2020 one of the most negative year in my life ...

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Quote from: spy100 on June 25, 2020, 09:13:20 AM

Here is how 2020 went for me : Embarrassed

January ... lost my tooth went to dentist ,she should have fix it ,payed money still didn't heard from her not even now
February... pandemic started
March ... lost my job
April ... Girlfriend dumped me for good do to fact i am poor and she was only interested in money
May - June ... Lost all my savings at the casinos after lockdown do to fact i entered a depression

It must be a dream ,it's not real ! nothing makes sense anymore ...

F money ,F power ,F fame ,F all materialistic stuff ... i am going back to read the Holy Book as i did something wrong ... and i don't understand what i did ...

What i learned the hard way:

the only good way to earn in is life is by working : blood ,sweet and tears

Do not care what people think if you are poor ( you do not need friends that judge you based on how much you have ,they are toxic)
Do not speculate or gamble
Do not try to find money or to become rich
Do not believe in the "American dream" it's fake
The higher you will rise the harder the fall will be
Do not care if other people have more then you, be happy with what you got even if it is nothing
Make sure when you ask a girl out you have zero money in your wallet , and if she accepts to go out with you on a date take zero cash with you ( this way you will find the truth)
Do not climb the" mountain" in life without building concrete stairs first
When in economy books you will see "inflation" , do not get scared of it it's not your problem
Do not care if you will be lonely when you will be old and nobody will take care of you if you will be sick ( we come from earth we go back in to the earth)
Death is the great equalizer ( no matter if you are king or a beggar sooner or later you will die )
Be good as the world is full of darkness !

Whatever the case maybe, always look on the brighter side. Just always be thankful thinking that we are still surviving this pandemic. And hopefully a vaccine will resolved this crisis so we can all go back to our normal lives.

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Quote from: spy100 on June 25, 2020, 09:13:20 AM

Here is how 2020 went for me : Embarrassed

January ... lost my tooth went to dentist ,she should have fix it ,payed money still didn't heard from her not even now
February... pandemic started
March ... lost my job
April ... Girlfriend dumped me for good do to fact i am poor and she was only interested in money
May - June ... Lost all my savings at the casinos after lockdown do to fact i entered a depression

It must be a dream ,it's not real ! nothing makes sense anymore ...

F money ,F power ,F fame ,F all materialistic stuff ... i am going back to read the Holy Book as i did something wrong ... and i don't understand what i did ...

You have to blame no one,or nothing here because all of those happens to you are your own mistakes.

you pay dentist in advance when you can pay them upfront when the fixing happen.

you lost my Job because you are not competent in the position.

You choose stupid girlfriend ,Imagine you have been with Her bnot knowing the attitude and character?

You gambled on your Own foolishness and don't blame your depression .

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Quote from: spy100 on June 25, 2020, 09:13:20 AM

Here is how 2020 went for me : Embarrassed

It must be a dream ,it's not real ! nothing makes sense anymore ...

F money ,F power ,F fame ,F all materialistic stuff ... i am going back to read the Holy Book as i did something wrong ... and i don't understand what i did ...

In life, s#!+ happens when you least expected it to occur, that's for sure. Sad

And it will only get worse before it would get better.
Be strong, because there's always light at the end of that tunnel. Cool

Quote from: spy100 on June 25, 2020, 09:13:20 AM

What i learned the hard way:

Don't worry, there's always a silver lining to any problem or situation. What's more important is that you've learned something and this will only help you get stronger, as you continue your life's journey with a new perspective and purpose as well.

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Even though it is a negative year, I have learned a lot of things on life. I have learned to value every second. I learned to give up some good opportunity in the dangerous city and just be with my family in our province. Moment to spent time with them cannot be replaced by anything in the world.

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I do not say negative, but year 2020 is really a challenging year for me. Yes I have so many plans this year and it turns into nothing. Well I know it is not only me. But also the whole world. Well I have no choice to what is happening but to cancel all my plan trips, keep saving and earning money

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Actually I wouldn't see the girl leaving you just for your wealth as a negative thing, in my opinion, it is her loss. In the end, you'll be the stronger one of the two.

Keep your head up! There's always an opportunity ahead especially when everything is looking a bit somber.

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Quote from: spy100 on June 25, 2020, 09:13:20 AM

Here is how 2020 went for me : Embarrassed

January ... lost my tooth went to dentist ,she should have fix it ,payed money still didn't heard from her not even now
February... pandemic started
March ... lost my job
April ... Girlfriend dumped me for good do to fact i am poor and she was only interested in money
May - June ... Lost all my savings at the casinos after lockdown do to fact i entered a depression

Never take depression because It's a horrible thing that can stop your life.
My suggest:
February solved: There is no need to identify with it because very soon the days of pandemic will end and we will return to normal life again. So stay home and do all your work.

March solved: You may know that there are a lot of jobs in this internet world, so you can work in this internet world from home and earn lot of money.

April solved: It was your personal matter to come and your perception was not so strong that so you could not recognize the right person. But you can try to find a new girlfriend again. I can say for sure that the next girlfriend will love you more and of course selflessly.
In the end I want to say that you should not stop and move forward with the pace of your life and i hope the good days of your life come back very soon.

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Quote from: spy100 on June 25, 2020, 09:13:20 AM

Here is how 2020 went for me : Embarrassed

January ... lost my tooth went to dentist ,she should have fix it ,payed money still didn't heard from her not even now
February... pandemic started
March ... lost my job
April ... Girlfriend dumped me for good do to fact i am poor and she was only interested in money
May - June ... Lost all my savings at the casinos after lockdown do to fact i entered a depression

Don't push yourself to hard, you can start again and make thing right, Life is full of trials and worst things is expected to happen. Don't give up, time will pass i know you can still be happy and make things back to normal.

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life there will always be a test for being poor or rich would be an option for you if you keep trying and never give up, you no can get rich if you continue to play at the casino then useless money you get for this hard work it will be depleted because gambling is not will change your destiny and it makes you in trouble if wealth and your money is lost because of gambling you will be poor and it's your own fault if you poor are lover and friends will leave you better you start from early trying the best to your life for the future better.

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Quote from: Chrystora123 on June 26, 2020, 03:58:12 PM

btw, 2020 is the worst year for almost everyone in the world, the worst thing that I experienced this year was that my family and I could not worship and holiday as we had planned..

It feels like the end of the world, but it isn't, not at this point at least.
I am deeply sorry for anyone who is in trouble because of current world conditions.
But I also deeply believe that its going to be okay in just 6-18 months

As long as you are still alive, there's hope. That's what I always think of whenever I want to give up. Also, if other family members are relying on you, how can you lose hope? You need to be strong for them. This is just another challenge for all of us. If you will give up, you lost in this battle of life.

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Quote from: Chrystora123 on June 26, 2020, 03:58:12 PM

btw, 2020 is the worst year for almost everyone in the world, the worst thing that I experienced this year was that my family and I could not worship and holiday as we had planned..

It feels like the end of the world, but it isn't, not at this point at least.
I am deeply sorry for anyone who is in trouble because of current world conditions.
But I also deeply believe that its going to be okay in just 6-18 months

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Quote from: spy100 on June 25, 2020, 09:13:20 AM

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I'm sorry about your condition. You should stay away from friends and couples who only see what you have, they are only parasites and are not sincere with you mate..

btw, 2020 is the worst year for almost everyone in the world, the worst thing that I experienced this year was that my family and I could not worship and holiday as we had planned..

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Quote from: spy100 on June 25, 2020, 09:13:20 AM

Here is how 2020 went for me : Embarrassed

January ... lost my tooth went to dentist ,she should have fix it ,payed money still didn't heard from her not even now
February... pandemic started
March ... lost my job
April ... Girlfriend dumped me for good do to fact i am poor and she was only interested in money
May - June ... Lost all my savings at the casinos after lockdown do to fact i entered a depression

It must be a dream ,it's not real ! nothing makes sense anymore ...

F money ,F power ,F fame ,F all materialistic stuff ... i am going back to read the Holy Book as i did something wrong ... and i don't understand what i did ...

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I am glad you have come back to accept the fact that now we must return and surrender to those who have and give us life. with you to read the Holy Book and praying, you begin to surrender everything to Him so that all problems can have an answer, at least as bright as the hope that you will go through can be channeled and hopefully there is an answer to the solution, but still the hard work of yourself must also be carried out.

now everyone is experiencing something like you because the corona pandemic is plaguing, and maybe you should also give thanks that it might not be as difficult as the others. because it can be ascertained that is more difficult and more miserable than you, can certainly be very much.

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OMG, that hits really hard. I feel sorry for the things you’re going through.
I can tell it’s not easy because I have been through similar things in life and I’m working really hard right now get myself back up.

I might not be happy now due to the things I have passed through in life, but I still know that they have taught me a really good lesson. But, I am still happy that I had to go through all these things while I’m still young, so there is still much time for me and things are starting to work out again, just a matter of time. There is always hope no matter what we are going through. And I am happy that you have chosen to understand that.

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I am terribly sorry about all of your loss but 2020 doesn't sound like that bad for you at all. You figured out on January that your dentist is not a good one and you should find a new one, since you have been waiting since January I am assuming it is not a root canal operation (which would be required urgently and not wait for months) so you could find another one when this pandemic is over and get rid of the bad one.

February pandemic started is a whole global thing, it is not just about you, it is about all over the world and every human.
March, there is over 10 million people lost their jobs just in USA, there is over 100 million all over the world, it is horrible but it is what it is right now in the world.

April, good that she broke up with you because you shouldn't be with a person who wants you for money to begin with. May- June that is your own fault, shouldn't have gambled all of your money, that is literally a mistake you did upon yourself that nobody else is guilty about.

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I feel sorry for you, mate. Life can be so hard sometimes that there are times that you don't know what to do when you always fail in your life. I feel the same thing mate that I also experienced terrible things this year of 2020 that I have to sell all of my holdings because both of my parents lost their jobs before lockdown, so it just happened that we all used our savings and my investments to provide all of our daily needs this community quarantine lockdown.

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This has to be the most insightful post I've read today. Firstly, I'm sorry about how things turned out for you this year. It hasn't really been a good year for most people. I'm talking about lost jobs, death of loved ones etc.

Quote from: spy100 on June 25, 2020, 09:13:20 AM

the only good way to earn in is life is by working : blood ,sweet and tears

I've always know this fact. In life, nothing good has ever came easy. There was efforts and some struggle that went in before it yielded results. This is something must people don't learn. They just want to be rich quick, with little to no efforts.

In spite of everyday that has happened, I really think you shouldn't give up yet. There's always room for things to get better ; for things to change. We just have to keep moving. One day at a time. Don't forget to be grateful and celebrate small wins too (like the fact that you're still alive.) not many people have life right now.

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Quote from: spy100 on June 25, 2020, 09:13:20 AM

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Above all you have listed, there is no way for you to surrender. Just think about the street children, they have no foods & clothes, unsustainable life, abandoned by parents and have no permanent shelter. I feel you buddy but we are now in pandemic. We can`t avoid this things will happen to us. We are all amidst of negative situation in life. Just to be thankful that you are breathing because a lot of people are dying but us? We are still alive and kicking.

Just focus on your goals and don`t mind that girl. I believe that there is no word FOREVER.
If you are depress, breath for a little while and imagine how beautiful it was when you are on top seeing your past.

Be positive bud!

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I'm very sorry to hear your journey, man. It must be very difficult for ya to get over with those problems. I couldn't say anything positive but that's life, you can't take away the negativity alone... the duality Tongue

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Quote from: spy100 on June 25, 2020, 09:13:20 AM

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What i learned the hard way:

the only good way to earn in is life is by working : blood ,sweet and tears

Not all the time, man. You must work smart sometime though, and it is way better than working by blood, and sweat Wink

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Quote from: spy100 on June 25, 2020, 09:13:20 AM

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Exactly, man. You don't have to give care pretty much about everything. Not saying, you must not think about it all but it is good that you knew where to dwell; might be something that'd make you grew better.

If by chance you have spare money, try reading Mark Manson's book "Subtle way of not givin' a ..." & "Everything is ...", well, if you haven't got any you can search some free e-books about it around the internet but don't ever forget on buying one later to support the author as well, 'cause it is a treasure after all Wink

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It's about self-help books, and I know it would help you a lot given the situations you had, and the possibilities you might encounter sooner. It is kind of odd but the book has too many interesting inputs in it.

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