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Quote from: doomistake on December 13, 2019, 09:57:44 PM

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

Why do we even have to ask this? Of course, I would choose my family. Who is sane enough to choose gambling over family?

And please do not ask who will you choose, gambling addiction or family. That is crazy raising this question. Nobody prefers addiction, not even those who do not have families. Not even the addicts themselves. They are sick and they need treatment.

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Quote from: doomistake on December 13, 2019, 09:57:44 PM

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

Its not too hard to live healthy life with family while having gambling as your daily habit but you don't have to spend more money for your entertainment than you family needs.If I have to pick only one then I will o for gambling and I can skip gambling habit forever in my life but the fact is there is no need for that if we have clear mind.

There are very few people with such clear mindset about gambling and also with such astonishing control over greed, emotions and thoughts. If you can do this then I believe that all other gamblers can have such attitude towards gambling. This is nice that gamblers like you exist who are aware of their limits and are not defaming gambling. I would rather choose to pair up my family with gambling on good terms.

And I believe it also. It is all about how we manage ourselves. If we overly spend time into gambling, it will just mean that we pushing ourselves into addiction. It is quite hard to think why people did this, I don't know that it is really their intention and they want that kind of life. Being indulge to gambling addiction will surely never give a positive result but just a miserable life we have.

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Quote from: doomistake on December 13, 2019, 09:57:44 PM

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

Its not too hard to live healthy life with family while having gambling as your daily habit but you don't have to spend more money for your entertainment than you family needs.If I have to pick only one then I will o for gambling and I can skip gambling habit forever in my life but the fact is there is no need for that if we have clear mind.

There are very few people with such clear mindset about gambling and also with such astonishing control over greed, emotions and thoughts. If you can do this then I believe that all other gamblers can have such attitude towards gambling. This is nice that gamblers like you exist who are aware of their limits and are not defaming gambling. I would rather choose to pair up my family with gambling on good terms.

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Quote from: Best Dreams on December 20, 2019, 02:12:02 PM

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A person should never have to think about this decision, unless they are estranged from their family or something. Succumbing to addiction is something nobody should ever do as it will just make your life worse than it already is.

Gambling or say money is such a thing that people forget the relationships in front of money and this I have seen it practically also . Only a self disciplined or say who have a good control can resist from such addiction else people are prone to it .

We should keep out relations at first priority and we should spend with family as well because gambling is not all we need in life but we just need some family. So we should gamble but don’t be greedy to spend time earning all the time and no time for people who live around us as this way we can become addicted to gambling which is not a good thing at all.

If we keep in mind that we are earning money for our family and no matter from which place we go to earn we earn that for our family and we keep limit for our family that we have to complete that limit amount for our family to feed them then we will not be careless about our family needs and it will not make us to lose our money which we earn for our family. At the time of gambling if we keep in mind that we are playing only to get rid of tiredness and to be ready to do more work to earn for our family then we will not be addicted.

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Quote from: EliteCrash on December 18, 2019, 02:58:44 PM

A person should never have to think about this decision, unless they are estranged from their family or something. Succumbing to addiction is something nobody should ever do as it will just make your life worse than it already is.

Gambling or say money is such a thing that people forget the relationships in front of money and this I have seen it practically also . Only a self disciplined or say who have a good control can resist from such addiction else people are prone to it .

We should keep out relations at first priority and we should spend with family as well because gambling is not all we need in life but we just need some family. So we should gamble but don’t be greedy to spend time earning all the time and no time for people who live around us as this way we can become addicted to gambling which is not a good thing at all.

you can tell that to the addicted gamblers and let us see what is their reaction because for them it is not the family that is first instead the addiction is their priority and they can spend all their money just to gamble and let their family starved(and that is the sadness reality about the bad side of gambling)yeah we can find happiness when playing but we can also ruined life because of gambling.

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Quote from: doomistake on December 13, 2019, 09:57:44 PM

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

You don't seem to understand that once you are addicted to gambling there is not really any choosing for you, gambling will dictate your life and if that means that you need to give up everything then most people will do it, the only ones that can take the right decision of choosing their family over their addiction are those that have realized that there is something terribly wrong with them and that they need help so they are not completely addicted to gambling, because in my experience the people that are the worst addicts to gambling that I have seen have always refused to acknowledge that fact.

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Quote from: doomistake on December 13, 2019, 09:57:44 PM

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

Its not too hard to live healthy life with family while having gambling as your daily habit but you don't have to spend more money for your entertainment than you family needs.If I have to pick only one then I will o for gambling and I can skip gambling habit forever in my life but the fact is there is no need for that if we have clear mind.

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There is no one who would in his or her complete senses are going to prefer gambling over family. Family is something that you cannot buy with money rather you lose it if you don’t care of it well and prefer material things over it. If you become gambling g addict and in this course left your family, you won’t get any support by anyone to get over your addiction. Families are always the first priority.

Yes, so if there is a person who will choose to play gambling than family, then he should be taken to psychology because he chooses the wrong decision. The family will be on our side forever, but gambling cannot be on our side forever, especially if we don't have money. When you become addicted to gambling, you need your family to support you in solving your problem, and I am sure that the family will take care of you. But that only happens if you have a strong emotion with your family, and they will not let you down when you got trouble.

Not only choosing gambling rather anything over family is highly disgusting thing because there is no money or gold or diamond that can buy you a family and those who stick to you because of your money are obviously not your family. If anyone who prefers money or gambling over money shall himself visit some psychologist because this is nothing normal. Gambling simply makes you an addict; it never proves healthy for anyone.

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Quote from: bitcoin31 on December 20, 2019, 09:53:19 AM

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There is no one who would in his or her complete senses are going to prefer gambling over family. Family is something that you cannot buy with money rather you lose it if you don’t care of it well and prefer material things over it. If you become gambling g addict and in this course left your family, you won’t get any support by anyone to get over your addiction. Families are always the first priority.

Yes, so if there is a person who will choose to play gambling than family, then he should be taken to psychology because he chooses the wrong decision. The family will be on our side forever, but gambling cannot be on our side forever, especially if we don't have money. When you become addicted to gambling, you need your family to support you in solving your problem, and I am sure that the family will take care of you. But that only happens if you have a strong emotion with your family, and they will not let you down when you got trouble.

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Quote from: hahay on December 22, 2019, 02:09:34 AM

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Incase I need to choose between the two ofcourse my family I will choose it's okay to have simple life but the needs I will gives to them and we are complete. But gambling can also possible change my family lives but because I have control playing gambling maybe I should choose both my career and also my family. For sure we have different reason of what are choosing between career or family.

I wonder if there is anyone that would choose gambling over family.
You have to be sick in your gambling addiction in order to get this decision and apart from that you isolate yourself for a lifetime by doing this.

I am sure that there are people who would choose to play gambling than his family because he thinks that if he wins in gambling, he can buy many things for his family. But if he thinks that it is not worth to do that, he will not gamble, and he will back to his family. I never met someone who did that, and I hope that I don't have to meet that person because I cannot imagine how will be his family if he chooses to gamble than his family.

There is no one who would in his or her complete senses are going to prefer gambling over family. Family is something that you cannot buy with money rather you lose it if you don’t care of it well and prefer material things over it. If you become gambling g addict and in this course left your family, you won’t get any support by anyone to get over your addiction. Families are always the first priority.

Even so, at least some gambling addicts spend more time and money on gambling than for their families, this will be very possible when players do have an environment that is very identical to gambling. They do live a simple life but actually he can live better with his family with the income he has, but because someone is a gambling addict so what happens is an imbalance in his finances because more often spent in gambling.

Gambling addicts undoubtedly spend so much money on gambling just because they want to satisfy their inner cravings for winning bets. Winning bets are not always about money, sometimes gambler just want a satisfaction that he or she is capable of winning bets and enjoying victory. Of course when one is spending money on gambling that is for the family, things will go terrible for him both as in his relationships and finance.

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Quote from: Kevondo on December 22, 2019, 01:43:30 AM

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Incase I need to choose between the two ofcourse my family I will choose it's okay to have simple life but the needs I will gives to them and we are complete. But gambling can also possible change my family lives but because I have control playing gambling maybe I should choose both my career and also my family. For sure we have different reason of what are choosing between career or family.

I wonder if there is anyone that would choose gambling over family.
You have to be sick in your gambling addiction in order to get this decision and apart from that you isolate yourself for a lifetime by doing this.

I am sure that there are people who would choose to play gambling than his family because he thinks that if he wins in gambling, he can buy many things for his family. But if he thinks that it is not worth to do that, he will not gamble, and he will back to his family. I never met someone who did that, and I hope that I don't have to meet that person because I cannot imagine how will be his family if he chooses to gamble than his family.

There is no one who would in his or her complete senses are going to prefer gambling over family. Family is something that you cannot buy with money rather you lose it if you don’t care of it well and prefer material things over it. If you become gambling g addict and in this course left your family, you won’t get any support by anyone to get over your addiction. Families are always the first priority.

Even so, at least some gambling addicts spend more time and money on gambling than for their families, this will be very possible when players do have an environment that is very identical to gambling. They do live a simple life but actually he can live better with his family with the income he has, but because someone is a gambling addict so what happens is an imbalance in his finances because more often spent in gambling.

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Quote from: maydna on December 20, 2019, 08:31:29 PM

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Incase I need to choose between the two ofcourse my family I will choose it's okay to have simple life but the needs I will gives to them and we are complete. But gambling can also possible change my family lives but because I have control playing gambling maybe I should choose both my career and also my family. For sure we have different reason of what are choosing between career or family.

I wonder if there is anyone that would choose gambling over family.
You have to be sick in your gambling addiction in order to get this decision and apart from that you isolate yourself for a lifetime by doing this.

I am sure that there are people who would choose to play gambling than his family because he thinks that if he wins in gambling, he can buy many things for his family. But if he thinks that it is not worth to do that, he will not gamble, and he will back to his family. I never met someone who did that, and I hope that I don't have to meet that person because I cannot imagine how will be his family if he chooses to gamble than his family.

There is no one who would in his or her complete senses are going to prefer gambling over family. Family is something that you cannot buy with money rather you lose it if you don’t care of it well and prefer material things over it. If you become gambling g addict and in this course left your family, you won’t get any support by anyone to get over your addiction. Families are always the first priority.

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Incase I need to choose between the two ofcourse my family I will choose it's okay to have simple life but the needs I will gives to them and we are complete. But gambling can also possible change my family lives but because I have control playing gambling maybe I should choose both my career and also my family. For sure we have different reason of what are choosing between career or family.

I wonder if there is anyone that would choose gambling over family.
You have to be sick in your gambling addiction in order to get this decision and apart from that you isolate yourself for a lifetime by doing this.

It gonna be sick and a stupid decision but can't deny that some gamblers even choose to have their family but they still spend a lot of time gambling.
Addiction could be a sort of extortion, it badly changes our mind and even controlling our decision. It is really to get out from the hell of addiction if we still have a time to be in gambling. For us to have a change and tried to correct our mistakes, the only solution to this is to totally cut all the connections in gambling.

Easier said than done but you have a point on this. Total withdrawal from gambling will give you a better life for you and your family. Addiction in gambling will give a lot of negative impact on your family. So I guess, you need to weigh your priorities here if you want to change your life for good.

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Quote from: Naida_BR on December 20, 2019, 03:24:41 PM

Quote from: bitcoin31 on December 20, 2019, 09:53:19 AM

Incase I need to choose between the two ofcourse my family I will choose it's okay to have simple life but the needs I will gives to them and we are complete. But gambling can also possible change my family lives but because I have control playing gambling maybe I should choose both my career and also my family. For sure we have different reason of what are choosing between career or family.

I wonder if there is anyone that would choose gambling over family.
You have to be sick in your gambling addiction in order to get this decision and apart from that you isolate yourself for a lifetime by doing this.

I am sure that there are people who would choose to play gambling than his family because he thinks that if he wins in gambling, he can buy many things for his family. But if he thinks that it is not worth to do that, he will not gamble, and he will back to his family. I never met someone who did that, and I hope that I don't have to meet that person because I cannot imagine how will be his family if he chooses to gamble than his family.

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Quote from: bitcoin31 on December 20, 2019, 09:53:19 AM

Incase I need to choose between the two ofcourse my family I will choose it's okay to have simple life but the needs I will gives to them and we are complete. But gambling can also possible change my family lives but because I have control playing gambling maybe I should choose both my career and also my family. For sure we have different reason of what are choosing between career or family.

I wonder if there is anyone that would choose gambling over family.
You have to be sick in your gambling addiction in order to get this decision and apart from that you isolate yourself for a lifetime by doing this.

It gonna be sick and a stupid decision but can't deny that some gamblers even choose to have their family but they still spend a lot of time gambling.
Addiction could be a sort of extortion, it badly changes our mind and even controlling our decision. It is really to get out from the hell of addiction if we still have a time to be in gambling. For us to have a change and tried to correct our mistakes, the only solution to this is to totally cut all the connections in gambling.

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Quote from: Naida_BR on December 20, 2019, 03:24:41 PM

I wonder if there is anyone that would choose gambling over family.

Of course there is. That is what addicts do. They will choose gambling above everything else.
I haven't had it happen to someone close to me but one I know of one acquaintance who gambled away his business, his home and lost his family due to gambling. He had a great life. Nice business venture, modern home, a family, a beautiful daughter. He pissed it all away on slot machines. The bank took his business, he lost his home because he could no longer afford it. His wife left with the daughter and he is now God knows where.

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Quote from: bitcoin31 on December 20, 2019, 09:53:19 AM

Incase I need to choose between the two ofcourse my family I will choose it's okay to have simple life but the needs I will gives to them and we are complete. But gambling can also possible change my family lives but because I have control playing gambling maybe I should choose both my career and also my family. For sure we have different reason of what are choosing between career or family.

I wonder if there is anyone that would choose gambling over family.
You have to be sick in your gambling addiction in order to get this decision and apart from that you isolate yourself for a lifetime by doing this.

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Quote from: EliteCrash on December 18, 2019, 02:58:44 PM

A person should never have to think about this decision, unless they are estranged from their family or something. Succumbing to addiction is something nobody should ever do as it will just make your life worse than it already is.

Gambling or say money is such a thing that people forget the relationships in front of money and this I have seen it practically also . Only a self disciplined or say who have a good control can resist from such addiction else people are prone to it .

We should keep out relations at first priority and we should spend with family as well because gambling is not all we need in life but we just need some family. So we should gamble but don’t be greedy to spend time earning all the time and no time for people who live around us as this way we can become addicted to gambling which is not a good thing at all.

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Incase I need to choose between the two ofcourse my family I will choose it's okay to have simple life but the needs I will gives to them and we are complete. But gambling can also possible change my family lives but because I have control playing gambling maybe I should choose both my career and also my family. For sure we have different reason of what are choosing between career or family.

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Quote from: anog on December 20, 2019, 07:02:58 AM

Honestly it is a very difficult choice for an addict, usually an addict will experience stress if his desire is not fulfilled.

If you have been in the situation before you will better understand it based on your experience, but true addicts are out of their mind and they are only focus of one thing which is gambling, the worse thing is that they gamble without discipline so there is no limit which put them at a bigger risk.

Quote from: anog on December 20, 2019, 07:02:58 AM

It takes special treatment before the addict leaves the gambling place, I am not sure without that phase he would be able to live a simple life with his family.

That's why it's necessary that our family knows we are engage in gambling so they will be able to spot if there is a problem on us and will help us on a timely manner.

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