Topic: Can gambling addiction lead to domestic violence? - page 6. (Read 2111 times)

We are humans and we can control ourselves differently, some can't just hide their feelings and will not be able to restrain themselves, they will let them out in violence or otherwise depending on the situation we are talking about. All still buttress on responsible gambling, we do not just look for trouble unnecessarily simply because we want to gamble, we must be accountable and thoughtful before doing silly things. We must think beyond ourselves, we must think of our spouses and children, even as we think of the responsibilities we have before we are risking foolishly. Because it could only be foolish if we are risking what was meant for other better purposes for gambling thinking that we can outsmart the system.

I mean the system that will always be siding more in the favour of the house, one should not be so naive in this regard, and this alone is an important consideration for us to gamble responsibly so that a ripple effect will not cause unforeseen issues that could lead to domestic violence, if not worse. It gets aggravated if the family is facing financial challenges and I do not even know how it will be right at that time for either of the spouses to make plans and decisions in isolation. This can cause a lot of issues, but if they agree together to make the issue, this is better. But still, it could cause aggression and a shift of blame, which is why I advise that only the money that can be afforded to lose should be committed to gambling. Anything other than this might be an invitation to "anarchy."

The smoking is harmful but the smoker never accept the words from the pocket.Actually their was one fun factor here,many people from the poor countries are not buying the cigarettes pocket.So they won’t get a chance to read the disclaimer in the pocket,like this the small losses in the gambling site will not make the gamblers to feel like they get addicted to the gambling site.The smoking can be cured by following some steps like eating the chewing gum.

The gambler also get away from the gambling addiction by following the factor like deposit the fixed amount per dollar per month.Even though the gamblers had won or loss doesn’t matter,the gamblers must do the fixed deposit dollars in the gambling site.So this control of deposit will also help the gamblers to get away from the gambling addiction.

If someone is to be addicted to gambling, they can resort to domestic violence, when their gambling habits are not managed properly. In the sense that, the addicted gambler who has much hope on gambling would love to bets with all the money in their position believing that they will win the bets for that day by having some money.

That mindset will further make them bet on money meant for the important stuff. And when the bet games don't go as expected(to win), they come back home to unleash their frustration on their wife, who is already stressed with house chores that their husband left home without dropping a dime on the table.

These scenarios alone can bring about arguments, exchange of words, and verbal abuse of their wife

Of course, many cigarette packets say that smoking is harmful to health, but people continue to smoke because they are addicted to it. Gambling Just as a gambler will gamble until he is destitute i.e. he will enjoy gambling as long as he has money in his pocket. It can be a person's equation how to control his consciousness. If you lose money you have to try again to catch it but gambling requires money. So you can enjoy gambling if you have the right way to earn money.

The gambling loss will give more pressure on the gambler and his family.Because the loss will affect the financial stability of the gamblers family,So they suffer with no money for the basic need expenses.Apart from the basic needs,the gamblers should take care of the health expenses of their entire family members.Surely their will be the old people in the gambler family,they will take care by the tablet on daily basis.So the gamblers should take care of the medical expenses in the weekly basics.How the gamblers will manage all this expenses after the loss in the gambling site.So the gambler will show the emotion on their family which leads to the domestic violence.

It's true, that gambling addicts often take their frustration out on their families, mainly their children and wives. When a gambler manages to win something, they become happy and cheerful, and they show love and affection towards their family, but when the opposite happens in the casino, they tend to have a different personality altogether, just like a drug addict who wouldn't recognize people when they haven't consumed any drugs for some time.

Such people surely do not deserve to live in the open because they can be harmful at times. However, the biggest reason why they stay like this is their families that don't report them and think that they will become completely helpless if they are gone since they are the sole bread earners for the family no matter how they behave at times.

It's not always about those who have below average finances, what I mean is that family violence is not always because of the weak economy in the family, I understand that this can also be a trigger for violence, and let's put it together when someone has low finances in the family but on the other hand they are also involved in gambling addiction which in the end makes the situation very concerning, On the other hand, it is clear that the family finances will definitely be disrupted and there will definitely be a lot of arguments that occur because one of them allocates some of the money for living needs to gambling activities which makes them end up losing money that is actually unnecessary if they are not involved in gambling.

Fighting over finances and the bad habits of one of these couples leads to violence and this scenario is a likely one for violence to occur. Another bad thing is as you said that it is very likely that one of them will seek a divorce which means gambling is very likely to destroy a relationship. This is why we have to be very careful when it comes to gambling, simply put if you can't afford to lose then obviously it's better not to gamble.

This story is almost similar to my neighbor's where her husband was fired from his job because he was caught gambling in his office and in the end he became happier gambling all the time using his wife's savings, which made his wife angry and in the end he didn't accept his wife's treatment, especially because he was emotional about losing. gambling made the man hit his wife and in the end my neighbor lived alone because his wife and children had left him, problems like this always exist if someone starts to be addicted to gambling.

Those who are addicted to gambling not only lose money but a lot of their wives and children and even time with them, that's why gambling should be used as entertainment, not a place to earn extra money, let alone a path to wealth, that's clearly impossible, basically people can limit gambling. so that they don't get addicted but they actually prefer to gamble without limits which ultimately makes them hooked and addicted to gambling, that's why it's important to avoid gambling addiction when gambling because it can lead to domestic violence too.

You dont understand it correctly. It is not gambling and domestic violence, it is domestic violence and a person who can not control his negative emotions. It is not necessary for such person to gamble to get angry and start acting violently. Similarly he can play video games, lose and get angry, something fall out of his hand, breaks and he gets angry. I even doubt that doctors can help in this case. This is already a built character.  It needs ages to change such people.

Cases of domestic violence certainly start from a lack of economic stability in the household and the main cause is not being able to manage the budget well, especially if the husband is addicted to gambling, the family's financial problems are definitely disrupted. Making the wife fed up and the husband unable to accept defeat and committing violence against his wife and a wife who does not accept it will sue her husband for divorce because of domestic violence. No wife wants her husband to experience a gambling addiction or any other type of addiction because what they worry about is that this could happen in their household.

That's true because for gamblers who don't have boundaries when gambling, they can more easily become addicted so they can't control their emotions if they experience consecutive losses, even if they often lose. And it is not uncommon for someone who is addicted to gambling to become more violent towards their family and commit violence in their household, which disturbs the people around the addict because they have to see the gambler's irresponsible behavior.

Yes, people who gamble should have an attitude like you, namely being able to accept even though they keep on losing in a row and rarely win because if we have entered into gambling we have to accept the consequences or risks that we will experience so that we don't behave like small children. gets emotional easily and can't control himself. Gambling will be safe if we do it right and won't run into problems if we don't spend too much money on gambling.

The worst risks of gambling are regarding how to handle anger after they are very emotional and cannot control themselves, taking out anger on innocent families, the highest cases of divorce in recent years due to gambling and every partner definitely does not accept that their husband is addicted to gambling and they ignore the priority needs for the cost of living for his family, the saddest case of divorce because his anger caused abuse of his wife just because of a small mistake. This is all due to gambling budget management which is not limited to gambling, so after they lose a lot of funds it will cause aggressive depression to persecute the family at home.

Perpetrators of domestic violence and abuse need to accept their full responsibility without putting any scapegoats in the middle.

Same goes for if you're a victim. Never accept any excuses. Have a bold stance against violence in all of its forms and state clearly that it's unacceptable.
Questioning if gambling can lead to violence is not that of a serious take to me. Psychological issues can lead to many things. If someone has issues with his mood, anger and compulsiveness then these need to be dealt with accordingly and in his own responsibility should avoid activities that might make him a danger to society, let alone his own family.

If need be, such people should avoid gambling. But better yet they should be accountable and fix themselves to avoid future troubles instead of blaming their bad manners on external factors.

The gambler who loss the funds surely get the depression by the loss.Sonce they can’t show their anger anywhere the family will be the last result for the gamblers to show their anger.The worst part of the gambling addicted person is they will do the violence in their family.The children of the gambling addicted person was affected by the mental illness.The gamblers should use the vacation to short their gambling addiction losses and recover their loss of their own mental health.The gamblers who were not control their emotions may leads to the separation from their family member by the divorce by their own wife.

On the time that your mind and emotion is on a stirred up condition due to addiction- doesnt matter on which form or type then you would really be having those chances on making such act
on which it do really passes out into that line on which a well thinking minded person couldnt really be able to  do so. We do know that if you are on a situation on which you are addicted
then you cant think up well, you would surely be prioritizing on things on which you do seem which is right and that really get in line with your interest and if it turns out that it cant be
possibly be able to obtain on that point then this is where these violence  would really be starting out to happen on which it is really just that sad that people do really end up
on this kind of act.

Even in cases where a partner is not involved in the household, there is still a relatively high percentage of change the gambling addict could develop a violent behavior with dealing with others within his family, his parents, his siblings or even cousins. Because of the pursue for the money to continue to feed the addiction. On the other hand, if there is no violent targeted towards the family members of the gambling addicted person, there is also a chance such person will try to violently get the money through physical assaulting someone. You know, the usual beginning with the petty crime in the streets is related to gambling, drugs or alcohol.
Sadly, it would seem that uncontrolled addictions like these we talk about here in this section of the forum always lead to either depression or violence. Not only the addicted person is the one who ends up paying the consequences of the addiction but also those around him.

There's something I always tell myself: don't be close to someone when they're playing and don't be close to someone who is consuming alcohol or drugs. That's because when people here in my country are playing, they always tend to fight among themselves, every day it's been like this and I hear them fighting from my house, I've talked about this before. but it is such a shameful, sad situation that has been happening every day near my house that it is impossible to forget or ignore. I know very well that it's not the slot machines' fault, it's not the snooker table's fault, it's not the beer's fault. It's the fault of those people who go to bars every day, frustrated, to consume alcohol, then start playing and when they're losing, they're already at the alcohol limit.

They start to get irritated by little things that other people say, as a result of which they start to fight, this has happened every day here in my neighborhood. The police haven't done anything, in fact the police have hardly been around here. But it's a very sad situation. They often fight for the rest of the day, I wake up to their noise and I wonder how it is possible that people who went to sleep a lot because they were fighting over beer and other alcoholic drinks and games, wake up very early and fight over the same things. reasons. In my little head it's something very difficult to understand, I've tried to spend days trying to understand why these guys in my neighborhood are all friends when they're lucid and aren't playing anything~

They have behaved like animals when they are drinking alcohol and gambling, they insult each other, humiliate each other, then start to beat each other, while they are friends. The only thing that comes to mind is that they are addicted people who are at a very serious level of the disease. they have no control over themselves and they have started to enjoy violence. They are not polite people because of the environment they are in every day. For them, violence is the best way to forget their problems. something very sad because they keep hurting themselves

there are many cases like this, domestic violence committed by gambling addicts, the reason gambling can make someone commit domestic violence is because gambling is related to money and many of those who are addicted to alcohol are gambling addicts.
just imagine, in a household, there will always be financial problems encountered and if your partner is a gambling addict then you will feel like you constantly need money then it will be impossible to avoid arguments with your partner, things like arguments that gambling addicts usually experience when they have a partner.

The loss of money can make an addict to be sad, depressed and sometimes aggressive. Although, I've not seen a case where gambling is the cause of a domestic violence but if an addict can transfer aggression on his family members because of gambling loss, then there's the possibility that it could lead to domestic violence. When a man is repeatedly using the money meant to take care of the family to gamble, and everytime he comes home broke with one story or the other. Even if he's not abusive, the wife may be forced to physically attack him and it may escalate to something else.

Obviously, gamblers frustrations are too numerous not to talk of when they lose any game in which they have played. As a result of that they can not vent out their frustration at the casino, they do that in their homes which triggers violence in in most cases. However, advising them on self-control after gambling should be another topic of discussion because in most cases, gamblers does transfer their aggression to their various families after losing games and bets. I think It could work perfectly well if it happens that gamblers are being spoken to few minutes before and after gambling in a means of calming their temperament so they do not get violent at home, work and even at the casino as well.