Do you have anyone you trust? - page 2.

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Quote from: Cantsay on November 05, 2022, 10:53:53 AM

There'll always be that one person that you'll still have trust for it might start from little but it'll eventually grow.

This is the position in everyone's life. No matter how bad you have been treated by life and its challenges, there must be that one person you can still trust. Those who have had their trust broken and are hurt from it are the worst hit because their sad experience will keep coming back to them whenever they want to loosen up. But no man can live alone and that is why they say a tree does not make a forest.

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No matter how hard you may try to shut people out because of the what you might have experienced in the past or because of some news you read from a blog online.
There'll always be that one person that you'll still have trust for it might start from little but it'll eventually grow.

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All of us has someone in our life who we can trust and rely on for guidance and advice mostly they are our parents and siblings. They will always help you and guide you selflessly without any ill intentions. Some people have friends those they trust but that's rare now as everyone has their intentions and opinions about everything, they judge you in your hard times that disturbs alot .

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Trust is very important in our lives and once this trust is get broken it is difficult to build again. There is lot of madness that is going on in the world today. This madness is centered on one thing that people are looking for and that is money. If you look to all the stories is about money and the purpose of selfishly getting of money. This they say loving of money is the way to evil. If you like money than human being then you can kill the person to take their money. To punish this people taking another person live, the government should execute them too as penalty because they do bad to humanity and God discourage taking of someone's blood.

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Quote from: Zlantann on October 30, 2022, 10:25:14 AM

The world is gradually losing trustworthy and faithful men. Now you don't know who to reveal your financial and other secrets to because of fear of the negative consequences.

Losing trust on people is not something new, it has been happening right from the beginning. We need to know that people will always change. Sometimes people we can vouch for change to be what we don't believe they can be. I have learn to take people the way I see them but not giving total trust for them to remain the same. If we take people the way they are and not trusting them to remain perfect, even if they change to something else it will not be a surprise because it is nature for human to change.

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Yeah a lot have been happening around the world most especially Nigeria as a case study, the taste for money have made young men & women losing focused, lacking patient, lacking manners, and eager to get rich within a short period of time without adequate planning or being worked for. Nowadays people don't want to work or developed time study and learn things that could put food on their table other than wanting easy to get wealth by killing their fellow human and using their body's for rituals. Sincerely speaking i don't trust anyone or even any of my relatives i does things within my limit and my strength otherwise one can be killed for no reason.

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Quote from: electronicash on November 02, 2022, 12:54:32 PM

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everyone is a murderer. it just needs a good reason or a bad day.

This is a false accusation. It is wrong to say everyone is a murderer. A murderer is a criminal because killing is breaking the law. It is a crime against the law of every country. There are people that can not kill anyone intentionally but death can result from them defending themselves against aggression. It is called self defence. And when that happens it is called manslaughter and not murder. Maybe that is what they referred to there as everyone being a murderer. I will never kill for any reason. So am not a murderer.

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Quote from: Kavelj22 on October 30, 2022, 04:01:53 PM

I am a fan of police tales, especially crimes that happen on the ground. Each time, I became more sure that human psychology is very complex and cannot be classified under any method, and that reality is always much stronger than imagination and fictions.

The examples mentioned by the author of the topic may represent the most extreme cases, but there are much worse cases, especially cases of free killing by serial killers and sociopaths.

The idea may sound terrifying. But we should not really trust anyone completely.

Same here, I love to watch detective movies with suspense and listen to real life stories about murderers who got caught.
It's always shocking when a parent kills a child or a child kills a parent. There bond there should be above everything else. I'd never hurt my child, I'd rather take the hit myself. People who murder their own children must have lost basic instincts that are coded into our DNA.

To answer the OP's question, I trust my wife because we've been together at times when we both had nothing and we've managed to support each other. I hope when my daughter grows up I'll be able to trust her too.

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Love brings trust and one of the attributes to trust is accountability. All the stories of untrustworthy is that the characters involved might be family but am sorry there is no love bond existing in them. It is difficult to trust people this days especially some of our family members and friends. I heard of a story that a man used his son in exchange for money unknowingly to the boy.

The only person to trust are your loving family members, they are the only one that can be there for us when things are upside down. When the love of money is brought first before family,this is when all the stories stated above can be carried out. The world is a place that people values money to dignity and respect. Even in the Bible Judas betrayed his master for money,it means that the world has been lacking this word TRUST ever since its existence.

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The only person advisable to trust if alive is your mum who without doubts wants the best for you at any given point in time.
Since opening yourself makes you absolutely vulnerable, it is best advice you stay alone but don't be lonely concealing and dealing with every issues you have. According to what some rappers will day that all they trust is their guns alone.
If government and banks can also be like this, it is best you trust and use Bitcoin, the shift is happening gradually people will use Bitcoin more soon

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everyone is a murderer. it just needs a good reason or a bad day.

i couldn't remember where i heard this before but somehow i believe its true. it only need a reason like money and you get to be murdered or you murdering someone.

when someone is murdered in a house, law enforcer understands that all the people in the house are considered suspect.
its not the other way around like they said innocent until proven guilty.

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Someone once told me that if you know people, you don’t have to trust them. So I think instead of blindly trusting people and getting left disappointed, make sure you know the people around you well. Know the ones who will steal from you or lie to you and the ones that won’t. People all have their own codes they live by. Figure that out and you’ll never have to trust anyone, you’ll just have to know them.

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Quote from: YinShuiSiYuan on November 02, 2022, 04:13:44 AM

Trust is considered as a weakness now if someone knows you trust everything and everybody they will misuse you and exploit you with different thing, they consider you weak. World is very cruel and everyone wants to gain something and achieve everything at all costs. So yes think before you trust someone .

We need to understand the conventions of the world we live in. Trust shouldn't be considered a weakness because it actually a side of people being respectful, honest, and loving their fellow humans. You can't trust, someone, if you don't have respect for or love him/her.
Nevertheless, there is a span for trust just like there's a span for love. There's mindful trust, slight trust, and blind trust.

Lastly, trusting someone doesn't mean you don't have to be conscious.

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Trust is considered as a weakness now if someone knows you trust everything and everybody they will misuse you and exploit you with different thing, they consider you weak. World is very cruel and everyone wants to gain something and achieve everything at all costs. So yes think before you trust someone .

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Yes trusting someone is difficult today but I think you can trust your family ,your parents,siblings . They will always give you right advice and direct you correctly and will never deceive you.
But in today's world where anything can happen ,selfishness can make you do anything, even your blood relations can break your trust. Our world is full of such scary real life incidents that are happening where parents are killing children ,siblings hurting each other.
Anything is possible than.

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A friend of mine once told me the origin of the word 'trust will get you killed'. It's quite unfortunate that the society we find ourselves in today is full of people who are not worthy to be trusted with anything because of who they have become. PS, I would suggest that the word trust be abolished because trusting people have made me do things I never wanted to do because I never knew that they will turn out to be betrayals and not trusted fellows. If a mother can take the life of his son in other for her other son to make money and a wife took the life of her husband because he trusted her with his bank details what else do we need to trust people for? I will only trust someone with my lips but I can't trust anyone with my secrets no matter who the person is to me.

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Quote from: Majestic-milf on October 31, 2022, 03:51:24 AM

Personally, I trust easily and tend to learn the hard way but after an incident which would have caused dire circumstances, I buckled up.

You can be exploited if people find out that you easily trust. Trust is earned and even after it is earned, it still has to be under observation just like loyalty because it can be easily broken. I don't trust anyone so that dissapointment can be avoided, I also do not trust myself, because there are situations that can come and I cannot say exactly how I would react. So with that in mind, I have an image of how quickly someone can break my trust if they are pushed to it, or under pressure.

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Trust is hard to come by these days and with the era we're in, it's even harder. In the instances the OP gave, I felt bad for case #1. Imagine a mother could be so mean as to volunteer to aid in the death of her child just so she could live a life of comfort! So sad!

Personally, I trust easily and tend to learn the hard way but after an incident which would have caused dire circumstances, I buckled up. Its funny that the people you call "close friends and family" are the ones who hit you the most. Well, it's normal, since whoever can hurt you is someone who has enough knowledge about you.

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Even when you swear you won't trust anyone again, you will still find one or two people you can open yourself to and trust. Just that one needs to use caution when disclosing information and protecting their privacy. Due to the widespread practice of ritual and societal passion for money, our world is evil. I wondered how we got here because everyone is afraid of the next man. It's very bad when family members don't trust one another. individuals who should be cooperating in order to accomplish a common objective.

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I don't know, today's world has become a scary era. People we trust sometimes end up disappointed.

But, this is just my opinion that, family is a person who can be trusted. This is a personal experience, that my family is very harmonious and gets along at all times. All you need is a high tolerance.

But people's circumstances are different. I can not say that the family is a person to be trusted. Sometimes some people hate their family for some reason, and eventually the family becomes an untrustworthy person.

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