Topic: Damaged salary - page 3. (Read 556 times)
If you know you're going to be upset about the amount of money you're risking and thus could potentially lose through gambling, just don't gamble in the first place or set a limit so that you're less unhappy in case of a loss. Always plan for the worst, especially if you're gambling. I typically always save a part of my paycheck and only gamble a small amount of it so the losses don't affect me much, and I suggest you also do something similar if possible. You're not going to get that money back, so learn from this lesson and move on.
I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people
I understand where you coming from mate, believed me I have been in that situation many times before in my life because of gambling. Lost everything that I have work in just one day so the feeling is very difficult. You feel stressed out because you know you needed money to like let say pay the bills, put food in the table.
So I need to think very fast, like go and pawn something or borrow money to your friends. But I completely change because I don't like that feeling and learn to prioritised everything before I go on my gambling habits.
So I need to think very fast, like go and pawn something or borrow money to your friends. But I completely change because I don't like that feeling and learn to prioritised everything before I go on my gambling habits.
Losing your hard earned money is hard to accept especially if it is already listed as your budget money for the entire month and here you are playing then suddenly it's gone. This must serve you as a lesson for future gambling experience because stopping right away is not that easy especially if the scars that left to you was still fresh. So you must gamble only with the amount that you are ready to lose next time.
I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.
I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people
Gambling and investing have one rule in common:
You don't invest/wager more than you could afford to lose. If you lost everything, that means you took more risk than you should have which is the violation of the most important rule.
Read some stuff about "risk management" and you'll do alright next time.
If you're going through a difficult time (losing good money is never easy..) then just take it one day at a time, speak with people around you, avoid isolation and get back into a 'groove' so to speak. Step by step, the pain you feel now dulls (but never forget it or the mistake is deemed to be repeated).
I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people
I've lost, long time ago (1994, I think), all the money I had for a month.
Basically most I've lost trying to recover the initial loss
It's bad. Depressing. And you can easily go further down the hole.
You have to stop and get your mind busy with other things.
Sometime in the future, maybe in a month, maybe in years, you'll look back to this as an experience.
Sometime in the future you'll understand how to play and have fun with smaller amounts you can afford to lose.
At least that's my case.
At first it started thinking I couldn't lose, so after a few rounds I lost a small amount of money, and since then everything goes to hell, I was in transition I didn't know what happened to me.
I was always grateful to be alive and well, being a family together. But I don't know where I'm so nervous and sad about material things, I got depressed, it never happened to me.
How to turn my attention to other things, how to forget.
I know that over time it will slowly go into the fog, but now it is very difficult for me.
And I advise everyone that they are not trying to get some lost money back.
Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
This topic is for everyone nervous and angry because they lost their money.
Losing money is not easy to endure Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
I just feel that way, angry, but I'm strong enough not to make desperate decisions and continue to ruin.
Is the best cure time? Wait a while to get things back in place.
For all of us who have lost, HOLD!
This topic is for everyone nervous and angry because they lost their money.
Losing money is not easy to endure Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
I just feel that way, angry, but I'm strong enough not to make desperate decisions and continue to ruin.
Is the best cure time? Wait a while to get things back in place.
For all of us who have lost, HOLD!
The statement is misleading. I thought you missed your salary's paycheck.
Ok, to make it clear, you used your salary in gambling and you messed up and wrecked at the end.
In the first place, it's gambling. It's the consequence of doing gambling. You have to accept that you lose even how hard it is.
You know to yourself that losing money is not easy to endure so why end up doing gambling? You take the risks of gambling your money to expect something good in return although the other way around happened.
There is no other way to do but to MOVE ON. Next time, save your next salary into something good.
Depends on how much you lost. If the amount isn't that big, I doubt it that you'll be feeling worse. Is this a gambling-related topic? or you've lost a lot with your last gamble op?
Whatever you're going through right now, I wish you to overcome it as soon as possible.
Whatever you're going through right now, I wish you to overcome it as soon as possible.
I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.
I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people
specially if you do know that money is already allocated for your monthly expenses+needs etc. and then you suddenly lost it all a short period of time thru betting? You would really go into that desperation mode
and since people do have different will and things on mind then circumstances do happen will vary on each personals view and reaction.
I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people
I've lost, long time ago (1994, I think), all the money I had for a month.
Basically most I've lost trying to recover the initial loss
It's bad. Depressing. And you can easily go further down the hole.
You have to stop and get your mind busy with other things.
Sometime in the future, maybe in a month, maybe in years, you'll look back to this as an experience.
Sometime in the future you'll understand how to play and have fun with smaller amounts you can afford to lose.
At least that's my case.
I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.
I'm talking about how hard it is when you lose everything at stake, what feelings you have, and what decisions you make.
That's exactly how I feel, and I had a strong desire to reach out to these people
I am not sure what you mean. I really hope that you posted by mistake in gambling, since the other option would be that you've been gambling with money you clearly didn't afford lose, which nobody should do.
Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
This topic is for everyone nervous and angry because they lost their money.
Losing money is not easy to endure Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
I just feel that way, angry, but I'm strong enough not to make desperate decisions and continue to ruin.
Is the best cure time? Wait a while to get things back in place.
For all of us who have lost, HOLD!
This topic is for everyone nervous and angry because they lost their money.
Losing money is not easy to endure Was there a worse feeling than when you missed your paycheck?
I just feel that way, angry, but I'm strong enough not to make desperate decisions and continue to ruin.
Is the best cure time? Wait a while to get things back in place.
For all of us who have lost, HOLD!
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