What do you mean nothing to do with it? You're telling me you don't use your girlfriend's btcjam account? You just happen to be dating someone who also takes out bitcoin loans from that site?
I don't particularly like btcjam, but you are talking nonsense here.
I know it sounds weird, but yes that's true. However, i had no idea that there was an account under "My" name registered there. So when i needed help with my GF's account which we (both) used but mainly her as it is her account, i emailed Btcjam support from my email which had my original name on it. And that's how they found out there was an account under my name, now if i was scamming, i certainly wouldn't send emails to btcjam for a week trought "My" email which is registered under my name. And note that i created a thread that ID's were getting scammed from that other guy and used to make loan listings, i have kept all emails from the scammer. And i certainly wouldnt have contacted the police as soon as i'd find out and wouldn't have gone trought WEEKS of trouble explaining my point if i did do something wrong.
So you use your girlfriend's BTCJam account. They have a right to suspend that account as well.
They think they have a right, but if it was proper customer service they would investigate before shutting anything down. The whole thing is just exhausting :/ i will leave it as it is at the moment as there is nothing else that i can do.