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Yeah you read the question correctly.

I got this taught while involved in discussion with some of my friend today, it was round of friends and we were practically catching up after some old memories in high school so discussion led to discussion and the issue of regretting to ever knowing how to gamble came up and believe me it was a very serious issue as one of my friend was practically blaming the other for the whole problem is currently going through right now as he constantly gambles his money away and at what avail? was the question being asked to the friend who actually inviting him to a gambling house during highschool. The matter looks childish  at first because the whole table of friends there were all gamblers including myself but we all never reached the height of complaining or blaming someone for our gambling ethics.

So I was wondering if some folks here too feel the same way or it was just a matter of grudge and hatred for the particular fellow to stir up such arguement.

I used to have a circle of friends who I played poker with after work and even on weekends. I never blame them if there are times I spend more money in gambling than I should to the point that I spend my week's worth allowance playing poker. It's just too childish because it's your decision to stick with your friends and to let them influence you in gambling. I think we should always be mature enough to accept that whatever decision or bad life can be, by the end of the day the choices we make in life are made by ourselves not by other people, so I just find it wrong to blame others because of it.

Maybe I would say that what you are doing is one of the steps of adapting to your surroundings, when your friends are so active in gambling in poker games then I think you can choose to join the circle with varying amounts or not at all, on the other hand if you do not participate in poker gambling as often as your friends do then there may be a little unfortunate talk coming out of the mouths of your friends and I'm sure you are willing to spend all your weekly pocket money just to fit into your own environment.

Of course, after all it is all your choice, especially if there is absolutely no coercion from some of your friends to get involved then it is clearly unethical if you lose and then you blame others including some of your friends, but sometimes there are still people like that, meaning they blame others just because they lose, when on the other hand the one who considers and decides is themselves especially in the amount of money allocation they put on gambling, so for people like that maybe I would call them people who have absolutely no responsibility for themselves.
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Nah, I would never regret knowing about gambling, especially since it was taught by my grandmother who passed away during the pandemic. Indeed, gambling would never be a good thing as you could lose numbers of money but it has built a number of memories with your friends, parents, partner, etc. It might be regretful for those people who have lost huge amounts of money in gambling as they are much more focused on profits than having fun. Plus you have to be responsible for yourself despite knowing gambling, you would have to control the urge to play and your emotions cause not only you might be addicted but the fact that you can waste all of your money. People would be aware of gambling and sooner or later would be learning it too, it would just differ on how they manage themselves.
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Yeah you read the question correctly.

I got this taught while involved in discussion with some of my friend today, it was round of friends and we were practically catching up after some old memories in high school so discussion led to discussion and the issue of regretting to ever knowing how to gamble came up and believe me it was a very serious issue as one of my friend was practically blaming the other for the whole problem is currently going through right now as he constantly gambles his money away and at what avail? was the question being asked to the friend who actually inviting him to a gambling house during highschool. The matter looks childish  at first because the whole table of friends there were all gamblers including myself but we all never reached the height of complaining or blaming someone for our gambling ethics.

So I was wondering if some folks here too feel the same way or it was just a matter of grudge and hatred for the particular fellow to stir up such arguement.

I used to have a circle of friends who I played poker with after work and even on weekends. I never blame them if there are times I spend more money in gambling than I should to the point that I spend my week's worth allowance playing poker. It's just too childish because it's your decision to stick with your friends and to let them influence you in gambling. I think we should always be mature enough to accept that whatever decision or bad life can be, by the end of the day the choices we make in life are made by ourselves not by other people, so I just find it wrong to blame others because of it.
You have a point there, in everything we do, we should learn how to take responsibility. There are some people who will never believe that it is their decision for a thing and not others, not even the person who introduces you to it. If you don't want, then they stay off it as it's not by force. The same thing is applicable to gambling, a friend introduces you to it and you are bitter about the friend, for what reason if you are wise? Well, some people do it, but I see no wisdom in this unless the person is forced to do it. Even as a child, if you are not forced but bullied into doing it, it's still your choice as you are responsible for all your actions, not other people's actions. However, I believe that instead of blaming another fella, he should rather blame himself not for accepting it but for the lack of control over it or for him not to quit. Now, this is the aspect I believe that everybody should try to work on instead of blaming others. Fine, some had introduced you to it, then exclude yourself from it, Period! But if you can't, blame yourself.
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Yeah you read the question correctly.

I got this taught while involved in discussion with some of my friend today, it was round of friends and we were practically catching up after some old memories in high school so discussion led to discussion and the issue of regretting to ever knowing how to gamble came up and believe me it was a very serious issue as one of my friend was practically blaming the other for the whole problem is currently going through right now as he constantly gambles his money away and at what avail? was the question being asked to the friend who actually inviting him to a gambling house during highschool. The matter looks childish  at first because the whole table of friends there were all gamblers including myself but we all never reached the height of complaining or blaming someone for our gambling ethics.

So I was wondering if some folks here too feel the same way or it was just a matter of grudge and hatred for the particular fellow to stir up such arguement.

I used to have a circle of friends who I played poker with after work and even on weekends. I never blame them if there are times I spend more money in gambling than I should to the point that I spend my week's worth allowance playing poker. It's just too childish because it's your decision to stick with your friends and to let them influence you in gambling. I think we should always be mature enough to accept that whatever decision or bad life can be, by the end of the day the choices we make in life are made by ourselves not by other people, so I just find it wrong to blame others because of it.
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I had a very dear sir in my high school life who used to tell us that everything good and bad should be tasted once. When he used to say this, on the contrary, we would ask him that sir, it is okay to test something good but why test something bad. In response to our questions, sir used to say that when you do the test, you will have an idea about all these things, good and bad, and you will not be in any danger later. Maybe something bad happened to you while gambling that makes you feel like you may not have been introduced to gambling. Before you think that you were wrong to be introduced to gambling, think carefully about what you did wrong that you now regret. You know about gambling it's not your fault but maybe you didn't gamble properly it's wrong for you and try to work on the areas where you went wrong hope you don't make such comments about gambling or familiarity with gambling.
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Believe it or not, I don't regret knowing gambling cause it taught me some lesson in life.
How to control my greed and when to quit in order to win.
It also helps me when I feel lonely, it was my way to enjoy and forget some of my problems or you might say emotional support.
So I don't ever regret knowing it, even though I lost some money from gambling.

I myself regret getting to know gambling because it has cost me a lot of money in the past days, although now I gamble with a fixed limit only once a week but if you think about it, it feels like there are regrets hahha. I know this is all done by myself and should not be regretted because gambling is likely to experience defeat not victory, although I have had a big win, but that does not cover all my losses,

It's true that in gambling I also learned some things, like what you said, and now I gamble with a fixed limit that can make me control myself better than before. the point is not to regret the actions that have been done because it is basically on your own rights not others.
Gambling is an activity that involves losing certain amount of money and the percentage of loss is always greater than the results that can be obtained, you are aware of this and still decide to gamble.
There is no need to regret what you have lost from gambling because it is clear that you are gambling according to your own wishes or decisions, so whatever risks and consequences occur, you must accept them as much as possible.
Regretting that you can't change the situation or return what you lost, the only thing you can do is actually use money within certain limit that you can afford to lose.
That way, there will never be any more feelings of regret or disappointment over what happened during your gambling session.

That is the positive side of gambling that you can get if you are willing to learn and understand well what the real definition of gambling is.
Self-control, financial management, feeling more patient and of course you can indirectly have all of this within yourself as time goes by.
Just do what makes you happy and determine what you should be able to do and don't have too big hopes from gambling such as making money.

It's true, gambling is a means of entertainment that uses money as its main role. all gambling definitely involves money, there may also be some gambling by putting assets that are owned but that only applies to physical gambling between A and B who bet while watching football for example. not only me, there are many people who know gambling is a means that involves money but still do it, which is the statement here, do not let gambling make us miserable by losing a lot of money by gambling. Most people who gamble don't think about what will happen and with the losses they always get, it's likely to make them upset and gamble again, regretting in another sense that there might be self-improvement where I myself have proven it by gambling only once a week and with a set budget, but I don't know about other people, because generally we all won't have the exact same thoughts so everyone's regrets are different, some regret the gambling they do, some regret having placed a small or large bet. from here I can learn one thing, some regret having placed a small or large bet. From here I can learn one thing, where the reality that occurs must be accepted properly, do not even make us want to return to gambling or other words revenge because it will not solve everything nor will it eliminate the regrets that have occurred, the way is only to accept it well.

I hope that many gamblers can do this, where they must be able to accept the defeat that has occurred, no longer force themselves to continue gambling because it will only make their lives ruined, I feel lucky because I can realize that the situation is not too bad, so I myself can still accept everything and fix it, this will come from myself, not from others..., I feel the things you mentioned after I regretted gambling that I did excessively, and this has now appeared and absorbed in my mind so that it does not make me lose a lot of money when gambling because I already know and have realized the things related to gambling. expecting money from gambling in big wins will only make our lives ruined because of its harmful effects, but the harmful effects of gambling also depend on what we ourselves respond to gambling. if you respond to gambling as a source of money, of course this is wrong.
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simple answer is that we must not blame anyone or anything , we must be responsible to
every decision we make in life and it sudden that some tries to blame others for their own stupidity in gambling,
and lucky that i need not to do this because I am more than responsible person, system of gambling only have
big effect in greed person .
I admit that you have the right mindset to think that this is just gambling which has become your choice without having to blame anyone because something you have done is nothing to regret.

but unfortunately many people experience stupid things and it is very ridiculous to blame their friends or anyone who ever told them about their gambling and why do they regret it when they have lost a lot of money? why does regret come before the savings run out?
well, this is the stupidity a gambler who regrets what he has done in gambling and he decides to gamble but cannot accept all the risks and blames other people without thinking about the shame he has to bear. I just imagine that if that happened to myself, I would definitely be ashamed of myself blaming someone who was innocent.

and I hope that all gamblers have a healthy mindset like you do so that everything is fine without regretting what has been their own choice and not harming other people.
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I know gambling such as Poker, Slots, Pragmatic, or sports betting. But I know all that because I happen to play poker on Facebook and I also like watching football so I can see some of the bookies there. But I didn't know about it from other people's invitations or from friends' teasing. I know people who regret learning about gambling because they couldn't control themselves. This is called gambling addiction. People like this usually try to make money by gambling even though I think gambling is just for fun and you only need to spend the money you have allocated for fun such as going to Disneyland or topping up your favorite game to use for gambling. Although basically I don't recommend it to you because what you are doing is something you are prepared to risk.
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Even though I personally feel annoyed with my friend because he introduced me to gambling, it is only just annoyance, I really regret the decision I took myself without anyone knowing about my gambling activities, it is not good to just blame other people, because in fact You are the one who has the decision to start or not get to know gambling from the start.

but if I look back at the time I have known gambling, there are things that are profitable, not the profit from winning, but I can control myself much better, especially in terms of managing finances, even though I have to experience addiction first, and basically I haven't been able to get away from gambling until now, but that way I finally have better management.
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Frustration. That’s the only thing that can make someone look for who to blame in a case like this. If I was in such gathering, I would ask this friend if they would still gave credit/blame to the person who introduced them to it. Let him stop looking for someone to put blames on and take responsibility for all the money he has lost. At least I can bet that he wasn’t forced into it but he saw it as an opportunity and rushed in. Instead of blaming someone let him look for ways to stop the addiction.
Blames is definitely a means not to get ridden from the gigantic level of commodities stock in the system. I'm not longer keeping anyone updates regarding the system, they come and see with enough evidence. Acknowledge and take full responsibility for whatever actions you carried out in the system and not lay out blames to others people in the system simply because you lost. These people only directs and they didn't imposed anything on you, an individual knows what he's looking for and strives for the best results in the system.
simple answer is that we must not blame anyone or anything , we must be responsible to
every decision we make in life and it sudden that some tries to blame others for their own stupidity in gambling,
and lucky that i need not to do this because I am more than responsible person, system of gambling only have
big effect in greed person .
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The lesson we've learned from Gambling if we will only pay attention is something that we will be thankful for life.

because this brings our life up and down , when we are the winner we learn how to live like a king .

when we are loser we live like a servant .

those instance makes us real human , and learn that gambling will never be a life saver but a life taker.
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It is very bad to substitute hate and hatred towards a particular person in an argument with someone. There is no rational argument for social morality in gambling, so gambling if you have money is a purely personal reason for you. When we get together with some friends we gamble even if it is not for the sake of profit and at this moment we criticize all the gains and losses from our gambling. If someone forced you to gamble you would blame him but i don't think that is the case. In that case if someone encourages you to gamble outright you may still be guilty.

That's correct, when someone force you to be gambling, that's when you can blame them for your lost but when they stop forcing you and you still gamble on your own, you can't blame them anymore. If they made you an addict before they stop forcing you to gamble, you have all the time to stop yourself from getting worse as an addict. Gambling addiction is hard to stop but it can be stopped therefore you should be working on how to stop the addiction instead of blaming others.

The choices we make are ourselves and not that of other individuals therefore we should be ready to take responsibility for them instead of pushing it to others. When you own up to your mistakes then you just gave yourself room for improvements and corrections as you have accepted that you have a problem but when you keep blaming others as reasons for your mistakes in life then you're not ready to change.
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Most people tend to have a mindset of blaming and seeking some reason for their losses, few admit that it's their own fault. And your friend is also a case in point. If they succeed or win big, it's because of their talent. But if they lose, they'll blame external factors. Sounds illogical, doesn't it? Yet, it's a common occurrence, and to some extent, we've all been there, haven't we?

To be honest, there were times when I deeply regretted getting into gambling or the market I was pursuing, which is crypto. Those were moments when I had to endure significant losses. But after all, I feel grateful because it helped me grow, realize more, and acquire new financial knowledge that I wouldn't have thought about if I hadn't been involved. There's a saying that resonates with me: "No success comes without pain." Regret is inevitable in a long journey, but if we persevere, not giving up, at some point, we'll realize that we've gained more than we lost.
And the what if he win big in gambling? So is he going to blame anyone around him as well? I don't think so.
That's right. People often tend to think in one direction and blame others when something goes wrong, but when they win, they glorify it as their personal achievement. Everyone has felt this way at some point, but it's better to keep it to oneself and carefully examine the reasons before blaming others.

I believe that when engaging in gambling or anything else, most people are mature enough to take responsibility for their decisions. No one forces us to do anything. The habit of blaming others indicates immaturity, forming a bad habit that others may not view positively. When having the other good chances, people might hesitate to share them with those who have a habit of blaming others.
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Frustration. That’s the only thing that can make someone look for who to blame in a case like this. If I was in such gathering, I would ask this friend if they would still gave credit/blame to the person who introduced them to it. Let him stop looking for someone to put blames on and take responsibility for all the money he has lost. At least I can bet that he wasn’t forced into it but he saw it as an opportunity and rushed in. Instead of blaming someone let him look for ways to stop the addiction.
Blames is definitely a means not to get ridden from the gigantic level of commodities stock in the system. I'm not longer keeping anyone updates regarding the system, they come and see with enough evidence. Acknowledge and take full responsibility for whatever actions you carried out in the system and not lay out blames to others people in the system simply because you lost. These people only directs and they didn't imposed anything on you, an individual knows what he's looking for and strives for the best results in the system.
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Frustration. That’s the only thing that can make someone look for who to blame in a case like this. If I was in such gathering, I would ask this friend if they would still gave credit/blame to the person who introduced them to it. Let him stop looking for someone to put blames on and take responsibility for all the money he has lost. At least I can bet that he wasn’t forced into it but he saw it as an opportunity and rushed in. Instead of blaming someone let him look for ways to stop the addiction.
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It is very bad to substitute hate and hatred towards a particular person in an argument with someone. There is no rational argument for social morality in gambling, so gambling if you have money is a purely personal reason for you. When we get together with some friends we gamble even if it is not for the sake of profit and at this moment we criticize all the gains and losses from our gambling. If someone forced you to gamble you would blame him but i don't think that is the case. In that case if someone encourages you to gamble outright you may still be guilty.
Very funny because no one can actually forced you to gamble, that's if already you didn't developed interest in the act. People that blame others for their loses or introduction to gambling is just shifting blames for their own ignorance because playing gambling is something that everyone has an option to choose from especially when it comes to the part that deals with giving you games to play. If you know that you will get hurt or angry by heeding to people advice in your gambling activities then it's better to just snub any coming your way.

And it sounds funny, but in reality there are still some gamblers who, when they lose at gambling, get carried away by their emotions and become angry and uncontrolled towards other people beside them, apart from those who don't know what to do. also affected.
And this triggers disputes between fellow gamblers, this is very inappropriate to imitate. Therefore, if you want to enter the world of gambling, you also need to pay attention to controlling your emotions because if we have too many emotions that shouldn't be released, it will be a waste of energy and thought for ourselves, besides that it will also add many more problems to our lives.
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It is very bad to substitute hate and hatred towards a particular person in an argument with someone. There is no rational argument for social morality in gambling, so gambling if you have money is a purely personal reason for you. When we get together with some friends we gamble even if it is not for the sake of profit and at this moment we criticize all the gains and losses from our gambling. If someone forced you to gamble you would blame him but i don't think that is the case. In that case if someone encourages you to gamble outright you may still be guilty.
Very funny because no one can actually forced you to gamble, that's if already you didn't developed interest in the act. People that blame others for their loses or introduction to gambling is just shifting blames for their own ignorance because playing gambling is something that everyone has an option to choose from especially when it comes to the part that deals with giving you games to play. If you know that you will get hurt or angry by heeding to people advice in your gambling activities then it's better to just snub any coming your way.

You see, this is the more reason why every casino don't allow below the age of 18 to gamble, because you'll be responsible for your actions. People above the age of 17 are considered mature to make some certain life decisions and gambling isn't an exception, so I don't think legal gambler can be forced into gambling, most especially when he has the legal right to make decisions. Putting blames on someone for your loses in gambling is a childish act and a clear example of an irresponsible gambler.
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It is very bad to substitute hate and hatred towards a particular person in an argument with someone. There is no rational argument for social morality in gambling, so gambling if you have money is a purely personal reason for you. When we get together with some friends we gamble even if it is not for the sake of profit and at this moment we criticize all the gains and losses from our gambling. If someone forced you to gamble you would blame him but i don't think that is the case. In that case if someone encourages you to gamble outright you may still be guilty.
Very funny because no one can actually forced you to gamble, that's if already you didn't developed interest in the act. People that blame others for their loses or introduction to gambling is just shifting blames for their own ignorance because playing gambling is something that everyone has an option to choose from especially when it comes to the part that deals with giving you games to play. If you know that you will get hurt or angry by heeding to people advice in your gambling activities then it's better to just snub any coming your way.
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Gambling should be done for fun and not with the mindset of getting rich with it , And as well should be done with the money one can afford to lose, else it will seem to you that knowing gambling it a life disaster. So one getting to know or get involved with gambling isn't the problem, the problem is in the individual inability to control his behavior towards gambling and how to manage risk.
To me I never regretted knowing gambling because I do it for fun despite some loses.
Why do we need to have regrets while continuing to play just for fun? I think everyone knows that gambling must be ready to lose the money deposited so that there is no burden on your mind so we must be able to that this must be fun in it.

If you really want to take advantage of gambling then it will be difficult, we know this is very unlikely and someone rarely does this just to cover the daily life of gambling but it will not be enough instead you will experience more losses than wins.

I always conclude that gambling for fun and always do a small percentage for gambling so that not more is spent, at least myself $10 to $20 for gambling.

if you are just gambling for fun and on occasional basis, i believe you don't need to regret knowing the gambling side of things of humanity. because let us admit that you feel alive when you are in front of your games. something that you need from time to time.
but of course, you will only enjoy this if you know how to contain yourself and can handle your finances.

i guess, those who really did regret of knowing this, are the ones who are in trouble with their finances, family because of their gambling habits. sometimes you need some fun in your life. but that fun should comes with responsibility.

do think of the entertainment that it will bring to your family, the first time they enter a physical casino. i don't think they won't have fun inside. if you are not screwing your funds because of gambling, i think you will be more at peace with yourself knowing gambling.
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Gambling should be done for fun and not with the mindset of getting rich with it , And as well should be done with the money one can afford to lose, else it will seem to you that knowing gambling it a life disaster. So one getting to know or get involved with gambling isn't the problem, the problem is in the individual inability to control his behavior towards gambling and how to manage risk.
To me I never regretted knowing gambling because I do it for fun despite some loses.
I regretted at the beginning of my journey when I understood little and lost constantly. Of course, who likes to lose? But then I started studying the games I play, but my favorite game is the game of poker. I started watching training videos, watching bloggers who explained everything to beginners, talking on forums that are very helpful in understanding poker hands. After all this, I gained strength and was able to beat small limits. Yes, at least I was making a profit, but I stopped playing because I realized that I had to devote a lot of time to it in order to become a professional. But despite this, I still rarely can play a tournament with great pleasure.
I also really love sports betting and e-sports. I bet primarily for fun and to test my calculations for the game, as well as to try my luck.

Yes, I’m probably at a slight disadvantage, but I don’t care and I’m very glad that I can test myself and my luck from time to time. At the same time, I know where the red lines are that I never cross.
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