
People like this don't understand the term 'save for a rainy day' because to them their enjoyment comes first.
The problem is there is no convincing such people, only life can teach them a lesson that's if they will ever learn.
You can only keep advising him as a friend but the rest is up to him to figure out.

A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be  accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.