It?s easy to forgive for me but i wont forget. Damage has been done but Nobody’s perfect and even God didnt get tired forgiving us.
Ofcourse forgiveness is can be given for anyone who damaged us but to forget is really hard.as this can be done again if we will let them so better to just forgive and never give them a chance for anything that can bring hurting to us 
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I don't know how to forgive people. I live by one rule: if a person betrayed you once, he will betray you a second time
Definitely true in many cases.
The key is, never allow the same person an opportunity to betray you the second time.
How can we learn to forgive ? Is it difficult for u ? Or may be others do not owe us anything ?
Depends on what is to forgive , and there are different people who are willing to forgive and some don't , I think you need to let go of evil and go good How can we learn to forgive ? Is it difficult for u ? Or may be others do not owe us anything ?
It is not much difficult to forgive just practice it and take it easy even if they did wrong things. 
How can we learn to forgive ? Is it difficult for u ? Or may be others do not owe us anything ?
It's very difficult to forgive because it's against our nature.
I know how much difficult is to control our negative emotions like hatred or anger.
How to overcome it?
Go to the church, read holy books and you may find power there.
From my experience, such things can help.
How can we learn to forgive ? Is it difficult for u ? Or may be others do not owe us anything ?
Forgiving people is really hard because there are a lot of people who doesn't change, even you have started to forgive them.
forgiveness brings the forgiver peace of mind and with the help of this, you can anger free feel. While there is some debate over whether true forgiveness needs positive feelings toward the enemy, experts agree that it at least involves letting go to hold negative feelings.
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It?s easy to forgive for me but i wont forget. Damage has been done but Nobody’s perfect and even God didnt get tired forgiving us.
Forgiveness is something that is very difficult, especially when we really have been disappointed with something. Forgive or have no rights for someone. However, if you are a follower of a religion, I am sure your religion will advocate forgiving everything and not taking revenge.
Truly it is harder to be good than be bad.. Being bad is very easy, forget who you think you're or your mind set is. Forgiving is hmm..... A really big thing, only those with understanding can do.
Forgiveness is essential. Why? Because what goes around comes around.
If you don't forgive, you won't be forgiven. But if you DO forgive, you will be vindicated even if you aren't forgiven.
If you don't forgive, you won't be forgiven. But if you DO forgive, you will be vindicated even if you aren't forgiven.
How can we learn to forgive ? Is it difficult for u ? Or may be others do not owe us anything ?
Forgiveness is given to the person with whole heart and this cannot be just asked right awayFor me it will be depending on what kind of sin committed towards me,and from then i will decide forgiveness,but for sure its not that easy and need effort to seek from me
You forgiving those that offended you will be a plus to your life, so just learn how to forgive
Forgiveness isn't necessarily towards another person, it can be within. Recently, I've learned how to forgive myself. That is because of a mistake I can't move on from, I formatted my hard drive with the codes to my BTC in it. Yea, it crushes me for sure, and for a time, I lost grit and the drive to do it anymore. Yet, for some reason, I came to realize that I can't change what happened so I forgive myself and started to move on. Now, I'm regaining that money is lost through investing and trading again and sometimes playing betting games in Vegascasino.
You seem like a amazing person, you are very indulgent. May i know where you are investing at? and where is that vegascasino? coz i might do what you are doing to distract myself and forgiving someone.
Yes, try to distract yourself from pain. I'm currently investing BITRUS and playing VegasCasino 
Forgiveness isn't necessarily towards another person, it can be within. Recently, I've learned how to forgive myself. That is because of a mistake I can't move on from, I formatted my hard drive with the codes to my BTC in it. Yea, it crushes me for sure, and for a time, I lost grit and the drive to do it anymore. Yet, for some reason, I came to realize that I can't change what happened so I forgive myself and started to move on. Now, I'm regaining that money is lost through investing and trading again and sometimes playing betting games in Vegascasino.
You seem like a amazing person, you are very indulgent. May i know where you are investing at? and where is that vegascasino? coz i might do what you are doing to distract myself and forgiving someone.
Forgiveness isn't necessarily towards another person, it can be within. Recently, I've learned how to forgive myself. That is because of a mistake I can't move on from, I formatted my hard drive with the codes to my BTC in it. Yea, it crushes me for sure, and for a time, I lost grit and the drive to do it anymore. Yet, for some reason, I came to realize that I can't change what happened so I forgive myself and started to move on. Now, I'm regaining that money is lost through investing and trading again and sometimes playing betting games in Vegascasino.
Buddha said : Holding on to anger, is like holding burning coal in your hand to throw at others. You end up hurting yourself more. Jesus Christ said on the cross of the people who crucified him : 'Father forgive them, for they do not know what they do' This is the greatest act of forgiveness practiced by divine souls. On the other hand, resentment, grudges are slow poison, so sooner you let go, the better.
I found these as well:
Quote from: https://www.unification.net/ws/theme142.htm
- Subvert anger by forgiveness.
- The best deed of a great man is to forgive and forget.
- Where there is forgiveness, there is God Himself.
- If you efface and overlook and forgive, then lo! God is forgiving, merciful.
- The superior man tends to forgive wrongs and deals leniently with crimes.
- If you are offering your gift at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.
- The Day of Atonement atones for sins against God, not for sins against man, unless the injured person has been appeased.
- Show endurance in humiliation and bear no grudge.
- You shall not take vengeance or bear any grudge against the sons of your own people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord.
- Who takes vengeance or bears a grudge acts like one who, having cut one hand while handling a knife, avenges himself by stabbing the other hand.
- Moses son of Imran said, "My Lord, who is the greatest of Thy servants in Thy estimation?" and received the reply, "The one who forgives when he is in a position of power."
- Better and more rewarding is God's reward to those who believe and put their trust in Him: who avoid gross sins and indecencies and, when angered, are willing to forgive... Let evil be rewarded by like evil, but he who forgives and seeks reconciliation shall be rewarded by God. He does not love the wrongdoers.... True constancy lies in forgiveness and patient forbearance.
- In reconciling a great injury,
Some injury is sure to remain.
How can this be good?
Therefore the sage holds the left-hand tally [obligation] of a contract;
He does not blame others.
The person of virtue attends to the obligation;
The person without virtue attends to the exactions.
Other we really don't have to, you need to be able to forgive people and let go
How can we learn to forgive ? Is it difficult for u ? Or may be others do not owe us anything ?
forgiveness is actually divine and because of this most religion advocate for forgiveness. We can only be perfect and peaceful if we can develop that mindset to be able to forgive those that offend us. 
Learning how to forgive depends on the person's deed to you. If it's too heavy and you just can't forgive him/her, take time. Wounds aren't healing quickly, there's always the right time to forgive. There are people too that are easy to forgive regardless of what the people did to them.
Forgive but never forget ,
Just forget if you have already forgiven that person, there's always string attached to the past if you will never forget. Your emotion will mix and trigger if you will not forget what they did. It's hard but you have to. Jump to: