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December 29, 2019, 02:27:48 PM
this is where the need for sources of income other than gambling takes precedence. I don't want to risk both of them even though family is very important. I would rather stop and choose to save money in a bank if it is involved with a very severe condition. But I still have good financial management, and gambling is not always the first priority, addiction can always be rehabilitated as time goes by with an increasingly healthy mentality.
As you said, gambling can't be the first priority thought, It's so risky and at any time you can lose all of your money. Choosing family and holding your money is the better choice to be honest, I'm not saying that you'll just quit gambling forever, people can just gamble, but at least they need to control themselves and do not be greedy.
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December 29, 2019, 01:41:17 PM
this is where the need for sources of income other than gambling takes precedence. I don't want to risk both of them even though family is very important. I would rather stop and choose to save money in a bank if it is involved with a very severe condition. But I still have good financial management, and gambling is not always the first priority, addiction can always be rehabilitated as time goes by with an increasingly healthy mentality.

Some gamblers cannot really control their urge to gamble eventhough they have less financial income and the outcome is they have burried in debt. Just like you said, financial management should be learnt and if gambling will only hinder your financial management, then stop it. Don't compromise the needs of your family by just fulfilling you desire to gamble.
Good point. Financial securities for your family should be the first thing in mind before satisfying your desire to gamble.  Though there's different types of mentality regarding to this but if you are focus and you have good discipline where you can balance both your leisure and your time for your family. You can still continue having  better life just  good attitude and  well driven goals.
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December 29, 2019, 11:44:22 AM
this is where the need for sources of income other than gambling takes precedence. I don't want to risk both of them even though family is very important. I would rather stop and choose to save money in a bank if it is involved with a very severe condition. But I still have good financial management, and gambling is not always the first priority, addiction can always be rehabilitated as time goes by with an increasingly healthy mentality.

Some gamblers cannot really control their urge to gamble eventhough they have less financial income and the outcome is they have burried in debt. Just like you said, financial management should be learnt and if gambling will only hinder your financial management, then stop it. Don't compromise the needs of your family by just fulfilling you desire to gamble.
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December 29, 2019, 10:51:36 AM
A person should never have to think about this decision, unless they are estranged from their family or something. Succumbing to addiction is something nobody should ever do as it will just make your life worse than it already is.

Gambling or say money is such a thing that people forget the relationships in front of money and this I have seen it practically also . Only a self disciplined or say who have a good control can resist from such addiction else people are prone to it .
We should keep out relations at first priority and we should spend with family as well because gambling is not all we need in life but we just need some family. So we should gamble but don’t be greedy to spend time earning all the time and no time for people who live around us as this way we can become addicted to gambling which is not a good thing at all.
you can tell that to the addicted gamblers and let us see what is their reaction because for them it is not the family that is first instead the addiction is their priority and they can spend all their money just to gamble and let their family starved(and that is the sadness reality about the bad side of gambling)yeah we can find happiness when playing but we can also ruined life because of gambling.
This is why it is said that we shall keep an eye on our family members in order to prevent them from becoming an addict. But this is really heartrending when people invest their last pennies even into gambling leaving their families ruined and lost. I have personally observed that poor people are the ones who gamble to the level where they risk their lives and their families’ lives as well.
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December 29, 2019, 08:58:54 AM
this is where the need for sources of income other than gambling takes precedence. I don't want to risk both of them even though family is very important. I would rather stop and choose to save money in a bank if it is involved with a very severe condition. But I still have good financial management, and gambling is not always the first priority, addiction can always be rehabilitated as time goes by with an increasingly healthy mentality.
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December 29, 2019, 02:29:51 AM
later that they realized having nothing at all and even the rent for house is unpaid so he is thrown out to street and His family as well.really hated situation but this is how gambling affect lives if we dont control our seld.
self.
edited mate,thanks for the heads up..

Yes, making mistakes in gambling should be avoided especially if that will lead to addiction because that is a serious disease where you don't only make yourself miserable but especially those people who relies on you, like your family.
and this will save us from being a desperate person sooner,because this will bring us in shit living if addiction controls our life.

I've been addicted once in my life but I'm thankful it wasn't that serious and I was able to restore the trust of my family to me.
Realizing early is important so damage is not that serious yet. 
wow that is a tough admittance mate,because it is rare occasion that i can read someone admitting to be a addict or former addict,i wish you will continue this race and will not become a total addict in future while giving way on your gambling habits.
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December 29, 2019, 02:03:09 AM
given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

It's not Gambling VS Family. It is Gambling and Family VS Family only.

I will choose the gambling at the same time living with my family. Because If I am good at gambling and making it my career, then it should be good for us for my family. Very few people can make the gambling as their career so, I can assume that I am very good at this, then I can make money out from it on a stable basis so, I would choose a gambling career and my family.

I depends, when you are addicted to gambling, should you totally ignore your family? At lease you should go home to sleep, of course the addiction will have a way of affecting your attention for your family, but whatever you are addicted to should be profitable enough to make you still pay bills and your family should accept that you are addicted to something reasonable not to be a fool. Family is far more important but if one is addicted to gambling not foolishly.

I get your point because addicted doesn't mean you are addicted to losing your money. Some people are addicted to winning, and gambling is working on their life, they are making gambling profitable and making it as a source of income. Some people see gambling as a quick way to lose your money, but some people are making tons of cash out of it.
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December 29, 2019, 12:50:56 AM
I depends, when you are addicted to gambling, should you totally ignore your family? At lease you should go home to sleep, of course the addiction will have a way of affecting your attention for your family, but whatever you are addicted to should be profitable enough to make you still pay bills and your family should accept that you are addicted to something reasonable not to be a fool. Family is far more important but if one is addicted to gambling not foolishly.
If one is addicted to gambling there's no other things inside his mind everything is all about gambling, it won't bothered to think about his family as
he will only care about how to gamble and all inside his minds is just to find ways to try winning and increase his chances to win big time.
Yes these things happen to the gamblers but along with that there is a lot of entertainment in these games which also attract them and keep them intact to the gambling. Plus the wish to earn profit in gambling increase the addiction of gamblers. These things when combine together the gambler start to lose their family members and they forget that they also have to care for their family.
I think you guys just ignored the fact that gambling is a disease and it is not healthy anymore if you are eaten by it. Gambling is present and designed for entertainment purposes only and you shouldn't fallen addicted to it. If a gambler is addicted yet making a good profit more than what he lost then they can continue the path of being a gambler but if they were beyond losses then it is unhealthy anymore.
Gambling as such is not a disease. Gambling addiction is. Don't ignore the difference. If you gamble responsibly and set financial limits to yourself, gambling is a hobby like any other. Most hobbies cost money anyway so gambling is not different here.
That's what I meant and I know what I meant but anyway, thanks for the heads up.
Just like I said gambling is designed for entertainment purposes only. So if you like to play then go just bring some money that you can afford to lose if you have a problem of controlling yourself from gambling.


Family-that lied to you and cheated you...and put you in this position..as one had never gambled prior ever..becoming involved  in a game that you had absolutley no idea how inteligent it was.becoming so in twined in such game it itself becomes your family.Addicted to the ones that helped you when everyone left you what if you dont gamble and are in a secret game that the rules are not to gamble and you have to wait till that 1 time come new years to see how it pans out and the prize is a fortune but the players call you everything under the sun,block you in everyway  and bark at you to constantly gamble but under another usernames account and balance which will render you ultimatly a loss at the end..even though you have safely practiced elements of what is required to jump accounts without direct guidance and  this sounds crazy and the owners have stated that theres no way you can win in any which way..yeah,ive got problems but this thread has to..how dare you help in this manner.in a crypto world you are all taking a gamble..not everyone wins all the time in any part of this life..proper rant fin'.
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December 28, 2019, 11:48:04 AM
I depends, when you are addicted to gambling, should you totally ignore your family? At lease you should go home to sleep, of course the addiction will have a way of affecting your attention for your family, but whatever you are addicted to should be profitable enough to make you still pay bills and your family should accept that you are addicted to something reasonable not to be a fool. Family is far more important but if one is addicted to gambling not foolishly.
If one is addicted to gambling there's no other things inside his mind everything is all about gambling, it won't bothered to think about his family as
he will only care about how to gamble and all inside his minds is just to find ways to try winning and increase his chances to win big time.
Yes these things happen to the gamblers but along with that there is a lot of entertainment in these games which also attract them and keep them intact to the gambling. Plus the wish to earn profit in gambling increase the addiction of gamblers. These things when combine together the gambler start to lose their family members and they forget that they also have to care for their family.
I think you guys just ignored the fact that gambling is a disease and it is not healthy anymore if you are eaten by it. Gambling is present and designed for entertainment purposes only and you shouldn't fallen addicted to it. If a gambler is addicted yet making a good profit more than what he lost then they can continue the path of being a gambler but if they were beyond losses then it is unhealthy anymore.
Gambling as such is not a disease. Gambling addiction is. Don't ignore the difference. If you gamble responsibly and set financial limits to yourself, gambling is a hobby like any other. Most hobbies cost money anyway so gambling is not different here.
That's what I meant and I know what I meant but anyway, thanks for the heads up.
Just like I said gambling is designed for entertainment purposes only. So if you like to play then go just bring some money that you can afford to lose if you have a problem of controlling yourself from gambling.
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December 27, 2019, 07:30:26 PM
I depends, when you are addicted to gambling, should you totally ignore your family? At lease you should go home to sleep, of course the addiction will have a way of affecting your attention for your family, but whatever you are addicted to should be profitable enough to make you still pay bills and your family should accept that you are addicted to something reasonable not to be a fool. Family is far more important but if one is addicted to gambling not foolishly.
If one is addicted to gambling there's no other things inside his mind everything is all about gambling, it won't bothered to think about his family as
he will only care about how to gamble and all inside his minds is just to find ways to try winning and increase his chances to win big time.
Yes these things happen to the gamblers but along with that there is a lot of entertainment in these games which also attract them and keep them intact to the gambling. Plus the wish to earn profit in gambling increase the addiction of gamblers. These things when combine together the gambler start to lose their family members and they forget that they also have to care for their family.
I think you guys just ignored the fact that gambling is a disease and it is not healthy anymore if you are eaten by it. Gambling is present and designed for entertainment purposes only and you shouldn't fallen addicted to it. If a gambler is addicted yet making a good profit more than what he lost then they can continue the path of being a gambler but if they were beyond losses then it is unhealthy anymore.
Gambling as such is not a disease. Gambling addiction is. Don't ignore the difference. If you gamble responsibly and set financial limits to yourself, gambling is a hobby like any other. Most hobbies cost money anyway so gambling is not different here.
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December 27, 2019, 06:55:41 PM
I depends, when you are addicted to gambling, should you totally ignore your family? At lease you should go home to sleep

It is not "home" anymore if you are not happy staying on it, ignoring your family is not even counted that you love them, at least you go home? well, everyone goes home at the end of the day but the love should be always on it.

of course the addiction will have a way of affecting your attention for your family, but whatever you are addicted to should be profitable enough to make you still pay bills and your family should accept that you are addicted to something reasonable not to be a fool. Family is far more important but if one is addicted to gambling not foolishly.

Exactly, there are only few who are making profits in gambling, but what if he is not making any profits from it therefore he turned his life---family into a miserable one by getting too many bills to pay stock up in their pockets, selling their properties as a solution to end their debts, and at the end, he ended up being broke and cause him to have a broken family. Sad life Sad
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December 27, 2019, 12:55:58 PM
I depends, when you are addicted to gambling, should you totally ignore your family? At lease you should go home to sleep, of course the addiction will have a way of affecting your attention for your family, but whatever you are addicted to should be profitable enough to make you still pay bills and your family should accept that you are addicted to something reasonable not to be a fool. Family is far more important but if one is addicted to gambling not foolishly.
If one is addicted to gambling there's no other things inside his mind everything is all about gambling, it won't bothered to think about his family as
he will only care about how to gamble and all inside his minds is just to find ways to try winning and increase his chances to win big time.
Yes these things happen to the gamblers but along with that there is a lot of entertainment in these games which also attract them and keep them intact to the gambling. Plus the wish to earn profit in gambling increase the addiction of gamblers. These things when combine together the gambler start to lose their family members and they forget that they also have to care for their family.
I think you guys just ignored the fact that gambling is a disease and it is not healthy anymore if you are eaten by it. Gambling is present and designed for entertainment purposes only and you shouldn't fallen addicted to it. If a gambler is addicted yet making a good profit more than what he lost then they can continue the path of being a gambler but if they were beyond losses then it is unhealthy anymore.
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December 27, 2019, 11:20:53 AM
I depends, when you are addicted to gambling, should you totally ignore your family? At lease you should go home to sleep, of course the addiction will have a way of affecting your attention for your family, but whatever you are addicted to should be profitable enough to make you still pay bills and your family should accept that you are addicted to something reasonable not to be a fool. Family is far more important but if one is addicted to gambling not foolishly.
If one is addicted to gambling there's no other things inside his mind everything is all about gambling, it won't bothered to think about his family as
he will only care about how to gamble and all inside his minds is just to find ways to try winning and increase his chances to win big time.
Yes these things happen to the gamblers but along with that there is a lot of entertainment in these games which also attract them and keep them intact to the gambling. Plus the wish to earn profit in gambling increase the addiction of gamblers. These things when combine together the gambler start to lose their family members and they forget that they also have to care for their family.
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December 27, 2019, 11:09:58 AM
I depends, when you are addicted to gambling, should you totally ignore your family? At lease you should go home to sleep, of course the addiction will have a way of affecting your attention for your family, but whatever you are addicted to should be profitable enough to make you still pay bills and your family should accept that you are addicted to something reasonable not to be a fool. Family is far more important but if one is addicted to gambling not foolishly.
If one is addicted to gambling there's no other things inside his mind everything is all about gambling, it won't bothered to think about his family as
he will only care about how to gamble and all inside his minds is just to find ways to try winning and increase his chances to win big time.
This is merely a mental problem to be considered, because if you can't handle that bad action of yours nothing will be changed. You'll become worthless and more prone with gambling, and mindset will not be changed unless you'll lose everything in you. Family is so important, that's why as a gambler don't wait until everything is gone from you. Don't be fooled by gambling diversions, because it's always a big lie at all once you'll get addicted to it.
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December 27, 2019, 11:06:34 AM
Gambling is one of the good game created;
gambling isnt a game but its a kind of entertainment with lots of games on it  .

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this game consists of different kinds of card, dice, and roulette games that can give you a lot of money in just a single game.
not really true but depend on the person playing  . if he is lucky yes he can win huge but if not then he doesnt   .

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There are people play gambling because they want to seek their desires of playing risk and full of fun, but most of the player in the gambling is the people who want to earn a lot of money in just a single win. A player who already wins a lot of games cannot stop playing gambling because sometimes this is the source of their income.
gambling as a source of income  ? risky but cool at the same time and would be more cooler if they knew how to win because that is easier and enjoyable than compare to working the traditional way  .

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We cannot stop a person who earned a lot of money in just a single game. Always there's a play who conquers the game after a full of fun and excitement still there is a player who loses their games, and hoping to have their money back they want to continue playing and sometimes cause of too many debts. If you already experience this better to stop playing. A family is waiting for you and your money and use this to buy their basic needs.
family is love like what they said  .  that saying tells that family is important than playing gambling  . we must care for them first and gambling should be done next if its your hobby
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December 27, 2019, 08:56:41 AM
I depends, when you are addicted to gambling, should you totally ignore your family? At lease you should go home to sleep, of course the addiction will have a way of affecting your attention for your family, but whatever you are addicted to should be profitable enough to make you still pay bills and your family should accept that you are addicted to something reasonable not to be a fool. Family is far more important but if one is addicted to gambling not foolishly.
If one is addicted to gambling there's no other things inside his mind everything is all about gambling, it won't bothered to think about his family as
he will only care about how to gamble and all inside his minds is just to find ways to try winning and increase his chances to win big time.

Gambling is one of the good game created; this game consists of different kinds of card, dice, and roulette games that can give you a lot of money in just a single game. There are people play gambling because they want to seek their desires of playing risk and full of fun, but most of the player in the gambling is the people who want to earn a lot of money in just a single win. A player who already wins a lot of games cannot stop playing gambling because sometimes this is the source of their income. We cannot stop a person who earned a lot of money in just a single game. Always there's a play who conquers the game after a full of fun and excitement still there is a player who loses their games, and hoping to have their money back they want to continue playing and sometimes cause of too many debts. If you already experience this better to stop playing. A family is waiting for you and your money and use this to buy their basic needs.
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December 27, 2019, 08:09:49 AM
I depends, when you are addicted to gambling, should you totally ignore your family? At lease you should go home to sleep, of course the addiction will have a way of affecting your attention for your family, but whatever you are addicted to should be profitable enough to make you still pay bills and your family should accept that you are addicted to something reasonable not to be a fool. Family is far more important but if one is addicted to gambling not foolishly.
If one is addicted to gambling there's no other things inside his mind everything is all about gambling, it won't bothered to think about his family as
he will only care about how to gamble and all inside his minds is just to find ways to try winning and increase his chances to win big time.
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December 27, 2019, 03:39:20 AM
later that they realized having nothing at all and even the rent for house is unpaid so he is thrown out to street and His family as well.really hated situation but this is how gambling affect lives if we dont control our seld.
self.

Yes, making mistakes in gambling should be avoided especially if that will lead to addiction because that is a serious disease where you don't only make yourself miserable but especially those people who relies on you, like your family.

I've been addicted once in my life but I'm thankful it wasn't that serious and I was able to restore the trust of my family to me.
Realizing early is important so damage is not that serious yet. 
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December 27, 2019, 03:33:08 AM
I depends, when you are addicted to gambling, should you totally ignore your family? At lease you should go home to sleep, of course the addiction will have a way of affecting your attention for your family, but whatever you are addicted to should be profitable enough to make you still pay bills and your family should accept that you are addicted to something reasonable not to be a fool. Family is far more important but if one is addicted to gambling not foolishly.
thats why some gambling addict mostly end up living in the street because they dont care of everything when they are still having money to gamble instead all they want is to Bet and gamble.

later that they realized having nothing at all and even the rent for house is unpaid so he is thrown out to street and His family as well.really hated situation but this is how gambling affect lives if we dont control our self.
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December 27, 2019, 03:21:03 AM
I depends, when you are addicted to gambling, should you totally ignore your family? At lease you should go home to sleep, of course the addiction will have a way of affecting your attention for your family, but whatever you are addicted to should be profitable enough to make you still pay bills and your family should accept that you are addicted to something reasonable not to be a fool. Family is far more important but if one is addicted to gambling not foolishly.
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