Maybe forrestv should slow the refreshing. That is a legitimate point. Even better may be someone extending the application to provide a nicer interface (GUI or web based) which would provide updated stats.
There also should be better explanation as to what all the info is.
Current payout = your cut of the block reward. It IS per payout, you only get paid when a block is found. If the block was found right now you would earn 0.1276. If another block was found 2 seconds later you would earn another 0.1276. If a third block wasn't found until 52 hours later you would still earn another 0.1276.
The number will only change if your % of the p2pool hashing power changes. If you make up 2% of the a pool (any PPLNS pool) you will earn ~1BTC per block (excluding tx fees). That won't change unless either your hashing power or pool's hashing power changes.
An estimate per 24 hour average would be a useful enhancement.
Well there is no such thing as unpaid rewards in p2pool. Your payment is part of the coinbase. You get paid when block is found so your unpaid reward is continually 0.000 BTC forever. That likely needs to be made more clear.
You could use -a option set a static reward address and have all payments go to a single address.
There is no such thing as a "current balance". Rewards are sent instantly to the address you specify. p2pool never holds an funds in reserve. The address doesn't need to be on the machine being used.
Use the -a option. Delete the copy of the wallet if it has any value and bitcoind will make a new empty wallet (which you will never use for anything). p2pool needs bitcoind, it doesn't need a wallet. There is no option to run bitcoind as just a bitcoind with no wallet but it doesn't mean you need to use it.
The "-a" option lets you set any valid Bitcoin address as the address to pay rewards. I don't really see any difference from a "conventional pool". Do you?
I think these posts simply reinforce the fact that p2pool is very flexible but it is hobbled by beyond horrible documentation. It needs very detailed, comprehensiveness documentation because nothing you have expressed indicates a problem with p2pool and instead shows a lack of understanding. Not your fault it currently requires a lot of reading, asking questions, checking forum threads, etc to get a good understanding of p2pool. That needs to change.