That happened to me on more than a few occasions so I hopped off the doge looking for a more promising coin and found USDe.
Don't get me wrong, the DOGE is amazing and I'm glad I got in early. It was very fun, funny, good community and popular, but once I lost ~20% of my coins on more than one occasion it was time to bail
much shibe
many fun
so love
wow
doge will always have a place in my heart, I hope it does as well as USDe ^_^
If it's stuck at 0 confirmations in your transaction history then that means you didn't include a fee and your wallet just broadcasts the shit over and over. The address should still have the dough.