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Basically addiction changes person mindset and they don't just seem to gamble for fun but rather become condition where someone only thinks that gambling is the main priority that they must always do and all of that is for satisfaction in achieving victory and greater victory, curiosity and emotion will always be the driving force for someone to continue gambling non-stop even though they have won or even experienced consecutive defeats.
Addicts of anything are not in the right mind already. It is like they have this itch in their brain that could only be overcome if they do whatever it is that they want to do and they might grow frustrated if they don’t do it. They are not logical anymore at that point. The gambling addicts I know accompanied/amplified their gambling addiction with liquor problems as well and god knows what else.
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criminal cases due to gambling addict are always there at all times.
Like I said they are not in their right minds and most of the time probably drunk and uncoordinated. When they lose, they might be frustrated and lash out on someone which is just disappointing and scary for other people. This type of addicts need to be helped immediately and must be isolated from others until recovered.
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So the best thing for him to do right now is to take a break from gambling for a while and try to forget about the entire figures and accept the fact that casino always wins.

Such cases is as a result of uncontrollable gambling habits, some people can't give accounts of their activities in gambling because they are addicted and already see it as a means of income and they go as far as making sure they hit their targets and when they don't they chase losses by doubling their money and all that and it's all circled around the same routine of activities. And taking a break sometimes would be hard for him because he's stucked to it already and this takes time to get over with, this is a more reason gambling with what you can afford matters but sometimes setting a particular bankroll for it disciplines you not to go off plans.
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Majority of the problem that gamblers face is caused by greed. The mindset of wanting to make more money even when its obvious that the house always wins is thrilling. The end result majorly ends with regret because the game is based on luck system of determining the wining and the probability of beating the house is very low. One of the drive that let gamblers gamble even when they are on serious profits is that fact that, they consider a day like that their lucky day and hopes the luck continues. Situation like this have in time passed urchered some gamblers into hitting the jackpot and anyone with such experience would definitely play until they have exhausted all they have.
The mindset of wanting to make money from gambling will always be there but if we can control ourselves especially our minds, that will not happen because we know that will be difficult to do. We can avoids the temptation from gambling and can stop gambling as we want as we don't want to see the big lose. The house will always win huge money than the gamblers so gamblers must know how much money they can use to gambling. Gamblers must know that when they win, that will not gives more winning to them so they must quit gambling and enjoy their winning. No need to keep playing gambling and hopes to win more huge money because we don't have a big chance to get it.
Many gamblers sees gambling as a place to constantly make money and that is a wrong mindset, they'll become greedy and start chasing loses which always results to addiction. If a gambler doesn't structure his gambling habit, it'll be easier to become addicted and eventually becomes a degenerate. The answer is to learn a strategy for responsible gambling which will always serve as a reminder anytime the urge to gamble irresponsibly occurs. My strategy is never to chase loses or use wins to continue gambling, I will only use the bankroll that is budgeted for gambling. I can slightly increase the bankroll which must still be amount that I can afford to loose rather than using wins to gamble.
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Yes you are right.
Addictions is not about winning or losing, it's about to satisfy the urge of gambling. That is why most times that one is not busy they always gamble to keep themselves busy. But it's not everyone that gamble during their free times that is addicted actually. Addiction is just like gambling all the times or a gambler that can not stay a single day without gambling (even ones). However the worse sets of gamblers are the ones that also go ahead to borrow money to satisfy there urge of gamble. Although, I do not think that every addicted gamblers enjoy every of their time while they gamble.
I completely agree, I think that addiction reaches a level where players are always looking to gamble in any way possible, sometimes I have realized that they do not care about winning a lot, no, what matters to them is being there as if it were the only entertainment in the world and if they do not do it anxiety overcomes them and they begin to act in external ways, all addiction is harmful , they do not sleep well, they do not rest at all, all the time they look for money to be able to gamble , the bad thing about this is when they have nothing left, some end up stealing and that is what is not wanted.
Basically addiction changes person mindset and they don't just seem to gamble for fun but rather become condition where someone only thinks that gambling is the main priority that they must always do and all of that is for satisfaction in achieving victory and greater victory, curiosity and emotion will always be the driving force for someone to continue gambling non-stop even though they have won or even experienced consecutive defeats.
Negative impact of the attitude that grows for gambling addict will always harm anyone, whether it is themselves and also the people around them, indeed at first they may ask for more loans but in the end crime becomes the only shortcut to get money more easily, criminal cases due to gambling addict are always there at all times.
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So most time after seeing the dark side of gambling, most gamblers usually develops that urge of wanting to get their losses back and more . Which may bring out the urge of gambling without knowing when to stop , and most time can need to reckless manners of gambling,  so addiction not something just happen once is base on experiences and ones mindset.
That is a common mistake, and I think we all have gone through something like that at some point, chasing losses, and those who haven't done it, well, I truly admire you, things are very tough when something like that happens, I personally am a person who has gone through many mistakes in the casinos and this has made me learn almost by trial and error and through mere experience, and although I am not a player who makes very big bets, I can say that I have an idea of ??how this works, that is why this type of error of chasing losses in casinos can cause imminent addiction.
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Yes you are right.
Addictions is not about winning or losing, it's about to satisfy the urge of gambling. That is why most times that one is not busy they always gamble to keep themselves busy. But it's not everyone that gamble during their free times that is addicted actually. Addiction is just like gambling all the times or a gambler that can not stay a single day without gambling (even ones). However the worse sets of gamblers are the ones that also go ahead to borrow money to satisfy there urge of gamble. Although, I do not think that every addicted gamblers enjoy every of their time while they gamble.
I completely agree, I think that addiction reaches a level where players are always looking to gamble in any way possible, sometimes I have realized that they do not care about winning a lot, no, what matters to them is being there as if it were the only entertainment in the world and if they do not do it anxiety overcomes them and they begin to act in external ways, all addiction is harmful , they do not sleep well, they do not rest at all, all the time they look for money to be able to gamble , the bad thing about this is when they have nothing left, some end up stealing and that is what is not wanted.


In my own experience, what usually bring addiction is ones mindset, having the mindset of trying to get rich through gambling within a short period of time .

So most time after seeing the dark side of gambling, most gamblers usually develops that urge of wanting to get their losses back and more . Which may bring out the urge of gambling without knowing when to stop , and most time can need to reckless manners of gambling,  so addiction not something just happen once is base on experiences and ones mindset.
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Yes you are right.
Addictions is not about winning or losing, it's about to satisfy the urge of gambling. That is why most times that one is not busy they always gamble to keep themselves busy. But it's not everyone that gamble during their free times that is addicted actually. Addiction is just like gambling all the times or a gambler that can not stay a single day without gambling (even ones). However the worse sets of gamblers are the ones that also go ahead to borrow money to satisfy there urge of gamble. Although, I do not think that every addicted gamblers enjoy every of their time while they gamble.
I completely agree, I think that addiction reaches a level where players are always looking to gamble in any way possible, sometimes I have realized that they do not care about winning a lot, no, what matters to them is being there as if it were the only entertainment in the world and if they do not do it anxiety overcomes them and they begin to act in external ways, all addiction is harmful , they do not sleep well, they do not rest at all, all the time they look for money to be able to gamble , the bad thing about this is when they have nothing left, some end up stealing and that is what is not wanted.
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Gamblers think that life is ending and there is no hope to live after they lose some funds and lose their hope. Why they can't think about how they earn those lost funds? They are very happy when they are winning but when a suddenly small loss they face they lose hope and consider themselves like they are nothing and are zero. Every gambler makes a lot of money but due to their greedy nature they loss it. Just like in the story same thing happens he wins a huge amount giving a handsome fund to his mom and charity but when he loses his profits he becomes sad. I think we need to grow as a professional we can make again money after losing but the basic thing is to believe in yourself, when you believe yourself and on your capabilities, you can do anything that comes your route.
As a gambler you already know what is involved in gambling, its neither you lose or you gain, if you have depression whenever you losses gambling that means that you loss what you cannot afford to loss, I know very well that some people do losses in gambling because of wrong prediction and speculations, but as for that, you don't need to panic when you lose that's why is good for we to gamble with what we can afford to lose, because if we gamble with we can't afford to lose it will disturb us when we lose, gambling is risk and their is no assurance that you will win in gambling, but their is 80% sure that you can lose, that's why is not good to be desperate.
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It's okay what he's doing that when he wins a large amount of money, he hates it and buys the things he needs and also gives to his parents. That's why what happened was like a vice that magnetized him to always go back and forth to the casino to play gambling.

And in fairness, the amount of money he brought into the casino is also the same, and it can be said that if he has the guts to bet such an amount and if luck is in his favor, it will definitely be considered a jackpot. I hope he has self-control and discipline in such a habit he does.
But if he can calculate between the money that he brought into the casino with the win money, he will see that the money will be bigger than the win money. He needs to realize that winning in gambling is difficult so no matters if he deposit more and more money, that does not guarantee him to win in gambling.

And when he wins huge money, it is better he cash out immediately and quit gambling to avoids the intention to keep playing gambling and chase more winning.

If he is lucky and win the jackpot, that will be a life changer for him to better because he can win huge money that he can use for many things.
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Majority of the problem that gamblers face is caused by greed. The mindset of wanting to make more money even when its obvious that the house always wins is thrilling. The end result majorly ends with regret because the game is based on luck system of determining the wining and the probability of beating the house is very low. One of the drive that let gamblers gamble even when they are on serious profits is that fact that, they consider a day like that their lucky day and hopes the luck continues. Situation like this have in time passed urchered some gamblers into hitting the jackpot and anyone with such experience would definitely play until they have exhausted all they have.
The mindset of wanting to make money from gambling will always be there but if we can control ourselves especially our minds, that will not happen because we know that will be difficult to do. We can avoids the temptation from gambling and can stop gambling as we want as we don't want to see the big lose. The house will always win huge money than the gamblers so gamblers must know how much money they can use to gambling. Gamblers must know that when they win, that will not gives more winning to them so they must quit gambling and enjoy their winning. No need to keep playing gambling and hopes to win more huge money because we don't have a big chance to get it.

It's okay what he's doing that when he wins a large amount of money, he hates it and buys the things he needs and also gives to his parents. That's why what happened was like a vice that magnetized him to always go back and forth to the casino to play gambling.

And in fairness, the amount of money he brought into the casino is also the same, and it can be said that if he has the guts to bet such an amount and if luck is in his favor, it will definitely be considered a jackpot. I hope he has self-control and discipline in such a habit he does.
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Majority of the problem that gamblers face is caused by greed. The mindset of wanting to make more money even when its obvious that the house always wins is thrilling. The end result majorly ends with regret because the game is based on luck system of determining the wining and the probability of beating the house is very low. One of the drive that let gamblers gamble even when they are on serious profits is that fact that, they consider a day like that their lucky day and hopes the luck continues. Situation like this have in time passed urchered some gamblers into hitting the jackpot and anyone with such experience would definitely play until they have exhausted all they have.
The mindset of wanting to make money from gambling will always be there but if we can control ourselves especially our minds, that will not happen because we know that will be difficult to do. We can avoids the temptation from gambling and can stop gambling as we want as we don't want to see the big lose. The house will always win huge money than the gamblers so gamblers must know how much money they can use to gambling. Gamblers must know that when they win, that will not gives more winning to them so they must quit gambling and enjoy their winning. No need to keep playing gambling and hopes to win more huge money because we don't have a big chance to get it.
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Well I heard almost the same stories happen to everyone heck even myself know the feeling I am also ex-Degen hahahha. I am go all in in ICO IDO and some community ventures in total maybe 10K back in the 2021 and lost all of it because the bear market. All my coin/token that I invested before have gone puff and some of the founders are missing. All hard earn money gone and now I am start from zero again.

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Yes, you are right, almost everyone has such a story, when it was not yet clear that holding altcoins is a very bad idea. If you want to choose a coin for a long-term hold - it is only bitcoin, everything else can be used only for short-term and medium-term trading, but in no case should you allow yourself to enter a bear market with these tokens, otherwise be ready to fix losses. But to understand this, you need experience and of course your own personal experience, because it is very difficult to learn from other people's mistakes, such lessons are almost not learned...
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At the beginning of his all I can say is that luck will approach him when he plays gambling. And apart from that, the few times he was able to win a large sum of money, from what I saw, he has become a vice, and it can be said that he is addicted to gambling.

If he doesn't help himself to reduce that addiction as well as his greediness desire, I won't be surprised that in the end he will end up with nothing, just don't come to the point where he can sell all his properties. Because what is happening to him is clearly a kind of gambling addiction.
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Well I heard almost the same stories happen to everyone heck even myself know the feeling I am also ex-Degen hahahha. I am go all in in ICO IDO and some community ventures in total maybe 10K back in the 2021 and lost all of it because the bear market. All my coin/token that I invested before have gone puff and some of the founders are missing. All hard earn money gone and now I am start from zero again.

Oh if you guys also interested in sharing story or watching other people stories you guys can check here https://x.com/coinfessions
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What exactly do you think we call this type of gambler? For he is not only addicted to gambling, but he seem to be also addicted to buying stuffs he obviously does not need, and absolutely not interested in..

Again, alot of money can be made through gambling if one is lucky, but it also can destroy the person if he or she does not, or fail to control him or herself..
Anyways, lets discuss about this, feel free to put your comments below.

At least he took the first step, which is to acknowledge that he has a problem.

However, I wonder what his real reason for saying this is:
- To seek help, or;
- To gain visibility/commotion and perhaps more resources to maintain his addictions!?

I prefer to believe in the first option.

The fact is that no one can get rid of an addiction at the level of severity that he has reached. Seeking professional help is essential and the support of family and friends would certainly help him a lot to keep his mind off the addiction between sessions with the psychologist.

Taking up other hobbies, such as music, is an excellent option... learning to play a new musical instrument would take up a lot of his time and is certainly something enjoyable.

Anyway, anyone can quit an addiction, they just need to have the will, seek professional help and be surrounded by people who help them move in the right direction.
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Anyways, lets discuss about this, feel free to put your comments below.
That's the power of greed, although he won huge amount in short time but he became greedy and that's why he lost all the money that he won in gambling. Not only him but there are many such people who make some money in gambling and lose more than that only because their can't control their greed. Such type of people should definitely learn about gambling responsibility to be safe from such huge losses.
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Speaking from experience, you must be careful when you are winning because it comes with a lot of temptation to continue playing. Gambling has a way of giving you money and taking x5 back from you, this might include the money you have worked hard to get. Losing your hard earned money isn't really pleasant and it might ruin you mentally if it happens continually. It's important to take breaks from it when you are winning Because if you keep pushing your luck you might end up losing everything you have won .
I have a tradition that I have mentained lately which is to back off once I win 1.5x of my gambling budget for the day, this way I always make a little progress each point in time, since I know very well have gambling work's and what to expect in the First few game's, we have to be very Smart enough to be able to beat the House when it comes to first time gambling on a casino, because your First few games are are most luckiest game's and what you do at that point determine how you end your gambling journey, but chasing your winning because you get lucky on the first few game's is also a bad approach.


Take your winning and walk away for some time, and then return back, but regardless how hard your true, the house will still be at advantage all the time, so just gamble with amount you can afford to let go of any time the loses comes.
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But we know how the temptation from gambling can make us still sit in the casino and keep playing gambling after we win much money. We will not realize that if we win, we must stop gambling and leave the casino instead chasing more winning. Gambling can gives you the win and some money but if you don't realize when you must stop gambling, you will still playing gambling and not think about quit gambling. A wise gambler will know what he must do whether he lose or win and not trying to keep playing gambling if he thinks it is enough. He will stop gambling and not takes a look back because he knows that gambling can make him return and keep gambling.

Majority of the problem that gamblers face is caused by greed. The mindset of wanting to make more money even when its obvious that the house always wins is thrilling. The end result majorly ends with regret because the game is based on luck system of determining the wining and the probability of beating the house is very low. One of the drive that let gamblers gamble even when they are on serious profits is that fact that, they consider a day like that their lucky day and hopes the luck continues. Situation like this have in time passed urchered some gamblers into hitting the jackpot and anyone with such experience would definitely play until they have exhausted all they have.
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In my opinion, this is a story about the need for diversification in the financial sector.

The player was very lucky and won a large sum of money. This is, of course, a joyful event. But why didn’t he put part of his winnings into a bank deposit? Didn’t buy Bitcoin and Ethereum? Didn’t buy stocks and bonds?

In addition, this player, as far as I understand, has no idea about financial literacy. He doesn’t distinguish between assets and liabilities. Why did he buy himself video game consoles? This person would benefit from reading Robert Kiyosaki’s books. I’m sure that it will bring him tangible benefits. In addition, he probably needs the services of a psychiatrist now to get rid of his gambling addiction.

I wish this person more awareness and consistency.
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Speaking from experience, you must be careful when you are winning because it comes with a lot of temptation to continue playing. Gambling has a way of giving you money and taking x5 back from you, this might include the money you have worked hard to get. Losing your hard earned money isn't really pleasant and it might ruin you mentally if it happens continually. It's important to take breaks from it when you are winning Because if you keep pushing your luck you might end up losing everything you have won .

Well  from what I understand  from the guy in the story, he is kinda smarter than we might think. The action of deleting his casino after realizing a huge win is kinda smart move. I know of few person  who have made millions in one sitting and still loss it all to gamble. And making purchases could be a way of not spending the money back into gamble. So yes he might be addicted but not at a critical stage. There are chances for recovery. Knowing fully well that gambling can not be all that profitable, one can set a stop loss slightly above the initial amount he started with so that if he fall back, he will not end up exhausting everything. Though there are times where this strategy won't work, and that is when the better keeps losing from his first game till he finally exhausts his money for gambling.
But we know how the temptation from gambling can make us still sit in the casino and keep playing gambling after we win much money. We will not realize that if we win, we must stop gambling and leave the casino instead chasing more winning. Gambling can gives you the win and some money but if you don't realize when you must stop gambling, you will still playing gambling and not think about quit gambling. A wise gambler will know what he must do whether he lose or win and not trying to keep playing gambling if he thinks it is enough. He will stop gambling and not takes a look back because he knows that gambling can make him return and keep gambling.
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