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Quote from: alexsandria on November 27, 2019, 02:02:50 PM

Time is the absolute thing we can rely on specially on this. We cannot deny the fact that it is totally devastating to loss a money by the reason of time ONLY and we are the responsible one from it, it is not from techinical or other out door factors that cause to me to loss such money but me itself whom are responsible to loss money because of my recklessness.

But it's hard, I woke up I had a really bad feeling, the feeling that I was doing "dumb" for 7 days, everything went away. I feel guilty and don't blame anyone else, but I don't know the burden of letting go of this ugly past.

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Time is the absolute thing we can rely on specially on this. We cannot deny the fact that it is totally devastating to loss a money by the reason of time ONLY and we are the responsible one from it, it is not from techinical or other out door factors that cause to me to loss such money but me itself whom are responsible to loss money because of my recklessness.

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Quote from: Maotezi on November 26, 2019, 03:08:26 PM

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Not really sure what you mean. If my company starts to miss my paychecks I would just bail as soon as possible. Missing paycheck and losing money is not the same. I guess to are comparing this with losing all your deposit in gambling.
If you "feel" like gambling is harming you, then stop gambling. Tell your family and friends about your problem and let them help you! Time will help you cure, but its of no use if you go back to gambling again.

^ It's not all about gambling, it's about you how to manage in gambling to your self. But that is not what OP meant. Something like regretting your decisions and stake and when you see your paycheck it was just a loss. This is all about self-discipline and it should have a limitation that only places a bet that you can afford to lose not to spend your whole salary in gambling or else, repentance always comes at last.

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Quote from: Maotezi on November 26, 2019, 03:08:26 PM

Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
This topic is for everyone nervous and angry because they lost their money.
Losing money is not easy to endure Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
I just feel that way, angry, but I'm strong enough not to make desperate decisions and continue to ruin.
Is the best cure time? Wait a while to get things back in place.

For all of us who have lost, HOLD! Cry

Not really sure what you mean. If my company starts to miss my paychecks I would just bail as soon as possible. Missing paycheck and losing money is not the same. I guess to are comparing this with losing all your deposit in gambling.
If you "feel" like gambling is harming you, then stop gambling. Tell your family and friends about your problem and let them help you! Time will help you cure, but its of no use if you go back to gambling again.

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Quote from: Chrystora123 on November 27, 2019, 10:24:33 AM

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Quote from: NeuroticFish on November 26, 2019, 03:45:15 PM

I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

everyone has a different way of dealing with the problems they face, and you will not be able to reach out to everyone's feelings one by one.. Personally I don't think too much about what I did before, I let every loss I get, I think the lost money can I get again but time can not I get again... I would only waste energy, time and maybe get sick if I kept thinking about the money I had lost.

Past experiences whether good or bad give you teaching and when it comes to money very vital one should take a moment to think and see how we could have done it better or the ways so as to avoid in future which will help not to repeat same mistake ahead .

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Quote from: andycarrol on November 27, 2019, 10:28:57 AM

Quote from: Chrystora123 on November 27, 2019, 10:24:33 AM

Quote from: Maotezi on November 26, 2019, 03:54:28 PM

Quote from: NeuroticFish on November 26, 2019, 03:45:15 PM

I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

everyone has a different way of dealing with the problems they face, and you will not be able to reach out to everyone's feelings one by one.. Personally I don't think too much about what I did before, I let every loss I get, I think the lost money can I get again but time can not I get again... I would only waste energy, time and maybe get sick if I kept thinking about the money I had lost.

a bad feeling when losing is normal, but don't drag on thinking about it. we must remember that money can be sought again, the most important thing is that you must learn from experience not to repeat the same mistakes. rise and enthusiasm to get more money.

Gambling just for the source of fun and not source for income because not all the time when you are gambling, you will win those games, better to control yourself in playing gambling because you are taking a risk just for playing. One of the proper things to avoid too much loss in betting is to set a limit or amount of value needed to play, and then it those lose better to take time to earn another money just for playing. Don't gamble every day. It is just an addiction for losing and giving your payment to the other person. If you are still want to play better to takes time to study gambling, search for some techniques and methods to do to win the game.

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Quote from: Chrystora123 on November 27, 2019, 10:24:33 AM

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Quote from: NeuroticFish on November 26, 2019, 03:45:15 PM

I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

everyone has a different way of dealing with the problems they face, and you will not be able to reach out to everyone's feelings one by one.. Personally I don't think too much about what I did before, I let every loss I get, I think the lost money can I get again but time can not I get again... I would only waste energy, time and maybe get sick if I kept thinking about the money I had lost.

a bad feeling when losing is normal, but don't drag on thinking about it. we must remember that money can be sought again, the most important thing is that you must learn from experience not to repeat the same mistakes. rise and enthusiasm to get more money.

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Quote from: Maotezi on November 26, 2019, 03:54:28 PM

Quote from: NeuroticFish on November 26, 2019, 03:45:15 PM

I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

everyone has a different way of dealing with the problems they face, and you will not be able to reach out to everyone's feelings one by one.. Personally I don't think too much about what I did before, I let every loss I get, I think the lost money can I get again but time can not I get again... I would only waste energy, time and maybe get sick if I kept thinking about the money I had lost.

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Quote from: Reatim on November 27, 2019, 09:35:26 AM

Quote from: Genemind on November 27, 2019, 08:53:16 AM

It happened to me a few months ago where I used my crypto salary in gambling. It brought me a terrible feeling and I have been through a rough situation which I'm really regretful of. From then on, I tried to put limits and to discipline myself. I learned how to allocate enough funds for staking and I tried not to be too greedy. We only have to control things well.

but it is easy said than done right?

tons of people here in gambling section posted the same idea that we must be responsible gambler,control our self when playing,bring enough money for playing ETC,but the reality?majority of those who says that positivities are not doing the same thing that they say,instead they are a terrible gamblers in real life,or some are not really gambler and so that easy for them to tell some good story because they dont know the feeling of being one.

More talks less action.
That's how life works. There are more opinions coming from those people who do not really tried to gamble in a way where you almost lost all of your money or those people that gambles who do not doing the same thing as they said.

But, what their opinion is really well said, but it is really hard to apply especially to limit and to control yourself.

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Quote from: Genemind on November 27, 2019, 08:53:16 AM

It happened to me a few months ago where I used my crypto salary in gambling. It brought me a terrible feeling and I have been through a rough situation which I'm really regretful of. From then on, I tried to put limits and to discipline myself. I learned how to allocate enough funds for staking and I tried not to be too greedy. We only have to control things well.

but it is easy said than done right?

tons of people here in gambling section posted the same idea that we must be responsible gambler,control our self when playing,bring enough money for playing ETC,but the reality?majority of those who says that positivities are not doing the same thing that they say,instead they are a terrible gamblers in real life,or some are not really gambler and so that easy for them to tell some good story because they dont know the feeling of being one.

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Quote from: Maotezi on November 26, 2019, 03:54:28 PM

Quote from: NeuroticFish on November 26, 2019, 03:45:15 PM

I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

Are you talking about you have lose all of your money from your paycheck because of gambling? That's what you mean? If that's the case then you must be responsible about this happenings because you the one who plays and gambles the money so before the gambling or the play starts, you already know what would be the possible outcomes of the gambling it's either you will lose or you will win. When I lose a huge amount of money and it is because of gambling in which almost all of the salary I have get was put into the gambling and lose, it is really sad and depressing because I don't know yet to do but I tried to debt on friends so that I would be able to have extra money.

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It happened to me a few months ago where I used my crypto salary in gambling. It brought me a terrible feeling and I have been through a rough situation which I'm really regretful of. From then on, I tried to put limits and to discipline myself. I learned how to allocate enough funds for staking and I tried not to be too greedy. We only have to control things well.

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Quote from: Maotezi on November 26, 2019, 03:54:28 PM

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

If you're pertaining to gambling then its really hard to lose everything you had because of it, realizing your mistake in the end can cause anyone to become depress and desperate on how to get it back especially if its an important money thats meant for your family's needs. Despite this we have to think positive on how to resolve the problem and move on. Sometimes losing everything is an eye opener to change ourselves to not become addicted or not to use a money that we cant afford to lose.

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Quote from: Maotezi on November 26, 2019, 03:54:28 PM

I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people

You will only have that feeling if you are gambling not within your means, and you pour amounts to bet that is beyond what you can lose,
I experienced that twice and it's a big lesson, because the feeling is hard to accept and hard to deal, but I decide to treat this as a lesson in life, and in gambling that you should only play within your means.

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Quote from: imstillthebest on November 27, 2019, 07:50:03 AM

Quote from: Inkdatar on November 27, 2019, 07:27:26 AM

Never gamble your whole salary it is not wise enough to do. When you lose everything it feels you are down and cannot move on easily. The decisions to make when at lose do not be desperate instead, plan to move forward and the next time do not gamble if you cannot afford to lose. We know in gambling it’s either you can win or lose, and also luck may come or not in your way.

true . this is why there is an advice called gamble only what you can afford . when you have a good salary earnt from your job , just take only half or amount that you can easily forget whenever you loose but never ever gamble all of it because you did work hard for that money to earn it and its pretty much weaking if you can loose it all in an instant . i do also have a job but i dont like to gamble my salary because its only small and my work is tedious .

Half is too much, I think a little percentage is fine from salary since gambling can be used to make yourself have a fun time.
Of course, OP should have realized that he earned his money through his hard work, and it should be used in his own needs or in his family. Using it only to gambling is not a wise decision.

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Quote from: Inkdatar on November 27, 2019, 07:27:26 AM

Never gamble your whole salary it is not wise enough to do. When you lose everything it feels you are down and cannot move on easily. The decisions to make when at lose do not be desperate instead, plan to move forward and the next time do not gamble if you cannot afford to lose. We know in gambling it’s either you can win or lose, and also luck may come or not in your way.

some bad ideas when playing gambling is to use money from salary and borrowed money. I have lost so much in gambling, but I have never felt pain, because I gambled from free money that got it not with difficulty.

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Quote from: Inkdatar on November 27, 2019, 07:27:26 AM

Never gamble your whole salary it is not wise enough to do. When you lose everything it feels you are down and cannot move on easily. The decisions to make when at lose do not be desperate instead, plan to move forward and the next time do not gamble if you cannot afford to lose. We know in gambling it’s either you can win or lose, and also luck may come or not in your way.

If you're a responsible person, it wouldn't happen, but when you're not having self-control and yet, you're an irresponsible type of guy; gambling the entire salary is a possible. The most addicted gamblers only worked for money, just for gambling lucky betting without even thinking the value of their salary on how hard to earn by your own sweat. Always prioritize family budgets, and if you can't avoid betting for gambling then have it 10% of your salary as occasional allowance for gambling to minimize it.

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Quote from: Inkdatar on November 27, 2019, 07:27:26 AM

Never gamble your whole salary it is not wise enough to do. When you lose everything it feels you are down and cannot move on easily. The decisions to make when at lose do not be desperate instead, plan to move forward and the next time do not gamble if you cannot afford to lose. We know in gambling it’s either you can win or lose, and also luck may come or not in your way.

true . this is why there is an advice called gamble only what you can afford . when you have a good salary earnt from your job , just take only half or amount that you can easily forget whenever you loose but never ever gamble all of it because you did work hard for that money to earn it and its pretty much weaking if you can loose it all in an instant . i do also have a job but i dont like to gamble my salary because its only small and my work is tedious .

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Never gamble your whole salary it is not wise enough to do. When you lose everything it feels you are down and cannot move on easily. The decisions to make when at lose do not be desperate instead, plan to move forward and the next time do not gamble if you cannot afford to lose. We know in gambling it’s either you can win or lose, and also luck may come or not in your way.

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Quote from: Oasisman on November 27, 2019, 04:31:01 AM

Lossing all your paycheck which I assume your whole month salary is somehow a pain in the ass, but let's look at the bright side of it, considering there are people who just lost everything (car, house, and family) not just in a single stake, but an overall total amount of losses. Consider it lucky if you still feel remorse after lossing a paycheck than lossing everything in the long term. That's a scenario to ponder.

Quote from: Debonaire217 on November 26, 2019, 08:45:11 PM

I don't see the direct relation of this OP to the gambling but I want to relate it somehow.

If you were able to read the whole thread you will easily notice the OP did clarified his statement above to relate everything in gambling.
https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/m.53188390

I don't see your point. Your seeing a bright side of there is someone lost more than how much you have lost. It is not a bright side, it is something that an individual can take to risk. Every individual does have their own level of financial capability, and if the only money you can risk is the same as the amount of your paycheck, it is just the same as some other gambler who lost even their car or house due to gambling. They are capable of it, and that's how it is.

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