every patience will always result in calm in playing, that is why patience is necessary when gambling, don't be in too much of a hurry to get big wins or big money, as long as you play calmly and be patient, luck will definitely come when the time comes, even though there are many defeats.
Newbies in every area of money-related stuff always show that state of impatience when hoping to archive a good results they had expected, but it doesn't really work the way they plan it in their heads. For example, the first day and first time I placed a bet on gambling (sport), I did not sleep well that night. I was just waiting impatiently for the next morning to arrive so that March would start. I almost lost my cool. I felt that I would win the game, and I have already begun to make plans for what I will use the money to do if I win, but unfortunately the game got busted, and I still staked on another game. I did so over and over again and kept losing, but I was enlightened, so I changed my gambling habit. If one is not patient, they will definitely gamble more than they plan to and may likely incur more losses. I agree with you.
I think the OP is mixing patience with greed and he thinks they both mean the same thing I guess. You can be impatient but if you are not greedy you can still be in a good position. Like you said, a person may impatiently wait for the next game but that doesn't mean he is going to make a bet he is going to regret later. If he somehow controls his greed while betting then there won't be any harm in doing that imo. If the player is both impatient and greedy then that's the worst combination, a recipe for a disaster. He will lose his bankroll so quickly, soon he will find himself a homeless man.
Those are indeed mixed because its really just that normal that you would be thinking on playing more on which you do have that kind of feeling that you might be able to get those amounts to be bigger and since you do see that its still pending because of huge transactions fees then you would really be likely on playing with those balance or would really be continuing and hope that it might really be ending up on
having bigger withdrawal if you do able to win up more but this isnt the case on which it happened on whats stated on OP.
If you dont have that kind of addict-like kind of behavior then you would just simply wait before that transaction would really be able to confirm or else you would really be needing to pay up that huge
fees for that transaction to be processed on next block. Its a matter of choice but you had chosen on not to pay with the fees but rather you have been using your entire capital+ profit to
play even more on which it did really result into disaster. Its not a shocking thing because being impatient would really resulted into this not only limited on gambling but also
in other dealings as well.