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'Poverty is like punishment for a crime you didn't commit.' - Eli Khamarov.

This is truth OP. This year was pretty good for Jeff Bezos, he was making a lot of money but according to him, nothing is never enough and he decided to cut fees for amazon affiliate members while his profit was skyrocketing.
This year was pretty good for The Walton Family because they made a lot of money via Walmart and other businesses they run, food and other necessary things were the most selling ones in pandemic. And without doubt, Pharma, that is a big business, saw massive profit and will see for a long time.

If you are poor and are happy with it, then why not? What's the purpose of living? To be happy, yeah?
But if you aren't happy with it and just want to give up and adapt on situation, NEVER! Do what gives you a pleasure but don't harms others. This is one life that you have. Once gone - gone forever. No afterlife and bullshits. Never fall on your knees because you didn't achieve your dreams before this moment/seconds.
I want to remind you Thomas Edison's words before he would invented: I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.
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I feel sorry for you. But dont be so negative. At least you have learnt a lot of things which you have sorted out. Just try to do your best, learn more more and more and you will be successful. There are many things to do on this world and as long as we know how to stand up straight, we can do anything we want. 2020 is truly a mess to all of us. I have lost a lot of money during covid-19. Right now im trying to make everything back to normal. Dont give up Wink
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It's not as bad as it could be. It is better to sit at home than to Wake up in a world where WW3 is ongoing and you are called to be immediately sent to a battlefield .
Will be better times in our life and this is a fact. This year has made it clear that you can work not only when you have a full office but remotely, so at least we have a new trend. A lot of people will stay at home, therefore the disease will go away and a lot of positive changes will happen.
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In my opinion you are too carried away, life must be enjoyed. I understand your feelings, I was in your position when in 2012.
I will give you a little advice on what you experience, as follows:
- You go to the dentist and ask for your right to be repaired, if there is no news, you must be proactive.
- Everyone feels a pandemic, calm down you are not alone.
- Jobs can be sought again, most importantly you are healthy.
- There are still many women who are more suitable with you, lest one woman ruin your life.
- Money can still be sought, just as great as Warren Buffett often loses.

Starting from zero is what you have to do, as long as we are alive don't ever give up chasing dreams. As long as you have not given up
you have not failed yet.
legendary
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Life lessons you should still learn is this :

1. You are still alive!

2. You are still willing and capable to work. (Many with disabilities cannot work, even if they tried)

3. Governments look after unemployed people.

4. You are still healthy. (Corona virus is everywhere)

5. You got your faith, so you are not alone.

6. There are many fish in the sea, even for the unemployed.  Wink

7. Friends are more valuable than Girl friends.

Hope this gives you inspiration in this difficult time... I know several people who have clawed back after worst setbacks and they made a huge success of their lives. (desperation triggers creativity)

Good luck and remember there are always people who care for other people... even on this forum. I hope 2021 will be a much better year for you.  Grin
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Well you're not the only one who suffered an unfortunate situation this year, because the virus itself is the worst happened that all of us experience and still continuously existing. But despite of this we need to think positive and learn from those unfortunate situation, many says 2020 is not a good year but for me its a year that we look forward because our daughter is born last february and its a blessing for us.
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Well, this is how life is in the world. Every human being will be given a test by God. And being grateful is the key to success
legendary
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I think it's not only you who feels this. many people lost their jobs, and some even went bankrupt because of this. Well, so far, recovery is still ongoing. it's just that, I think not to continue to decline with the situation. however, we need to adapt to this and start all over again. the crypto world is a perfect fit for such a beginning.
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 there is still no pandemic on january right ? its okay if your dentist postponed your appointment if there are heavy reasons like covid or family problems on his side but if not then you should follow up it and report it , idk if that dentist can still scam next time   .
 
you lost your job on march and that is because of covid ?  well many people lost thier jobs too not just you .

about your girl , you found the wrong one  . she's a gold digger if he acted like that   . so dont cry for her  , there are still many fishes in the  sea  .

lastly , it was your own fault why you gamble and ended up loosing all your savings . why gamble when you dont have a job yet  but you said money is nothing   . so why cry  ? you must be thankful that your still alive instead of complaining
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I am deeply sorry from your lost. Many of us will borrow a leaf from what you have put up here. It is very uncommon to see someone that have gone through all these but still sounding bold and share what you have gone through. Depression is like a sickness that when you don't leave it very fast you might be consumed. I will advice you not to always isolate yourself and be brave to always speak up to people that are also going through hard time so as to encourage them. For almost 10 years I had suffered and couldn't afford a meal a day. Sometime I work around the street maybe I can find something on the ground but I never give up. I strongly believe as far as I'm not dead, there is still hope.
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Sorry to hear about you hard fact of life what you have gone through in this year. I hope you get more strength and overcome all difficulties in life and be back to normal once things settles due to pandemic situation is over. You are very strong as you have accepted it the way it is and want to work and get back on track. There is a saying that when such bad things happen too quickly there is something good hidden behind it. It is that ray of hope you need to catch and figure it out which will change your life and believe it will be only for good. Also, this is the time when your girlfriend if she really loved you should be with you and she left just because she loves money, so you are all safe now because you identified who really deserves to be in your life and who should be out.
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"April ... Girlfriend dumped me for good do to fact i am poor  and she was only interested in money" - you should be happy that this happened now and not after many years or marriage. You should be glad that you are free from that traitor.

Anyway, I'm somehow sure that all your problems are temporary. This of all this situation as a restart of your live. You have an opportunity to start all over from blank page, but with huge bag of past experience. Don't spoil that chance bro.

The best thing you could do right now - set a goal and rearrange priorities. 
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We are living in the same planet, and as you experience hard ships in life, don't forget that there are people who are struggling worse than you. You just need to keep on track so that you will not have a hard time to overcome those trials. It is normal to rest or give up, but make sure that you will recover from that downfall and continue again once you're ready.

Life is not a race, you should not rush it.

Just take it slowly and step by step progress will do. If your problem is in terms of your money or asset, always remember that progress is still a progress. Don't give in making transactions and never think of negative vibes that can affect the way you live your life. Especially that you are the one who are responsible with yourself. Be OPTIMISTIC!
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April ... Girlfriend dumped me for good do to fact i am poor  and she was only interested in money
That's alright, at least you did not ended up marrying that girl because she is not right for you, if she's after your money then forget her.

May - June ... Lost all my savings at the casinos after lockdown do to fact i entered a depression
This is a bad decision gambling can't help up solve our depression and it will make things more complicated and worst. This is the result of thinking under your emotion we always tend to do something out of our control, which is bad.

Well, We all have our own stories of failure, this is very common since we are all human and if you make mistakes you have to bounce back after that. I just hope that you already learned your lesson and you must apply the things that you've learned from this bad experience and use this as your motivation to reach your goal this time. This pandemic is a test of our character, be more responsible and don't lose your track in this market.
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This is the bad result of the pandemic (well, the worst starts here base on your story), and most of the people are experiencing a lot of problem but one thing is for sure, you will survive on that situation.

Look at the good side mate, and I'm happy that you learn a lot from that experience. You should always remember that there's always hope so never stop fighting and never stop learning. Anyway, forget about the girl who are just with you for the money, you deserve someone better.
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Sorry about all the bad things that had happened to you, mate. But our destiny all depends on our actions. You have posted all your lessons that you have learned in your previous wrongdoings. Life is also unpredictable, but if we tend to fight and had a courage to stand up again, then we will survive and move on.

January ... lost my tooth went to dentist ,she should have fix it ,payed money still didn't heard from her not even now
February... pandemic started
March ... lost my job
April ... Girlfriend dumped me for good do to fact i am poor  and she was only interested in money
May - June ... Lost all my savings at the casinos after lockdown do to fact i entered a depression

All those struggles and problems has all the answers. If you lose your job because of pandemic, then find a new way how to survive. If your gf dumped you because of your unstable job, then you dont deserve her. You have family to lean on. And lastly, depression will make your life worst if you dont fight it. Just like what happen, to you. Hope you'll get better and start all over again.
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Obstacles will come in the way of life and we should try to move forward without getting frustrated Those who will leave you in times of danger have never used you for their own benefit. So never take failure for granted. Good times come after bad times Without giving up you will start doing something new as much as you can Be successful However, the year 2020 is having a negative impact on the lives of almost everyone so it is not wise to give up If you do something good you will get back everything that was left to you.
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I believe that if you do good things and do the right thing, nothing bad will happen in your life. And if something bad happens in your life, it's a reason to think about what you're doing wrong.

That's life, people need to suffer or experience struggle to test his strength during downfall. They say life is like a rollercoaster, it go up and down and up and down. You need to deal with that and once you surpass that kind of trials in life then its time for you to relax and prepare for another lesson. It requires a lot of courage and effort for you to overcome those obstacle in all of the aspects in life. Sometimes, you need to take a break and breathe so that you can relax and become more ready once you continue your journey in life. Once you become successful in life and you have a lot of money, don't forget to keep your feet on the ground and help other people grow and encourage them to become successful too.
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Do not care what people think if you are poor ( you do not need friends that judge you based on how much you have ,they are toxic)
True mate. Don't let others limit what you can do and don't let their judgment affect what you can and can't do. It's not only limited to being poor tbh, but it's also being unaffected when they say that you can't do it, but if you trust yourself completely, whether it is a failure or not, just do it. I've had my fair share of being affected by what others have thought of me, leading to a series of really bad consequences that I myself judge to be regrets of my life. Even now, I still get affected, but I try not to, slowly anyway. But try not to be a self-centered ass along the way Grin.

Also, no need to wallow in depression, especially right now where even standing back up is especially hard due to the recent events. You should continue living your life, being broke isn't the end, breaking up with your gf isn't the end, losing your job isn't the end, consider it as a new start.
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January: Export transactions stop because the majority in Vietnam and China 1 week before Chinese New Year and 2 weeks after Chinese New Year are holidays.
February: Getting information on the export of shellfish must be postponed due to the covid-19 pandemic in China. I have 60 tons of shell stock in the warehouse.
March: Pandemic starts to hit my country.
April: Pandemic continues even more victims.
May: China is in green status, requests are coming from China just to keep production running so there is no need to lay off employees.
June: first export of shells to China & Vietnam after the pandemic.

During the pandemic, of course, income dropped sharply and I was committed to keep buying shells from fishermen at reasonable prices according to demand conditions. In my country, the costs of schooling and courses for children remain even though the learning system is online. The key to dealing with all this is the habit of daily living, I do not teach the hedonic lifestyle to the family so that during the pandemic they remain happy at home.
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