Topic: Back to loss glory - page 2. (Read 350 times)
IMO, each different stage will have contextual circumstances for people to adapt to it, the will to overcome life circumstances or accept it is up to us to decide. So, ignoring the story of the circumstances that pushed us into difficult situations, what is the determination that we are showing? I myself was born into a family where I always feel proud and grateful, even though I receive many judgments from society, but that only motivates me personally to try to find the truth of my life. In life, the country I live in also has to go through many wars to be able to maintain peace. And the generation of people who have sacrificed their lives to preserve our country always remembers that gratitude, which is not only expressed through thoughts but also actions by living responsibly for this life. Each person's mission and lessons may be different, but in general, if you throw away personal interests and live to serve society, that is the return that I believe is the most concrete way to express gratitude.
As time goes by, these things slowly fade away and newer things replace them. I'm not saying technology is bad entirely but you'd agree with me that while it has where it's helping humans, there are also areas where it's causing much harm. Children no longer know who an elder is because most of them were not really given the basic home training by their parents. Learning comes not just from reading something new but also from association but these days we find that kids are more invested in the latest trend or swag than they are in learning something worthwhile.
One thing that is certain is, we can't restore the world back to the old days so the best thing is to just flow with the tide.
One thing that is certain is, we can't restore the world back to the old days so the best thing is to just flow with the tide.
Times change & a lot of the time it’s not for the better. We all have the choice to live how we want to but sometimes it seems we have no choice but to go with trend, otherwise we risk making our kids different to their peers which will not help them in growing up.
This is the other side of the serious negative impact of technology on the society at large. Children don't even enjoy the experience of their childhood because they are mostly locked up inside their apartment after school and the closest friend and neighbour mist of them have is the tv. If you've stayed in some residential areas, you will be amazed at how people will be staying together in the same environment without knowing their names. everyone is focusing on his or her a child and if you try to correct another child, it might land you in big trouble.
Truly, a lot has change about children's upbringing.
Truly, a lot has change about children's upbringing.
That was primitive society. However it caused problem many at times if you discipline another child. Some parent do react. Children has caused so much problem between families.
I have listened a LGBT person talking about those times as well, and how homophobia was blatant, which was true. We could argue that old times were always better but we need to also remember our experience was not the same for all people living through those years.
It is very possible those times won't ever come back, but rather than living in the past, we must build an even better future.
We can't say that any era was better than the other because they had advantages or disadvantages that came with them. In the past, young people had a slow knowledge base and therefore they lacked financial prudence and freedom, wealth was only concentrated in the hands of adult working class but now it is not the same with the advent of computer, internet and now digital currency age. Young people are ruling this age from tech, social media, security etc. Investment advantages are all over both for employed and non employed despite the argument that those days had more serene and tranquil environment with no ozone depletion, gas flaring, environmental degradation etc.
Indeed times have changed and society has evolved and we have to change along with the circumstances irrespective of what it feels oritst divergence from the old ways and practices.
Also with the coming of the internet, the world has become a global village with a lot of activities that can help improve the knowledge of our kids even at an early stage, so nowadays, children don't go to the playground anymore, but rather they can spend that time in learning new things online from the comfort of their home and parents this day spend more time with their kids more than those in the olden days
Socialization has many components, one of which is the family where the child develops, and the child lacks the education he needs to adapt to his later environment.
If children have a hard childhood, then as they grow up, the childhood pains awaken in them, and they cry and help them learn many things and many times they fail.
Due to many obstacles in children's childhood, when they grow up to do many things, the causes of disappointment in life cling behind them, due to which they have to face many problems when they move forward.That is why the socialization of every child is very important and through the watchful rain of parents, children can be taken forward, and the future generation can be enlightened.
In today's developed society, people have forgotten to live together, like those who are living separately, as a result of which children can no longer play as they used to, they have to live indoors as a result of their intellectual development.
At present, the problem of child development is being created for a single family, so it is very important to live in a joint family
It is possible to bring children back from the glory of loss by helping them in their proper socialization process by helping them to develop properly and conveying golden glory.
If children have a hard childhood, then as they grow up, the childhood pains awaken in them, and they cry and help them learn many things and many times they fail.
Due to many obstacles in children's childhood, when they grow up to do many things, the causes of disappointment in life cling behind them, due to which they have to face many problems when they move forward.That is why the socialization of every child is very important and through the watchful rain of parents, children can be taken forward, and the future generation can be enlightened.
In today's developed society, people have forgotten to live together, like those who are living separately, as a result of which children can no longer play as they used to, they have to live indoors as a result of their intellectual development.
At present, the problem of child development is being created for a single family, so it is very important to live in a joint family
It is possible to bring children back from the glory of loss by helping them in their proper socialization process by helping them to develop properly and conveying golden glory.
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Comparing the present situation with the past situation can never match. I understand your desire for every child to be able to be raised by their parents behind safe walls. Children are the most kidnapped children (all parents want to keep their children safe) so you remember. Today's society is changing, people's creativity is increasing and people are tolerant and ready to increase efficiency. Remembering my own childhood brings me to tears. In the past there were many single families but in the present time it is not noticed so you must change your goal. Because with the change of time, people are also changing a lot, it must be accepted.
I have listened a LGBT person talking about those times as well, and how homophobia was blatant, which was true. We could argue that old times were always better but we need to also remember our experience was not the same for all people living through those years.
It is very possible those times won't ever come back, but rather than living in the past, we must build an even better future.
We can't say that any era was better than the other because they had advantages or disadvantages that came with them. In the past, young people had a slow knowledge base and therefore they lacked financial prudence and freedom, wealth was only concentrated in the hands of adult working class but now it is not the same with the advent of computer, internet and now digital currency age. Young people are ruling this age from tech, social media, security etc. Investment advantages are all over both for employed and non employed despite the argument that those days had more serene and tranquil environment with no ozone depletion, gas flaring, environmental degradation etc.
Technology moving forward is something one cannot change and actually, even older generations could argue that their times were better even though they did not even have access to Television or to a personal vehicle as our parents did.
Of course, it is expected those who are young can be more skillful with technology they have grown up with it, after all, others who did not are supposed to learn how to use it in their 30s-50s, so they can keep up with the pace of modern society.
I have een many examples of it in college, how teachers of certain age struggle to use tools like Telegram or Zoom.
It's possible when people realize that this age is no longer the kind of type that they wanna live. I think that I am in one of the best eras in life where I was able to see the old times and as well as the digital age. Life was truly simpler before and it was the best feeling, it makes me cry when I remember those days especially kid's days where I don't have to think of responsibilities and bills. Everything is just there and you just have to live and survive and have something to eat, that's it. But today, with the golden age of the digital era, things have been set as a standard like you have to be successful and be an achiever. Anyway, that's their description of life and success but you know that everyone who's giving the precious moments on those old glory days are also successful people for their own thoughts.
Can we go back to those days, and how possible is it ?
The world has changed from that, and society has moved into the era where privacy and minding your business is important. Presently you have no right to scold a child who is not your child, there is even a level to which you can scold your child. The world was not also as terrible as it is today, so then people did not care much about the information that their neighbors had about them and were happy living together communally. The world has changed and there is lesser trust for other people nowadays, communal living is no longer a system and people are encouraged to keep their business to themselves. People no longer even have that time. when we are growing up. we use to have men that always seat in front of their house in the evening either reading newspaper or listening to news with their small transistor radio. there was no small child they can not discipline. some will see you with a ball and started asking about your academic performance.
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This always was an illusion. While this was going on in some parts of the world, other parts were in war, were killing babies through abortion by the millions, were defrauding each other in big ways and small, etc. But even if none of this bad stuff had been happening, people were still dying of old age.
So, what's the purpose of the whole thing of life? We come to life, we live anywhere from only zero to (in a very few cases) 120, and then we die. We take our ideals along with us in death. But even if we pass them on to our children, even the children and their children all die.
What's it all about? What's it all for? The big WHY?
I have listened a LGBT person talking about those times as well, and how homophobia was blatant, which was true. We could argue that old times were always better but we need to also remember our experience was not the same for all people living through those years.
It is very possible those times won't ever come back, but rather than living in the past, we must build an even better future.
We can't say that any era was better than the other because they had advantages or disadvantages that came with them. In the past, young people had a slow knowledge base and therefore they lacked financial prudence and freedom, wealth was only concentrated in the hands of adult working class but now it is not the same with the advent of computer, internet and now digital currency age. Young people are ruling this age from tech, social media, security etc. Investment advantages are all over both for employed and non employed despite the argument that those days had more serene and tranquil environment with no ozone depletion, gas flaring, environmental degradation etc.
I kind of remember those days, I grew up in a relatively small community where people still did not have access to internet. Those were the times if you wanted to watch a movie or play a videogame, you were supposed to go to the only renting place in town and get a VHS for that night.
Those were very good times, that is true, but our own opinions are biased because we all had our positive experiences.
I have listened a LGBT person talking about those times as well, and how homophobia was blatant, which was true. We could argue that old times were always better but we need to also remember our experience was not the same for all people living through those years.
It is very possible those times won't ever come back, but rather than living in the past, we must build an even better future.
Those were very good times, that is true, but our own opinions are biased because we all had our positive experiences.
I have listened a LGBT person talking about those times as well, and how homophobia was blatant, which was true. We could argue that old times were always better but we need to also remember our experience was not the same for all people living through those years.
It is very possible those times won't ever come back, but rather than living in the past, we must build an even better future.
Those days were simpler, right? But times have really changed. It's true, privacy and individualism have become bigger priorities now, and technology has played a big role in that. While going back might not be totally possible, what we can do is find a balance between the old ways and the new. Let's remember the good parts of those days and also adapt to the present reality. It's all about nurturing a healthy and caring environment for our kids.
The world has moved to a civilised form compared to then days. As I was reading your post I smiled because I could remember that then,everyone is watching you closely to correct you on any mistake that you do,especially when you are mannerless,they will help put some manners into you.
Presently,the evil in the world has stolen that unity and love for each other in the society. You will see people with high fences round their houses because they don't want anybody to intrude into their privacy or come home and notice that a stranger beat up their children. It is impossible to go back to such lives because those elderly ones who were more devoted to see that children have good morals and behaves well might have pass on to the other world. Technology has changed so many things and has increased the level of immorality in the world.
Presently,the evil in the world has stolen that unity and love for each other in the society. You will see people with high fences round their houses because they don't want anybody to intrude into their privacy or come home and notice that a stranger beat up their children. It is impossible to go back to such lives because those elderly ones who were more devoted to see that children have good morals and behaves well might have pass on to the other world. Technology has changed so many things and has increased the level of immorality in the world.
Going back to those old sweet glory days is practically hard because the today society is focus on promoting immorality from the so called influential ones or the rich ones as been endorse by the government. So the boy and girl child grow up to adopt some attitude that ordinarily at their age the are suppose not to attain.
Morals are not taught by parents to children anymore, and everybody focus on orientating their children alone which they think is the best way of developing a child to a better standard of good morals.
Morals are not taught by parents to children anymore, and everybody focus on orientating their children alone which they think is the best way of developing a child to a better standard of good morals.
then, it took a community to raise a child. but now everyone is minding his or her business by building houses with fence. this men were either retired teachers or railway personnel's. we need a return of those days, it was more peaceful and sweet. and then, there was no muche crime then to compare now and the whole community was living like a family.
Can we go back to those days, and how possible is it ?
That was when raising a child was community effort and not solely a parent thing but those days are gone and I'm not sure they will come back because they have been taken over by different events. For example the family has move from being an extended family/compound to a nuclear home. Privacy is now the other of the day, back then you can tell what a family is known for, where the father works or retirees as you said and the mother is predominantly a house wife, you can see that has changed long time ago.
Again about privacy, nobody wants you to have a clue on what he is doing, earning etc. The digital space have created opportunity for people to build their finance without support from family members and that makes individualism to increase and secluded lifestyle because you don't owe allegence anymore to those "big uncles ". However the government has to do more these days to fight insecurity which is the effect of urbanization.
I still believe that maintaining privacy but with high moral regards for others in the environment is what is needed for a series, secure society, This is preferable compared to the old communal living, I understand your plight on the need for the general discipline of the child, but also note that lately things are changing and with the rising cases of child abuse a lot of parents prefers to raise their kids within the surrounding of the secured environment where they can keep an eye on the children.
Society is changing and we can't compare the present time with the old days were the level of communal living was high and families mostly lived together compared to now where there is a gap in the line between families and at that sometimes you may not even know your next door neighbour.
Society is changing and we can't compare the present time with the old days were the level of communal living was high and families mostly lived together compared to now where there is a gap in the line between families and at that sometimes you may not even know your next door neighbour.
when we are growing up. we use to have men that always seat in front of their house in the evening either reading newspaper or listening to news with their small transistor radio. there was no small child they can not discipline. some will see you with a ball and started asking about your academic performance.
if they seize your ball, just go home because play have finish that particular day. and if they flog you, you dare not let your parents know. because it means that you have done bad thing, and your parents fit give you additional flogging.
then, it took a community to raise a child. but now everyone is minding his or her business by building houses with fence. this men were either retired teachers or railway personnel's. we need a return of those days, it was more peaceful and sweet. and then, there was no muche crime then to compare now and the whole community was living like a family.
Can we go back to those days, and how possible is it ?
if they seize your ball, just go home because play have finish that particular day. and if they flog you, you dare not let your parents know. because it means that you have done bad thing, and your parents fit give you additional flogging.
then, it took a community to raise a child. but now everyone is minding his or her business by building houses with fence. this men were either retired teachers or railway personnel's. we need a return of those days, it was more peaceful and sweet. and then, there was no muche crime then to compare now and the whole community was living like a family.
Can we go back to those days, and how possible is it ?
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