When you die your ego is ripped away from your soul - it dies, your soul doesn't. Your soul knows all, your soul knows the rippling impact your actions have had on others around you. If you cannot kill your ego enough when you are alive to see this, you surely will when you die.
That is a core part of human existence.
Maybe your existence, not mine.
OK now you are saying you have a sky fairy. Since I don't have a sky fairy, I can't compete. Grats!
No. I'm saying you have a consciousness. You are that consciousness. And by spreading negativity on earth, you are not strengthening your consciousness, rather weakening it. Your ego can insist that your 'sky fairy' consciousness is not real so it does not matter. But when you die, you will have no ego to protect you, you will see the light, you will see the truth.
There is no negativity in dealing with the reality of randomness. There is a random chance you are correct about an afterlife just as there is a random chance that Pope Francis is correct. I'm perfectly happy with there being a random chance I am correct in saying that when a person dies, they cease to exist and that's the end of it.
No, there is not random chance of anything. Afterlife is not a random chance but a inevitable occurrence. Your are consciousness, the highest form of energy that creates our underlying world. Energy cannot be created or destroyed - you cannot die. Your ego, sense of humanly fear and realm of physicality, can die. You cannot.
The universe is a very simple, yet complicated math problem unfolding itself. This is why there is fate, it's all reactions of energy. Go outside and wave to your neighbor, your actions and energy will forever be felt by the receiving ends of the universe. Go to the beach and walk in the sand, you will forever change the structure of earth. We create our destiny by our choices, we shape the universe, we are the creators.