Topic: BEST ADVICE FOR SOMEONE CONTEMPLATING SUICIDE? - page 3. (Read 500 times)

I think good music helps.
Has a way of ministering to your spirit 

heheheeee,
interesting news bro, that's actually if the subject still have reserves

Well said dear;
That of making sure you aint surrounded by folks that makes you feel depressed is huge.
In the end, i believe all of these contributions will help.
Drugs can only be recommended by a proffessional.

Lol @ vod;
if it's indeed a nonsense, then there's no point beleiving in it.
but i believe life is sacred and do get your point.

Thanks so much bro/sis?

Only if you fight for it 

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If you are depressed - first look left. Then look right. Just make sure that you are not surrounded by assholes that make you feel depressed.

But more seriously...

When things get tough is usually when you learn the most.

You learn who your friends are.
You learn how to solve difficult problems.

Financial pressure seems crippling - but really - what it the worst case scenario ?
People recover from the worst financial disasters.

Being depressed is often a chemical imbalance - so there is medication that can assist.

It is not something that can really be solved on a forum - it is better to seek professional counselling and talk to your doctor.

Are you aware of the fairy tale that you go to hell if you kill yourself?  

If you really believe in that nonsense, you won't be committing suicide.  

Mistakes can be heavy. Some can be unforgettable. Talking to a psychiatrist about it will help. Life goes on, the sun will shine anew every day for as far as we all know here so to remain with pity or misery about the past is an useless pressure for anyone. Keep your head up.

About the situation:
Feeling so bad about the life situation that suicide is a consideration may be a brain's way of informing one things need to drastically change. Don't ignore this feeling, consider why it's there. You mentioned a bad financial situation for that person. It will give satisfaction to overcome that situation, probably by working off the debt. If it's severe, as in humanely impossible to pay back, bankruptcy is an option. In my country 4 years of your income will be taken, the minimum for base living needs and a bit for leisure aside. After this period any other debt cannot be claimed anymore. However I doubt it's that severe, so I am positive this person can work off his debt. I'd suggest keeping track of how much is paid off. In the beginning it'll seem like climbing a mountain, often doing tedious work for money never seen or spend. But the closer one gets to the peak of the mountain, and then over it, the more the brain will feel contempt with the efforts.
Besides this I'd recommend sport, and working out. It'll help relieve stress, and give personal gratitude. If said person has to put him or herself through a bit of a rough time, they might as well become stronger of it. Reaching milestones on this also creates an additional satisfaction with oneself. Furthermore keep some time free, an hour or two a day, to do something really enjoyable. For me it's movies and music, for another person it might differ.
Engaging in all these things will also help to meet new people. Be open for that. Steer conversations to something positive and enjoy building new connections with people. The financial situation is a restraint, but besides that I see a lot of opportunity to experience and be inspired by becoming more active in society.

But we all make mistakes, does that mean God doesn't help those that makes mistakes?
what do you say to someone who's mistakes have taken a great toll on?
Non passive contribution will be of great assist.

True talk,
so what are the recipes aimed at overcoming negative vibes for a happy living?

its kind of like harry potters "patronus charm and dementor"  metaphore . dementor is the reason for you wanting to commit suicide and your patronus is the very good memory that keeps u away from suicide thought.try it out friend, if you get my wind . godspeed.

God help thee who helps themselves ,my friend , i can relate to what your facing . but in a world like this i can only say never lose hope , onward and upward  .

A thing im thinking over and over again. but its not easy to just die ,my friend . you may not know but your absence could mean hell for someone. your loss might lead another to death or worse a  loss that one cant come ever . who knows? think about it.

So in all of it all; i can say...
let the person form the habit of smiling, reading things that activates positive vibes, make them know they still have time to make amends, and if the situation seems critical; he/she should see a psychologist?

Missing out something?

Hmmm....
ok, thanks!

This life is so sweet;
Makes me wonder why someone will ever consider suicide...
Does the person have a girl friend?
I guess the person needs a girlfriend after all.

I agree. Suicide is not the solution. It might feel permanent, but it doesn't have to be. Tell this person that even though you think that the people you thought you can count on couldn't be there for you, know that you can still come (here) for support.

Wow, that's huge.
Thanks for the input!