Topic: A personal view - page 7. (Read 1315 times)

I'm a woman and do casual gambling. It's more common to see women involved in gambling, whether it's physical or online. It's unfair to label us pretenders just because women may not be as visible in public due to societal norms, one of the reasons why I prefer gambling online. Regardless of the gender, everyone should enjoy gambling.

I don't usually watch. I've only seen a few older, unkempt looking women playing slots in the casino but they are in the minority.


I don't see them or I don't pay attention.


Fairly neutral, fortunately. As it's money I take for granted, if I lose it, it doesn't usually affect me. I'm happier if I win.


Like extra money for leisure, going out or dining out.


It doesn't happen to me. No. I don't think so.


In general I respect the limits, what happens is that if I'm betting and I don't win anything at all, I might bet a little more than I had planned, but not much. On the contrary, if I win a big win soon I cash out and leave, even if I've only been there for 5 minutes.


I suppose so, but it is a question of percentages. I would always do it with money that I would not be affected by losing.

Exactly, basically loans are provided only for someone or anyone who is experiencing financial problems in an urgent manner, or simply money loans are more prioritized to be used as an alternative to solve financial problems in life, such as when you are in a situation of need and quickly due to anything like maybe your family member who is experiencing illness or other scenarios, but if you don't have any financial problems and try to make loans as an alternative to finance gambling activities then obviously it is a very bad idea and not recommended and as you said that in the end they will only get into debt.

Yes of course, gambling with money that will not be used for other needs or is money left over from needs is always recommended if you want to get involved in gambling and that does not mean you do or justify all means just to gamble, after all this is an activity that has a high risk, there are already a lot of cases that can actually be used as examples and lessons that many people end up with a downturn when trying to make gambling a place to earn, and also the point is that it is a stupid act and mindset if you put seriousness or hope in a place that does not actually have any certainty.

Cultural factors are the main reason why women tend to hide their gambling activities. In some societies, gambling is seen as men's activity and women are even forbidden from engaging in gambling. These female gamblers prefer to gamble online because it helps them to hide their identity. However female gambling is common in most developed countries where women enjoy equal rights to men.   

Someone might gamble with your one-month salary but that's his level. I have seen rich gamblers who stake more than my one-year salary in bets because they can afford to lose it. But gambling with your one-month salary and chasing losses is a sign of gambling addiction. It is our responsibility to support people who are suffering from gambling disorders in the best way we can. We can advise them and even help them seek professional assistance. They shouldn't be segregated because it could be anybody.

If you gamble with more than you can afford to lose, you will be very anxious and sad if you lose. But gambling within your means is the pathway to fun. Gambling is like buying a ticket to watch a movie in a cinema. 

I spend my money on any need that I have. However, Big wins can be invested in a business or project.

Gambling is for people who have a source of income and not for dependents. Anyone who does not have any source of income shouldn't gamble. Taking loans to gamble is risky because gambling is not an investment. Gambling with borrowed money might be a sign of gambling addiction.

I have a gambling budget that dictates how much I spend on gambling. Immediately my allocated funds are exhausted, I would have to wait for next week to add to my weekly budget. I try as much as possible to follow my gambling plans.

Gambling might end up being a lifelong entertainment for me. I will keep gambling even if I get wealthy, it is just part of my list of pleasure activities.

it's all about personal choice. Some might enjoy it privately, while others prefer discussing it openly. It doesn't necessarily make them pretenders; everyone has their comfort zone

Notorious gamblers vary like some may be irresponsible but others could be struggling with addiction. It's important to approach with empathy rather than judgment, recognizing the complexities of their situations

Of course it stings but i think it's normal to feel bad. Acknowledging the emotions is crucial, whether it's for fun or not

More plays and wins haha Gambling wins are diverse. Some indulge in enjoyment, others prioritize responsible use. It ultimately depends on individual values and priorities and i prefer use my winnings to do it again

Asking for money to gamble can be tricky. Personally, avoiding gambling with debt is a wise choice, ensuring a healthier relationship with those people

Yep. Smart move to get overboard and addicted

Maybe but will not spend those money i worked hard for. Winnigns will do. If there are no winnings then better take a pause

No sane person will gamble with loan money,  because at the end of the day, you will lose the money and become indebted at the end so we have to agree that taking a loan to gamble with is not a welcome idea and such should be discouraged.

Gambling should be done with money that you don't need and should be able to put away for a long time or lose it totally without any feelings of disappointment or discomfort,  but if you take loans to gamble with,  you can forget the amount if you lose it to gambling since there will be a point where you will be asked to pay back such debt

In my country gambling is prohibited, so I don't see women in casinos and I also don't know any friends or relatives who are women and who gamble on casino sites. However, I know women who play the lottery or bet money on snooker or card games... I treat them with the same view I have of a man... nothing different.


Crazy, addicted, irresponsible.


Obviously I feel less happy than if I had won, but saying I'm lying to myself, why???
In the same example as the first question: I also play snooker or card games with my friends, betting money, but the main purpose is to have fun... have a beer and talk. If I lose I'm less happy, but I never need to lie to myself and say it was just for fun, because that's actually why I was there playing. It's the same thing with gambling.... what's your problem with that?

I'm sorry, but the conversation ends here. I'm very sad to know that there are still people who cannot see gambling as a means of entertainment.

1. I don't know what you mean by bet stores as we don't have those, almost every store is a bet store here. But i think we have around 50/50 ratio on women and men gambling. In fact in physical slot machines they are majority and i know personally couple older women who play way more then i do online.
2. I feel sorry for them as addiction is a real problem. Big part of the winnings in my country are directed to help gambling victims. Which some people in here see hypocritical, but i rather see them do that then not. Other way would be just ban gambling and i don't think it's ever going to happen in here. Those people, who want to do that wouldn't get voted in the government-
3. It doesn't feel good to lose, but it's part of the fun not to win all the time.
4. I am using winnings for either investing or living and buying something cool for my kids and my girlfriend
5. I am NOT lending anyone money for gambling, and i prefer people wouldn't lend me money for that if i would ask. That's really horrible idea, both lending and asking. Maybe my friends are smart enough so they haven't even asked.
6. I am watching my budget closely and never go over it. It's my rule nr 1 in gambling. Because i know my gambling addiction kicks in if i ever cross it. That's just how addiction works. It needs absolute rules to keep in check. For some people it could mean never gambling ever, and i totally understand why. Everyone has their own ways to not to get in trouble.
7. I have thought about this. I might quit for a while and have a vacation. At least i wouldn't be gambling anything that takes a lot of my time. As time is money and that's what i am buying with my money.

Wow! That's a lot of questions.

1. Women. I see less of them who are gambling but I guess they have other things to do that risk their money. My view? None. They are just gamblers too.
2. I've only seen one notorious gambler and I do believe they can go as far as selling their properties just so they can chase their losses.
3. I still feel bad. That's still my money. I didn't get it for free so it hurts to see it leaving my account wallet slowly. But, I won't regret it way too much because I was also ready to lose it while I played.
4. My gambling wins were mostly spent on my kids. I took them to the mall, let them eat their choice of food, pay for whatever rides they wanted and just enjoy their day.
5. I would never ever try to take a loan or borrow money from the bank just to gamble. I promised myself I wouldn't do that and thankfully I have been keeping that promise intact for years.
6. I have limits and I think that's important as a gambler. We must have a plan and we cannot just keep on betting because it feels right.  It's part of having fun if we want to prolong the battle and maybe win through rakeback and bonuses.
7. If I get rich, I will prioritize a business and I already have one in my mind. I just lack the resources.

It just doesn't make good financial sense to risk money I don't have.  Asking others to loan you money to gamble seems especially concerning - that's asking for trouble in my book.


Setting limits is always a good idea, even for things you enjoy.   Maybe a weekly "gamble budget" for harmless fun?  As for me, discipline is definitely key in any situation.


If I suddenly came into a whole lotta money, I don't know if gambling would be the first thing I'd want to blow it on. But hey, maybe I'd give one of those fancy, high-stakes game a try, just for kicks! Just once, though - I ain't gonna turn into some high roller overnight.  To be totally honest, I got no clue what Id actually do if I became stinkin' rich.

I do not gamble with debt and that's what I will never do and the same goes for investing. Investing and gambling with the use of debt is a big no for me.

I might understand if people that own businesses and they're asking for loans for expansion and more inventories as that's needed for them to cope up with demand.

But in gambling it's different, that's why I'll never do that. I'm more comfortable to gamble with my own money so even if I lose, I have no obligation to pay anyone.

These are a whole lot of questions and show you are conversant with the forum. Regardless, permit me to answer them in twos on subsequent visits to your thread.

Well, I have seen women gambling physically, only that it is not as rampant as men gambling and it depends on the environment they are in. But at times, it could be that women have a better focus than gambling, but this is a school of thought. In another school of thought, the environment matters so much. Some women may not want to be seen in such places where they could be tagged as gamblers, so they hide from it.

Yet, this does not concern those local women who do not care because it is a norm in their locality. But mostly in an urban area where more civility is seen, women often hide from this and it could only be to avoid stigmatisation. Do they pretend? Yes, they do, because what they could not do offline, they are doing it online. This is simply a fake life.

We should not find any excuse for these guys, and you've said it all, they are notorious. However, I can help them add "irresponsibility" to it because whether you are righteous or not, you may be responsible, and that would be seen in your attitude and character. Can the same be said of the character you explained here? Certainly not, so they should be rebuked in all its entirety.

They are such that makes gambling to be tagged with bad names. They will just be gambling with a lack of common sense and are greedy, and that's why the outcome is often bad for them. I wonder how these people could be useful to themselves, not to mention their families. It's just a pity for them, but certainly, I will not pity them, they are the ones who should turn a new leaf.

maybe they are just trying to hide their image, as far as I remember there is a bad stigma about women gambling in some countries, but for me, seeing women gambling is the norm, throughout my life, I have seen women gambling and I can't fathom why it would be bad for them to gamble.

yeah, they are irresponsible, gambling a monthly worth of money and chasing losses is one of the worst ways you can do as a gambler, it will almost always end with you losing more money than earning them back.

I am not sure why I have to lie, playing the gambling game that you enjoy the most, is fun. while losing money can make you feel bad it doesn't remove the fact that the gambling game you played is fun and you enjoyed it.

if it is sizable enough, pay bills, buy things that I like, save the rest.

Annoyed, I mean, it is annoying when someone asks you for money just to use it for gambling, whats worse is that there is a chance that they'll make it extremely hard for you to get your money back. also, gambling with debt makes me uneasy, so no.

I have a fixed amount of funds that I gamble, and if that runs out, I stop until I save up again.

yeah, but I would most likely do it rarely, because there are things that I would love to do more than gambling.

#When someone approach me to take up some loan and i do know that someone is a gambling addict then it would really be automatically be rejected.
   Its likely that you wont really be getting paid in due time.

#Moderation is the key but not all people would really be having this and this is why they do messed up. This is something that we should really be that
  careful for it to be strictly be implemented towards self because if you dont then getting addicted would be easy.

#If ever i do become rich with gambling then i wont really be that stopping as long i do know on what im doing and i do know
  that when it comes to fund management then this would be always the key.

- Asking me for money to gamble is a waste of time. I do not give money for gambling. That would be me encouraging the addict because it is only an addict that you resort to borrowing money to gamble with.

- No really rules per say, but I have plans and weekly budget. If I stick to it, I have more to gamble with in the coming week. If I default, I have less to gamble with.

- What makes you think that we are not rich and gambling is just a hobby? By the way, what is your definition of "rich"?

I view them as normal people.  I do not think men and women are different when it comes to gambling.  I think both men and women can pretend and hide their image, they are both human after all.  So we should not be sexist when it comes to gambling engagement.


Gambler who bet more than they can afford to lose and does not concern themselves on their family needs is surely to be viewed as irresponsible people.  I feel sorry to their family because they are to suffer due to the irresponsibility of their bread winner.  I do not pity these kind of people instead I despise them.


Nothing, I don't regret or feel remorseful when I lost my bankroll.  I engage in gambling with a mind set that I already lost the money anyway.  I don't feel bad nor lie to myself since I am ready to what ever the outcome of my gambling session.


I give them to my parents to use in our house needs.  It is enough for me to see my parents happy and relief that they have extra fund for the family expenses.



No one asked me this thing but I guess I feel irritated since I do not pester other people for my gambling activity so I feel that I should not be pestered by other people if they wanted to engage in gambling activity.


I do set rules and limits to my gambling activity. I set the target maximum amount to win and I stop when my initial bankroll deposit is depleted.


Of course I will continue to gamble.  There is enough fund to play so there is no reason to stop gambling.

Neither of the two.. what do you mean "pretenders"? Is anyone gonna be pretending on what they really desire for ? Understanding that they've got to pay for their bills and not anyone else? I've seen several women troop into my casino, wagering good funds on virtual games. This whole thing is basically about the person in question...what if the lesser part of women that gamble don't wanna wager online cus they simply don't know how to navigate?
As irresponsible people.

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anything that you do and women can't do that same thing that means the things is not legitimate, moreover I haven't seen anything that women doesn't do. Both gambling, military, these days in some societes there are no much men and so their women are the ones to go for military training same as men. If you are in a society that men are countable they morally threats the men well because they are not much.
So in gambling there is not ban for women to gamble. Women can gamble as long as they have the money..

I do not have a problem with women gambling provided they gamble responsibly. Most times it is not common seeing women in casinos or betting shops struggling with the male counterparts to gamble, they do most of the gambling online. This online gambling has really been beneficial to women, especially the ones who are not comfortable with the society's opinions about them.


I see notorious gamblers as victims of reckless gambling. They are really working hard trying to recover all they've lost, unknown to them that they are causing more damages to themselves. I feel pity for everyone going through gambling problems but will be careful not to offer unsolicited help to strangers.



No one feels happy losing money he did not get benefits from. I am able to put my emotions under control because I spend only the amount I can afford to lose.


A person who asks for money to gamble whether as loans or free money has no control over his gambling habits and this is not healthy for any gambler. I will not give out money to such a gambler.

Women have always been a part of gambling, especially in casinos, even in the good old days women used to play slots, dice, and many more games in Vegas and now everything has become online its hard to know whether the user is male or female and its not necessary too because it doesn't play any role in the game like actual sports where they are separated from men's games for fair results due to the biological nature of physique difference.