I really can't imagine a scenario or fix where miners with more resources don't have more advantage over "the people". Just kinda how these things work. People with access to dozens of GPUs are going to dominate miners with a dual-core CPU. Eventually difficulty will increase and payouts decrease that only a handful of people will be able to mine successfully even WITHOUT ASIC coming into being.
Also, there's something funny about people arguing that bitcoin should be changed to keep some people out for the sake of "the people".
And that said, BFL does look like a whole lotta vapor ware to me anyways.