There is probably 5 big red signals in the main message by OP, but I would like to focus on one thing. If anyone tells you that they put ALL their savings into something, and give you some speech about how good their intentions were (pay for kids futures, pay for moms medical, pay for wife's chemo whatever) that is usually either a lie, or move by a moron. I am sorry but if you really believed that babydoge will be the thing that will help your kids go to college, then you probably deserve to be a failure.
I am not saying that you should always be capable of paying for it, maybe you won't, maybe they will have to work, that is not a "problem" in the sense that people do that and it is common, but if you really REEEALLLY believed that your babydoge would pay for it? Then I am sorry but you are beyond saving. I am not even getting into the fact that you got scammed probably the easiest way I have ever seen.
Unfortunately this seems to be the case, stories of people losing their money by investing in a bad coin or losing their coins to a hack are a dime a dozen and we have seen them too many times already, but when they include a story like that you know that they will ask for money and he did, I even indicated to him this is against the rules of the forum and that part of the message is still on the OP so at this point I tend to believe he is lying about that part of the story.