There's plenty of providers out there for VPS, but you may want to consider a hosting service like node40. They can be a bit pricey, but very stable and easy and offer pretty much everything you are looking for.
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No, i am not interested in node 40. The cost is good for a single node, but if you go up it cuts a lot of your profit; even with my skills i managed to hold a certain amount of nodes for a long while (I didn't begin today ). I want to merge nodes to low costs and stress and not viceversa
OFC if they can do a personalized deal it's totally different!
splawik21 has the best cost/service that I have found. I tried Node but they are way too expensive (priced in dash). Really no way to beat his price and service. (priced in USD, paid in Dash. Around $10 a month)