Well that's true , forcing someone to do anything ain't right , because of by any chances anything goes wrong you will be the one to be blamed , but most people that have such mindset of blaming others for any slight thing that happens to them , ain't ready to make it or being successful, because the time you are mature enough to take responsibility, that's when you will see things working fine , because for example alot of people where given the privilege of being recommended to invest on bitcoin back then when the price was not up to the recent price (low) but still alot of people fade and throw that opportunity away because of the mindset of being scared to take risk , while others fully took those step in investing on it , but now those set of people are in good profits now , while those that fade are regretting it now saying had I known.