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July 27, 2017, 03:13:20 PM
#44
Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

It is normal to get silly sometimes when you are with your friends and bullying is part of it but to involved your parents and your love ones is a different story. If they are your true friends then I think they should be sensitive enough that you are hurt and below the belt. Tell your friends the truth about how you feel with they are you doing to you if they are real then they will stop and apologies but if they will keep doing it then better look for another set of friends.
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July 27, 2017, 02:45:39 PM
#43
If they're bullying you, how are you still calling them friends? How long have you known them? Have they always been this with you?

Coz from what I saw, at least on the first page, you are either a bit sensitive or they really are abusive. Talk to them about this. If they're true friends, they will change how they treat you. If not, then be prepared to dump them.
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July 27, 2017, 01:54:39 PM
#42
bullying is a big problem among youngster, if they are your true friends, you should tell them honestly how you feel.
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July 27, 2017, 01:32:34 PM
#41
Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

I just want to know how old you are ?
If you still under 15+ I think it's still very normal Because we know it is just a joke of fellow youngsters .
but if you But if you are a teenager You should be able to take courage to fight
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July 27, 2017, 01:19:02 PM
#40
You need to find a better way to feed their deficient ego and insecurities  Grin
[/quotBy defend it itself againts them thats the only way to deal with a bully
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July 27, 2017, 01:14:54 PM
#39
Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

If they are truly your friends they  won't bully you rather they would fight for you. True friends are like family who protect each other against any adversary. They are loyal beyond any length and won't do anything to hurt each other. What they are, are just acquaintances and nothing more because they put their feelings of pleasure above your feeling of pain. Don't also forget, nobody is irreplaceable in anyone's life.
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July 27, 2017, 01:00:08 PM
#38
Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.
They are not your friends if they mess up with your family men, get rid of those jackass and if they ever mess with your parents again get them teeths out!
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July 27, 2017, 12:47:18 PM
#37
You need to find a better way to feed their deficient ego and insecurities  Grin
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July 27, 2017, 12:45:40 PM
#36
how exactly are you still friends with these people? making fun of each other is one thing and bullying are two different things. if you really believe them to be lightly kidding around, and that they are good friends, then they'll understand your feelings.
bitter reality newsflash- they probably don't give a damn about your emotions. Bullies are shallow cowardly creatures who put on a tough act, mostly without actual substance, who are best ignored and cut out from one's life
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July 27, 2017, 11:54:20 AM
#35
A true friend will never hurt their fried and even throw a below the belt words. I think you are the one who keep on hanging out with them while they are throwing you away from them. You deserve better and their is a lot of possible good friends out there. Don't stay on the situation that always give you a bad effect.
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July 27, 2017, 11:47:37 AM
#34
Sometimes these relationships evidence that the relationships go beyond friendship. If OP girl then maybe this is the case. In any case, you have language and you have to decide this issue. No one will help you.
legendary
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July 27, 2017, 11:43:02 AM
#33
Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

As what others have said, they are not your friends. Why aren't you fighting back? Back in the days, when I was like 6-7 years old, I was also bullied. But you know what? I fight back they are verbally abusing me, but I fight back physically. Those bullies stop. HaHaHa. But there are still some who will try and attempted to bully me, but they will get the same response from me. So from then on, bullies are afraid of me, because they will always got a black eye or bleeding nose from me, I fuck them hard, really hard. Funny thing is when we grow up, some of them become my best friends.

I think you should get rid of them. Because true friend will not do that specially involving your parents and hurt your feelings. Tell them to stop, if not then If I were you, I'm going to fight back with my fist and tell them to back off.
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July 27, 2017, 09:17:02 AM
#32
Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.
In our generation the definition of true friendship has been changed. Before, true friends has been described who always at your side continually support you no matter what and they are not saying bad things to you but if you observed our generation now we can describe a true friend whose been there to bully you but still they love you and it is there way ton showing they're love to you. I myself also experience that kind of bully but when I face failures in life they've been there to support me to continue my dreams in life. They are my true friends. True friends telling the truth even it hurts with your part.
legendary
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July 27, 2017, 04:11:50 AM
#31
You need to talk to them about what you don't like and what you want them to avoid doing. If they say or do things that you don't like you need to let them know that they are doing so, as they may not be realizing that themselves. Furthermore, if even after you tell them that you do not like what they are doing seriously they still keep doing it, perhaps they aren't as true friends you thought they might have been. Time to start looking for others once more.

Some people change, others don't.
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July 27, 2017, 03:24:19 AM
#30
Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

You need some milk if you're crying over this.

I agree, so his bones will get stronger so that it won't break when he beats them all up
Bullying has been a great problem not just here in my country but in the whole world. I am sadden whenever I heard or read a news regarding bullying and how young people are involved in doing it. Aside from physical bullying, what I think is more depressing is the cyber bullying because it has this effect on you that you will think always that people all over the world will talk about you and will start to bully you. That's why there are some cases that cyber bullied people tend to commit suicide and does facebook live while doing it.
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July 27, 2017, 02:14:14 AM
#29
Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

You need some milk if you're crying over this.

I agree, so his bones will get stronger so that it won't break when he beats them all up
newbie
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July 27, 2017, 01:55:56 AM
#28
Sometimes having a friend makes the bully away, but in some cases the bully is one will be your true friend, like my experience i have a classmate who bullied me all the time but when exam he always talking to me until we became friend until 5years and counting.

I strongly agree with what you said. Having a new friend will take care of your problem. Look for a new and real friend who will be there by your side to protect you. Real friends protect each other. Make a lot of new friends so that no one can dare mess with you anymore.
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July 27, 2017, 01:45:22 AM
#27
Bro I want you to remember this one thing. REAL FRIENDS DON'T HURT YOU FOR NO REASON. So if you thing that what they are doing to you doesn't make sense then leave them immediately, they are not your real friends. Back in my day, when someone bullies me I always fight back. If they hurt you, hurt them back harder.

If you think you can't handle them, seek help from your parents. Your parents will know how to handle it properly.
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July 27, 2017, 12:59:13 AM
#26
Sometimes having a friend makes the bully away, but in some cases the bully is one will be your true friend, like my experience i have a classmate who bullied me all the time but when exam he always talking to me until we became friend until 5years and counting.
sr. member
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July 27, 2017, 12:45:12 AM
#25
Have you ever tried to fight, maybe you have never tried for fear, sometimes violence is not necessary in violent opponents, they are so because they are immature and feel themselves the greatest, when they are coward if one on one. Stay patient.
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