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If you lose everything with gambling and you know you can control yourself about it, you should be shameful if you lost all the time with gambling. It means you are not thinking of what future you will have, but you just like to take risk and not even using your brain. Be shameful if you lost even your family because they don’t know what their future holds with you since you are not thinking about them.

Truth. We don't have the right to judge but what we're seeing in these people is weak hearts and can't dicipline their own selves. Of course sometimes it's not just about gambling. Sometimes it's about problem on the family and they are going through depression and to forget about how lonely they are, they are making their selves succumb to gambling ang I think that's worse. Whenever you feel lost just take advice and don't forget to tell it to your friends. Don't just take all the shame for yourself, that's a camaraderies are here for.

For me I am not much of a gambler but if I was one I would shame like it was drugs. You throw your money away over and over in hopes to win.
It can be very dangerous and you can lose everything that is why I say it can be destructive like drugs.

True. When you're mental state is affected then you can't control it anymore and the destruction will occur not only to yourself but also on those people around you. Be careful.
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Yes because im always too greedy, and then I continue betting and at some point we all lose.
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In many cultures and countries is gambling consider as a bad thing which only the poorest and silliest ones do. Many gamblers try to hide that they gamble from their friends and families and feel really shameful for that. Do you consider gambling as a bad thing? Do you feel shameful or proud for being a gambler? If it is shame what you feel what do you about it? How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?
Let others know!

I don't feel ashamed for being gambler. I think there's nothing wrong with gambling as long as you're not doing something illegal, cheating and you're not hurting anyone. Gambling is created for entertainment. Maybe if you're deceiving people through gambling and you're making it as a living that's the only moment that you should be ashamed of what you're doing.
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I don't see why anyone would feel ashamed for gambling. As long as you're the one in control of your actions you can do whatever the hell you want. The only way somebody could legitimately feel ashamed would be if they lost control and acted impulsively. I suppose that could be true for most gamblers, since they think gambling is a way to get rich, which it is not. But generally speaking, there is nothing wrong with gambling.
People can't always control there emotions or action when it comes of gambling the excitement and the enjoyement of playing gambling the more they act and the more they think possitive to think of it that they really can. About the lost control it is up to you if you're going to follow your guts or not most of gamblers are playing in the short term period where they gonna greed there money risk that big amount until they get nothing or win the game.
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No oh, It doesn't matter. Even that person who may laugh at you may even want to play it.
If you don't consider other people's opinion then you will not feel guilty at all, everything you do is based
on what you believe so why would you ashamed of being a gambler, you do it for fun and you do not violate any law in your country
so you are doing what is good. I'll never be ashamed because it has not ruin my life.
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I don't see why anyone would feel ashamed for gambling. As long as you're the one in control of your actions you can do whatever the hell you want. The only way somebody could legitimately feel ashamed would be if they lost control and acted impulsively. I suppose that could be true for most gamblers, since they think gambling is a way to get rich, which it is not. But generally speaking, there is nothing wrong with gambling.
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No oh, It doesn't matter. Even that person who may laugh at you may even want to play it.
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No i dont feel shameful being a gambler.as long as i didnt hurt someone feeling anyway it is my money that loss during the time of bad luck in gambling.
I really dont care about people whos continue judging me arround.like they know everything about me.

Exactly! Being a gambler is okay as long as you will use your own money to gamble with, what is shameful is when you borrow money for the sake of gambling even if you are going to pay the person you owe for me that act is shameful.
I'm agree with you because from my point of view, there is the advantages to having such thoughts if we are ashamed to borrow money for gamble then we can suppress our addiction to gambling.
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Previously, I feel little bit of "ashamed". But then I ask myself? Why become ashamed ? I'm not doing anything wrong to other people and besides it's my life, it's my decision so none can ever question that. I gamble just for fun and I do not gamble everyday. Is it wrong to have fun ? No.Gambling is not my priority, I know my limit. when we heard gambling we think it is bad but not all gambling is bad. Casinos are approved by the government as well as lotto and earn taxes that they can use to improve their community.

That is right, being a gambler doesn't mean you are a criminal, it just proves that you are being true to yourself, also you are just having fun so there is nothing wrong with it.
most of the people I know or sorround in my places are judgemental, they judge people based on what they are doing and not on why do they do it. It is just sad how people nowadays are like these.

Sometimes it's not about people being judgemental though. A person who enjoys gambling but has his religion or the society he belongs to prohibiting gambling, there would always be that feeling of shame or guilt whenever he goes against the rules just because he wants to gamble. Not everyone of us are allowed by our religions and beliefs and i think going against those two just to gamble would.make a person feel shameful among his peers.

Correct. If we ever involved religion here, you will always felt shameful or have a guilt feeling when you gamble. I don't know that gambler will go to an extent to hide his addiction so that the religion denomination he/she belongs will not know it, otherwise they will kick them for involving themselves in gambling which is against most of the religious sect around the world. So its either for you to keep away from gambling for good, or just hide your gambling addiction which will be very difficult to do.
difficult since the main thing inside your mind is how to win with your gambling activity so even religion if you are not to serious to respect your belief will not except your activity, since gambling in most religious countries really not accepted that's why feeling guilt or shameful has been felt by the
gamblers.
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Previously, I feel little bit of "ashamed". But then I ask myself? Why become ashamed ? I'm not doing anything wrong to other people and besides it's my life, it's my decision so none can ever question that. I gamble just for fun and I do not gamble everyday. Is it wrong to have fun ? No.Gambling is not my priority, I know my limit. when we heard gambling we think it is bad but not all gambling is bad. Casinos are approved by the government as well as lotto and earn taxes that they can use to improve their community.

That is right, being a gambler doesn't mean you are a criminal, it just proves that you are being true to yourself, also you are just having fun so there is nothing wrong with it.
most of the people I know or sorround in my places are judgemental, they judge people based on what they are doing and not on why do they do it. It is just sad how people nowadays are like these.

Sometimes it's not about people being judgemental though. A person who enjoys gambling but has his religion or the society he belongs to prohibiting gambling, there would always be that feeling of shame or guilt whenever he goes against the rules just because he wants to gamble. Not everyone of us are allowed by our religions and beliefs and i think going against those two just to gamble would.make a person feel shameful among his peers.

Correct. If we ever involved religion here, you will always felt shameful or have a guilt feeling when you gamble. I don't know that gambler will go to an extent to hide his addiction so that the religion denomination he/she belongs will not know it, otherwise they will kick them for involving themselves in gambling which is against most of the religious sect around the world. So its either for you to keep away from gambling for good, or just hide your gambling addiction which will be very difficult to do.
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Previously, I feel little bit of "ashamed". But then I ask myself? Why become ashamed ? I'm not doing anything wrong to other people and besides it's my life, it's my decision so none can ever question that. I gamble just for fun and I do not gamble everyday. Is it wrong to have fun ? No.Gambling is not my priority, I know my limit. when we heard gambling we think it is bad but not all gambling is bad. Casinos are approved by the government as well as lotto and earn taxes that they can use to improve their community.

That is right, being a gambler doesn't mean you are a criminal, it just proves that you are being true to yourself, also you are just having fun so there is nothing wrong with it.
most of the people I know or sorround in my places are judgemental, they judge people based on what they are doing and not on why do they do it. It is just sad how people nowadays are like these.

Sometimes it's not about people being judgemental though. A person who enjoys gambling but has his religion or the society he belongs to prohibiting gambling, there would always be that feeling of shame or guilt whenever he goes against the rules just because he wants to gamble. Not everyone of us are allowed by our religions and beliefs and i think going against those two just to gamble would.make a person feel shameful among his peers.
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Previously, I feel little bit of "ashamed". But then I ask myself? Why become ashamed ? I'm not doing anything wrong to other people and besides it's my life, it's my decision so none can ever question that. I gamble just for fun and I do not gamble everyday. Is it wrong to have fun ? No.Gambling is not my priority, I know my limit. when we heard gambling we think it is bad but not all gambling is bad. Casinos are approved by the government as well as lotto and earn taxes that they can use to improve their community.

That is right, being a gambler doesn't mean you are a criminal, it just proves that you are being true to yourself, also you are just having fun so there is nothing wrong with it.
most of the people I know or sorround in my places are judgemental, they judge people based on what they are doing and not on why do they do it. It is just sad how people nowadays are like these.
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No i dont feel shameful being a gambler.as long as i didnt hurt someone feeling anyway it is my money that loss during the time of bad luck in gambling.
I really dont care about people whos continue judging me arround.like they know everything about me.

Exactly! Being a gambler is okay as long as you will use your own money to gamble with, what is shameful is when you borrow money for the sake of gambling even if you are going to pay the person you owe for me that act is shameful.
Don't be ashamed if you are a gambler, yes it's okay. Just make sure your money is at risk but if it is others money make sure that you can pay that on time or better not to let them know that you used it in gambling it's totally going to bring you a big shame.
It is better to never go that road, gambling money that does not belong to you shows that a person may have some problems with gambling already, it is irresponsible to do so, and it must be avoided at all costs because if the person finds out that you gamble their money a fight could happen.
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Previously, I feel little bit of "ashamed". But then I ask myself? Why become ashamed ? I'm not doing anything wrong to other people and besides it's my life, it's my decision so none can ever question that. I gamble just for fun and I do not gamble everyday. Is it wrong to have fun ? No.Gambling is not my priority, I know my limit. when we heard gambling we think it is bad but not all gambling is bad. Casinos are approved by the government as well as lotto and earn taxes that they can use to improve their community.
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No I am not ashamed. Who are they to judge me? I only play when I want and gambling is not my life and yes you’re right. Being a gambler is not a sin nor a crime. We love to play/ to gamble because we want some thrill and I see there is nothing bad on that. That is how we enjoy our lives. We did not hurt anyone by doing gambling. We must hide it form anyone.
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That's what makes people become so shameful in several cases.
But i believe european people won't feel the shame at all mostly , the rules they have is tend to let gambling business grow and supported.
Basically we shouldn't shame about your gambling habit , you just need to play it full of responsibility.

European might not feel like that because most countries there are allow you to gamble. That is why people can gamble freely and that is why they dont need to feel ashamed but for me that come from a country that dont allow me to gamble then it is a crime for me to gamble. I want to keep this as my secret for sure
Yeaaa a living environtment and life style of people around have a big role on deciding woukd you shame or not being a gambler.
As i said many times , culture each places is so different right?
Those people who's used to gamble in daily basis they won't feel anything , just a casual thing.
They wont really feel anything since they do play gambling on constant basis which comes to a point on where hes already dumb on what people do say around him specially on a place where gambling is really a shameful thing or being prohibited. Shame thing would only be considered when you lose up all of your money and even on food you are already struggling.
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That's what makes people become so shameful in several cases.
But i believe european people won't feel the shame at all mostly , the rules they have is tend to let gambling business grow and supported.
Basically we shouldn't shame about your gambling habit , you just need to play it full of responsibility.

European might not feel like that because most countries there are allow you to gamble. That is why people can gamble freely and that is why they dont need to feel ashamed but for me that come from a country that dont allow me to gamble then it is a crime for me to gamble. I want to keep this as my secret for sure
Yeaaa a living environtment and life style of people around have a big role on deciding woukd you shame or not being a gambler.
As i said many times , culture each places is so different right?
Those people who's used to gamble in daily basis they won't feel anything , just a casual thing.
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No i dont feel shameful being a gambler.as long as i didnt hurt someone feeling anyway it is my money that loss during the time of bad luck in gambling.
I really dont care about people whos continue judging me arround.like they know everything about me.

Exactly! Being a gambler is okay as long as you will use your own money to gamble with, what is shameful is when you borrow money for the sake of gambling even if you are going to pay the person you owe for me that act is shameful.
Sometimes with your own money you will feel shameful if you gamble suppose if you are gambling and you lose all of your money in that and in the society you remain poor person and have nothing for life.

We can be shameful if we ruined our life due to gambling, if we left nothing for ourselves and abandoned our family just for gambling, but if we are a smart gambler and know our responsibility ,there's no reason to get shameful especially if you have the life and wealth you needed.
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No i dont feel shameful being a gambler.as long as i didnt hurt someone feeling anyway it is my money that loss during the time of bad luck in gambling.
I really dont care about people whos continue judging me arround.like they know everything about me.

Exactly! Being a gambler is okay as long as you will use your own money to gamble with, what is shameful is when you borrow money for the sake of gambling even if you are going to pay the person you owe for me that act is shameful.
Sometimes with your own money you will feel shameful if you gamble suppose if you are gambling and you lose all of your money in that and in the society you remain poor person and have nothing for life.
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No i dont feel shameful being a gambler.as long as i didnt hurt someone feeling anyway it is my money that loss during the time of bad luck in gambling.
I really dont care about people whos continue judging me arround.like they know everything about me.

Exactly! Being a gambler is okay as long as you will use your own money to gamble with, what is shameful is when you borrow money for the sake of gambling even if you are going to pay the person you owe for me that act is shameful.
Don't be ashamed if you are a gambler, yes it's okay. Just make sure your money is at risk but if it is others money make sure that you can pay that on time or better not to let them know that you used it in gambling it's totally going to bring you a big shame.
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