unfortunately many gamblers ignore this most important understanding like luck is always a very important thing in gambling because basically gambling is just for fun and if you get a big win its just like luck and often gamblers ignore something very important because they are defeated by their own emotions and failed to control himself after his emotions took over his mind. so its good if we always have a plan about how much budget to bet and what amount of loss is considered unlucky and after that, quit for a moment to bet or plan what the maximum winning limit is so that we do not have greedy thoughts. in this scenario it not mean having a target winning limit but just planning a winning limit that when we do not reach that limit there is no need to chase it and if we have reached the winning limit it would be better to consistently quit gambling and enjoy the win.
If we can think carefully and have a clear plan when we want to gamble, that's good. Unfortunately, not many people can control their emotions and themselves when they engage in gambling activities and it is not easy to set or plan losing limits. This depends on a person's character and attitude and also their level of education and many other factors.
In my opinion, most gamblers or people who gamble for the first time want to try their luck, so from the start they don't get used to making careful plans to limit themselves and their losses. Therefore, most gamblers are often not used to careful planning for their gambling activities.
First, the question is, what are we talking about in this gambling. whether a type of game based on luck, or gambling that involves insight, experience, even knowledge. If so, we can think carefully and make a clear plan when we want to gamble. For me there are two scenarios in this discussion, if what I play is a slot game. I don't have a plan or concept when I want to have fun with it, but if the betting is football or sports, I will think carefully and create a clear scenario when I want to gamble.
for example, I will bet on a parlay option, or a single bet. and for sure, there will be scenarios that I have to do first before placing a bet. I mean, to minimize losses, there are several things I have to do. in short, conduct research and analysis. different from other games such as slots, because this game is based purely on luck, I will only play as I am ready to lose. because in the scenario, the probability of winning that I have is lower than the loss that I will receive.
Regarding emotions, this depends on each gambler. It could also be, as you said, that this is related to the character and attitude of each gambler. Well, at first we also did the same thing as you said in the last point. The first time we gamble, we are interested in trying our luck without thinking about the concept or planning something. but gradually, there are those who learn from their experiences and there are many who don't care. The point is, in gambling there are two possibilities, if we don't win it means we lose. The problem is whether we stop it or continue.