Topic: Do you regret also for ever knowing about gambling? - page 10. (Read 2653 times)

unfortunately in the real world things are completely different, people like to escape their responsibilities to blame other people, this has become very common, let's look at cases of betrayal in a relationship, when a couple cheats on their husband or wife, the person who been cheated on has a tendency to take revenge and hurt the other person who was with the traitor but does not hurt the traitor, this is because the person still thinks that the blame does not lie with her or his partner and does not think that using that violence against the person who was with the cheater also makes him guilty of physical aggression against a person. Nowadays, if a person wants to lose relatives or friends, all they have to do is get involved in their lives, giving advice, giving tips on how to do business.

that when everything goes wrong, the first thing those relatives will do is blame you, hate you for the rest of your life. for example, if you talk about gambling to your family and tell them that they can make money from gambling and people in your family believe you and even you warn and advise them so that they don't take out loans to invest in gambling It's bad luck and even if you tell them to only play with money they can afford to lose, but they don't listen to you on that part and go and take out a loan and gamble and lose. So when everyone in your family finds out that someone lost a lot of money gambling, they will soon think that you deceived them on purpose, they will start to label you as envious, bad and a liar and you will have no peace.

Maybe what you mean is learn from the mistakes that have made some people regret their gambling involvement especially those who always overdo their approach, I think it's quite natural and reasonable if you don't feel regret and here I can conclude that it seems like you have a pretty good approach to gambling so you don't regret being involved in this activity. That means regret is only for some people and it also depends on how the person responds to gambling itself, if indeed they come with the wrong way or approach then obviously over time the bad effects will definitely occur and of course regret will always come at the end.

Another thing in my opinion if you feel that you are still fine even though you have been involved in gambling for a long time I think it's okay if you continue because it has been proven that over a long period of time you can manage everything well, especially in terms of your bankroll and self-control, but if it's the opposite then I think you already know what you should do.

Did you really start to gamble when you were a child? At what age did you start gambling, or did you learn it? I'm just curious: was this when you were in elementary school, or was it at the high school level when you learned to gamble?

I, on the other hand, do not regret getting involved in crypto gambling. Yes, I often lose gambling, but I am aware of that because it feels different when you win gambling. But when I don't have a match, I stop gambling and come back another time when I have another chance to gamble. That's all I do.

No, I don't think I've ever thought about regretting about it until I've seen this post. Gambling is something that you'll eventually learn about no matter what you do or how ignorant you can be, it's like one of those facts of life that you will inevitably learn along the way. I think that the people that's regretting ever knowing about gambling are those that have their lives devastated by gambling, luckily I'm not one of them so I can happily say that it's a no regrets for me. Also, what would regret ever do anyway, I'm sure that it's nothing so better to move forward and be better than staying here and regretting your actions.

Even when I never regretted the decision to gamble here in crypto gambling, Yes, let's say that it's true what others say: that the gambling place is full of money. It's okay, because I just want to pass the time and have fun.

So, until now, I've been doing this. And so far, the results are good, and it doesn't lead me to have an addiction to destroy my character; no scene like this happens to me.

Gambling is good if done within limits and the problem only arises when one goes beyond the limit.
It doesn't matter when have we got into gambling and who brought us in, it still depends on us on how much control we have on ourself.
If a person cannot control himself from gambling then he doesn't have the right to blame others for introducing them into gambling.
That's my perspective on it. So far, I don't regret for being into gambling.

No, I don't regret being introduced to gambling. Even if we say it's a waste of money or we're just wasting money on gambling. I really enjoy gambling, because I'm not big on betting money so it's normal for me, just like online games you spend money in the game to enjoy the game. Losing will not go away in all games, it is connected everywhere. The important thing is that you enjoy what you do.

Your dualistic view of reality is insightful. Indeed, both good and terrible experiences impact our appreciation and comprehension. Gambling teaches us the value of losses and wins. However, gambling must be handled carefully. Why? Victory can outweigh the hazards. Its a gamble, not a guaranteed income. Therefore, gamble properly and accept losses. We protect our financial and mental health with this method.

Life-wide, your view is correct. Hardships help us appreciate and improve. Valuing the good without complacency and learning from the negative without obsessing on it is a tricky balance. Like gambling, life involves constant adaptation, learning, and growth.

Everything about life comes in double, if you don't experience the two, you wouldn't value one and you might miss use the good one because you are clearly living sweet part without understanding the other part of it. In as much as I want the two know the importance of the two side, I feel good side is the best to maintain, when you experience the bad side of life, use it as lesson so that whenever you get to the other side of life where everyone are running to, you should embrace it and never forsake it for anything less.

Gambling is luck and the luck with experience makes you a better gambler, if you haven't win anything at all in gambling, you will feel like to quit but the time you win something, you will cheer that time because it's not easy to win in gambling. If it's were easy, everyone in gambling will win everytime but it's not like that, you win today and lose tomorrow but the loss should be minimal so that you don't become financially broke with addiction later in the future.

I agree with this.

If you are already an adult, then there's no point in blaming other people because in the first place, you are responsible of you own decisions. Whether they influenced you or not, the final say and action will still be yours to execute. So be mature enough to accept your fault and your shortcomings, especially if things won't turn out the way you want to. If you don't really want to do it, then you won't. If they will force you, cut them off. It will be your choice whether to stay friends with toxic people with poor mindset or find your preferred set of friends that will influence you positively. Blaming others is purely pathetic when you should be looking after yourself and not them doing it for you.

that's a quite high estimative, I'd guess max 25% getting to compulsive habits and doing something like that, most probably max 10%
I'd guess the majority of gamblers are occasional gamblers or people who gamble for fun but now compulsive, doing it as a play and not carrying so much.
but obviously there are the ones who get addicted to it.

There are people who try to blame others for gambling losses. But if they won they would not blame. So why do this kind of behavior? There is no answer but the typical gambler behaves like this when he gambles beyond his capacity or range. Gambling is never forced on anyone. Gamblers use their money as their wish. Gamblers are always advised to keep gambling under control. But they succumb to that greed. When a gambler gambles beyond his range he may lose common sense as he regrets the loss. As long as a gambler gambles within his limitation , he will enjoy gambling. A tendency to blame others is common in those who become addicted.

Maybe I would say that what you are doing is one of the steps of adapting to your surroundings, when your friends are so active in gambling in poker games then I think you can choose to join the circle with varying amounts or not at all, on the other hand if you do not participate in poker gambling as often as your friends do then there may be a little unfortunate talk coming out of the mouths of your friends and I'm sure you are willing to spend all your weekly pocket money just to fit into your own environment.

Of course, after all it is all your choice, especially if there is absolutely no coercion from some of your friends to get involved then it is clearly unethical if you lose and then you blame others including some of your friends, but sometimes there are still people like that, meaning they blame others just because they lose, when on the other hand the one who considers and decides is themselves especially in the amount of money allocation they put on gambling, so for people like that maybe I would call them people who have absolutely no responsibility for themselves.

Nah, I would never regret knowing about gambling, especially since it was taught by my grandmother who passed away during the pandemic. Indeed, gambling would never be a good thing as you could lose numbers of money but it has built a number of memories with your friends, parents, partner, etc. It might be regretful for those people who have lost huge amounts of money in gambling as they are much more focused on profits than having fun. Plus you have to be responsible for yourself despite knowing gambling, you would have to control the urge to play and your emotions cause not only you might be addicted but the fact that you can waste all of your money. People would be aware of gambling and sooner or later would be learning it too, it would just differ on how they manage themselves.

You have a point there, in everything we do, we should learn how to take responsibility. There are some people who will never believe that it is their decision for a thing and not others, not even the person who introduces you to it. If you don't want, then they stay off it as it's not by force. The same thing is applicable to gambling, a friend introduces you to it and you are bitter about the friend, for what reason if you are wise? Well, some people do it, but I see no wisdom in this unless the person is forced to do it. Even as a child, if you are not forced but bullied into doing it, it's still your choice as you are responsible for all your actions, not other people's actions. However, I believe that instead of blaming another fella, he should rather blame himself not for accepting it but for the lack of control over it or for him not to quit. Now, this is the aspect I believe that everybody should try to work on instead of blaming others. Fine, some had introduced you to it, then exclude yourself from it, Period! But if you can't, blame yourself.

I used to have a circle of friends who I played poker with after work and even on weekends. I never blame them if there are times I spend more money in gambling than I should to the point that I spend my week's worth allowance playing poker. It's just too childish because it's your decision to stick with your friends and to let them influence you in gambling. I think we should always be mature enough to accept that whatever decision or bad life can be, by the end of the day the choices we make in life are made by ourselves not by other people, so I just find it wrong to blame others because of it.

I had a very dear sir in my high school life who used to tell us that everything good and bad should be tasted once. When he used to say this, on the contrary, we would ask him that sir, it is okay to test something good but why test something bad. In response to our questions, sir used to say that when you do the test, you will have an idea about all these things, good and bad, and you will not be in any danger later. Maybe something bad happened to you while gambling that makes you feel like you may not have been introduced to gambling. Before you think that you were wrong to be introduced to gambling, think carefully about what you did wrong that you now regret. You know about gambling it's not your fault but maybe you didn't gamble properly it's wrong for you and try to work on the areas where you went wrong hope you don't make such comments about gambling or familiarity with gambling.

It's true, gambling is a means of entertainment that uses money as its main role. all gambling definitely involves money, there may also be some gambling by putting assets that are owned but that only applies to physical gambling between A and B who bet while watching football for example. not only me, there are many people who know gambling is a means that involves money but still do it, which is the statement here, do not let gambling make us miserable by losing a lot of money by gambling. Most people who gamble don't think about what will happen and with the losses they always get, it's likely to make them upset and gamble again, regretting in another sense that there might be self-improvement where I myself have proven it by gambling only once a week and with a set budget, but I don't know about other people, because generally we all won't have the exact same thoughts so everyone's regrets are different, some regret the gambling they do, some regret having placed a small or large bet. from here I can learn one thing, some regret having placed a small or large bet. From here I can learn one thing, where the reality that occurs must be accepted properly, do not even make us want to return to gambling or other words revenge because it will not solve everything nor will it eliminate the regrets that have occurred, the way is only to accept it well.

I hope that many gamblers can do this, where they must be able to accept the defeat that has occurred, no longer force themselves to continue gambling because it will only make their lives ruined, I feel lucky because I can realize that the situation is not too bad, so I myself can still accept everything and fix it, this will come from myself, not from others..., I feel the things you mentioned after I regretted gambling that I did excessively, and this has now appeared and absorbed in my mind so that it does not make me lose a lot of money when gambling because I already know and have realized the things related to gambling. expecting money from gambling in big wins will only make our lives ruined because of its harmful effects, but the harmful effects of gambling also depend on what we ourselves respond to gambling. if you respond to gambling as a source of money, of course this is wrong.

I admit that you have the right mindset to think that this is just gambling which has become your choice without having to blame anyone because something you have done is nothing to regret.

but unfortunately many people experience stupid things and it is very ridiculous to blame their friends or anyone who ever told them about their gambling and why do they regret it when they have lost a lot of money? why does regret come before the savings run out?
well, this is the stupidity a gambler who regrets what he has done in gambling and he decides to gamble but cannot accept all the risks and blames other people without thinking about the shame he has to bear. I just imagine that if that happened to myself, I would definitely be ashamed of myself blaming someone who was innocent.

and I hope that all gamblers have a healthy mindset like you do so that everything is fine without regretting what has been their own choice and not harming other people.

I know gambling such as Poker, Slots, Pragmatic, or sports betting. But I know all that because I happen to play poker on Facebook and I also like watching football so I can see some of the bookies there. But I didn't know about it from other people's invitations or from friends' teasing. I know people who regret learning about gambling because they couldn't control themselves. This is called gambling addiction. People like this usually try to make money by gambling even though I think gambling is just for fun and you only need to spend the money you have allocated for fun such as going to Disneyland or topping up your favorite game to use for gambling. Although basically I don't recommend it to you because what you are doing is something you are prepared to risk.