Topic: After losing did you feel you must return the soonest to win back your losses? (Read 1251 times)
March 19, 2020, 08:18:43 AM
It's normal to feel that way since you are still hot headed or maybe mad after lossing but for most of the time, I still follow the conditions i've set. I prefer taking a break and just come back tomorrow. Like win or lost, once quota has been reached gonna wait for tomorrow. It's kinda better since my emotion has calm down already and has a fresher mindset because I know if I'm gonna comeback right away after I lose, things will get even worst because of emotion.
March 19, 2020, 05:52:47 AM
I found it as one of the most interesting question from this article. http://www.gamblersanonymous.org/ga/content/20-questions
Do you guys have that kind of feeling when you are losing in gambling?
Do you guys have that kind of feeling when you are losing in gambling?
As a gambler, we must be able to stand firm and control our emotions either the situation is a win/win or lose/lose.
Why ? After winning, if you get too excitedm you will rush into stakes, and get rekt back to square one.
If you lose a stake, and got upset and desperate to recover your stakes, you could get further rekt which is definitely unhealthy.
Peradventure you always rush into gambles and got lucky and won, retrace your steps so you can steer clear of avoidable losses.
March 18, 2020, 08:05:53 AM
Some of the questions that you shared on us are not all related to me. As a gambler, of course, I want to win in every gambling sites and don’t want to lose anymore. But it is impossible because we are not sure if we win in every gambling that we played. And it’s nothing wrong if we want to get back our funds, but if we want to get back it is not really sure again if we truly recovered out loss assets. If you experiencing the same situation again and again it is quite sure if you rest in playing gambling first because if not you’ll damage your savings. So that it’s better to rest first before it is too late.
March 09, 2020, 12:36:05 PM
After losing bitcoin in casinos, I regret that I gamble my money online thinking that "What if I just use it in my own needs or wants like food or clothes"
Thats true, in the end we have this feeling of guilt and regrets for losing our money and thinking what if we didnt spend it in gambling but instead use it to buy food, that would be satisfying. Well its a human nature to feel that way but after few days and we recover already, its tempting to gamble again. Im not chasing back my losses because I know its not possible but I do gamble again if im in the mood to do so.I think the reason here is not only human nature but also our initial attitude to the means that we take with us for gambling.
We are suffering and upset about lost money because we were not ready to part with the money that we used for gambling.
Therefore, it is extremely important before you start playing to realize in your head that the money that you take with you is no longer yours, regardless of whether you win or lose.
You must take them with the understanding that you do not care whether you lose them or not, only then you will not regret the loss and you can continue to play with a cold head.
March 05, 2020, 10:42:32 PM
Before I always do that hoping to get back what I lose for that day but suddenly I realize that this is wrong since I repeatedly lose when betting on second time around, that's why now I bet depends on my mode and let the day pass if luck is not on my side.
Having that emotion's will lose you much higher amount in the next more game. Calm your self before playing again dont think about winning ut back when you lost since that is a bad idea you can have by playing. Just play as normal without thinking to win large amount from your lost. March 05, 2020, 10:40:14 PM
Quite a bit but I stopped that bad habit. Yes, bad habit 'cause it might lead to worse cases if I stay still with such habits. And in addition it is a non-stop cycle, because either you win or you lose if you feel the urge of wanted to play more win or loses doesn't serve one thing on your table. IMO, it just an excuse to spend more, to play more, to waste more. Anyway with bad habits like that, and an unorganize mindset it will bring you to more branch worst-case scenario. Better yet be aware of your wrong doings till it becomes too late before you notice that you mess up.
Definitely, it's better to be wise than wait until we experience and learn from our mistakes. We don't need to experience ruining our life before we learn, we need to be matured and educated to see the possible risk and manage that risk.
going back because we loss is a sign of immaturity, that is clearly out of our game plan if we have one, it should not happen and should be avoided with proper self control.
and that immaturity will lead us back in table again even how big we have already lose?because of lack in experiences but as days goes by?for sure we will learn and from our past mistakes and not coming back after losing.
March 05, 2020, 10:31:37 PM
Quite a bit but I stopped that bad habit. Yes, bad habit 'cause it might lead to worse cases if I stay still with such habits. And in addition it is a non-stop cycle, because either you win or you lose if you feel the urge of wanted to play more win or loses doesn't serve one thing on your table. IMO, it just an excuse to spend more, to play more, to waste more. Anyway with bad habits like that, and an unorganize mindset it will bring you to more branch worst-case scenario. Better yet be aware of your wrong doings till it becomes too late before you notice that you mess up.
Definitely, it's better to be wise than wait until we experience and learn from our mistakes. We don't need to experience ruining our life before we learn, we need to be matured and educated to see the possible risk and manage that risk.
going back because we loss is a sign of immaturity, that is clearly out of our game plan if we have one, it should not happen and should be avoided with proper self control.
March 05, 2020, 09:37:17 PM
Do you guys have that kind of feeling when you are losing in gambling?
If you have this feeling then you cannot control yourself, you are the kind that will go all out and will not stop until the last funds were lost,
this is a dangerous feeling if you cannot control it, you will get trap playing nonstop daily, you need to know how to stop and when to stop
or you will get yourself in big trouble.
Even if you have those feeling, you must control yourself, don't let that feeling makes you come back and try to win back your losses because that will lead to another loss. You need to realize that it will be okay if you can take a break after you got to lose because that is necessary to do that to prevent spending more money. We need to know that is what will happen in the gambling games, lose or win is something that we should get. If you win, just quit as soon as possible. If you lose, don't even think back to the games because you don't know how big your losses after that.
March 05, 2020, 05:58:05 PM
Quite a bit but I stopped that bad habit. Yes, bad habit 'cause it might lead to worse cases if I stay still with such habits. And in addition it is a non-stop cycle, because either you win or you lose if you feel the urge of wanted to play more win or loses doesn't serve one thing on your table. IMO, it just an excuse to spend more, to play more, to waste more. Anyway with bad habits like that, and an unorganize mindset it will bring you to more branch worst-case scenario. Better yet be aware of your wrong doings till it becomes too late before you notice that you mess up.
March 05, 2020, 03:35:03 PM
I have issues with those that have that kind of view, when you gamble you are paying for entertainment in the same way that you pay to see a movie or pay for a video game so I do not see where people get the idea to get their money back, if you gamble that money away then you should see that money as gone from the very beginning, this way you will only bet what you can actually afford to lose and you will have no temptation to try to recover it by gambling some more.
The difference here when you do compare those amounts used in gambling and watching movie and stuff which is on the actual or total amount.It cant really be avoided for people not to think about on making money yet they know that gambling and treating it that way wont really be that easy.There would always that kind of impression on where you do always look for making money by winning.This is the main mistake which people shouldnt really be tolerated because these kind of aims will really put you in hard.Dont chase losses and as said when you do play gambling then think it up that those amounts is already gone and dont expect for some return and just enjoy the game. March 05, 2020, 10:49:34 AM
Do you guys have that kind of feeling when you are losing in gambling?
As what I've remember yeah I think I do but it was before when the time I used to play.i think this is one of the reason why everyone falls into addiction, they tend to retieve what they have lost not knowing that it will just worsen the situation or simply increase the amount of your loss.
There's a less chance of someone to get back what his loss and even if you win once you still the loser because the amount of your win is less than the amountr of what you have lost.
March 05, 2020, 10:15:42 AM
Do you guys have that kind of feeling when you are losing in gambling?
If you have this feeling then you cannot control yourself, you are the kind that will go all out and will not stop until the last funds were lost,
this is a dangerous feeling if you cannot control it, you will get trap playing nonstop daily, you need to know how to stop and when to stop
or you will get yourself in big trouble.
March 05, 2020, 09:26:36 AM
Before I always do that hoping to get back what I lose for that day but suddenly I realize that this is wrong since I repeatedly lose when betting on second time around, that's why now I bet depends on my mode and let the day pass if luck is not on my side.
With just a few losses and similar experiences, I believe most people will realize our capital ratio can return to near zero, in other words, we will only continue to lose more if we try to regain the loss but usually, very few people will accept and give up, even if they know they will continue to lose but with the vague opportunity right before their eyes, they will still return immediately as long as they have money. Loss is hard to come back but casinos always create fake hope, stimulating the nature of a player 
March 05, 2020, 09:00:21 AM
Before I always do that hoping to get back what I lose for that day but suddenly I realize that this is wrong since I repeatedly lose when betting on second time around, that's why now I bet depends on my mode and let the day pass if luck is not on my side.
Good thing that you realized it, the kind of actions when you already lose your day and bet back mostly suffered more. Taking a break and forget about your losses will bring you much better overview of your next game plans.Emotions needs being controlled it gives you higher chances to minimize everything, don't believe that you'll be able to recover back if you'll try to
push more, think that there's always tomorrow that might be your lucky day.
in this case I remember the golden rule:
always take a break after a big win or a big loss.
helps the ideas to come back to their correct places.
really useful
March 05, 2020, 08:41:54 AM
Before I always do that hoping to get back what I lose for that day but suddenly I realize that this is wrong since I repeatedly lose when betting on second time around, that's why now I bet depends on my mode and let the day pass if luck is not on my side.
Good thing that you realized it, the kind of actions when you already lose your day and bet back mostly suffered more. Taking a break and forget about your losses will bring you much better overview of your next game plans.Emotions needs being controlled it gives you higher chances to minimize everything, don't believe that you'll be able to recover back if you'll try to
push more, think that there's always tomorrow that might be your lucky day.
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March 05, 2020, 08:29:57 AM
I found it as one of the most interesting question from this article. http://www.gamblersanonymous.org/ga/content/20-questions
Do you guys have that kind of feeling when you are losing in gambling?
I think this is not good mindset because gambling don't have strategy you gamble money to be luck that's why accept when you lose and play again if you feel you are lucky. And don't always think that you will recover your losses and win because that will give you disappointment only. Do you guys have that kind of feeling when you are losing in gambling?
Yes, when we can accept the loss and trying to get out of the gambling places, we will know that what we did is worth it because we don't have to feel another loss. Many people don't realize that, and that makes them continue to win back the losses which they cannot always get. Recover your losses is okay, but you should know and have a limit before you see all of your money is gone. It is better to stop while we still have a chance than trying to recover the losses.
March 05, 2020, 08:07:20 AM
Before I always do that hoping to get back what I lose for that day but suddenly I realize that this is wrong since I repeatedly lose when betting on second time around, that's why now I bet depends on my mode and let the day pass if luck is not on my side.
March 05, 2020, 08:01:52 AM
If you're a big time gambler and you lose big in one shot it is probably yes. Ofcourse the eargerness is there especially if you stick on your pride. You don't want to just let go of your money, you don't want to tell your friends that you lose because they will laugh at you. But if you only lose what you can afford to lose, maybe you'll just let go and just say "I'm giving it to them"
March 05, 2020, 02:08:40 AM
At first yes, the pressure to cover the loss is always strong. However, it's very important to overcome that urge because that could lead you only to even bigger loss and soon you find yourself in a closed circle.
It's better to cool down the head and start again, it's the question of self control. You'll get money with time, not instantly.
It's better to cool down the head and start again, it's the question of self control. You'll get money with time, not instantly.
March 05, 2020, 01:52:36 AM
Every player has his own perspectives when it comes to gambling. Sometimes the pressure of playing again after losing is always there because we have the urge to win back our losses. Unless, you don't have money to play again. But deep inside in our minds, if we can get back that money, we will stop. I guess, that's human nature. But in actual scenario, winning is not always a thing so we have to accept that we will lose more often because we are talking gambling here.
Yeah, the pressure will always be there, it is called gambler's psychology, but also this is apparent in humans throughout history, whether or not it is on the casino table, we always gamble with decisions. Trading especially demonstrates this. You keep losing, and you feel that you have to earn back the money and you cannot possibly lose more right?
But you do!
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