Topic: Couple won the jackpot but split soon after! - page 4. (Read 2023 times)

When I first came across this thread, I felt they were married but this is just too people dating and nothing more. These ain’t couples as, couples are by bonds and vows one, there wouldn’t have been any need for a split but a judicious use of the win for family plans and financing.

Money remains the one thing that could come between two people, even in the best of friendships, relationships and even marriage. Worst still, a 3 months relationship. That’s practically nothing and doesn’t mean much as it’s been proven by this issue of a win of this magnitude. Couples wouldn’t do this!

You haven't narrated anything real about how they were married, what the condition of their marriage was, where they reside and if they had kids together -- but I'll simply say that on the jurisdiction of the Court, intervention beyond all odds would be made in splitting the winning between them, according to their jurisdiction...

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That's a big problem. One of parties could decide to abscond with the said funds (if it's in their custody) and the story will surely become a different one. AGAIN, I don't think there's any legal tiedown over the funds unless they wanna decide to not fuck around .

Sandra 🧑‍🦰

Yeah, I remember now that there are a lot of couples and married people that if it's about money, they're forgetting who they are and what they've been through.

I even saw stories about partners that had to do something disgusting just to get the insurance benefit from their lovers.

We can't do anything with that, even if you say that they shouldn't made a decision to split up and save their relationship, no can do.

They've already decided and there's no one that can stop them when everyone has finally decided and that's how it goes for the journey of being together.

It should not surprise anyone, the most common stated reason for divorce is not infidelity but monetary reasons, and unsurprisingly many more people remain together because divorce is too expensive and they cannot afford it, so whenever some windfall money comes around the couple immediately splits, however since we are talking about a lot of money here, this particular split will need hiring lawyers and a great deal of money will be lost just on paying their wages.

Very funny indeed. This is a clear indication that said couple were never meant for each other. They were only dating themselves because they never have money. Now they do, they want to date and marry someone better of their choice they dream to spend the rest of their lives with.

That's the habit of the most being. They act cool and cheerful to their fellow being when they don't have money. By the time their account begins to count in millions, they separate themselves from old friends, to begin to make new friends they will like to mingle with.

On the other hand I don't know who is right and wrong between the two people, but certainly yes they should not have made the decision to separate in the midst of what should have been a happy situation for both of them, and I am sure that it seems that one of these couples is too selfish and claims unilaterally about the money from his winnings so that maybe it becomes a problem that ultimately leads to separation.

The fact is that we can't measure the longevity of a relationship by how long they've been together, I think it's happened so often, that I've even heard of couples who've been dating for up to 10 years but they've had to end up splitting up instead of coming together to reach a marriage decision, Of course anything can happen along the way especially some unforeseen problems that can eventually lead to a breakup in a relationship, and from this incident I agree with you that this is actually a pretty good situation for both of them by deciding to separate because they already know about each other's true nature before finally entering into a more serious level such as marriage.

It's tempting to assume greed, a sudden hunger for a bigger slice of the pie. But maybe there's more to it. Perhaps the intense shared focus on the win masked deeper issues. Now, with the goal achieved, those cracks start to show. Maybe one partner harbors a secret dream, an aspiration the shared pursuit put on hold. Or perhaps the pressure of the chase strained their communication, leaving unspoken resentments festering.

A split might seem like the easy way out, but it's worth exploring the "why" before they walk separate paths.  Imagine a therapist acting as a neutral space, encouraging open communication. By understanding each other's desires and anxieties, they might rediscover the foundation of their partnership. Remember, a win can be a magnifying glass, revealing both the strength and fragility of a relationship.  Perhaps with honest conversation and a renewed sense of shared purpose, they can rewrite the ending.  They might decide to use their newfound resources to pursue individual dreams, but as a team, supporting each other's journeys.

Come to think that even married people would really be having that kind of potential problem when it comes to money on where they do end up on having a divorce just on some small issues.
How much more if they would really be talking about millions? If the other one would really be  that greedy then for sure it would be ending up on having those legal sues on who have the rights
on the money that had won. Human beings are indeed naturally greedy and if you have a partner on which it is really that greedy then you would really be having such huge problem.

The situation stated on OP is indeed not that much of something in concern since they are just new. Just like been said that it is really just that sad that both did end up on
having those legal issues and throwing those words and everything just for the sake of money. Yes, its big but you have wasted your relationship just for the sake of money
on which i could say that money isnt everything but well, people are naturally greedy as i say.

That's for people who thinks about their relationship but many people becomes not comfortable to still close bond because they will see what their couple after they winning much money. Many times, personal attitude will change because of money and that makes relationship between two people will impact because of their attitude and else. One of them can becomes greedy and wants to posses their couple's money so they can do many things to have that money. Instead  having a bad relations with their couple, they decided to separate and used their money for their lives. It's a good decision for them so they don't have to feels a bad experience.

When someone gets instant money or a lot of money at once (like a Jackpot or lottery), the priorities and the nature of the person usually change. Some people who are considered to be good, become bad or selfish all of a sudden. There may be few who remain good or become more better after getting a lot of money, but the majority of the people will give priority to money over anything else.


In an ideal situation, if a couple or good friends get money, it should result in a closer bond between them but this does not happen in reality. People want to get more money and they will try to find every reason to make the other person believe that they are the one who deserves this money and this thought will not only make you greedy but it will just get the relationship disturbed to such an extent that they may break forever.

That's why gamblers should avoid being greedy because it happens to everybody and not just them but also investors. But when it's about relationships and money, this is where many don't agree because at the same time, they've got some plans on their heads to be done alone.

When someone figures that out, the doubt comes in and they don't have to do many talks confirming their thoughts and desires on how they'd use the money for the benefit of both party that's inside that relationship.

So, a reminder to all that are in a relationship to take care of each other whether with money matters or not but I think married couples are an exemption because they've been through a lot and they ended up marrying each other.

Totally sad on which people are really that been changed up by money and this is something which it isnt really that shocking and for those who do love that someone and not really that going for the money then it is really just that a sad situation because no one would really be expecting that particular love ones would really be exchanging out your relationship for the money. Actually if you do try to look into the situation on which if the guy didnt really have the time to argue and just simply accept out that he doesnt have any part or allocation or right for the said amount or winnings then everything would be went smooth because if we do tend to look on legal means on which there's no way that he could really be able to win up because we've seen that the money been spent to buy that ticket owns by that woman so it would be normal that he
have the full rights.

Greed could changed up people instantly specially we are talking about millions on here then it wont really be that shocking that people do changed up their treatment specially
if argumentations been made about allocation or on whose the right with those funds but if this one talks about married people then it wont really be that an issue.

Ypu would be surprised but this happens more often than people would expect.  A lot of people feel stuck together and once financially free they split.  The biggest issue that they don't realize is lawyers are going going to suck a lot of this up.  With money comes good lawyers.  Amd good lawyers are expensive.  Shame really but I guess in the end it's better than being stuck with someone you don't care to be around.

Money is very important in anything we are doing. We should be ready for the mere changes in people that were once poor or averagely comfortable and now they are rich. Change is constant and we need to be ready to embrace it. If we want to keep making money in gambling, there are some certain risks we should be prepared for so we can keep making profits from the market. It is not easy for us to keep hustling and getting results, and when we get results we need  to embrace some certain persons in our life that had been of help for us some we can keep hustling and bringing good people to our surroundings.

Yeah, they will be in fair situation but whoever loves the other is the loser here. Because he or she wasn't expecting a split up after the jackpot has been won.

I've seen a lot of relationships fallen apart with various reasons even they've been together for so long. You can't really tell what can happen and it might be finances issues or just you're not clicking together even if you try to do it with various agreements.

They can be married together but they have to cut their ties as early as that moment of breaking up when someone already shown the true them.

That's just the reality of most people in this world, while others in the best way of their life, they won't recognize who is true to them and who is not because they can see all of them are their friends and once they lose all of that, only real ones remained. that's why when you have some huge fortune with you, you are recommended not to let others know because once they have access to it, they will eventually change and take that fortune from you in any way shape or form no matter how close you are to them when it comes to money, blood won't get thicker and you need to keep it to yourself in secret in order to save your relations.

Money is the root of all evil and women are moves by this thing. I don't blame the women though, the society has makes money a priority for them to like the men that has the women but the moment they start making their own money, they begin to show their true color how they can be independent without anyone. That's exactly what this lady just displayed to the man after winning the jackpot, sadly she will end up spending all of that in materialistic things.

This should never be a thing of woman or a man but I think when a person win money from gambling, a life changing money, it should never cross your mind that he is going to bless you from his jackpot, doing this will relief you from any embarrassment like this. If the man doesn't eye on the money despite when wasn't even considerate, who knows if the relationship might still be alive.

Winning a jackpot worth $1.9 million is an extraordinary thing, of course there are many pros and cons to the dollar value won.
* I have never experienced such a situation.
* For me 50/50 is not an obstacle, provided that where the main capital comes from, that is the main question......!
If the capital comes from me personally, of course I don't have the right to deduct 50/50, that's my authority, but if the main capital comes from my girlfriend, of course she has the right to get that, there doesn't have to be another sequence.
* The ego is maintained if the situation is like what I said above.
* Solving problem.
1. Discuss the point of the problem first, then deal with and resolve the problems that occur.
The problem will be resolved if the initial problem point and cause are found.
If the jackpot situation is won by your boyfriend, of course he has the right and vice versa.

You are absolutely right, it's good that the women where you are have that thought, unfortunately the women who are in my environment and almost everywhere in the country think about making easy money, whether it's like tik tok doing really ridiculous things or looking for the so-called "suggar daddy" so that they can make their lives easier, so the environment here revolves a lot around interest in money, I would say that the values around here have been lost in the majority of young women, what you are talking about is the ideal, the that we are all looking for, but it is very difficult to find it, I don't know what women are like in Europe or something like that, here women hook up quickly because of how affectionate they are, how helpful and when you find a good woman they are "home" women who don't They are sexually libertinaje and they are well focused on what they want.

But money is not something that is not needed, because it is needed a lot, as I said before: Love without money does not last, you have to have money for Everything , but when the woman is good it does not matter if she has to go out to work because the man cannot for any reason, be it illness or something like that, they go out because they think as a couple, possibly as a family, they know that their partner will not fail them, and that is what they should look for, the money will always be there, it goes and It comes, one just has to look for it.

All of that would not be a problem if they both really agreed with his decision to end the relationship and also I hope that they really share equally like 50-50 the results of the jackpot winnings each so that the situation is not one-sided. But in my opinion this is a pretty unfortunate situation, they should both be able to enjoy the money from the big win together by using it for things they like like like maybe buying tickets and going on vacation somewhere romantic or building a business like a business together or even they could use it to build a more serious relationship like to pay for the wedding.

But yes everyone has their own decisions, and honestly I don't know about who first invited to decide to separate, even though this should be a happy moment for both of them, but yes maybe there are other issues behind the winning money from the jackpot that makes them have to end the relationship, no one knows.