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Quote from: molsewid on September 20, 2023, 04:23:08 PM

Quote from: Tellek Garing on September 19, 2023, 10:48:36 AM

Yes, in my own personal and real experience gambling is the reason why my grandparents almost separated. My grandfather is so addicted to cockfighting to the point that we have no food to eat and they always have a conflict with my grandmother which led them to almost separation and he even starting to have an anger issues that time when he lose his game.

I am supporting you wholeheartedly that gambling can impact negatively in a relationship that has been healthy.
This is happening to someone very close to me presently. Because of gambling addiction they can no longer feed well with their family. And because of this, they always have problems in the family and the wives will always complain.
As one of the symptoms of someone that is addicted to gambling the husband no longer have sufficient money in his hand. No matter any amount that he earns or that is given to him. He will use all of them and gamble, keeping the family almost hungry. Now the wife is threatening divorce and it is just a very serious case.

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Quote from: molsewid on September 20, 2023, 04:23:08 PM

Yes, in my own personal and real experience gambling is the reason why my grandparents almost separated. My grandfather is so addicted to cockfighting to the point that we have no food to eat and they always have a conflict with my grandmother which led them to almost separation and he even starting to have an anger issues that time when he lose his game.

That's really serious. If someone is addicted to gambling, then the person is likely to have problems with his family because they will end up doing things that they are not supposed to do just to make money to gamble. An addicted gambler will end up doing something's that will end up affecting their family members, they might end up selling their properties, and the money that is supposed to be used for other necessary things in the house might end up being used for gambling, which will cause serious problems in the family.

If people gamble for fun and they don't spend any amount that is going to hurt them or their family member's on gambling, then I don't think people will be having problem with anyone gambling.

It affects many gamblers' lives. Players will usually lose more than they win. This can lead to financial loss and debt, and It can affect relationships with family and friends, leading to emotional loss, separation, and difficulty maintaining relationships. Everyone will gradually shun, and no one will love a gambling addict. They will have a very unpleasant attitude when interacting with addicts.
How wonderful. If gambling is for entertainment, then there will be no problem. But only some gamblers can do that.

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What @OP conveyed was the impact that would be experienced by gamblers who cannot control themselves and instead gamble excessively. There will be an even greater impact on gamblers and their families, making it a more serious problem than before. Gambling, intended as entertainment, is instead used as a means to make money, which will not work for most people because they can experience many losses. They also won't realize it was a mistake, so it will impact the people around them, especially if they lose a lot of money. And communication breakdowns are things that can be detrimental to all parties, not just gamblers but everyone around them.

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Quote from: molsewid on September 20, 2023, 04:23:08 PM

Yes, in my own personal and real experience gambling is the reason why my grandparents almost separated. My grandfather is so addicted to cockfighting to the point that we have no food to eat and they always have a conflict with my grandmother which led them to almost separation and he even starting to have an anger issues that time when he lose his game.

That's really serious. If someone is addicted to gambling, then the person is likely to have problems with his family because they will end up doing things that they are not supposed to do just to make money to gamble. An addicted gambler will end up doing something's that will end up affecting their family members, they might end up selling their properties, and the money that is supposed to be used for other necessary things in the house might end up being used for gambling, which will cause serious problems in the family.

If people gamble for fun and they don't spend any amount that is going to hurt them or their family member's on gambling, then I don't think people will be having problem with anyone gambling.

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Quote from: Tellek Garing on September 19, 2023, 10:48:36 AM

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems. Gambling which was meant to be a popular kind of entertainment for many and was designed to provide a temporary escape from everyday life and also help one to be more observant mentally task your brain and it is also good for your mental brain. When it becomes an addiction it causes financial strain the strain can manifest in various ways including the loss of shared savings, debt accumulation, and financial secrecy which may lead to strained communication between partners. This communication breakdown can prevent couples, friends, and associates from working together.

Gambling can affect relationships seriously whereby the gambler doesn't have a better earning but always use the little money available for Gambling, I don't think spouse will tolerate seeing her man spending a better amount of money in gambling when their are serious needs which money is needed to solve these needs. Gambling can also affect a relationship when the gambler have no source of income but depends on gambling as job where money can be generated from.

Gambling that makes money will only happen if the gambler is truly professional in gambling and knows what he is doing in gambling bets, and has management to overcome risk problems and financial management for gambling. Unhealthy gambling will strain all kinds of relationships between people and this will have a bad impact. If you don't have a good source of income and don't understand what you do in gambling, you will have the potential to lose in the end and of course it will make anyone stressed. As the wife of a gambling husband, of course you will be angry and will warn him that such gambling is wrong and will not produce anything.

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Quote from: Tellek Garing on September 19, 2023, 10:48:36 AM

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems. Gambling which was meant to be a popular kind of entertainment for many and was designed to provide a temporary escape from everyday life and also help one to be more observant mentally task your brain and it is also good for your mental brain. When it becomes an addiction it causes financial strain the strain can manifest in various ways including the loss of shared savings, debt accumulation, and financial secrecy which may lead to strained communication between partners. This communication breakdown can prevent couples, friends, and associates from working together.

Gambling can affect relationships seriously whereby the gambler doesn't have a better earning but always use the little money available for Gambling, I don't think spouse will tolerate seeing her man spending a better amount of money in gambling when their are serious needs which money is needed to solve these needs. Gambling can also affect a relationship when the gambler have no source of income but depends on gambling as job where money can be generated from.

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Quote from: Tellek Garing on September 19, 2023, 10:48:36 AM

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems. Gambling which was meant to be a popular kind of entertainment for many and was designed to provide a temporary escape from everyday life and also help one to be more observant mentally task your brain and it is also good for your mental brain. When it becomes an addiction it causes financial strain the strain can manifest in various ways including the loss of shared savings, debt accumulation, and financial secrecy which may lead to strained communication between partners. This communication breakdown can prevent couples, friends, and associates from working together.

Yes, in my own personal and real experience gambling is the reason why my grandparents almost separated. My grandfather is so addicted to cockfighting to the point that we have no food to eat and they always have a conflict with my grandmother which led them to almost separation and he even starting to have an anger issues that time when he lose his game.

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Quote from: Westinhome on September 20, 2023, 04:06:14 PM

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If you are in a relationship,the girlfriend will try to find the mistake to breakup your relationship.So if they find you was involved in the gambling,then it’s easy for your girlfriend to get break up from you.This breakup drama to breakup you and marry the rich person then you.So you need to become the rich person before your girlfriend find your involvement into gambling.So such short term richness only possible in the gambling site.But your luck also play the major role in the winning of the big money.If you find the techniques in short period,the possibility of winning both your money and relationship is easy one.

Gambling can basically cause various impacts, but all of the impacts can still be minimized if a gambler does not gamble beyond his limits. Someone who no longer controls their gambling tends to experience bad impacts from gambling, so of course these impacts can affect many things, including family relationships.

I have seen the fact that gambling can take away much of the addict's happiness, but only if they have completely failed to control themselves in gambling. If they gamble wisely, then gambling is just for fun, not to spend all the money without limits.

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Quote from: rachael9385 on September 20, 2023, 03:46:56 PM

In a relationship you must limit a lot of things, either good or bad things, whether you are a gambler or not, so there will be no problems in your relationship.
Addicted gamblers can not be in some relationships because not everyone will like to be with someone who is addicted to gambling. Many couples have separated because of too much gambling. Some gamblers have bet on their houses and cars. Now they are left with nothing and their relationship is nowhere to be found again. I have a belief that there is no medication required for an addicted gambler, but there is a lot of medication that a drug addict can take to quit drugs, so as a gambler, we should gamble with care, if it takes us to keep or gambling habits as a secret just to save our relationship with either our children, parent's or love ones, we should do so for the relationship not to separate.

If you are in a relationship,the girlfriend will try to find the mistake to breakup your relationship.So if they find you was involved in the gambling,then it’s easy for your girlfriend to get break up from you.This breakup drama to breakup you and marry the rich person then you.So you need to become the rich person before your girlfriend find your involvement into gambling.So such short term richness only possible in the gambling site.But your luck also play the major role in the winning of the big money.If you find the techniques in short period,the possibility of winning both your money and relationship is easy one.

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In a relationship you must limit a lot of things, either good or bad things, whether you are a gambler or not, so there will be no problems in your relationship.
Addicted gamblers can not be in some relationships because not everyone will like to be with someone who is addicted to gambling. Many couples have separated because of too much gambling. Some gamblers have bet on their houses and cars. Now they are left with nothing and their relationship is nowhere to be found again. I have a belief that there is no medication required for an addicted gambler, but there is a lot of medication that a drug addict can take to quit drugs, so as a gambler, we should gamble with care, if it takes us to keep or gambling habits as a secret just to save our relationship with either our children, parent's or love ones, we should do so for the relationship not to separate.

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Let's hold on and think for a second from the other point of view in romantic relationship. Can gambling actually ruin a romantic relationship where the both couples are gamblers? I don't think so. Birds of a feather flock together as they say. The bond between two or more persons becomes stronger when they share a common goal, dream, and vision.

I haven't seen couples who are addicted to gambling but I know there are. My prediction or guess is that their bond is stronger. I may say, a couple that gambles together, stays together.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on September 20, 2023, 03:28:17 PM

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Gambling does affect relationships.

It's not the gambling that can affect a relationship and cause estrangement between the two. However, it is this person's behavior that causes the relationship to become strained. And in responding to things like this we cannot think objectively and say that gambling is bad and can damage a relationship, but in responding to this we have to think subjectively because not everyone who gambles means the relationship becomes strained. And when we behave wisely then all the activities we do will be fine. Gambling cannot provide complete joy, gambling only provides temporary pleasure and gambling is not everything. However, if your partner and family are everything that can give us happiness forever, then do everything wisely and responsibly, including gambling.

It’s a completely different matter if you spend very little time and money on gambling; it won’t harm the relationship, at least I hope so.

Well, I personally think that even a little time and money spent on gambling can still affect a relationship, most especially, if the partner is not one that like his or her partner gambling , he or she can demand that the partner stop gambling totally, and when he or she refuses to stop , it becomes a problem which if not we'll managed, could escalate into something bigger and serious.

For example, I myself don't like my wife gambling, and when we were dating, I asked her if she liked to gamble, said no, that infact, she hated gamblers because they always appear irresponsible to her, I was happy for the fact that she does not gamble, because I didn't plan on settling down with gambler like myself, it wouldnt make sense.
And she also told me she hated gamblers as they always appear irresponsible to her, this made me never open up to her that I gamble , and lucky enough, I am not an addict, so it's very difficult for her to find out .

i can say you're lucky that up until now, she has not found out about your "secret" life in gambling. Grin

but i guess, when the time comes that she learned it, maybe, she will be more accepting if you can tell that you have full control of your gambling activities.
but if you are just playing occasionally, i guess, there's no harm done here. as you know how much budget you can spend and the time you allotted on the games.

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Gambling does affect relationships.

It's not the gambling that can affect a relationship and cause estrangement between the two. However, it is this person's behavior that causes the relationship to become strained. And in responding to things like this we cannot think objectively and say that gambling is bad and can damage a relationship, but in responding to this we have to think subjectively because not everyone who gambles means the relationship becomes strained. And when we behave wisely then all the activities we do will be fine. Gambling cannot provide complete joy, gambling only provides temporary pleasure and gambling is not everything. However, if your partner and family are everything that can give us happiness forever, then do everything wisely and responsibly, including gambling.

It’s a completely different matter if you spend very little time and money on gambling; it won’t harm the relationship, at least I hope so.

Well, I personally think that even a little time and money spent on gambling can still affect a relationship, most especially, if the partner is not one that like his or her partner gambling , he or she can demand that the partner stop gambling totally, and when he or she refuses to stop , it becomes a problem which if not we'll managed, could escalate into something bigger and serious.

For example, I myself don't like my wife gambling, and when we were dating, I asked her if she liked to gamble, said no, that infact, she hated gamblers because they always appear irresponsible to her, I was happy for the fact that she does not gamble, because I didn't plan on settling down with gambler like myself, it wouldnt make sense.
And she also told me she hated gamblers as they always appear irresponsible to her, this made me never open up to her that I gamble , and lucky enough, I am not an addict, so it's very difficult for her to find out .

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Quote from: gunhell16 on September 20, 2023, 04:24:54 AM

What kind of relationship are you referring to? Is it our husband's, if there is one? With relatives or friends?Actually, all of that will affect what I mentioned.

I think OP refers to any relationship. It can be the relationship with husband/wife, with kids, with family members, with friends, or with the neighborhood. Gambling habits can bring both positive and negative impacts to the relationship, it depends on how we manage our gambling habits. When we spend too much time and funds, it probably brings negative impacts. But if we only use small funds and spend only some minutes or few hours, it seems to have no bad impacts.

Quote from: gunhell16 on September 20, 2023, 04:24:54 AM

But gambling also has a good effect when you win a large amount of money from it. And when that happens, of course, your own family and friends will be happy for you.

Other people only can feel happiness when we want to share the prizes. Grin

I mean when we win good prizes, spend some money to share with others. For example, use some money for a holiday with the whole family members or treat friends to take a lunch.

Quote from: gunhell16 on September 20, 2023, 04:24:54 AM

But when you often lose gambling and your behavior changes because you have an addiction to it, your relationships with your family, relatives, and friends will definitely be affected.

Sure, when we become an addict, the behavior may change. We can't control ourselves to limit the funds and time for gambling. We also becomes too obsessed with the prizes. Because we spend too much time and funds, we forget to communicate with others. We probably are getting rarely gather with our close people. This is surely to ruin the relationship with others. That's why we must remind ourselves to avoid anything that can lead us to addiction.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on September 20, 2023, 10:38:40 AM

Gambling does affect relationships.

It's not the gambling that can affect a relationship and cause estrangement between the two. However, it is this person's behavior that causes the relationship to become strained. And in responding to things like this we cannot think objectively and say that gambling is bad and can damage a relationship, but in responding to this we have to think subjectively because not everyone who gambles means the relationship becomes strained. And when we behave wisely then all the activities we do will be fine. Gambling cannot provide complete joy, gambling only provides temporary pleasure and gambling is not everything. However, if your partner and family are everything that can give us happiness forever, then do everything wisely and responsibly, including gambling.

Relationships and families are built on predictable income and improved living conditions for yourself and your partner over time. Gambling, on the contrary, is to a large extent an uncertainty in the future, an unpredictability that your loved one does not want to accept, and this is logical on his part, he can be understood. Therefore, if you spend a lot of time and money on gambling, it is obvious that in the end it can destroy the relationship. It’s a completely different matter if you spend very little time and money on gambling; it won’t harm the relationship, at least I hope so.

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It's not the gambling that can affect a relationship and cause estrangement between the two. However, it is this person's behavior that causes the relationship to become strained. And in responding to things like this we cannot think objectively and say that gambling is bad and can damage a relationship, but in responding to this we have to think subjectively because not everyone who gambles means the relationship becomes strained. And when we behave wisely then all the activities we do will be fine. Gambling cannot provide complete joy, gambling only provides temporary pleasure and gambling is not everything. However, if your partner and family are everything that can give us happiness forever, then do everything wisely and responsibly, including gambling.

The impact of bad gambling is that it can change the attitude of gamblers to the point of harming themselves both financially and in their relationships with anyone, including their family. There are many cases of divorce because husbands who are gamblers are no longer able to manage their finances well and behave rudely to their family until divorce is the end of the relationship story, but of course not all gamblers will reach that stage if they are not bad addicts.

The average gambling addict has problems, but what differentiates them is how they control their addiction and how they control their emotions. Gambling addicts who are no longer able to control their emotions often have many problems that harm themselves, this is because they fail to gamble responsibly and are so greedy about their desire for big wins.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on September 20, 2023, 10:38:40 AM

Gambling does affect relationships.

It's not the gambling that can affect a relationship and cause estrangement between the two. However, it is this person's behavior that causes the relationship to become strained. And in responding to things like this we cannot think objectively and say that gambling is bad and can damage a relationship, but in responding to this we have to think subjectively because not everyone who gambles means the relationship becomes strained. And when we behave wisely then all the activities we do will be fine. Gambling cannot provide complete joy, gambling only provides temporary pleasure and gambling is not everything. However, if your partner and family are everything that can give us happiness forever, then do everything wisely and responsibly, including gambling.

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Quote from: Tellek Garing on September 19, 2023, 10:48:36 AM

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems. Gambling which was meant to be a popular kind of entertainment for many and was designed to provide a temporary escape from everyday life and also help one to be more observant mentally task your brain and it is also good for your mental brain. When it becomes an addiction it causes financial strain the strain can manifest in various ways including the loss of shared savings, debt accumulation, and financial secrecy which may lead to strained communication between partners. This communication breakdown can prevent couples, friends, and associates from working together.

Gambling is meant to compliment and not dominate a person's lifestyle, so for me, the moment a person start letting his/her gambling activity starts to dominate & affect how he/she relate with others in the society, that's a first sign for call to action, as that is how gambling addiction gradually begins without the user even taking notice of it, so on that note, it's good to people to have time for everything, as too much of everything they say is bad.

I guess you emphasized the important part not enough in your post, which is that the user does not even take notice of the issue. I think this is the most dangerous about any addiction. It's like the person that gradually raises alcohol consumption from twice a month, to once a weekend, to twice a weekend, to one beer every day. Since the doses seems to be under control because it is only one beer a day, the person also thinks that everything is fine, but is it really?

I just heard someone saying in a Youtube video that the easiest way to find out whether it should be called an addiction or not is to just say "ok, I don't do this or that for 14 days in a row". No matter what it is, but any habit, which quickly gets confused with addiction. You could take coffee and caffeine as well. If it's only a habit, then break the habit for a while, but most people can't and I fully admit that I know what caffeine addiction is. I've been on it like a maniac and stopping is hard. Gambling addiction must be way worse because it has a whole different level of dopamine pushes. Can't compare it with a cup of coffee or a RedBull of course.

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Quote from: Tellek Garing on September 19, 2023, 10:48:36 AM

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems. Gambling which was meant to be a popular kind of entertainment for many and was designed to provide a temporary escape from everyday life and also help one to be more observant mentally task your brain and it is also good for your mental brain. When it becomes an addiction it causes financial strain the strain can manifest in various ways including the loss of shared savings, debt accumulation, and financial secrecy which may lead to strained communication between partners. This communication breakdown can prevent couples, friends, and associates from working together.

Doesn't this all depend on the mindset of each gambler?
As in the title of the other thread, gambling must be done carefully, gambling must have a healthy mindset and this is what I remember from these two threads, an example is that all gambling activities carried out by a person must remain committed to a healthy and mature mindset governing everything. finances for daily needs and gambling when you have money left over from daily needs and most importantly, if you already have a wife, giving money to the family is the most important thing.
So if one day your family finds out that you are gambling, it won't be a big problem or it won't be a relationship breaker because even though you are gambling, you are mature enough to be able to share your money fairly.

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I have personally watched several family got seperated, and it's all as a result of husband man always gambling away money that the wife believed would have been used for something much more important.

In my area where I live, there have been several instances where the neighborhood had to rush out to separate fights between husband and wife, and when tracing the root cause of the fight, it was discovered that husband man is unable to properly fend for his family because he spends more of his money and time gambling.

A very good friend of mine got seperated from his wife and kid, all as a result of his addiction to gambling, till today, this friend know not where his wife and kid are, it's more than 5 years already.

Gambling does affect relationships.

This is a sad aspect of gambling, isn't it?

Can the husband and wife come to some mutual consensus that the husband will allocate a certain amount of money to his personal hobbies and the wife will have no objection to it? So the husband gambles with that money or does whatever he likes, and the wife should never get upset about it.

Similarly the wife will also be given some money by husband and she can spent on makeup or whatever hobby and husband will have no objection about it. Until or unless there is mutual agreement and understanding between husband wife, it will only result in the end of relationship.

If only such consensus would work, well, it can sure work, but only with a couple who are financially comfortable, not for couple living from hand to mouth, imagine where the husband goes out in the morning, comes back in the evening with money that is not even enough for the family to eat and enjoy what they really want, the wife have to managed the money to put a thing or two together, and then on of that, the husband demand to be allowed to set some money aside for his personal hobbie, and when asked what that hobbie is, he replies "gambling", I can imagine how furious that wife must be at the man .

The truth is, for a man to be gambling while the wife is aware, and they still both live peacefully, it's two things.
Either the husband and the wife are both gamblers or, they are so financially comfortable that the woman doesnt care how her husband choose to spend his money as long as she always get whatever she ask for from the husband.

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