Topic: The rate of divorce in the society - page 3. (Read 1156 times)

The problem here is both.  Today's women hide their real existence.  They are not satisfied with their appearance.  To hide one's real beauty and show another form is a kind of deception. And men are becoming worshipers of forms.  It is a disease.  No one here is happy with their real life.  Everyone is busy with their fantasy world.  So many other downfalls in the relationship for this

Point of correction, divorce isn't a normal thing as couples now a days doesn't actually understands what marriage is all about before they enter into marriage and what's causing this high rate of divorce cases is 1: entering into marriage with little or no knowledge of the commitment that's involved in marriage, 2: marrying because of physical qualities, 3: seeing marriage as one sided that is as a man's duty to make the marriage work, and lastly not being resourceful and productive.

Many a people, enter into marriage this days simply because their mates are getting married (peer pressure) or because they think they are of age to get married without thinking about the fundamentals of marriage, like those things that actually matters as marriage ought to be a lifetime commitment between the man and the woman to live together as husband and wife regardless of challenges and obstacles they may encounter.

The high rate of divorce this days is really a thing of concern and I think there should be a sensitization programs for couples in other to emphasize the needs why divorce shouldn't be an option to resolve marital issues as there are ways to resolve matters among husbands and wives without necessarily seeking for divorce because if this divorce cases continue to increase them am afraid people will begin to show little or no interest towards marriage because they will be afraid of the aftermath of their marriage therefore in other to prevent a divorce from happening after marriage, it had better be no marriage in the first place

As mentioned many things with mostly this happening due to lack of communications which is most important for the marriage and in case we lost this no one can stop with I check few things around us this generation is having problem with doing decisions very quickly and not thinking about the consequences as well which are going to ruin their life after doing wrong decision as many cases around me already but now no way of going back to normal which is also killing.
We can avoid this all, but we need to be had some patience and better understanding which need some time so just keep cool and try to give time every thing with all can be sorted out without any tragic decision even now divorce ratio is coming down but still need some good work to do about this all.

Both are at fault. In this our generation of people with erratic character, People marry one another for the wrong reasons:
#1. They marry out of pity. After months or years of marriage, they find themselves fed up and find it hard to give their partners the love they deserve.
#2.  Some women these days marry men because of money, men they do not love, sometimes men old enough to be their fathers. And in the course of marriage these women indulge in infidelity, and when they are fed up pretending, they go for their pay day. They file for a divorce and acquire 50% of the man's property.
#3. People marry without knowing the true meaning of love and sacrifice.
#4. People marry without getting to know their partners really well.

People should understand why they are getting into marriage because if this is not defined, it usually lead to confusiona that do make marriages to break due to so many reasons. The love for fashion and exploration had made men and women to think that if they are stressed in there marriages, they have the option to lead and go and find a better home somewhere.
Most celebrities we are seeing divorcing thinks there partners are not good enough and they can get someone better which is very wrong.

Its the society. Now in this world, we have social media and in the first glance it seems as if we can get a life partner very easily and that allows us to move away from our old relation. Tiktok, insta, social media, shows us so much glamour that we don't get much interest in our partner as they can't be perfect, no one can. They don't have 6 pack, or jawline, ferrari and other stuff and that makes us loose the interest in them, believing that we can find someone better easily but there we are so wrong.

In reality, people who are they do not try to understand each other they will live together in the same house in the same environment but they do not try to tolerate each othe It means that they are angry that they don't have the time to tolerate each other's words, that is,

If you take an example, if the husband says something to his wife, then the wife should be a little more courageous if the wife says something wrong or bad If it is done, the husband should neglect what is in it and show patience, then  there will be less of a divorce and they will be able to live happily together and those who are other people who  are happy that the relationship between them has broken then the turn will not reach here

In most advanced countries divorce is very common.But  the Christianity religion is against divorce.Some of the reasons why marriages are broken are:
1.Lack of communication: Couples are meant to communicate with each other to spice up the relationship.And in the communication couples should be open to each other.Lack of communication can lead to divorce.
2.Financial Challenge: Inability to provide the basic needs in a relationship due to insufficient fund can also lead to divorce.
3.Denial of sex:This is one major reason like many marriages are broken in the society.Couples who deny their partner sex makes the partner to cheat in a relationship.And when a partner is caught cheating we all know the end result (divorce).

There are too many divorces in this recent time and the problem lies in fake love. Now many people fell in love not because they love you but because they really cares about money. People care about money than love and after they get married, either the male or female might determine that they are not interested in the relationship and ready to break up. Some women are always ready to break up with there husband just to cliam propertiee belonging to the man.

Do you mean people seek divorce due to domestic violence? Probably yes, but divorces are always higher in the well-developed nations and you can point to someone who lived with their partners forever in your neighborhood in developed nations but those things are still taboo in some developing nations and for the financial challenges people started to be less commitment than before.

A woman and a man move from the marriage stage to the divorce stage due to various reasons. I have noticed that divorce has become a common occurrence, especially in less developed countries today. Changes in traditional family structures and values, as well as an increased focus on personal happiness and self-fulfillment, are driving divorce rates in less developed countries. In the past, divorce was often stigmatized and culturally unacceptable.But With increased access to education and information, individuals are becoming more aware of their rights and options within marriage, leading to an increased willingness to seek divorce to achieve personal happiness and well-being.

Nothing works as planned in this life. People nowadays tend to get bored easily and they just don't try to fix things rather ending up divorced. It's almost like there's a Divorce Olympics going on, with events like the "Argument Gymnastics," "Emotional Relay Races," and let's not forget the "Marathon of Misunderstandings." And the trophy? Well, it's a piece of paper that says, "Congratulations, you've successfully uncoupled!"

Maybe you can kindly explain more on what you mean by dowry. If dowry is one of the problems that is leading to divorce in your countryside then things have to be done about it.
That should not be a problem that would lead to divorce. When tow people comes together, they do agree for better for worse but now the opposite is what we are seeing. The rate of divorce in the world is becoming very consistent and I don't think this would change. Many people marry because of the beautiful and endowment they see in women. This should not be the reason when we get married.

Let's start to begin to take up the challenge in making relationship and marriage work out for those in it, we can do all out best in creating an atmosphere for learning on how to live together as partners forgetting about our individual difference and embrace tolerance, this can be organized through seminars, the aim is to help married people enjoy their marriages despite the challenges involved.

I think people just introduce more problems into their lives as modern society takes care of a lot of the issues people once had to face together.  The divorce rate has been climbing as long as I've been alive and a majority of divorces are initiated by women.  Maybe this is the result of the modern woman not needing a man and so not being willing to put up with as much as earlier generations?  In any event, you are seeing a lot of regret in today's society from both women that thought they didn't want children in their 20s and 30s and from women who disfigured themselves struggling with their gender association.  Meanwhile men who dress up as women and try to take their roles are celebrated...

Dowry is the most common reason for divorce in our country.It can be seen that many girls are asked by their parents to give dowry during marriage, but if they cannot pay it completely, then after marriage, the girl's in-laws start torturing her in various ways.
What happened in my neighborhood where her husband divorced her for non-payment of dowry.
However, in our society, the practice of dowry is decreasing and even the number of divorces is decreasing.

The reason is simple. There are nolonger shame and stigma attached to being divorced. Before now, a divorced person can barely raise up his face in public , but now, people even applaud you for leaving the marriage even when the bone of contention is a minor issue that can be fixed. This is quite pathetic and civilization should be thanked for this.

Our individual rich cultures that frown at certain societal norms have been so diluted that people look at you as being old fashioned if you choose to do the right thing. Civilization and modernisation has made everyone believe that no one is above the other and this has made the issue of 'submissiveness ' a problem to especially the women. Many others leave their marriages because they feel caged and want to explore the world.  This they do happily because the society no longer frowns at divorce. Sometimes I wonder if civilization is really a blessing to us.

I can attribute the high rate of divorce to modernization and trend, couples no longer tolerate the shortcomings of their partners, because they can easily get a divorce just like other couples. I believe that the high divorce rate is more common with influencial people and celebrities, so the larger societies looks up to these people to think that divorce is the option to settle troubled marriages.

Before this age of modernization, the divorce rate was very minimal, couples stayed together despite the marital challenges that they may face, there was genuine love tolerance. Divorce was hardly an option because other couples remains together despite the challenges that they might have.

Lastly I think that the main cause of divorce is because the traditional roles of the man and woman in the family have changed. Normally the husband is the breadwinner and provides for his family and the wife manages the home, but that system has changed now that women also works and makes money too. Therefore the modern woman now demands for equal rights in the family as a co breadwinner and refuses to be subjected to the authority of the husband. I believe that this could be the core of modern divorce, because two captains cannot be in one ship.

Incompatibly is the cause. The husband and wife are supposed to be compatible before agreeing on marriage, don't allow love to control them. For instance, you can date a girl love her very well and know fully well that she doesn't meet the marriage standard since marriage is for life but out of pity and love, you go ahead to marry her. The marriage will eventually crash.