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Gambling if not checked cam lead to a devastating condition for a gambler's life. As a gambler when you allow yourself to be controlled by gambling instinct instead of having control over it, it repercussions doesn't particularly affects only you but goes beyond just you to those around you.

A woman was giving an account of how her gambling husband has been problematic to her with his gambling attitude. She gave an instance of how her husband had to steal her jewelry and sold it to get money to carry on his gambling enterprise. And unsuspecting of her husband the woman accused their come-and-go house-cleaner of making away with her jewelry when the cleaner must have come to the house for her cleaning services that very faithful day. She got the cleaner arrested, but then, investigations where carried out which it was uncovered that the woman's husband was the one who stole her jewelry for gambling and not the cleaner.

It is difficult to grasp or imagined the level of humiliation the innocent cleaner must have faced for an act she knows nothing about.

A question that bothers me concerning this issue is;
1. Do gambling addicts ever take a second thought on what the consequences of their actions can be not just to them but on those close to them? 
2. Do they in reality genuinely feel any remorse about  how those affected by their actions might be feeling? 
3. Or, are they a dispassionate victim of their own uncontrollable addictive gambling lifestyle?

It absolutely varies by person, but at the point somebody is classed as an "addict" it means they are engaged in an activity to an unhealthy amount. While they may suffer internally by knowing that their actions are having a negative effect on others, that is generally lower in their scale of priorities where gambling might hold the number one spot. Sure, they have not morphed into some alien species that is incapable of analyzing the consequences of their actions, but one of the critical points is that they have lost control over choice in gambling. They have let the entertainment consume them, which can even happen with things like video games and they seek to engage with their chosen activity over anything else in life.
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Gambling if not checked cam lead to a devastating condition for a gambler's life. As a gambler when you allow yourself to be controlled by gambling instinct instead of having control over it, it repercussions doesn't particularly affects only you but goes beyond just you to those around you.

A woman was giving an account of how her gambling husband has been problematic to her with his gambling attitude. She gave an instance of how her husband had to steal her jewelry and sold it to get money to carry on his gambling enterprise. And unsuspecting of her husband the woman accused their come-and-go house-cleaner of making away with her jewelry when the cleaner must have come to the house for her cleaning services that very faithful day. She got the cleaner arrested, but then, investigations where carried out which it was uncovered that the woman's husband was the one who stole her jewelry for gambling and not the cleaner.

It is difficult to grasp or imagined the level of humiliation the innocent cleaner must have faced for an act she knows nothing about.

A question that bothers me concerning this issue is;
1. Do gambling addicts ever take a second thought on what the consequences of their actions can be not just to them but on those close to them? 
2. Do they in reality genuinely feel any remorse about  how those affected by their actions might be feeling? 
3. Or, are they a dispassionate victim of their own uncontrollable addictive gambling lifestyle?

Gambling addicts are not some subhuman trash, although some can be, and act such a way.

The very problem in addiction, whether its from gambling, drugs, alcohol, food etc. all points to the same physical cause. The brain chemistry of an addict is going haywire and is not as it should be. This Dysbalance in for example, dopamine receptors that cannot work properly after being abused by dopamine draining drugs or behavior.

So what it really is is a neurological and mental illness that needs to be treated professionally, otherwise the individual does not stand much of a chance beating it him/herself. And thats the point in which things become desperate.

So the things they do and say is understandable, even if its not tolerable.
I get what you're trying to say here, and I sympathize with them as much as the next guy who's aware of the risks and dangers of being addicted to gambling but at the same time, if you let yourself be stuck in that situation, cause let's face it even though your brain's going haywire you still have agency over your actions and words which in all manners of the sense makes you liable for every action you'd take from here on out, including the use of intervention to prevent further succumbing to addiction. That's why we have people who could quit smoking, taking drugs and all that out of their own volition or assisted by a professional, it all starts within the self.

So you can't really absolve them of any crimes they will commit just because their dopamine receptors are fucked. That wouldn't hold up well in court.
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Gambling if not checked cam lead to a devastating condition for a gambler's life. As a gambler when you allow yourself to be controlled by gambling instinct instead of having control over it, it repercussions doesn't particularly affects only you but goes beyond just you to those around you.

A woman was giving an account of how her gambling husband has been problematic to her with his gambling attitude. She gave an instance of how her husband had to steal her jewelry and sold it to get money to carry on his gambling enterprise. And unsuspecting of her husband the woman accused their come-and-go house-cleaner of making away with her jewelry when the cleaner must have come to the house for her cleaning services that very faithful day. She got the cleaner arrested, but then, investigations where carried out which it was uncovered that the woman's husband was the one who stole her jewelry for gambling and not the cleaner.

It is difficult to grasp or imagined the level of humiliation the innocent cleaner must have faced for an act she knows nothing about.

A question that bothers me concerning this issue is;
1. Do gambling addicts ever take a second thought on what the consequences of their actions can be not just to them but on those close to them? 
2. Do they in reality genuinely feel any remorse about  how those affected by their actions might be feeling? 
3. Or, are they a dispassionate victim of their own uncontrollable addictive gambling lifestyle?

Gambling addicts are not some subhuman trash, although some can be, and act such a way.

The very problem in addiction, whether its from gambling, drugs, alcohol, food etc. all points to the same physical cause. The brain chemistry of an addict is going haywire and is not as it should be. This Dysbalance in for example, dopamine receptors that cannot work properly after being abused by dopamine draining drugs or behavior.

So what it really is is a neurological and mental illness that needs to be treated professionally, otherwise the individual does not stand much of a chance beating it him/herself. And thats the point in which things become desperate.

So the things they do and say is understandable, even if its not tolerable.
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Gambling addiction can be extremely hard to some gamblers and in some cases, it tragically leads to suicide. It is a serious topic and I sincerely hope that anyone struggling with this addiction seeks help ASAP.

I think stories of husbands stealing their wives' jewelry and selling it to fund their gambling habits are sadly quite common and when gambling addiction takes hold, gamblers often become desperate for more money resorting to selling their own belongings their spouse's possessions or even their children's items. It's truly a terrible situation and horrible.

1. Do gambling addicts ever take a second thought on what the consequences of their actions can be not just to them but on those close to them? 
Most of them don't care about the consequences as the only thing they want is to earn more money to use for gambling! It's just a big issue and it can create chaos within the entire family if the husband is addicted or any member of the family.

2. Do they in reality genuinely feel any remorse about  how those affected by their actions might be feeling? 
I don't think so as they may not be fully aware of the real situation. They could end up regretting their choices later on but once they become deeply addicted they might convince themselves that what they are doing is the right way!
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Such a sad story. Addiction of any type ruins lives and homes.

A question that bothers me concerning this issue is;
1. Do gambling addicts ever take a second thought on what the consequences of their actions can be not just to them but on those close to them?

Yes, they do but then immediately tell those thought to go to hell as they are ready to bear the consequences. Or rather their will is just too weak. What I have noticed about gambling addicts is that their addiction thrives in isolation. They are usually loners. So being alone most of the time, there is no one for intrude on their thoughts and make them have a rethink

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2. Do they in reality genuinely feel any remorse about  how those affected by their actions might be feeling?

Yes, they do. Some of them genuinely wants to stop but do not know how or have the necessary emotional support to help them push through. No right thinking person would enjoy seeing their loved ones hurt because of their addiction.

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A question that bothers me concerning this issue is;
1. Do gambling addicts ever take a second thought on what the consequences of their actions can be not just to them but on those close to them? 
I think they do but they'll reason out that they had no choice.

2. Do they in reality genuinely feel any remorse about  how those affected by their actions might be feeling? 
Possibly but they still do it.

3. Or, are they a dispassionate victim of their own uncontrollable addictive gambling lifestyle?
This is also possible. But learning to know that you've been addicted, you shouldn't harm others and also affect the time or anything that they've got.

There are gamblers that aren't addicted and still know the place and things that they've got, the limitations that should set boundaries on how far they can go with gambling.
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Gambling if not checked cam lead to a devastating condition for a gambler's life. As a gambler when you allow yourself to be controlled by gambling instinct instead of having control over it, it repercussions doesn't particularly affects only you but goes beyond just you to those around you.

A woman was giving an account of how her gambling husband has been problematic to her with his gambling attitude. She gave an instance of how her husband had to steal her jewelry and sold it to get money to carry on his gambling enterprise. And unsuspecting of her husband the woman accused their come-and-go house-cleaner of making away with her jewelry when the cleaner must have come to the house for her cleaning services that very faithful day. She got the cleaner arrested, but then, investigations where carried out which it was uncovered that the woman's husband was the one who stole her jewelry for gambling and not the cleaner.

It is difficult to grasp or imagined the level of humiliation the innocent cleaner must have faced for an act she knows nothing about.

A question that bothers me concerning this issue is;
1. Do gambling addicts ever take a second thought on what the consequences of their actions can be not just to them but on those close to them? 
2. Do they in reality genuinely feel any remorse about  how those affected by their actions might be feeling? 
3. Or, are they a dispassionate victim of their own uncontrollable addictive gambling lifestyle?
People that are in too deep in the gambling addiction world rarely gets bothered about the consequences of their actions in their journey to get their fix. Some even go so far as to commit heinous crimes just to get the money to support their gambling habits, which is wrong on all levels. Of course at some point they'd have this realization, perhaps upon committing their first act of crime or somethign that they knew they wouldn't do if they weren't addicted to gambling in the first place, but most of the time soon as they get past this regret they'd carry on with committing these things without remorse as they've already gone past that. I don't really want to put the victim blaming card here but when every sign's out there and you've avoided it or looked past such innuendos by your mind and your body, telling you to stop your gambling or else you'll be in deeper trouble than you ever could expect, then at some level you deserve what's coming for you.
legendary
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A question that bothers me concerning this issue is;
1. Do gambling addicts ever take a second thought on what the consequences of their actions can be not just to them but on those close to them?  

Most addicts care about their families and they want the best for them. They know the consequences of their actions but they are under the control of a strong force that pushes them to damn the consequences of their actions. Have you ever considered why an addicted smoker keeps smoking even when the doctor had informed him that smoking is killing him. He is well aware that his death will cause so much pain to his family, yet he is still indulging in the deadly act.

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2. Do they in reality genuinely feel any remorse about  how those affected by their actions might be feeling?  

If you have ever counseled a gambling addict you know that they are very sorry for their actions. Some might have become strong hearted thereby having no feeling or remorse, but most of the people I have advised feel sorry for putting themselves and family at financial risk. Many of them have kept apologizing countless because they are not pleased with their misbehavior. The issue is that they just can't help themselves.

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3. Or, are they a dispassionate victim of their own uncontrollable addictive gambling lifestyle?

Some of these gamblers have become used to their misbehavior. They don't feel remorse and don't also care about the consequences of their actions. Every gambling addict needs help because addiction makes people lose their sense of reasoning.
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I don't really think that an addict who has reached the level to steal money or belongings from their loved ones only to continue his gambling activities will feel any remorse or will have any thought about what the consequences of his actions will be on his loved ones or others around him, he is probably not able to think about anything else apart from gambling and that is the reason why he carried out something like that.

Such people need to be treated because they lose their ability to think critically and take decisions that are good for themselves and those they live with, they also can be dangerous because they can do almost anything to get some money for their gambling addiction.
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1. Gambling addicts never think about the consequences of their actions or the consequences that the people around them will receive. They just want money to be able to continue gambling and will look for that money anywhere, even if they have to steal.
2. I don't know but it doesn't seem like they have any regrets or if they do, it won't stop them from stopping gambling. They have no idea about the feelings of those affected by their actions.
3. they are victims of gambling because they do not have self-control but must also realize that it is their own fault because they often gamble and do not control themselves.
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Gambling if not checked cam lead to a devastating condition for a gambler's life. As a gambler when you allow yourself to be controlled by gambling instinct instead of having control over it, it repercussions doesn't particularly affects only you but goes beyond just you to those around you.

A woman was giving an account of how her gambling husband has been problematic to her with his gambling attitude. She gave an instance of how her husband had to steal her jewelry and sold it to get money to carry on his gambling enterprise. And unsuspecting of her husband the woman accused their come-and-go house-cleaner of making away with her jewelry when the cleaner must have come to the house for her cleaning services that very faithful day. She got the cleaner arrested, but then, investigations where carried out which it was uncovered that the woman's husband was the one who stole her jewelry for gambling and not the cleaner.

It is difficult to grasp or imagined the level of humiliation the innocent cleaner must have faced for an act she knows nothing about.

A question that bothers me concerning this issue is;
1. Do gambling addicts ever take a second thought on what the consequences of their actions can be not just to them but on those close to them? 
2. Do they in reality genuinely feel any remorse about  how those affected by their actions might be feeling? 
3. Or, are they a dispassionate victim of their own uncontrollable addictive gambling lifestyle?
This addiction is on another level, he's not just a gambler, he's an addict and a theif and he needs urgent help.

I feel for the cleaner, it's good she was vindicated quite early..
Hope she finds peace and forgives are accusers.
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A question that bothers me concerning this issue is;
1. Do gambling addicts ever take a second thought on what the consequences of their actions can be not just to them but on those close to them? 
2. Do they in reality genuinely feel any remorse about  how those affected by their actions might be feeling? 
3. Or, are they a dispassionate victim of their own uncontrollable addictive gambling lifestyle?

Personally I have never experienced a gambling addiction so it's a bit hard to answer for me, but I have personal experiences with other types of addictions. In the end I think the behavior we have with our addictions are very similar and don't depend on the substances. My uncle struggles with alcohol addiction for a long time and I talked with him about it many times. He is aware how much it affects our family as everybody tries to help him. The problem is that all morning and afternoon he is fine and control himself, but in the evening there is a switch in him that starts to change his behavior completely. I have a similar experience with cigarettes, tried to stop more than 20 times but always come back to it. Especially after drinking alcohol I can't control myself and it happens automatically, even though I know how bad it is.
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Sometimes in extreme conditions they do.It is a personal case to me as I was badly addicted in 2019 and in the early 2020,one time I lost so much money that I could not afford to lose that my level of regret and sadness was at the highest.I laid down to think cold headed and started thinking of what I had just done,this led me to carefully think ahead and I decided to never again gambling more than I could afford to lose,since then with the passing of time I developed a really strong self will and managed to never do that horrible thing again.

So bottom line,gambling addicts sometimes do think and correct the consequences caused by their behavior.
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I have friends like this that's why gamblers who have become heavy addicts are always abandoned by their families or leave their families, everything is almost the same as that, for example stealing or selling what belongs to his wife or children, that's why they never think about the future of their family let alone think about the consequences their actions. they won't care about that. believe me

My friend always follows a lifestyle, usually the environment exerts influence and pressure on him so he continues to play gambling without caring about anything around him or hurting his family's feelings, that's why I advised him but he never wanted to hear it, maybe one day at his saturation point he will think for himself about his behavior had gone too far. I'm sure it will come and he regrets it. so never advise addicts because it will be useless, my advice is let him be aware starting from himself. seeing the story above it is almost very similar to my gambling friend, seeing him made me realize that gambling must be wise and controlled
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Based on my experience here in our community, they no longer have any kind of shyness because they ask people for money without feeling guilty, and some steal others' properties to support their addictions. I remember when I woke up in the middle of the night when someone asked our neighbor for some money to play because he used to give that guy some money whenever he lost, and the guy seemed to lose his mind as well, waking up my neighbor to fund him some money to play more. Man! That was something you wouldn't believe, but it happens, and I can't believe they went up that far because of their addiction.
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A question that bothers me concerning this issue is;
1. Do gambling addicts ever take a second thought on what the consequences of their actions can be not just to them but on those close to them?  
2. Do they in reality genuinely feel any remorse about  how those affected by their actions might be feeling?  
3. Or, are they a dispassionate victim of their own uncontrollable addictive gambling lifestyle?

I think an individual going through an addiction and wants to drop the habit to better himself needs all the love and support he can get. It’s not an easy task for someone with an addiction to drop it. It’s extremely difficult. I know that for a fact. Regarding your questions, this is what I think..

1. I think some addicts do think their actions through and the repercussions that could come later on that would hurt and affect himself and others around him. But in most cases, the addiction usually would prevail; damn the consequences.

2. Yes, I think some may actually feel remorse and ashamed of how their actions may have negatively affected themselves and their family but that feeling of guilt and shame does not last long and would quickly evaporate when hearing out to gamble again.

3. I think a whole lot could be said to be victims of their own habit that has spiraled out of their control. And that’s why I mentioned that an individual going through an addiction and has made up his mind to stop should be supported and loved.
Mistakes could likely happen and the person may fall back into the habit. Support, love and encouragement from family and people around him would go a long way in the fight towards dropping the addiction.
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1. Do gambling addicts ever take a second thought on what the consequences of their actions can be not just to them but on those close to them? 

Only few make this consideration whilebthe majority overlooked this aspect and believed there's nothing too much to give, loose or expect than for them to enjoy their own life as they could, so gambling i such manners is their own perfect way of being satisfied with lots of fun to enjoy their life each day they are gambling.

2. Do they in reality genuinely feel any remorse about  how those affected by their actions might be feeling? 

Someone who never think about the gambling addiction affecting him negatively will never mind how you also feels about him since those kind of people that are addicted to gambling dont considers some things as serious as when needed because their life itself is not taken with all seriousness, why should they be concerned about how you feels about them.

3. Or, are they a dispassionate victim of their own uncontrollable addictive gambling lifestyle?

Maybe, as you can see from those well addicted in gambling, they never see anything wrong in it, they reap the reward for their addiction from the consequences they get afterwards.
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No, I would say that gambling addicts do not know or cannot tell right from Wrong when comes to their gambling habits.

Actually, not being able to tell right from wrong while gambling is one of the main characteristics of a problem gambling victim, and hence the inability to stop wagering money.

If someone still can feel remorse or have second thoughts, then It is not too late for that person to get intervention and straighten their life and save up their money for more important things than entertainment.
Everyone understands what is right and wrong, it is only ignorance that prevents most people from doing the right thing; purportedly, we had opportunities to right our wrongs, but some people would not take a single step to do so, instead choosing to engage in gambling activities. Gambling is never an alternative or a method to generating secure finances; it is unreliable and completely a risk. It instills so many destructive negative thoughts in the brains of addicted gamblers that they are willing to engage in any extreme behavior without regard for the consequences of their conduct. gaming addicts do feel sorrow for their desperation for gaming.
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3. Or, are they a dispassionate victim of their own uncontrollable addictive gambling lifestyle?
they are, but not all of them.

btw, it is my first time hearing the phrase "dispassionate victim". I am still confused about what it means but from what I understand, it basically means "someone who shows no emotion despite being a victim or affected by something", am I right?
You are not far from the meaning, mate. The word dispassionate is an ambiguous word with several meanings, and in this context "dispassionate victim", could be said to be someone who finds himself under a circumstance that is overwhelming and beyond their control.  Within their inner part they don't feel like doing it but they do it anyway.
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A question that bothers me concerning this issue is;
1. Do gambling addicts ever take a second thought on what the consequences of their actions can be not just to them but on those close to them? 
2. Do they in reality genuinely feel any remorse about  how those affected by their actions might be feeling? 
3. Or, are they a dispassionate victim of their own uncontrollable addictive gambling lifestyle?

Ok here we go with another episode of the "gambling addicts". Well, to answer these questions, in my opinion it's a big NO to all three of that. They are not even aware that they are a gambling addict, same goes with the people who got addicted with cigarettes and alcohol, they only feel like it's part of their daily routine and their system.
Do they have a thought on the consequences of their actions? "NO", why? because they think they could take back all what they've lost once they hit a jackpot when reality is they won't gonna take it back.
Does that husband felt guilt or remorse on what happened to their cleaner? "NO" cause if he does, he have admitted it in the first place when the authorities took their cleaner away as a primary suspect for the ongoing investigation. Though that husband might felt it on the latter.
Are they a victim of their own lifestyle? again, NO they chose that path and so they are the only one who could fix it on their own.

Again, we can't do much to cure gambling addiction, but we can somehow spread awareness to prevent one from becoming so, but I think we have enough of an awareness in this section LOL.
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