Some parents are certainly busy with work or other things, and it is natural for them to take action at this time by giving their children a cell phone or gadget as a tool to accompany them in their daily activities. But what you say is true, as parents we should have or make time to play with our children, so that the relationship continues to be good. with this I remember a very rich family, because their father and mother were always persistent in working, they pursued their respective careers, so that there was not much time to gather with the family, even rarely. This will certainly be bad for their relationship, it is possible that their child will have a naughty personality, because of the lack of love and attention from their parents who only focus on their respective careers. Indeed, there is nothing wrong with pursuing a career because everyone of course wants success, but they also have to be able to divide their time well, because their life is not just work.
The story you tell is the same as the case that occurred in my neighborhood, only the victim who died because his parents neglected him fell into a fish pond. Therefore, parental supervision is important, whether inside the house or outside the home, supervision must still be carried out if they really love their children, but I think it is strange if there are parents who don't love their children. This is the same as those who use cellphones at an age when they are not supposed to, although there is no specific prohibition on being able to use cellphones at a reasonable age, but at least as parents we must be able to be responsible properly. Don't just give anything to our children as long as they are happy, of course that's wrong, of course consider and be responsible for everything that is given to our children, don't just give them happiness and don't think about the risks.
These types of tragedies are very tragic, but they serve as an example for many parents, especially if they like to play games of chance or for fun, which is not bad, but when the children are very young, I consider that the sacrifice that what parents should do to be aware of them is necessary, because their children will not return to that age, they will grow up and become adults, and later one will want to live those moments again, so we must take advantage as long as we can, that is why childhood the early years it is supremely Important for a child to Feel the love of his Parents and the attention given to them is immediate, as they grow they will gradually learn about games, new things and that is why one should be pending on them, in a quick moment they can do many things, among them advising you, playing with them, sleeping with them, pampering you, but to be honest I made my 8-year-old son promise me on video that when he is an adult he will I would have to let me, as father, hug him and give him a kiss on his cheek and forehead, lol, but those things have to be taken advantage of.
That is why it is so important to have a good relationship with them, and to always have a good sense of direction so that they can be good People in the future and when they are Adults they are people who contribute to the world, that is why it is already at 18 years old, They must be mature enough to face the real world.
As parents we clearly have full responsibility for our children, because they are our own flesh and blood. Even though I'm not married, I feel this way about the many families who have small children in my area. with their still young age, of course we have to be able to give them the best, including by guiding them to the right things, even though there are positives in teaching them to introduce them to the internet and cellphones, there are also negative impacts. So attention and supervision must of course be carried out, with those who will grow into adults they will also get to know the outside world, where they can choose relationships that suit themselves. If at the beginning they are still small, they lack love and attention from their parents, it is likely that they will prefer the outside world, therefore we must be able to do the best for our children, our attention and treatment determines our children in the future.
and I think that nowadays the development of increasingly sophisticated technology makes it possible for everyone to have a personal gadget, and of course this is closely related to the internet and social media, as they are adults and have personal gadgets, it is clear that they will see gambling advertisements that It is widely circulated on social media, and if they are interested then there is a possibility that they will do it, even if they don't know the methods and steps, they can find out or ask their friends who do know about gambling. It's the same with those who are still not old enough, if they are already good at operating gadgets then it's possible they will be able to get to know gambling too. Age is just a number, but maturity is based on thought patterns and behavior. Being 18 years old doesn't necessarily indicate that you are an adult, because there are people who are over 18 but still act childish, I'm sure there are people like this in all countries.
