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After losing bitcoin in casinos, I regret that I gamble my money online thinking that "What if I just use it in my own needs or wants like food or clothes"
Thats true, in the end we have this feeling of guilt and regrets for losing our money and thinking what if we didnt spend it in gambling but instead use it to buy food, that would be satisfying. Well its a human nature to feel that way but after few days and we recover already, its tempting to gamble again. Im not chasing back my losses because I know its not possible but I do gamble again if im in the mood to do so.
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It all depends on how much the session exhausted me. If I still have the strength, and my loss happened only at the very beginning of the session, then it is obvious that I will have the desire to return as soon as possible in order to win back. However, if the situation is the opposite, where I lost at the end of the session, then I would rather go out and do not even want to think about the game until the next day.
Whatever you desire to do as long as you are aware of the possible consequences you can push or quit and be back after. Gamblers who keep pushing their luck are engaging to much with this activities, it's not healthy and you have to set aside your emotion and keep yourself cool so you'll be thinking
in the right manner.


You are absolutely right. To win a long distance, we need to keep everything under control, including our emotions and thoughts. However, it is much more difficult to determine the moment when we lose control due to emotional stress. Often, many people simply ignore the fact that as a result of a major loss or a series of minor defeats, they have an irresistible desire to recoup. To continue the game in this state, a person can justify himself as he pleases.
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After losing bitcoin in casinos, I regret that I gamble my money online thinking that "What if I just use it in my own needs or wants like food or clothes" Though after how many days wanna gamble again and hoping to win again.

But that desire to play again will cause losing.  I'm trying to stop myself to prevent more loss.
Of course not because I know the consequence when I do gambling, I'm going back because I want to play again. When you lose it makes you to become more that we need to work harder. It allows us to make adjustments in the way and in which we train and practice. In a lose we are able to identify our weaknesses that need to improve.
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After losing bitcoin in casinos, I regret that I gamble my money online thinking that "What if I just use it in my own needs or wants like food or clothes" Though after how many days wanna gamble again and hoping to win again.

But that desire to play again will cause losing.  I'm trying to stop myself to prevent more loss.
sr. member
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Player are different thinking but I think in this case we are same because if we lost money today when we play gambling and once you play again for the next time you play your thinking about they are high possibility that you win but it is actually wrong because we don't know if we are going to happen we are thinking about what we want to happen or are desire.

Most of the time this is the cause why the gamblers lost a huge money because of that thinking or mindset to recover their losses but it depends to the perspective of the players what they think is true.
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How can you leave if the pressure on my mind to got revenge is huge? Yes gambling also need patience and soemtime that patience gone when your money loss has been so big already and the chance of winning back becoming little. Hard fact but this is the truth. Gambling really pul people into an abyss of no way going out.
It will depends on your mindset already. If your mind is saying that if you lose, you must make a revenge after losing then that will be the one you are doing.
You have set your mind already that if you lose, you will try anything just to get your money back. I can't blame you if that is your mindset but you must know the consequences of it.

Instead of doing revenge gambling after losing, why don't you just try to calm yourself, hang with other people just to release your stress, pressure (like you said) and regret. Doing revenge gambling will give you nothing but another regret. No way going out? It depends on the gambler. Some can go out to the "abyss" that you said with proper help of other people.
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I found it as one of the most interesting question from this article. http://www.gamblersanonymous.org/ga/content/20-questions

Do you guys have that kind of feeling when you are losing in gambling?
One will always have such mind because we are all human and no one want to lose his or her money easily without not having a mind that you have to get your money back and probably make more profit. But this is a mind set of losing more of your money because at that time you won't be able to make an informed gambling decision.
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I think I will come back after I found where is my mistakes?. Some people came again for revenge but not me, think realistic and lock emotion at safe place is key of success. No one want losing his money and need big profit but gambling is not the way, this game and should not involve saving money and emotion.

Thinking logic will help you from another losing in gambling games because you can think that if you continue playing gambling, you will not have a bigger chance to win. You can save your money for another day when you want to play gambling because you don't use all of your money in one-time playing. But it is normal for want to win back your losses, but we need to realize that no matter if you come back to the gambling games, it doesn't help you to get a chance to win.
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I think I will come back after I found where is my mistakes?. Some people came again for revenge but not me, think realistic and lock emotion at safe place is key of success. No one want losing his money and need big profit but gambling is not the way, this game and should not involve saving money and emotion.
When you are not a compulsive gambling, you'll be able to think clear and make the right decision but for people with problem on self control, they'll gamble more when they loses as they think everytime they gamble, they should win, which is a big mistake and a wrong mentality.
I'll be back but not to get back my loses but to play again but this time i'll be more careful and have clearly mind, for no need to play regularly just to win back your loses because possible if you continue to bet then until you lose again. Play if youre ready because if not possible you end up losing, also have discipline to be able to set, and achieve, goals better.
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I think I will come back after I found where is my mistakes?. Some people came again for revenge but not me, think realistic and lock emotion at safe place is key of success. No one want losing his money and need big profit but gambling is not the way, this game and should not involve saving money and emotion.
When you are not a compulsive gambling, you'll be able to think clear and make the right decision but for people with problem on self control, they'll gamble more when they loses as they think everytime they gamble, they should win, which is a big mistake and a wrong mentality.
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I found it as one of the most interesting question from this article. http://www.gamblersanonymous.org/ga/content/20-questions

Do you guys have that kind of feeling when you are losing in gambling?

It sums up everything that the gambler is doing and feeling so far all my answer are no because I'm not gambling for money alone, I do have some methods and sometimes gambling long hours on weekend but so far I'm not feeling all these after gambling or before gambling, I'm ok on how I gamble.
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Of course most of us feel this way but that's when you must control yourself and not chase after losses. So many gamblers fall for this and try and make up losses but most times then not they end up losing a lot more and dig an even bigger hole then before. The best thing to do is walk away and take a break for a few days/weeks and even months after a bad loss or losing streak. Come back fresh and with a clear mind and put the loss behind you, try not to think about it too much, I know its hard but that's the way you can move forward. Not only with gambling but I also apply this to crypto as I could of sold at a certain time but didn't and lost but I move on as there are always more opportunities just like gambling to an extent. 
I feel the opposite, like suppose you had a streak of reds today what is more likely next according to the law of averages another red streak or a green/winning streak? Its a winning streak and I feel like if you stop just after you lost then you will probably feel within yourself like a winning streak was on it's way and I missed it.

Not really I see any problem, suppose I have deposited 10 mBTC and I have lost 6 of it and now I see no problem trying to chase the lost 6 mbtc and if I loose the remaining 4 then obviously I deposited all the 10 mBTC because I don't mind too much loosing all of them while every mBTC is precious and I want to grab it back!
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It is natural to feel that way, especially when you have lost a big amount of money in gambling

for those who are addicted in gambling  . they will comeback , small or big losses  .

there are also people like me that are not addicted but sometimes i have this bad feeling that i got stressed out when i loose  . it can be loss on other things and not just by gambling that i cant accept , resulting for me to try again and again until i got contented or i until i have nothing to bet on if this happens on gambling   .  
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Do you guys have that kind of feeling when you are losing in gambling?
Yes, and I think it is only natural for every gamblers.
Especially to those addicted fellow gamblers. I have this feeling of I need to win back my losses from my previous game. I always go after that winning even if I lose more than I imagine. This is the feeling that is really hard to fight if you are really into gambling.
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It is natural to feel that way, especially when you have lost a big amount of money in gambling but, it is better to consider the important things that might get affected when you make a decision to play again and risk your stakes. I think, it is a natural instinct of humans on wanting to win back opportunities we have lost not only in gambling but, it could also be applied in our daily lives. When I lost in some simple gambling, I would always think of the things that is more important than waging my assets and more often I would decide to stop. I think, when we lose we tend to be more focused in that area and often exclude other important things than it such as in gambling.
legendary
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That is normal I think, for sure every gambler feels the same way. But coming back over and over again after losing every single time is not healthy anymore. Your pride now eats you since you are manifesting that you can't accept defeat. It will only make your situation worse because impulsive actions like that will not bring you good things. As a gambler, learn to rest when you are having an unlucky day Cheesy. Be patient!
Yes, the hole keeps getting bigger and bigger as you try covering the hole each day. It's like you had a 0.01 BTC hole initially and you are digging it deeper by another 0.01 in hope of getting the earlier 0.01 lost and for some people they might actually win and cover their hole but then they will get greedy and dig a new hole very soon Grin.

Yes, resetting is important because you must be aware that if things are not working for you and you are just loosing then there is no reason you will win if you bet more. As a routine gambler I do understand the urge we feel for gambling more to cover up the losses but the option way is just control yourself and stop for those days immediately.

Awareness reset is needed to avoid a very likely next loss and not to increase money losses. Of course, this is very difficult and many people make the mistake even in such a way that they place larger bets to regain the loss faster. Unfortunately, it usually ends up by multiplying the loss.

That is why budget planning is very important. Even before starting playing we should determine what loss is acceptable, and at what level we definitely have to end the game. If someone adheres to this rule, he will definitely avoid many problems and above all, he can avoid many large losses.
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I found it as one of the most interesting question from this article. http://www.gamblersanonymous.org/ga/content/20-questions

Do you guys have that kind of feeling when you are losing in gambling?

I saw so many questions on this site, that honestly I didn't answer any. In my case I am in the world of sports betting for fun, of course in this process I make money. But I put it in my head that I am in this world of gambling for fun, when I lose I am not angry because it is part of the game. Maybe it is because as I did not create expectations of winning a lot of money with gamble, losing does not affect me psychologically
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Yeah always feel the same thing when I lose in certain gambling. When I lose I am having bit of rush to go back again to the gambling place and try to win back my loses.

I know its bit hard to claim or win it back but the bigger your loses the urge or pressure increases too that lead to addiction.


And if you lose in some gambling games, it is better to stop and leave the gambling games while you still have time to leave and don't ever think to continue the games. Your chance will reduce because your mind will think about how to get your money back, and you can lose your control in the gambling.

How can you leave if the pressure on my mind to got revenge is huge? Yes gambling also need patience and soemtime that patience gone when your money loss has been so big already and the chance of winning back becoming little. Hard fact but this is the truth. Gambling really pul people into an abyss of no way going out.

Then you should release your feeling, so you don't have revenge and come back to playing gambling. When you have that passion, I think you will want to go back over and over, and you want to recover your losses. You know that recovering the losses in gambling will not easy, and if you lose control over your body and mind, then you will lose everything you have. That is the fact, and we should try not to lose control of gambling so we can get out of gambling before we lose so much money.
sr. member
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That is normal I think, for sure every gambler feels the same way. But coming back over and over again after losing every single time is not healthy anymore. Your pride now eats you since you are manifesting that you can't accept defeat. It will only make your situation worse because impulsive actions like that will not bring you good things. As a gambler, learn to rest when you are having an unlucky day Cheesy. Be patient!
Yes, the hole keeps getting bigger and bigger as you try covering the hole each day. It's like you had a 0.01 BTC hole initially and you are digging it deeper by another 0.01 in hope of getting the earlier 0.01 lost and for some people they might actually win and cover their hole but then they will get greedy and dig a new hole very soon Grin.

Yes, resetting is important because you must be aware that if things are not working for you and you are just loosing then there is no reason you will win if you bet more. As a routine gambler I do understand the urge we feel for gambling more to cover up the losses but the option way is just control yourself and stop for those days immediately.
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Gamblers would more likely go back right away to regain their loss. But that is simply frustration and greed. It would be better to rest for a while or return the other day in order to calm your feelings down that would affect your decisions while playing. Do not let your feelings affect you as you gamble because it would more likely result to bigger loss. It has something to do with "not your day" to gamble phrase.
It's a normal feeling for any gambler because no one wants to lose , so at every loss , you try to make sure you win back your money. This most times usually leads to more losses. Because you are under tension and very anxious of winning back your money. Winnings mostly don't come under pressure.
Although it does not happen all the time, but luck is the main thing in gambling. The problem is that not all people are lucky enough to be able to make a comeback after a huge loss.
Well, In any gamble is always depends how much you have exhausted to the game, I personally always have a thought of 50/50 chance to win or loss as a gambler. And i think one don't need to be emotional when it comes to this aspect, You need to compose yourself and think positive whenever you found yourself losing. Remember losing is not the end for success, you just have to restrategise your plans and come back fully to work things out to avoid future losses.
Being emotional cannot be avoided because you have lost something. What we should give focus is how will you act after a loss or how will you mage the loss.
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