And your emotion for being a loser is due to losing your bets and that will also reflect to how you behave. While it is an understandable thing but you shouldn't practice that to anyone.
When you lose, you have to be good at it and just try to recover some of it whenever you can and don't put your emotions into your hands which will cause violence.
When you don't take gambling too seriously and have no expectations of winning a lot of money from it, you will find it easier to let go of the losses and you will have no remorse over time. I know it's not easy for everyone since most people don't have enough patience, but there is nothing wrong with trying.
We can also immediately stop gambling when we have lost several times. We can also still maintain our emotions well so that when we return home, our emotions will remain stable, and we will not commit violence against our wives or children. That is a risk that we must accept and instead resort to violence against those who don't know anything about what we are experiencing because that will only traumatize them and show them that we cannot control our emotions after gambling.