Topic: A personal view - page 5. (Read 1308 times)

They do that because they thinks that they can win much money from gambling so they delude themselves. They pretends that they will win from gambling someday so they will still playing gambling without stops because they thinks that they still have a chance to win. That's why we must knows how to control ourselves and always used limitations so we know that playing gambling is just for fun and not have any intention to win because winning will be our bonus. Let them still often say that if they win a huge amount, they will not gamble because that is not important to us. The important things for us is how we can treat and used gambling as it should be so we don't have or face any problems like them. Playing gambling is fun, but behind the fun, we must be aware that playing gambling can cause us becomes addicted to gambling.

Just for the sake of fun and this also depends on how much betting is used to bet.
It would be a different story if you bet a considerable amount and lose, nonsense if you just say it's a pleasure.

There is a limit where the minimum possible bet amount is just to make a pleasure bet,
if lucky it will be doubled and the opportunity to play more without regard to how much profit.

I don't really care about this because it is their right and as long as the activity doesn't disturb other people then go ahead and I quite often see women gambling in my area, it's just that it's done in secret but many people already know about this activity, or also women who regularly buy lotteries or what is usually called togel in my area and it has become a common thing.


Even though many gamblers consider gambling as a fun activity or to get pleasure, it is still not easy to accept losing, but those who gamble, because they want to have fun, will be able to accept it even though it takes time because usually they only gamble using money that they can afford to lose. and that's me because today I just lost a sports bet but that's acceptable because the amount is still within my limits.

I see that most people who win money often continue to use this money to gamble. Few people can spend it in a more enjoyable way unless it is unexpected that they will win large sums of money. For me, I usually use a portion of my gambling winnings for the longterm investment.

Of course I wouldn't like someone to borrow money from me to gamble, and conversely I would never borrow money from someone to fund my gambling, that's my gambling principle. Because I think gambling activities are more about entertainment, not suitable for borrowing money, only playing when you have money. I only lend money to someone or borrow money from someone for life's urgent needs or serious investments.

I always set for myself certain rules on how to bet as well as the limit amount for each bet. I have been following it for a long time, I find it works well for me. And when I strictly follow these principles, I find that I no longer play as crazy and blindly as before, eliminating the feeling of addiction every time I don't gamble.

Indeed, sometimes women have more charisma than men, and also gambling is not only for men, gambling is intended for those who have the money to be able to do it, some people think that women are better at managing finances, so maybe they can manage their finances well even though they like to gamble. but in my opinion, even though that doesn't mean they won't become addicted, of course the opportunity to become addicted is definitely there, especially as we know that everyone is sensitive to money, therefore women can also become addicted and go crazy with the gambling they do if they lose self-control.

In my area there is also a woman who gambles online, and as far as I know her partner also likes gambling online, I can't understand how it is possible that they both like gambling, I'm afraid they will experience conflict when their finances are destroyed and It's a mess too, I'm sure they must have their own egos which may not want to give in to each other. I hope you can still control yourself well, so that something undesirable doesn't happen, because gambling is not an investment.

Women are highly respected in the society for there responsible habits compeard to that of a man, and they usually try to maintain such prestige by not involving themselfs on public gambling. What they do mostly is online gambling, when ever they ask for bookies they want to use it to play online gambling than offline. They are not pretenders but has a dignity and pride they have to cover in the society. If you as a man see any lady who comes to the casino hall to play gamble, you will see such lady as a wayward type, just like they usually call men that gamble too.

Lolz, I never knew such Gamblers are taged notorious gamblers. I thought it was gambling addict or compulsive Gamblers. Anyway I have come across such a situation where a guy is always know for booking down a particular computer just for only his use whenever he comes to play gamble. He will make sure they fund the bet account, he will play and play and play till he exhaust the amount in the system before he will go back home. Although some day are also lucky days to him when he wins big but looses more frequently. I see it as his own way of gambling because everyone must not play thesame way.

Nowadays there is no gender discrimination for gambling everyone can gamble according to their needs and ability. Men and women are keeping pace with each other so I have seen women gambling in many places. Online gambling has become easier for women. Many women enjoy gambling along with housework at home so women gambling is natural.

Yes it means gambling for everyone, and it is true that everyone can gamble as long as they have the money to bet on two possibilities at the end of the session between winning or losing, simply put gambling never looks at whether you are male or female all have the freedom to gamble. But if you are asking something else then yes obviously I would say that gambling is recommended only for those or people who do not have any problems in life especially financial, because honestly lately I see quite a lot of people who come with the aim of overcoming their personal problems such as gambling to pay off debts or gambling to improve their financial situation, that is very wrong because gambling is not a solution because there is absolutely no certainty in terms of the results at the end of the session about winning or losing.

You said that you feel bad or uncomfortable when you lose in gambling but on the other hand you also said that you don't want to stop gambling because this can make you relieved and happy, so maybe I would say that you are not one of the responsible gamblers because you feel bad when you lose, and my suggestion is that if you want to continue gambling and don't want to stop then you have to re-justify your understanding of gambling, you must understand that gambling is always about winning and losing, and losing can never be avoided completely, so the choice may be between you stopping or being able to accept the consequences of losing.

I guess you're familiar with the saying that what a man can do a woman can do better. The world has evolved and gone are those days when it's a taboo for a female to gamble. Now everyone is hustling for the money and ladies have equal rights just the male folks, so it's unwise to think they're wasting their time.

Yes, they're irresponsible for spending all of what they earn on gambling. A gambler should have a gambling budget (normally 5% salary) and work with it.

Gambling is not for the weak but for strong humans, the ones that will be able to withstand the top run and also doing everything within their reach to enable them move higher in the space. Gambling can be fully examined by the pro gamblers in the space, it's doesn't matter the age but what's crucial is the main thing called experience. Both genders can successfully gamble because its becoming clearer as the day passes by. Everyone is equal in the system and it might turn out to be a surprise to see the women doing exceptionally better than the men in the space. I've come in contact with experience gamblers who are women and they're the best.

Those are words that I often hear from many gamblers, they say exactly the same as you said. This is like something that will continue to repeat itself, because it will be very difficult to stop the gambling habit, especially if the person is already addicted to gambling.

This is a story that I recently heard from one of my friends who gambles, actually this is an old experience but this is the first time he is telling it. My friend said he would stop when he had won a large amount, and at that time he luckily got the maximum win from the slot game. After that he stopped gambling, and can you guess how long it took him to stop? yes, only a week. He didn't gamble at all for a week and I thought it would be forever, but what happened was that he played again and that has lasted until now. Even when he told me he would stop, I would no longer believe him because it is something very difficult to stop the habit of gambling, and even if he stopped it was only for a moment like what my friend experienced.

I don't feel bad seeing women gambling in the gambling center because, gambling is not made for only men alone and there are some husband that permitted their wife to be gamble if she have the money and, such woman can reader help to her husband when she win huge amount of money from gambling.

I feel bad whenever I lost in the gambling but I don't want to stop gamble because, it makes me not to feel bad in some things that hot me sometime but the moment I go into gambling, it make me feel relief and to be happy with everybody around me because I don't take gambling as an investment like the way some gamblers took gambling as an investment.

Most gamblers always use this line to motivate themselves and make it appear like they have a target in their gambling business. Unknown to them is the fact that once you are committed to gambling, it becomes part of you and you can only control your involvement and not stop out rightly especially when you succeed in hitting the jackpot. It is the control that makes one able to utilize winning properly and also what differentiates an addict from none addict. I even noticed that those who plans to quit when they win big money never win the kind of money they target, it is always little wins, some loses and such sequence. Huge wins from gambling always come when not expected, that is the strange thing about gambling.

Most people often delude themselves that they could leave old habits just like that especially when it was part of what get them rich, I've heard some notorious gamblers that indulge often say if I win a huge amount I won't gamble again but yet when they do they would only increase their stake and even plan to stake more than they do before.

So yeah most people would say they won't but we all know deep down that we would

And that's what people shouldn't imitate them for doing so. Gambling and asking for a loan shouldn't be a tandem and done by any gambler because you're just pushing yourself too much and giving the bad view about what being a gambler is.

IMO that contradicts. When you're addicted to gambling, you can't manage anything as there's only one thing on your mind and that's to gamble and you won't be able to control that.

I won't also do this.

If you are going to take loan for investing, you might just save your salary and use that.

I don't really care about it, I grew up seeing women gamble in our area, and I think it is normal.
Gambling doesn't have to be just for the boys.

Of course I would feel bad, like it would come up to me that the amount that I've lost could be used in other things.
But honestly there are times that I would really enjoy gambling so it doesn't matter much to me if I lose.

Most of the time I would eat out with my friends or family, buy some things that I like.
I don't get it why people would borrow or take a loan just to gamble, if they couldn't afford it then don't, we should only gamble what we could afford to lose so why would they even gamble if they don't have enough to support it.
Yes I set up a limit on how much I would deposit to gamble, and a timeframe to stay out on gambling.
Yes, I would still continue to gamble maybe the difference is that, when I am rich it is more for fun not for profit.

If there are betting shops that are exclusive to only women, I'm very sure that even though the crowd and number of women who will come to gamble will not be as the number of males gambling in their own place, but you would see women in those places gambling freely without the fear of being stigmatized by men who are still local in their reasoning. Online gambling has even made it possible for women to gamble that is why you even see that there are women in some telegram channels, WhatsApp channels or any place where gambling predictions and tips are being given or discussed.

It's not really crucial at all. What you need to understand is when you should stop. Most of us only stop when we've got nothing left and that's how we're realizing that it's the time that we must stop. Some don't realize to stop when they're winning because the emotions are high and they think that they're at the top of the world thinking that they've got plenty of money and they're not going to lose any moment from that high they're experiencing.

Gamblers only keep on moving when they have money left on their pockets and balances. But when they're out of it, still two things, that's to stop or to continue and have another deposit. These are the realities being set and we're seeing from time to time when we're in such situation as we gamble.

Don't worry about me, as I've said. I am disciplined and I know what I am doing. I've gone through worst experiences about finances and gambling and that had taught me a lot of lessons that I am bringing up to this point of life. I know my limits and that's why whether I set it or not, when I have to stop then I'll just stop indefinitely and that's what I think is good about me. I'm not an addicted gambler and I understand my situation.

We all have different views about gambling, understanding of something among people is on different levels, and I believe that these people are slaves to their level of understanding, if they truly understand what gambling means, no one will dare to risk a lot of money on gambling.

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Poor souls, they must have thought that it would be very easy to get lucky, but they failed to understand that luck doesn't come by every day, it's irresponsible gamblers' way, but at the same time I don't blame them, their mindset is not that great and wise.

The word 'irresponsible to their families' is true, but in the minds of these gamblers, they are probably thinking that they will be able to safe their families if they take huge risks, if something is wrong and your mind keeps telling you that it's right, you will do it thinking it's right....

That's right, this is very important, because with awareness we can stop gambling when we should, such as when we lose, which is what usually makes many gamblers unable to stop, they tend to gamble again by depositing money again and Again, maybe this happens because they hope that in the next gambling game they can get a win that can reverse the losses that have occurred. and of course thoughts like that tend to make us trapped ourselves. We also have to pay attention to this, if we have wrong thoughts then it is possible that in the future we will also be wrong. it's the same as when they get a win, gamblers who are thirsty for victory or still feel dissatisfied, of course they won't stop gambling, in fact, when they get a win, maybe it's time for them to place a bigger bet to be able to get a bigger win, but of course The factor of losing still applies, so as usual, it is very likely that the gambling you do will end in defeat. Whether the bet amount is large or small does not guarantee that you can win easily.
I agree with you, of course, if we have limits then we should be able to obey them and do them, because it is also for our own good primarily.