Couple won the jackpot but split soon after! - page 2.

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Quote from: Natsuu on April 05, 2024, 07:01:29 PM

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From what I saw in general, they both don't really love each other as partners; it's like they're just playing with each other's relationships; their only intention is to date each other. And if I look at the two who really should own what was won, I think it's the woman.

I guess it also does in many people in our day to day lives. Specifically with money, when we deal with our co-workers or our love ones about the money. The mood changes in the conversation. Money is something like would changes someone's behavior and will reveal their true colors and personality. Sad thing is, just like the couple, many people changes their intention only to the money and disregard everything to that. That is the worst.

It's the fear of losing that money and greed to have that money. Instead they get rid of their relationship.

True, money could changed up someone instantly no matter how you do love a person or whats your relationship with them and when that greed kicks in then you wont really be caring about that matter.
It is really just that sad that there are really those relationships that had been busted or broken because of too much greed on a certain individual on which they are really that giving priority on the money that they could get and not on cherishing on the relation that they do have but instead they would really be that giving priority when it comes to money which this proves out on how greedy bastard a certain human being could be.

Since this one isnt a couple who are married then there would really be no issues in between this one, it is really just that a waste that someone is dating but because of money they have split out.
Having that kind of suing on whose the one have the rights on the said amount.It is really just that proving out that we are really just that greedy.
Million dollars for your loved ones? Well this is the sad reality.

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There are people who believe that money is evil and can transform people, but I believe it is the opposite, money is a simple means that amplifies what people already are. If someone is selfish and greedy, give them money and they will become even more so.

Quote from: Sithara007 on April 06, 2024, 12:37:31 AM

Even if Michael Cartlidge sent the money, it was Charlotte Cox who purchased the lottery ticket. Unless Mr.Cartlidge can show proof that he and Cox had an agreement to split the prize money prior to the draw, there is no chance that he will get any amount out of it. At the most, he can file a civil suit against Cox, but even then I am not sure how it is going to help him. His only chance is in case of an out of court settlement, in which Cox maybe ready to part with 10% or 20% of the winnings, just to avoid the nuisance of legal battle.

To begin with, I believe that there was no real love in that couple. Just look at the fact that they are both overweight and don't look particularly handsome either. Surely it happened as it often happens that people get together with the one they have at hand to avoid being alone, but with people in love who plan to spend the rest of their lives together, this would not have happened.

Things as they are, I think it's most likely that what you say will happen. Lawsuits are expensive, and a settlement for a small percentage could avoid the trial and settle the matter.

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Quote from: Oshosondy on February 21, 2024, 04:09:24 AM

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So what is your thoughts on this, 50/50 good for you or nah?

No evidence that the man is telling the truth. No evidence also that the woman is telling the truth. But that woman has the legal right to the money won.

Quote from: 0t3p0t on February 21, 2024, 03:21:40 AM

Will you insist to have an ego battle if you are on the same situation?

If truly the man, Michael Cartlidge sent the money to Charlotte Cox (his girlfriend) that was used to win the huge amount of money. The man will feel cheated and will prefer lawsuit. That is the right thing to do.

Even if Michael Cartlidge sent the money, it was Charlotte Cox who purchased the lottery ticket. Unless Mr.Cartlidge can show proof that he and Cox had an agreement to split the prize money prior to the draw, there is no chance that he will get any amount out of it. At the most, he can file a civil suit against Cox, but even then I am not sure how it is going to help him. His only chance is in case of an out of court settlement, in which Cox maybe ready to part with 10% or 20% of the winnings, just to avoid the nuisance of legal battle.

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Quote from: bettercrypto on April 05, 2024, 05:31:38 PM

From what I saw in general, they both don't really love each other as partners; it's like they're just playing with each other's relationships; their only intention is to date each other. And if I look at the two who really should own what was won, I think it's the woman.

I guess it also does in many people in our day to day lives. Specifically with money, when we deal with our co-workers or our love ones about the money. The mood changes in the conversation. Money is something like would changes someone's behavior and will reveal their true colors and personality. Sad thing is, just like the couple, many people changes their intention only to the money and disregard everything to that. That is the worst.

It's the fear of losing that money and greed to have that money. Instead they get rid of their relationship.

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Quote from: asyakashi on February 21, 2024, 02:25:12 PM

it sounds funny, getting the jackpot is of course shared and this actually damages the brand's household, I agree with 50/50, that way both get and enjoy it so who can argue unless one side wants to control everything, very immoral

It's only greed that will make one side of the party disagree with 50/50 sharing. If not, the best thing to do in order for them to end everything amicably is to follow the guy's suggestion, which is to split the funds 50/50.

No one is going to lose anything, and at the end of the day, everyone will have a fair share that they could use to get themselves something worthy of the money.

Both of them going sideways might rally not just because of the money they won from the jackpot; money that can just be shared among them is not supposed to bring an issue that will set them apart.

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Quote from: blockman on April 01, 2024, 07:55:41 PM

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Well, if that's the matter then the guy just have to let it go and all the money will go to the woman. But that's what the man don't want to happen and if they're truly split already and their relationship can't go back. It's just best for them to have a talk as going to courts with this matters will take a lot of time and as well as money from them. Although the money is no longer an issue to them as they'd just deduct any expenses from the jackpot they've won.

Forget about them getting back together since "love" is of little to no value when they started arguing whether they should split or not. Another thing is that someone is clearly lying. It's all about the money.

Quote from: Frankolala on April 05, 2024, 05:17:33 PM

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Whatever funds belonging to the man is for the two of them, but whatever funds that bongs to her, is for her alone, excluding the man.

Sounds about right hehe. It's like the traditional role of the man to provide while the woman extracts.

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so that whatever belongs to any of the couples is for both of them.

They are not legally recognized as a couple though.

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From what I saw in general, they both don't really love each other as partners; it's like they're just playing with each other's relationships; their only intention is to date each other. And if I look at the two who really should own what was won, I think it's the woman.

Because the bank account that was used was her money, and the man or her boyfriend just had a clue because she did such a thing with the money. First, the man became greedy there, and I don't see anything that developed greed towards the woman. Because of the man's behavior, the woman saw that the man's behavior was not good. Maybe so that there would be no trouble, the woman just gave in to the man even though she knew him, or he thinks that he really has more right to the ticket.

It was just sad that in the end they went their relationship ended up because of money.

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Quote from: South Park on April 05, 2024, 04:06:26 PM

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Some marriages that are working today, because either or both partners doesn't have money and that's why when money comes, that's the time you see the true nature of most marriage partners. So if a couple after winning a jackpot decides to go their separate ways, it simply means that the marriage wasn't built on genuine love rather either of them was trying to be surviving on each other or both parties needed the company of each other to survive which is why they decided to split since they now know that they can survive without the help if each other with the money they got from the jackpot. Legal officers are always happy to get involved in such cases because since a huge sum of money is involved, they'll also walk away with a reasonable amount of money at the end of the whole legal proceedings.

That might not apply to most couples but yes, some couples are married but they would have clashes and fights and might even get separated if one of them manages to get rich all of a sudden either by winning a lottery or by any means. Such couples are never in love with each other but are living with each other and dragging the relationship as a compromise, and as soon as one of them finds an opportunity they can use, they won't leave it.

However, you will also find couples that would never do such a thing. If one of them manages to get a significant amount of money, they would think of doing everything for both of them because they don't want to get separate but to have a better life together. If someone is with you in your hardships, they deserve all the luxuries once you are capable of providing them that.

I really think that the number of couples that would split over an event like this is way higher than what we may believe, it is just that it is very odd for those opportunities to present themselves that could allow a couple to get such level of wealth so suddenly, however in this particular case I feel sorry for the boyfriend since it is really unlikely he will get a dime out of this, even if it was his idea to buy those lottery tickets to begin with.

The boyfriend is the loser, because his girlfriend does not consider him worthy of her, and to share from her wins. I don't know what could have warrant to her actions, but it is common within females. Whatever funds belonging to the man is for the two of them, but whatever funds that bongs to her, is for her alone, excluding the man.

I don't know why they are like that. This is why a relationship should be based on love and not on personal interests, so that whatever belongs to any of the couples is for both of them.

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Some marriages that are working today, because either or both partners doesn't have money and that's why when money comes, that's the time you see the true nature of most marriage partners. So if a couple after winning a jackpot decides to go their separate ways, it simply means that the marriage wasn't built on genuine love rather either of them was trying to be surviving on each other or both parties needed the company of each other to survive which is why they decided to split since they now know that they can survive without the help if each other with the money they got from the jackpot. Legal officers are always happy to get involved in such cases because since a huge sum of money is involved, they'll also walk away with a reasonable amount of money at the end of the whole legal proceedings.

That might not apply to most couples but yes, some couples are married but they would have clashes and fights and might even get separated if one of them manages to get rich all of a sudden either by winning a lottery or by any means. Such couples are never in love with each other but are living with each other and dragging the relationship as a compromise, and as soon as one of them finds an opportunity they can use, they won't leave it.

However, you will also find couples that would never do such a thing. If one of them manages to get a significant amount of money, they would think of doing everything for both of them because they don't want to get separate but to have a better life together. If someone is with you in your hardships, they deserve all the luxuries once you are capable of providing them that.

I really think that the number of couples that would split over an event like this is way higher than what we may believe, it is just that it is very odd for those opportunities to present themselves that could allow a couple to get such level of wealth so suddenly, however in this particular case I feel sorry for the boyfriend since it is really unlikely he will get a dime out of this, even if it was his idea to buy those lottery tickets to begin with.

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Quote from: Docnaster on March 31, 2024, 07:30:51 PM

Some marriages that are working today, because either or both partners doesn't have money and that's why when money comes, that's the time you see the true nature of most marriage partners. So if a couple after winning a jackpot decides to go their separate ways, it simply means that the marriage wasn't built on genuine love rather either of them was trying to be surviving on each other or both parties needed the company of each other to survive which is why they decided to split since they now know that they can survive without the help if each other with the money they got from the jackpot. Legal officers are always happy to get involved in such cases because since a huge sum of money is involved, they'll also walk away with a reasonable amount of money at the end of the whole legal proceedings.

That might not apply to most couples but yes, some couples are married but they would have clashes and fights and might even get separated if one of them manages to get rich all of a sudden either by winning a lottery or by any means. Such couples are never in love with each other but are living with each other and dragging the relationship as a compromise, and as soon as one of them finds an opportunity they can use, they won't leave it.

However, you will also find couples that would never do such a thing. If one of them manages to get a significant amount of money, they would think of doing everything for both of them because they don't want to get separate but to have a better life together. If someone is with you in your hardships, they deserve all the luxuries once you are capable of providing them that.

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Quote from: Yogee on March 31, 2024, 08:03:36 PM

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Quote from: Ojima-ojo on March 29, 2024, 04:18:34 PM

Ops is there any update on the case, because this topic seems to attract alot of comments and discussions that will become more interesting if we can have update on the case, have the couple finally agreed on a sharing formula or they are still at a longer head with fights over who get what and how much the each get, I believe by now there should already be enjoying the money and making peace within because for me they both luck shine and that is why they won the jackpot on the first place.

I am also interested if there are updates about this.

There are no updates yet apparently. The woman is probably preparing her defense as we speak since I don't think she will be sharing the money unless she was obliged to do so. She is the only recognized winner according to the lottery office terms after all and it will be the court who will decide if the guy deserves a share of the jackpot. This case could take a year or more depending on the country's legal process.

Well, if that's the matter then the guy just have to let it go and all the money will go to the woman. But that's what the man don't want to happen and if they're truly split already and their relationship can't go back. It's just best for them to have a talk as going to courts with this matters will take a lot of time and as well as money from them. Although the money is no longer an issue to them as they'd just deduct any expenses from the jackpot they've won.

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Quote from: Ojima-ojo on March 29, 2024, 04:18:34 PM

Ops is there any update on the case, because this topic seems to attract alot of comments and discussions that will become more interesting if we can have update on the case, have the couple finally agreed on a sharing formula or they are still at a longer head with fights over who get what and how much the each get, I believe by now there should already be enjoying the money and making peace within because for me they both luck shine and that is why they won the jackpot on the first place.

I am also interested if there are updates about this.

There are no updates yet apparently. The woman is probably preparing her defense as we speak since I don't think she will be sharing the money unless she was obliged to do so. She is the only recognized winner according to the lottery office terms after all and it will be the court who will decide if the guy deserves a share of the jackpot. This case could take a year or more depending on the country's legal process.

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The zen way to be about a situation like this is grateful for the immediate clarity the lost lotto money brings. This was someone you might have lost money in a divorce to if accidentally missing the fact that the cash was more important then any other consideration in the relationship. To be fair to the winning partner in this argument it could also be quite coincidental that the relationship was already over by the time of the win and it made no difference in the end, it sure looks like that was not the case but its also possible that just the timing was off.

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Quote from: South Park on March 22, 2024, 04:14:20 PM

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Money can indeed be a contentious issue that can create tensions that escalate into conflicts. Differences in financial opinions, values, and behaviors can create tensions that can result in estrangement or enmity. When disputes arise, especially those related to significant financial matters such as gambling, both parties may feel strongly about their positions and unwilling to compromise.

The court system is an option for resolving financial disputes, but the proceedings can be lengthy, costly, and emotionally draining. The adversarial nature of litigation can further strain relationships and lead to long-lasting animosity. Resolving disputes about money requires a willingness to listen, compromise, and prioritize the preservation of relationships over financial disagreements. Legal action may be necessary in some cases, it's better to construct effective communication, empathy, and a willingness to find common ground.

Even if you are right, we also know that greed allows you to see the true nature of people, and it is obvious that this couple has decided to fight out in court with all their resources to get the most they can out of this prize money, which is a shame as they could have easily split the money in half and each take their own path on life, but because of that money, now they will have to fight a long time on court, and the ones which will benefit the most out of that prize money are the lawyers that represent them.

Some marriages that are working today, because either or both partners doesn't have money and that's why when money comes, that's the time you see the true nature of most marriage partners. So if a couple after winning a jackpot decides to go their separate ways, it simply means that the marriage wasn't built on genuine love rather either of them was trying to be surviving on each other or both parties needed the company of each other to survive which is why they decided to split since they now know that they can survive without the help if each other with the money they got from the jackpot. Legal officers are always happy to get involved in such cases because since a huge sum of money is involved, they'll also walk away with a reasonable amount of money at the end of the whole legal proceedings.

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Quote from: Ojima-ojo on March 29, 2024, 04:18:34 PM

Ops is there any update on the case, because this topic seems to attract alot of comments and discussions that will become more interesting if we can have update on the case, have the couple finally agreed on a sharing formula or they are still at a longer head with fights over who get what and how much the each get, I believe by now there should already be enjoying the money and making peace within because for me they both luck shine and that is why they won the jackpot on the first place.

I am also interested if there are updates about this. Because the interesting part is that money have split their relationship and we can all have that conclusion that their relationship is capitalized by money and any amount that's involved on this jackpot. Well, if I am one of the party and my partner wants to split because of that money, I'd give it to her and that have saved me from being tied up in my lifetime!

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Quote from: South Park on March 29, 2024, 04:08:20 PM

While they sure had their own share of problems, I really think that if the amount of money is high enough, that can be more than enough to ruin a good relationship, after all if a person fund out that their partner wanted to keep all of that money for themselves and not share anything with them, then they have the right to be mad about it, however on this particular case it is going to be an uphill battle for the boyfriend as it seems that legally that money belongs only to her.

I have asked several friends about this, and they tell me no, that they will never prefer money to their partners, but it is one thing to say it and another very different thing is to be there and see how things are, some women They don't think about it, at least where I live many want to find older people so that they don't work or anything, of course they are few, but there are some, so this is something that can be very different and according to the training that has been given to a person in particular, it changes, because there are women who are actually very valuable and have many good things, and those women who are like that are quite difficult to get, so that's why I say in life Finding a Partner is a lottery, It is not known what they may date as time Goes by , the cases can be very Different when they are considered in terms of a couple, in the case of OP I think that there is no love and there Never was love.

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Ops is there any update on the case, because this topic seems to attract alot of comments and discussions that will become more interesting if we can have update on the case, have the couple finally agreed on a sharing formula or they are still at a longer head with fights over who get what and how much the each get, I believe by now there should already be enjoying the money and making peace within because for me they both luck shine and that is why they won the jackpot on the first place.

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Basically they are no longer harmonious, because they no longer have one direction, one perception and one goal. So it will be quite difficult for couples to continue their relationship well. Moreover, this couple received quite a large prize from their betting activities, with this money they were able to let go of their dependence on each other. and living alone is not a problem for him because he has enough money beside him. And dividing the money evenly is the best solution. but it was very unfortunate, just because of greed, instead of the money being able to provide happiness, the money they got only caused chaos which further complicated their relationship. And in the end, instead of them being able to enjoy the money for fun, the money is actually used up for court costs and to pay lawyers. Really stupid....

Just as you have rightly mentioned, greed is at play I both couples and there is high chances also that they already hard a stray relationship because if everything where to be good between the couples they should have been able to work things out within themselves and even if they will have a joint account for such an amount and split I within them later it could have been more mature.

Also from the story, we already know that the woman stated that the money used to purchase the ticke was her money and for sure she will definitely claim the money but at the end the man also will be legally entitled to some percents of that money being involved in the lottery process that leads to the winning.

While they sure had their own share of problems, I really think that if the amount of money is high enough, that can be more than enough to ruin a good relationship, after all if a person found out that their partner wanted to keep all of that money for themselves and not share anything with them, then they have the right to be mad about it, however on this particular case it is going to be an uphill battle for the boyfriend as it seems that legally that money belongs only to her.

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Quote from: Juse14 on March 24, 2024, 02:39:53 PM

Basically they are no longer harmonious, because they no longer have one direction, one perception and one goal. So it will be quite difficult for couples to continue their relationship well. Moreover, this couple received quite a large prize from their betting activities, with this money they were able to let go of their dependence on each other. and living alone is not a problem for him because he has enough money beside him. And dividing the money evenly is the best solution. but it was very unfortunate, just because of greed, instead of the money being able to provide happiness, the money they got only caused chaos which further complicated their relationship. And in the end, instead of them being able to enjoy the money for fun, the money is actually used up for court costs and to pay lawyers. Really stupid....

Just as you have rightly mentioned, greed is at play I both couples and there is high chances also that they already hard a stray relationship because if everything where to be good between the couples they should have been able to work things out within themselves and even if they will have a joint account for such an amount and split I within them later it could have been more mature.

Also from the story, we already know that the woman stated that the money used to purchase the ticke was her money and for sure she will definitely claim the money but at the end the man also will be legally entitled to some percents of that money being involved in the lottery process that leads to the winning.

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Quote from: Oilacris on March 24, 2024, 02:17:18 PM

Totally really sad that they do really come up into this kind of situation on which they do break their relationship just because of money on which i could tell that both have their own mistakes on why
this thing do really ends up on this way. They are trying out to claim something a portion of such winning and the other one wants really to have it all since its her funds that had been used.
On the time that there are those conflicts then this is where they do really show up their true colors about for the love of money or simply they are really just that too greedy.

Somehow in speaking about on the amount that we are talking on here which it is really that millions then usually people do really changed up instantly when it comes to this aspect.
Not all would really be able to get a hold of this kind of amount into their rest of their lives and since they are still that new in their relationship then this is
something that would really be that so simple to break just for the sake on getting those prizes in one whole lump sum. lol

You are right, sometimes when people are starting a relationship and this is presented to them, it is an indication that everything was going to turn out very well for them, if at the beginning they were able to find that fortune, then they must have thought that whatever they set out to do they would achieve it. However, almost all people in the world are like that, they change with money and that is something they cannot avoid, I also understand the point you make, that there is so much money that it is very difficult for anyone to have it in their life, so These kinds of things are what have made things look so ugly and have caused fights.

Sometimes I don't like fighting for money , the only way is for someone to try to take what Belongs to you, or for someone to scam you, that's why it would be the only thing I would fight, or for something unfair, these types of things are what one As a player you must take care.

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