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legendary
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Nope I don't feel shameful being a gambler ,
In fact I am proud to be one when my friends and I are talking I often tells them about it.
Don't you afraid that people might strangely look at you when you say that you are gambler?
But yeah, it is much better to go straight and tell them, if you don't tell them and they know that you are gambler they will either make fun of you behind your back or feel sorry for you.
legendary
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Its being shameful for being a gambler when your irresponsible in your obligations in your life or family you have.We see it bad when loosing all your money despite of being poor and did not know how to manage your finances at all.
Definitely, If you are unable to fulfill your duties which you should do because they are the compulsory thing and gambling isn’t a compulsory thing.

But, I think that gambling can be a shameful thing and can be not. If the person like you are talking about is gambling to make huge amounts of profits from it, then I think this is a shameful thing because he wouldn’t be able to fulfill his duties but if he plays for fun, I think nothing bad with it.

Tbh, people won't care whether we are gambling for fun or for profit. They only know that gambling is a bad/embarrassing thing hence no matter what is the main reason behind our gambling activities, it will be embarrassed if caught gambling.
legendary
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Its being shameful for being a gambler when your irresponsible in your obligations in your life or family you have.We see it bad when loosing all your money despite of being poor and did not know how to manage your finances at all.
Definitely, If you are unable to fulfill your duties which you should do because they are the compulsory thing and gambling isn’t a compulsory thing.

But, I think that gambling can be a shameful thing and can be not. If the person like you are talking about is gambling to make huge amounts of profits from it, then I think this is a shameful thing because he wouldn’t be able to fulfill his duties but if he plays for fun, I think nothing bad with it.
sr. member
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Nope I don't feel shameful being a gambler ,
In fact I am proud to be one when my friends and I are talking I often tells them about it.
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If I make some stupid calls and play irresponsibly, I guess that makes me feel shameful. I don't have any issue with responsible gambling though.
That's something to be shameful about but i really don't see people telling stock trader and forex trader to be shameful about the work that they are doing because its the same as gambling and aside those with insider trading, they are all depending on pure luck.
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In many cultures and countries is gambling consider as a bad thing which only the poorest and silliest ones do. Many gamblers try to hide that they gamble from their friends and families and feel really shameful for that. Do you consider gambling as a bad thing? Do you feel shameful or proud for being a gambler? If it is shame what you feel what do you about it? How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?
Let others know!
I am so shameful for my self when i go to casino and lose because my money is not from my own hardwork.the money i use for gamble is from my mother whose in abroad.so everytime i lose i feel so ashamed.I always hide to go because of our neighbors i dont want them to know that i am a gambler because they tell to my mother.But now i stop gambling i realize my mother sacrifices for us.
newbie
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If I make some stupid calls and play irresponsibly, I guess that makes me feel shameful. I don't have any issue with responsible gambling though.
legendary
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Go guys!
In many cultures and countries is gambling consider as a bad thing which only the poorest and silliest ones do. Many gamblers try to hide that they gamble from their friends and families and feel really shameful for that. Do you consider gambling as a bad thing? Do you feel shameful or proud for being a gambler? If it is shame what you feel what do you about it? How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?
Let others know!
I am so shameful for my self when i go to casino and lose because my money is not from my own hardwork.the money i use for gamble is from my mother whose in abroad.so everytime i lose i feel so ashamed.I always hide to go because of our neighbors i dont want them to know that i am a gambler because they tell to my mother.But now i stop gambling i realize my mother sacrifices for us.

if not for gambling what do you use that money for? I am assuming it was your surplus money because you could afford gambling it, if not then you are greatly at fault here.
Now what do you do with you surplus money? Drink? Party? Spend on trips? All these are leisure activities, if you take gambling as one of these activities you have nothing to be ashamed of.
You have surplus money, you have time, you want to enjoy yourself you go and gamble! Thats how i feel about it.
I am not persuading you to gamble more not am i justifying gambling to make you do it again, i am just trying to show you another angle to look at the activity of gambling.
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Go guys!
In many cultures and countries is gambling consider as a bad thing which only the poorest and silliest ones do. Many gamblers try to hide that they gamble from their friends and families and feel really shameful for that. Do you consider gambling as a bad thing? Do you feel shameful or proud for being a gambler? If it is shame what you feel what do you about it? How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?
Let others know!

Gambling is become bad if we use it as our hobbies or if we become addicted to it. Gambling is good in relieving your stress but make sure that it wouldn't lead this to addiction. Sometimes it is embarrassing but it's all done.

Yes i agree that it have gained a bad reputation over time and all this is because of the addicts. Anything when turns into addiction doesnt look good as if would be otherwise. Same is the case with gambling. Its not some sin or some bad thing. Its equivalent to a sport or game. It is a fun thing to do that brings enjoyment and relieves stress. But if it becomes addiction them then only it becomes overpowering. Or else i would never be ashamed of being a gambler because its just another fun game.
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I'm proud that i'm a gambler because i take the risks to earn money and i do have balls to bet on the underdogs.
Being a gambler isn’t a thing for which one should feel proud of himself because society doesn’t entertain the gamblers as they are considered bad people of the society who can risk anything, even the life of other person just for the sake of money. Make a lot of money to meet their basic life needs. I don’t know what they would do with such money which is earned by putting someone’s life in danger.
Everything depends on how you look at things, if you believe gambling is an entertainment and you get your expectation then
that is something to be proud of as that would mean you are matured and you are strong to avoid yourself from being addicted which are problems of some gamblers.
Not only problem of few gamblers but majority of the gamblers are engaged in this thing. They are afflicted by the disease of gambling all the time, wasting their hard earned money and ruining the lives of their families as well. This game must be banned all over the world to save people from financial destruction. Casinos are the hubs of criminal activities and other immoral things too. Better stay away from the game.
It’s true because gambling is just the waste of time and money. If gambling was so sure that it will give profits in long terms then everyone would have been gambling for fun as well as to make money to meet their future needs. I agree with you once more that the gamblers not only ruin their own life but also ruin the life of the people who are attached to them that’s why they quit their relation with gamblers.
newbie
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Yes it is shameful that is why some people dont tell anyone that they are gambling even in countries where gambling is legal.
legendary
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Go guys!
In many cultures and countries is gambling consider as a bad thing which only the poorest and silliest ones do. Many gamblers try to hide that they gamble from their friends and families and feel really shameful for that. Do you consisted gambling as a bad thing? Do you feel shameful or proud for being a gambler? If it is shame what you feel what do you about it? How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?
Let others know!

If you can't think about anything else but gambling the whole day and if coming home the first thing you do is turning on the computer to gamble as soon as possible and if after you start you can't stop until your whole balance is lost, then yes gambling is a very bad thing for you. But if you just like to relax gambling for an hour or two and you can stop any time and you don't lose big money with it then there's nothing wrong with that IMO.

I quite agree with you that there is need for a gambler to be discipline as per how to gamble as that is what is affecting most addicted gamblers who lost all their money in gambling , even the last amount of money they are suppose to use for their upkeep and family, thereby painting other gamblers as if they are not responsible. Many have through gambling become very rich, while others very poor as well. The ratio is higher for the poor while for those who make it through gambling are few.I am not ashamed to be a responsible gambler.
Discipline is the first step to your story of success. If one wants to be a successful person, he should be well-disciplined because this shows how much grooming you having from your childhood.

If you will take everything in your life with discipline, I think that the chances of getting regret are very small. If gambler would be having discipline in his life, he would avoid bigger losses because he will know where to stop.
I agree with you my friend in this regard. Discipline in life is the most important thing if you want to have success in your life because when you become disciplined, it means that you have put some limits on yourself which you will follow to become successful and remaining in these limits doesn’t enables you to do blunders in your life. Also discipline shows how much patience you have got and control on yourself.
hero member
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Its being shameful for being a gambler when your irresponsible in your obligations in your life or family you have.We see it bad when loosing all your money despite of being poor and did not know how to manage your finances at all.

When we are addicted to gamble, most of the time we dont care what is going to happen to us after that. Im sure that they are some responsible gambler but when someone has no shame, that is a big difference. I know someone that has no shame when it comes to gamble, he could lose all money and just borrow it again from his family just to lose it again
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Its being shameful for being a gambler when your irresponsible in your obligations in your life or family you have.We see it bad when loosing all your money despite of being poor and did not know how to manage your finances at all.
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Yes, for a minute. Than I look at my wallet and the feeling is gone Smiley
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Yes, it's true.Many countries people or religious thinks it's a bad things to do.It's prohibited.So I always think it's shameful for me because I am gambling.

And Also I hide it from them because if they find am gambling then they will punish me or removed me from their community.

I don't know why we need to be shameful as a gambler.It's my own earned money.Why people can't take gambling normally.I don't know about rest of the gamblers but for me it's shameful actually.

You dont need to be shameful but when you brag to the other person about how you are making alot of money from gambling, that is shameful. It is not something that can be brag about because gambling is so realted with negativity although you live in a country that allow you to gamble . It is better to keep quiet about this
I dont think so. If gambling is legal in your country and no one really gives a damn if you are gambler or not then it is ok. Your game is at your own expense. And, if you are indeed winning a lot and making a lot of money by gambling, it is not shameful. You are not robbing people. Your didnt steal your money and you didnt exploit anyone.
hero member
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Yes, it's true.Many countries people or religious thinks it's a bad things to do.It's prohibited.So I always think it's shameful for me because I am gambling.

And Also I hide it from them because if they find am gambling then they will punish me or removed me from their community.

I don't know why we need to be shameful as a gambler.It's my own earned money.Why people can't take gambling normally.I don't know about rest of the gamblers but for me it's shameful actually.

You dont need to be shameful but when you brag to the other person about how you are making alot of money from gambling, that is shameful. It is not something that can be brag about because gambling is so realted with negativity although you live in a country that allow you to gamble . It is better to keep quiet about this
sr. member
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Go guys!
In many cultures and countries is gambling consider as a bad thing which only the poorest and silliest ones do. Many gamblers try to hide that they gamble from their friends and families and feel really shameful for that. Do you consider gambling as a bad thing? Do you feel shameful or proud for being a gambler? If it is shame what you feel what do you about it? How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?
Let others know!

Yes, it's true.Many countries people or religious thinks it's a bad things to do.It's prohibited.So I always think it's shameful for me because I am gambling.

And Also I hide it from them because if they find am gambling then they will punish me or removed me from their community.

I don't know why we need to be shameful as a gambler.It's my own earned money.Why people can't take gambling normally.I don't know about rest of the gamblers but for me it's shameful actually.
legendary
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I'm proud that i'm a gambler because i take the risks to earn money and i do have balls to bet on the underdogs.
Being a gambler isn’t a thing for which one should feel proud of himself because society doesn’t entertain the gamblers as they are considered bad people of the society who can risk anything, even the life of other person just for the sake of money. Make a lot of money to meet their basic life needs. I don’t know what they would do with such money which is earned by putting someone’s life in danger.
Everything depends on how you look at things, if you believe gambling is an entertainment and you get your expectation then
that is something to be proud of as that would mean you are matured and you are strong to avoid yourself from being addicted which are problems of some gamblers.
Not only problem of few gamblers but majority of the gamblers are engaged in this thing. They are afflicted by the disease of gambling all the time, wasting their hard earned money and ruining the lives of their families as well. This game must be banned all over the world to save people from financial destruction. Casinos are the hubs of criminal activities and other immoral things too. Better stay away from the game.
better stay away when you have no idea what the consequences behind your gambling habit.

but seriously when you can control yourself to not being greedy , treat gamble like it should be to entertain you , i think there is no big deal to feel it is so shameful to gamble , you just need to remember that you have to be responsible on whatever you have done.
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