Do you feel shameful for being a gambler? - page 2.

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Quote from: Pettuh4 on August 06, 2018, 04:33:53 PM

Quote from: Taki on August 06, 2018, 10:14:06 AM

I am from Russia and I'm actually hiding my gambling from my parents only. My friends know about my interests and we even play poker from time to time together in life. But parents are such people who think only negative about such things as gambling in first. I do not want to they worry about me and possible addiction, so I simply do not share with them.

That doesn't make you ashamed of gambling but you are only saving yourself from being criticized by your parents who might be right because they must have spent quite a fortune on you to become a better person than someone living on gambling and so you may appear to have disappointed them if they caught you gambling.

His parents might also not get disappointed if he was only gambling in an online casino and does not used that much money in gambling. If he just gamble with his spare money then there is nothing to hide and be ashamed to his parents.

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i do not hide that i am a gambler. but i play only from time to time and not excessive. thats why this is ok for me and my environment and i have nothing to hide.

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Quote from: Taki on August 06, 2018, 10:14:06 AM

I am from Russia and I'm actually hiding my gambling from my parents only. My friends know about my interests and we even play poker from time to time together in life. But parents are such people who think only negative about such things as gambling in first. I do not want to they worry about me and possible addiction, so I simply do not share with them.

That doesn't make you ashamed of gambling but you are only saving yourself from being criticized by your parents who might be right because they must have spent quite a fortune on you to become a better person than someone living on gambling and so you may appear to have disappointed them if they caught you gambling.

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I don't gamble but I know some, but they don't hide it. The only thing they hide is their profit in every game. Some people are shaming gamblers because of how they earn it through gambling, but if you play in a casino, you are will be praised. For example, if you are only playing just at your houses, people will judge you easily, but if you play in casinos or any big time gambling place, they will say that you are rich. That is why some people are shame being a gambler.

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Quote from: Ridwan Fauzi on July 08, 2018, 07:41:32 AM

We are same, I am ashamed to be a gambler because gambling on the stamp is a bad thing, and this is happening in my country. But now the gamble we can hide well, not even one person who knows that I am a gambler. Online gambling is the best place for someone who is in a country that hates gambling. So, there is nothing more to worry about being a gambler.

It is more of self acceptance after a point. Because others do not care what you do or what is going to happen to you because of you actions.

I think if a person is playing with his own money and is following his limits, there is nothing to be ashamed of gambling. All the money that a person earns is spent on his needs. Leisure or entertainment is also a need today and gambling is one of the ways to get that.

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I don't advertise my passion to avoid people's evaluation. But in general I don't care what they think. The main thing that it brought pleasure to me, and not strongly beat on a pocket. Also, if it's ok here, i want to invite you to my new fav roulette https://rolleth.io/oIe4LFKdQe

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I am from Russia and I'm actually hiding my gambling from my parents only. My friends know about my interests and we even play poker from time to time together in life. But parents are such people who think only negative about such things as gambling in first. I do not want to they worry about me and possible addiction, so I simply do not share with them.

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you should be ashamed if something you do harms yourself or even something else, and not just gambling whatsoever if you are not responsible you should be ashamed. but it is true that in a state of struggle is strictly forbidden and in criminal action because it collides with the norm religion

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Quote from: OshiHugo on December 21, 2016, 01:15:03 AM

Go guys!
In many cultures and countries is gambling consider as a bad thing which only the poorest and silliest ones do. Many gamblers try to hide that they gamble from their friends and families and feel really shameful for that. Do you consider gambling as a bad thing? Do you feel shameful or proud for being a gambler? If it is shame what you feel what do you about it? How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?
Let others know!

For me is yes i know many people are getting richest in gambling but when you lost in you are nothing . I dont want to became a gambler i want to become a best investor

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Quote from: emberbekas on August 05, 2018, 01:14:56 PM

Quote from: STT on July 10, 2018, 02:55:12 PM

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How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?

Why should anyone have to hide honest intentions to spend money they honestly earnt. The only negative I can think of here is people who go into debt to gamble, then yea thats risky and should be avoided and it probably become too much of a habit and should be discontinued not hidden.

How I spend a wage packet is my business nobody elses. If I want to spend my earnings on a bottle of whiskey and a pack of cigarettes and ruin my health a little its my business, in fact because of the tax people should be thanking me for my additional contribution to the country's endless budget fiscal spending.
If one guy isnt paying taxes like this, the burden will fall on others some of who had nothing spare. There is zero to apologise for or hide imo. Almost all sites allow players to ban themselves, if you have any regrets then go ahead and suspend your access to the site

The point of view may differ from one culture to another. At some places, to be known as a gambler will give a bad reputation in a society. Therefore, even though someone uses his own money and never use someone else's money to gamble, to be known as a gambler can be very annoying and embarrassing. Tbh, gambling is a very complicated thing and it is weird why people love to do it.

You get the point, obviously feeling shameful for being gambler is based on ourselves on how to react the fact and react to the society. I myself do not really care about how the society thinks about me if they know that I'm gambler. As long as I do not disturb their life, why I need to be ashamed? I would prefer to be ashamed in front of my God than in front of the society. (a little bit religious lesson LOL).

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Quote from: STT on July 10, 2018, 02:55:12 PM

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How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?

Why should anyone have to hide honest intentions to spend money they honestly earnt. The only negative I can think of here is people who go into debt to gamble, then yea thats risky and should be avoided and it probably become too much of a habit and should be discontinued not hidden.

How I spend a wage packet is my business nobody elses. If I want to spend my earnings on a bottle of whiskey and a pack of cigarettes and ruin my health a little its my business, in fact because of the tax people should be thanking me for my additional contribution to the country's endless budget fiscal spending.
If one guy isnt paying taxes like this, the burden will fall on others some of who had nothing spare. There is zero to apologise for or hide imo. Almost all sites allow players to ban themselves, if you have any regrets then go ahead and suspend your access to the site

The point of view may differ from one culture to another. At some places, to be known as a gambler will give a bad reputation in a society. Therefore, even though someone uses his own money and never use someone else's money to gamble, to be known as a gambler can be very annoying and embarrassing. Tbh, gambling is a very complicated thing and it is weird why people love to do it.

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Quote from: gowobonyok on June 05, 2018, 09:01:08 AM

gambling is a negative thing in the eyes of society. I am embarrassed if anyone knows that I am a gambler. because they must think, why have money not used for investment, or other business, it is used for gambling.

Not all society thinks like that, I live in a society where gambling is not a taboo thing because gambling is like a traditional culture since long time ago. So people around me including me wont be shameful of being a gambler as almost 90% men in my village are used to gamble.

Now that depends from place to place , if we see in general people in societies normally feel gambling as something bad but in recent times there surely has been a change to this mentality in many places, many gamblers don't feel ashamed nowadays

Actually this depends on the gambler's life, if the gambler has a lot of wealth and lives in the luxury, other people will not consider himself lowly, even they will feel hesitant to him. But if the gambler's life is horrible, being in poverty but having this gambling habit will be a negative response from others people to him. A person's life can not be determined by the negative habits that he often does, but one's life will reverberate in spite of the negative habits of their possessions.

I would completely agree with that statement if a person is rich belongs from a reputable family and gambles no one really minds and everyone says it proudly but if it is some poor person the society starts having a negative opinion about him and is shamed for being a gambler

But I think in different places people react and think about gambler in different way, for example in my area as I belong to a Muslim family therefore it is totally consider as sin to play gambling either you are under age or adult but gambling is consider as a sin and everyone who play gambling if he will expose in society he will therefore feel sham.

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Quote from: onrise on July 08, 2018, 12:08:03 PM

Quote from: Ridwan Fauzi on July 08, 2018, 07:41:32 AM

Quote from: kurian on July 03, 2018, 12:35:26 PM

I am gambling with my own money. So, why would i feel shameful? Gambling is portrayed as a bad thing in religions and cultures. It's a complete speculative game, as long as we gamble without greed there shouldn't be much to worry.

We are same, I am ashamed to be a gambler because gambling on the stamp is a bad thing, and this is happening in my country. But now the gamble we can hide well, not even one person who knows that I am a gambler. Online gambling is the best place for someone who is in a country that hates gambling. So, there is nothing more to worry about being a gambler.

I think where it it legal it should not be a worry some as govt has allowed it and not consider it as a bad thing else they would have banned it. On other hand countries which have banned and their you gamble it could be shameful thing.

It is less up to banning and prohibition but more up to considering it as a source of income as people consider it more for making money after winning a game though it is possible but its actual meaning is to entertain yourself and to make fun by playing games and less up to make money with it.

In many countries it is considering as a shameful act because it is not a genuine and honest way of making money by winning games but there are many better sources which make you a humble person or business man.

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How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?

Why should anyone have to hide honest intentions to spend money they honestly earnt. The only negative I can think of here is people who go into debt to gamble, then yea thats risky and should be avoided and it probably become too much of a habit and should be discontinued not hidden.

How I spend a wage packet is my business nobody elses. If I want to spend my earnings on a bottle of whiskey and a pack of cigarettes and ruin my health a little its my business, in fact because of the tax people should be thanking me for my additional contribution to the country's endless budget fiscal spending.
If one guy isnt paying taxes like this, the burden will fall on others some of who had nothing spare. There is zero to apologise for or hide imo. Almost all sites allow players to ban themselves, if you have any regrets then go ahead and suspend your access to the site

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I only feel shameful if I bet or lose more than I have to be betting in the first place. Lately with scratch off tickets I have been winning. So lately I have not been feeling to shameful my girlfriend on the other hand doesn't care to much for it.

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Quote from: EdenHazard on June 19, 2018, 11:39:50 PM

Quote from: JL421 on June 05, 2018, 12:51:03 PM

Quote from: panjul07 on June 05, 2018, 10:48:44 AM

Quote from: gowobonyok on June 05, 2018, 09:01:08 AM

gambling is a negative thing in the eyes of society. I am embarrassed if anyone knows that I am a gambler. because they must think, why have money not used for investment, or other business, it is used for gambling.

Not all society thinks like that, I live in a society where gambling is not a taboo thing because gambling is like a traditional culture since long time ago. So people around me including me wont be shameful of being a gambler as almost 90% men in my village are used to gamble.

Now that depends from place to place , if we see in general people in societies normally feel gambling as something bad but in recent times there surely has been a change to this mentality in many places, many gamblers don't feel ashamed nowadays

Actually this depends on the gambler's life, if the gambler has a lot of wealth and lives in the luxury, other people will not consider himself lowly, even they will feel hesitant to him. But if the gambler's life is horrible, being in poverty but having this gambling habit will be a negative response from others people to him. A person's life can not be determined by the negative habits that he often does, but one's life will reverberate in spite of the negative habits of their possessions.

I would completely agree with that statement if a person is rich belongs from a reputable family and gambles no one really minds and everyone says it proudly but if it is some poor person the society starts having a negative opinion about him and is shamed for being a gambler

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Quote from: rizkyhiw on July 03, 2018, 11:07:08 PM

Quote from: panjul07 on June 05, 2018, 10:48:44 AM

Quote from: gowobonyok on June 05, 2018, 09:01:08 AM

gambling is a negative thing in the eyes of society. I am embarrassed if anyone knows that I am a gambler. because they must think, why have money not used for investment, or other business, it is used for gambling.

Not all society thinks like that, I live in a society where gambling is not a taboo thing because gambling is like a traditional culture since long time ago. So people around me including me wont be shameful of being a gambler as almost 90% men in my village are used to gamble.

It all depends on the circumstances and the country. There are some countries that prohibit gambling such as countries where the majority of the people are Muslims. Should they be embarrassed, Muslims strongly forbid gambling. Do not mean to be racist but that is true. There are also countries that provide legalization for a gambling so why should they be embarrassed.

Yeah, but in reality there are many of them that do gambling. Here in my country that most of the people are moslems but also many people do gambling. In my case, to be honest i do feel very shameful. That's why no one knows my gambling activity until now.

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Quote from: Devawnm367 on July 08, 2018, 09:31:40 PM

I never feel shameful as I never bet more than I am willing to loose. My gf really only hates the losses. As I bought a scratch off the other day for 5$ scratched it and won 500$. Needless to say I used the winnings and bought 4 new tires. She was not ashamed of me then I can promise you that. We were broke and now we have 4 brand new tires!!! We were worried about how we were going to fit it into our budget!!!!

As long as we are not taking advantage to other people, nothing to be shame of. If we are using our money which we consider as a excess in our budget there is nothing wrong with it. I don't mind on what other people think as long as I'm happy and contented of am I doing. Life is too short to control upon your happiness. Just always set limitations for the good of your family.

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Quote from: KingdomHearts on July 07, 2018, 06:38:47 AM

LOL , WHY? Why would anyone feel ashamed for being a gambler? I mean even if you are losing money, you are losing for something stupid, not something bad or nasty.

Gambling is not something you should be ashamed of, if you are winning overall, it should be something to be proud of , if you are losing (like most do) than you should feel sad, maybe angry or anxiety. I mean in the end you are not doing something that would put shame to you if you said to someone else.

I think some of the people getting ashamed if they are caught for playing gambling by other people that know him because it will make him get a bad name in his neighborhood. and I think this is one of the reasons for people that will feel shameful for being a gambler and they think that it's better to stay in the dark so he can play gambling without anyone knows his habit.

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Quote from: onrise on July 08, 2018, 12:08:03 PM

Quote from: Ridwan Fauzi on July 08, 2018, 07:41:32 AM

Quote from: kurian on July 03, 2018, 12:35:26 PM

I am gambling with my own money. So, why would i feel shameful? Gambling is portrayed as a bad thing in religions and cultures. It's a complete speculative game, as long as we gamble without greed there shouldn't be much to worry.

We are same, I am ashamed to be a gambler because gambling on the stamp is a bad thing, and this is happening in my country. But now the gamble we can hide well, not even one person who knows that I am a gambler. Online gambling is the best place for someone who is in a country that hates gambling. So, there is nothing more to worry about being a gambler.

I think where it it legal it should not be a worry some as govt has allowed it and not consider it as a bad thing else they would have banned it. On other hand countries which have banned and their you gamble it could be shameful thing.

They might as well not ban it due to regulations or just because some gambling currency such as cryptocurrency is not yet reged by government rules.
It's just a matter of time till this gets involved into every gambling houses or sites.

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